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My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence - Christianity Etc (4) - Nairaland

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Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 1:53pm On Apr 06
Moderator101:
You want people to believe you but you dont want them to see your face?

cheesy

Goodluck!
There is many reasons for that, beyond your understanding.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by Moderator101: 1:53pm On Apr 06
voiceunheard:
I have reported the matter to four different organizations apart from the church headquarters.

Talking about insulting people, they are the ones who started the insult first by attacking my character and assuming I am the cause.
Continue explaining yourself to them. Continue arguing and insulting them. You enjoy it.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by Moderator101: 1:55pm On Apr 06
voiceunheard:
There is many reasons for that, beyond your understanding.
Okay naa, continue working silently.

Continue to explain why you are right
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 1:57pm On Apr 06
Moderator101:
Continue explaining yourself to them. Continue arguing and insulting them. You enjoy it.
I decided to call the church headquarters one more time and the last time before mentioning the name of the church, but they claimed I didn't reply their acknowledgement message which is not true.

So I am about sending them another message tomorrow because today is Easter for the last time.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 1:58pm On Apr 06
If the issue get resolved, I have no business posting it here.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 2:10pm On Apr 06
Moderator101:
If you dont want people to think you are stylishly begging for money then stop complaining and telling them about your financial problems. Its that simple.
The issue resulted to financial problem that is why.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 6:05pm On Apr 10
HEADLINE: (NAME OF CHURCH) Pastor Issues Death Threat to Abuse Survivor; Headquarters Promises 'Urgent' Help then Goes Silent for Months.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 3:59pm On Apr 14
The church is attempting a cover-up. They claimed they don't know the pastor and don't have his records/details, even though the pastor's details are listed on the church's official website. What should we call this?

Institutional cover-up, Bad faith denial, Attempt to pervert the course of justice, or Gaslighting?
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 4:17pm On Apr 14
The church headquarters didn't deny having the details of the pastor or knowing him since August that this matter was reported, it's now.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 10:07pm On Apr 25
SarcasticWords:
Just rest. Antispambot is tired of you. The energy you are using to spend time online to insult people, use it and find work outside. Stop looking for pity or stylishly looking for who will give you money. Nobody cares!
Have you finished blocking?

You are demonstrating how you will CRY tomorrow.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op):
SarcasticWords:
So you are fully aware that life is full of uncertainty, yet you are here crying because of an uncertainty you went through? What do you want us to do? Cry with you?
Your parents have a VERY BIG work to do where you are. You might end up becoming a disgrace to them.

Like I said earlier, people like you REALLY need to go through wilderness experience - times 10 of what I have gone through. That is the ONLY thing that can reset your memory.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 10:14pm On Apr 25
SarcasticWords:
No be lie. The headquarters probably called the pastor and after he narrated his own side of the story, the Headquarters kept her silent and ignored her.
If that is the case, then the church is no longer a place of safety, but a place of risk - where they rob people of trust, safety, and legal rights.

Because this cannot happen outside the church.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 10:16pm On Apr 25
SarcasticWords:
Just rest. Antispambot is tired of you. The energy you are using to spend time online to insult people, use it and find work outside. Stop looking for pity or stylishly looking for who will give you money. Nobody cares!
All these Gen z. I pity your tomorrow because you will cry more than you have cried here.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 11:41pm On Apr 26
SarcasticWords:
You are the one confusing yourself. The same way the antispam bot has been deleting your comments, that is how good opportunities will continue to be deleted from your life except you change.

Get a job, work hard and move on with your life. Don't come here to cry and tell us you are in a financial situation.

I want you to read this message then I will block you. tongue
You have ALREADY deleted ALL the good opportunities that will ever come your way. In fact, you have even lost the good things you have. Even your hard work can't bring them back.
Re: My Painful Experience With A Nigerian Pastor’s False Promise & Church’s Silence by voiceunheard(op): 10:28am On May 01
voiceunheard:
The church is attempting a cover-up. They claimed they don't know the pastor and don't have his records/details, even though the pastor's details are listed on the church's official website. What should we call this?

Institutional cover-up, Bad faith denial, Attempt to pervert the course of justice, or Gaslighting?

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