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I have this friend that got married on time. It was because the woman was pregnant as at the time and the guy was still in school(200level). So he dropped out of school to become a full time husband. That was the excuse he gave back then.

The woman got him the first child and then the second. My friend was living minimal to support the woman, he even rented a shop for her and spent so much on her(I don't want to talk too much).

One day another married man far older than my friend, approached him and advised him to tell his wife to stay away from his family. Apparently, the woman was dating the other man and when the other man decided not to continue the relationship anymore, the woman(my friend's wife) started threatening him and his wife and was acting jealous. It was that same period that it became known that the woman was dating other men and has been promiscuous for years even though they were not helping her with money. It was devastating.


My friend gave alot to that marriage and just like that, he was betrayed. So after everyday quarrel, she left the house.

It been like over 8 months now and my friend has moved on, i assumed so because he was with another girl that nearly caused issues between us


All of a sudden, he wanted the wife back. I advised her against the idea, but she was bent on doing just that. Some people were telling him to take her back like that. The matter tire me sef. So whenever the discussion came up, i would jejely avoid contributing to the talk.


So to the shock of everyone, he brought her and her load back. I don't want to say what on my mind and what am suspecting and at the same time, i could be wrong.


What do you make of the situation and is there a probable expectations in the future ?

Please let me know.

Bro,your inability to use the appropriate pronouns just murdered this whole write up. To the extent that I almost got migraine while trying to read through it.

adamkkk:
I have this friend that got married on time. It was because the woman was pregnant as at the time and the guy was still in school(200level). So he dropped out of school to become a full time husband. That was the excuse he gave back then.

The woman got him the first child and then the second. My friend was living minimal to support the woman, he even rented a shop for her and spent so much on her(I don't want to talk too much).

One day another married man far older than my friend, approached him and advised him to tell his wife to stay away from his family. Apparently, the woman was dating the other man and when the other man decided not to continue the relationship anymore, the woman(my friend's wife) started threatening him and his wife and was acting jealous. It was that same period that it became known that the woman was dating other men and has been promiscuous for years even though they don't help her with money. It was devastating.


My friend gave alot to that marriage and just like that, he was betrayed. So after everyday quarrel, she left the house.

It been like over 8 months now and my friend has moved on, i assumed so because he was with another girl that nearly caused issues between us


All of a sudden, he wanted the wife back. I advised her against the idea, but she was bent on doing just that. Some people were telling him to take her back like that. The matter tire me sef. So whenever the discussion came up, i would jejely avoid contributing to the talk.


So to the shock of everyone, he brought her and her load back. I don't want to say what on my mind and what am suspecting and at the same time, i could be wrong.


What do you make of the situation and is there a probable expectations in the future ?

Please let me know.

You are doing well by staying out of their matter in peace...

Sonnobax15:

Bro,your inability to use the appropriate pronouns just murdered this whole write up. To the extent that I almost got migraine while trying to read through it.

sorry I was typing fast... And i didn't read it twice... Let me cross check

adamkkk:
➜All of a sudden, he wanted the wife back. I advised her against the idea, but she was bent on doing just that. Some people were telling him to take her back like that. The matter tire me sef. So whenever the discussion came up, i would jejely avoid contributing to the talk.
So to the shock of everyone, he brought her and her load back. I don't want to say what on my mind and what am suspecting and at the same time, i could be wrong.
What do you make of the situation and is there a probable expectations in the future ? Please let me know.

He has made his decision. You are a third party to the marriage and the one with the major issues at this point. I think it is time for you to learn either to mind your own business or find other friends for yourself. 🤔

They’ve been fvcking once in a while even when she left… shes now pregnant… so they both agreed she return before her baby bump starts showing….

