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brain54:
Must you find wisdom in everything and everywhere...?


Abi did the guy tell you he is Aristotle?

Person share him experience you are talking about wisdom!

Na normal women solidarity parole… she wan shame the guy….

3nity7:
Secondly, why will you guys be with someone you can't trust? For you to go to such extent of monitoring, then either you have trust issues or your woman is not trustworthy.

So How do u get to a point of having total blinded trust in a woman u met on the street…..

writetopoka:
Ladies are natural terrorists and destroyer of the world.

Without women the world 🌎 would have been a perfect place.

I believe U meant to say Iran and not women

Okay

Richsteemit:
Everybody warn me, nairalanders warn. I was foolishly in love. all my sense don block. Until I check her phone. I swear I no fit cry. if you put Gun on my head I will never check any girl phone again in my life.. chaiiiii, im on a big trauma

This is now the beginning of my wickeness!!!!.


Thanks nairlanders for your advice, I was so stupid not to listen to una advice. Have learnt the hard way.. but aaah!!!!.

You gonna learn the hard way

Pious101:
I believe U meant to say Iran and not women

+
I believe you meant to say Israel-USA

Panda7:
The last girl I was dating back then, I always noticed her phone rings very often when she is with me and when she picks its one of lovers call, I didn't bother myself even as she keeps assuring me she loves me too much and can't do without me. One day I picked up a strange WhatsApp number and chatted her, when she asked how I got her contact I told her she gave it to me, she said okay. I now invited her to a big hotel she said okay she was interested, I then asked her to come with her friend as I was with another guy, she simply told me I shouldn't bother that she can handle the both of us all through.. Omoh I shocked, good girl who entertains all conversation with me except when it might moves to s*x. When it was 6pm time for the said appointment, this girl called that line like her life depended on it, I even told her the address and asked her to call me when she gets there. When she got there she called and text nonstop. Same girl whom according to her, parents won't let her stay outside for up to an hour. Since then I feared women and can only freely play with my sisters. Anything woman, young and matured, I play them like table tennis, all I play to win is her legs, if I win victory, if I can't win that one I enter olo.sho house come out and try the next one. I make 0% financial investment in women and only toy with their emotions. Only way it affects me is that I haven't been able to start a family early as I thought I would.

I'm in.your shoe, someway.
After discovering my first love was cheating, I never wanted to give any girl my heart again for so long.
It has also affected me from having a family early, too.
But it is better to learn your future in pain

I have this strong belief that I will never check my partner's phone, funny enough, it's not out of trust, but something that doesn't freak me. I have never checked a girl's phone before.

The first time I decided to check my current girlfriend's phone, I saw a very inappropriate chats between her and her elder sister's fiance, the man was asking when last she kissed, if she had been in love, always wanting video call.

The second time I checked her phone, her friend's ex who she once told me tried to ask her out, I saw her she started giving him attention, agreed when the guy asked to visit her, she took him to her choir rehearsal, asked him to buy her a drink. The guy is always telling her that he misses her, even when my girlfriend travels to Lafia, the guy was the first person she called to inform that she was around, and when the guy didn't answer, she was disappointed the guy didn't call her back.

Loyalty has been thrown to the dogs, getting married in this generation is so scary.

Double0h7:
I’m looking for the wisdom in this. So, you met a professional and your conclusion was that you would join her and start your own business? Now you are emotionally bankrupt, have huge trust issues, and no family of your own and in your mind you are winning?

I wrote other stories about her on this thread but I think the bot have removed it.
She wasn't a professional but an innocent lady I met back then in her 100L, I helped her settle and did other things for her. We were in a committed relationship but she decided to play me because she thought I was a fool or she was doing it for money or make me jealous. I had wished we would settle down together but she was thinking the grass was greener on the other side. I had other girlfriends while dating her but I think maybe I liked her more even more than the ones whom I was enjoying their money and $*x, I even broke up with a serious date because of her issue but till today she is still single. With all these I never checked her phone nor confronted her about the issues till this date because I want her to be a fool of herself.

I still believe not all girls are the same. Just like there are bad girls, there are good girls out there also. It's just they're hard to find. This is a fact.