See ehn….. the mater of two pple wey dey fvck hard to chook mouth… na ontop bed them go balck list you

The person that surprises me the most is you. Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are... Lol

Cock and bull

Wealthyonos:
The person that surprises me the most is you. Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are... Lol

to be honest, I don't understand what u are getting at

My friend this, my friend that

That is why as a man, you must add value to yourself first before taking a wife.. @OP your friend sacrificed his future because of a girl that claimed she was pregnant for him in 200lvl (how are we even sure the child belongs to him).
Now that he has fallen back in life, the girl he sacrificed all for is now a 'free giver', collecting different shapes and sizes of pre3k, while the loser friend of yours can't even live a normal life again, which woman will agree to settle with him as his life is ruined.

If you like love your wife to the moon and back, pamper her like your life depends on it, when she jam man wey get game pass you, she'll cheat on you.

Your friend, his business.

Your business, your friend.

Another story from things that never happened.

Perhaps she was giving him some serious blowjobbb before she left. It's always hard to replace such

adamkkk:
I have this friend that got married on time. It was because the woman was pregnant as at the time and the guy was still in school(200level). So he dropped out of school to become a full time husband. That was the excuse he gave back then.

The woman got him the first child and then the second. My friend was living minimal to support the woman, he even rented a shop for her and spent so much on her(I don't want to talk too much).

One day another married man far older than my friend, approached him and advised him to tell his wife to stay away from his family. Apparently, the woman was dating the other man and when the other man decided not to continue the relationship anymore, the woman(my friend's wife) started threatening him and his wife and was acting jealous. It was that same period that it became known that the woman was dating other men and has been promiscuous for years even though they were not helping her with money. It was devastating.


My friend gave alot to that marriage and just like that, he was betrayed. So after everyday quarrel, she left the house.

It been like over 8 months now and my friend has moved on, i assumed so because he was with another girl that nearly caused issues between us


All of a sudden, he wanted the wife back. I advised her against the idea, but she was bent on doing just that. Some people were telling him to take her back like that. The matter tire me sef. So whenever the discussion came up, i would jejely avoid contributing to the talk.


So to the shock of everyone, he brought her and her load back. I don't want to say what on my mind and what am suspecting and at the same time, i could be wrong.


What do you make of the situation and is there a probable expectations in the future ?

Please let me know.

You are the proverbial third party. Why not mind your business? Your friend is not a child. He has made his choice and the consequence(s) would be solely his to deal with.

Sonnobax15:

Bro,your inability to use the appropriate pronouns just murdered this whole write up. To the extent that I almost got migraine while trying to read through it.

You lack understanding that’s why you can’t anticipate what he’s trying to say..

I used to think no man will ever accept to take back a cheating wife. But I can count up to three women that cheated whose husbands took them back.

Whilst some people may label the men as fools, I believe the men are just being understanding, the same way we have understanding wives.

flokii:
That is why as a man, you must add value to yourself first before taking a wife.. @OP your friend sacrificed his future because of a girl that claimed she was pregnant for him in 200lvl (how are we even sure the child belongs to him).
Now that he has fallen back in life, the girl he sacrificed all for is now a 'free giver', collecting different shapes and sizes of pre3k, while the loser friend of yours can't even live a normal life again, which woman will agree to settle with him as his life is ruined.

If you like love your wife to the moon and back, pamper her like your life depends on it, when she jam man wey get game pass you, she'll cheat on you.

u are funny


My friend is a millionaire...

🤦🏽‍♀️
On today’s episode of The Internet will give you a migraine.

adamkkk:
sorry I was typing fast... And i didn't read it twice... Let me cross check

Even if you cross check, you no go still see am, so no worry yourself. Well i had to engage the services of PCM to finish reading this ur writeup😆😆
Omor my head nearly blow

adamkkk:
u are funny


My friend is a millionaire...

Millionaire wey come drop out of school?

adamkkk:
u are funny


My friend is a millionaire...

Then your friend is probably cheating too, which the wife is aware of.

We4all:
I used to think no man will ever accept to take back a cheating wife. But I can count up to three women that cheated whose husbands took them back.