Richsteemit:
Everybody warn me, nairalanders warn. I was foolishly in love. all my sense don block. Until I check her phone. I swear I no fit cry. if you put Gun on my head I will never check any girl phone again in my life.. chaiiiii, im on a big trauma

This is now the beginning of my wickeness!!!!.


Thanks nairlanders for your advice, I was so stupid not to listen to una advice. Have learnt the hard way.. but aaah!!!!.

Checking a woman phone is like chewing cow dung and expecting it to taste like FRIED CHICKEN 😅😅

No matter how holy or nice she looks, never ever do it…
Especially their social media inboxes avoid am

hardon1:
As for me if I can have free access to a lady's phone , we can't be in a committed relationship. I don't have a problem with her going through mine as well.

But if the relationship is for sex, I don't even care what you do with with phone, provided I have access to the ye pussy

Even if the pussy is filled with deadly infections?

donmik:
I'm in.your shoe, someway.
After discovering my first love was cheating, I never wanted to give any girl my heart again for so long.
It has also affected me from having a family early, too.
But it is better to learn your future in pain

Being in a committed relationship as a guy is a risk on its own. When I see girls crush on me later to discover they have serious dates. If I push on I will sleep with them but how does the guy feels when he discovers he been cheated on. The only mistake the first crush makes is playing into her cards and that is when you have fallen in love with her, those cares, gift, constant calls doesn't matter at the end of the day so if you can sleep with her as many times as you can, thats your only reward for being with her and she now sees you as a masculine male.

In another instance, even if your first broke your heart, never give up on love. Some girls can do crazy things for guys they and especially when they are naive. Be open to them, ask for contact but dont over text or send much love letters instead call them regularly and try to hold conversation even if you are just checking up on her but dont be too clingy and don't call her often especially if she doesn't return the favour. When meeting a new lady, don't be quick to ask her out but try being friends with her and casually ask her out for a date. It is easier to get laid this way than asking her out because this builds her tension, if you ask her out you have activated her defence mechanism, her bills and financial burden are now on you and no $*x till marriage or till you fulfill her wish is activated. But being friends with her she simply cannot bill because you are just friends. I have had too many ladies and the most I shag are the ones I never ask out but was patient with and remained friends. Most of them after this don't have time for man chasing them but just keeping up with me. But if it was a lady you asked out OYO would have been your case and infact I don't remember ever shagging any girl I asked to be my lover. Also try asking girls out on the street, people you can keep eyes on and also require their social media handle

richboy7:
I still believe not all girls are the same. Just like there are bad girls, there are good girls out there also. It's just they're hard to find. This is a fact.

Not all girls are bad girls yes just like not all women are non virgins but try taking that good girl from her present condition, buy her good clothes, buy her a good smartphone, buy her gifts, sub her phone and give her all your care only then you will realize you are not the only good guy out there, there are other good guys out there ready to do more than that for her and only then you will realize say dem don submarine your babe. be wise and invest wisely. Hope you know the adage about the foolish man with a penny. If you have seen that good girl you wants to marry, go to her parents and pay her dowry instead of dating and spending on her to avoid stories that touches the heart.

Brothers Go and Get Money...

Richsteemit:
Everybody warn me, nairalanders warn. I was foolishly in love. all my sense don block. Until I check her phone. I swear I no fit cry. if you put Gun on my head I will never check any girl phone again in my life.. chaiiiii, im on a big trauma

This is now the beginning of my wickeness!!!!.


Thanks nairlanders for your advice, I was so stupid not to listen to una advice. Have learnt the hard way.. but aaah!!!!.

So you think because she's looking innocent, she's not Snake?

Comrade don see things

Check if you can. It will save you lots of future premium tears.

Richsteemit:
Everybody warn me, nairalanders warn. I was foolishly in love. all my sense don block. Until I check her phone. I swear I no fit cry. if you put Gun on my head I will never check any girl phone again in my life.. chaiiiii, im on a big trauma

This is now the beginning of my wickeness!!!!.