Whilst some people may label the men as fools, I believe the men are just being understanding, the same way we have understanding wives.

Understanding what?? That it’s normal to have a penis and vagina at home yet greedily go out for another??
That its normal to deliberately to hurt your partner?

cheat will always cheat because sex is a notorious habit humans do truout their life time until they are old and cant function anymore…..

The best thing is to cut ties with that your friend

flokii:
The your friend is probably cheating too, which the wife is aware of.

normal thing


Bt with the sacrifices he made for that woman, i would not expect that level of betrayal.


Anyways, i wish him well. Although i have this conception that a cheating wife is more dangerous than a snake.

We4all:
I used to think no man will ever accept to take back a cheating wife. But I can count up to three women that cheated whose husbands took them back.

Whilst some people may label the men as fools, I believe the men are just being understanding, the same way we have understanding wives.

The truth is that there is something that accessible satisfactory sex does to your body system. And when it is no longer there, the body system begins to choke, if you are not disciplined enough or not receiving enough satisfactory sex from your new partner... Omo you go find the ex go if you become aware that the sex is still accessible to you.

Unless that Ex, is no longer accessible to them by reason of death or unsurmountable distance... That is the only way to move on if the sexual cravings is over bearing. This is why some men bring back cheating wife and woman go back to abusive husbands and girls still link up with their baby daddy's or married women link up with Ex's.

What I will let you know is MIND YOUR BUSINESS

adamkkk:
I have this friend that got married on time. It was because the woman was pregnant as at the time and the guy was still in school(200level). So he dropped out of school to become a full time husband. That was the excuse he gave back then.

The woman got him the first child and then the second. My friend was living minimal to support the woman, he even rented a shop for her and spent so much on her(I don't want to talk too much).

One day another married man far older than my friend, approached him and advised him to tell his wife to stay away from his family. Apparently, the woman was dating the other man and when the other man decided not to continue the relationship anymore, the woman(my friend's wife) started threatening him and his wife and was acting jealous. It was that same period that it became known that the woman was dating other men and has been promiscuous for years even though they were not helping her with money. It was devastating.


My friend gave alot to that marriage and just like that, he was betrayed. So after everyday quarrel, she left the house.

It been like over 8 months now and my friend has moved on, i assumed so because he was with another girl that nearly caused issues between us


All of a sudden, he wanted the wife back. I advised her against the idea, but she was bent on doing just that. Some people were telling him to take her back like that. The matter tire me sef. So whenever the discussion came up, i would jejely avoid contributing to the talk.


So to the shock of everyone, he brought her and her load back. I don't want to say what on my mind and what am suspecting and at the same time, i could be wrong.


What do you make of the situation and is there a probable expectations in the future ?

Please let me know.

Countersam:
What I will let you know is MIND YOUR BUSINESS

I don even comot my mind sef


He asked me for my opinion yesterday pertaining to his current girlfriend, "i just use style to change the topic..."

I wish him well though but i ain't going to be curriculum in someone's bedroom

adamkkk:
sorry I was typing fast... And i didn't read it twice... Let me cross check

read your topic again slowly and edit.

This type of situation happens very often. You know your spouse is not perfect but there are something that you like about the person that you can't find from others. He may have tried several dating but none click they way he was expecting. Also the fact of the kids. He might just do it for the sack of those kids. Not really for the women.

Many marriages today only exists because of the kids. Remove the kids and there is nothing there

Walahi. Retain your peace of mind.

adamkkk:
I don even comot my mind sef


He asked me for my opinion yesterday pertaining to his current girlfriend, "i just use style to change the topic..."

I wish him well though but i ain't going to be curriculum in someone's bedroom

have this friend that got married on time. It was because the woman was pregnant as at the time and the guy was still in school(200level). So he dropped out of school to become

He will learn another 'new thing' that will send him to his early grave!
Public tap way everybody dey use hold body,e reach your turn,you wan personalize am.