Thanks nairlanders for your advice, I was so stupid not to listen to una advice. Have learnt the hard way.. but aaah!!!!.

What happen and what did you see or do ? Afta you check the phone ?

writetopoker:
There one idiatic lady i tracked her whatsapp few years ago.
Chaiii, that was when i knew that, the world has come an end long time ago. that the world has been long damaged, broken, useless and can is completely irredeemable.

The fear of a lady is the begining of World Peace

Is that Whatsapp hacking actually real?

ogaprime:
What ever you saw there, is it not better you know about it than been ignorant of it.

Be like you wan train another man pikins abi?

It's so sad that despite the hardwork redpillers did on Nairaland, a lot of these men are still extremely fóólish. Why would anyone say he would never demand for true loyalty from a woman that you'd spend the rest of your life with?

I always make it clear I'm very masculine and I don't give a hoot about social media feminism. I will check your phone, know your parents, character, and even your lineage before giving you a baby. If you don't qualify, I let you go! It's better I'm hurt for knowing the truth than living with lies.

Every woman that knows me knows I have extreme trust issues. I tell them this so they know they woul never automatically gain my trust. Trust and loyalty is earned, and that's why I have few friends.

JimmySwaggart:
(1) I can never kneel down to propose to any lady
(2) I can never tell a woman I LOVE YOU, patapata I say I LIKE YOU, If she wants to be angry that's her problem. They are not worth investing your emotions into their affairs. They are absolute corn-fused creatures.

Bros, calm down. They are for your good. Without a change in this your mindset you will continue to deny yourself the good life.

JimmySwaggart:
(1) I can never kneel down to propose to any lady
(2) I can never tell a woman I LOVE YOU, patapata I say I LIKE YOU, If she wants to be angry that's her problem. They are not worth investing your emotions into their affairs. They are absolute corn-fused creatures.

where is the lie?

babtoundey:
A close friend and formal colleague shared his revelation after checking his fiancee's phone. A relationship of three years then crashed in the pace of one night,one revelation!

The girlfriend visited. Prior to this visit the had a near six-week misunderstanding where both of them were distant from each other. What was the cause of the misunderstanding, the girlfriend insisted she is resolving to have no sex with him again until both are married. Before this development, they had been intimate not once twice or even six times. She just woke up one morning and said she had decided on not sex till after marriage

The guy resisted and they both went silent on each other for weeks. When eventually they resolved the disagreement, the lady visited. And the guy noticed she was avoiding picking a particular call. When she eventually picked, she told the caller the she was in her boyfriend's. He became suspicious and was curious to know who the caller was. His suspicion was heightened when she was overprotective of her phone.

He deployed a means to lure her out while he volunteered to help her charge her phone. Unsuspecting his intent, she left her phone. He checked her chat history and noticed she archived a particular message. He opened it and got to know that the woman he hoped to marry had been sending her nude to one random guy for the past one month.

He was heartbroken and is still heartbroken!

everybody go learn. Even you wey dey inside marriage. You go see shege 🫵

3nity7:
Watin you do the man? If na me be the man I go arrest you, except she's your wife. Secondly, why will you guys be with someone you can't trust? For you to go to such extent of monitoring, then either you have trust issues or your woman is not trustworthy.

no worry you go learn. 🫵

Mrexcell:
Even if the pussy is filled with deadly infections?

I didn't mention deadly infection. Even at that, condom never finish for market

Tenrack:
no worry you go learn. 🫵

God forbid bad thing. Na una know where una dey see una kind of unfaithful women. You can't just pick someone from the streets which most of you are doing. You can't make a LovePeddler loyal. A LovePeddler is a LovePeddler.

advanceDNA:
So How do u get to a point of having total blinded trust in a woman u met on the street…..

so by monitoring her that will stop her from cheating abi? If you can't trust the person then it's the wrong person. Where you meet the person matter and like you said the streets, so if you met on the streets then they belong in the street.

Tenses:
The woman in question is my wife. The man in question is a married man sef.

Try and woo another man's wife, street go join hands beat you. If you go call police, police go join hands beat you especially police wey his wife cheat on.

first of all why will I go and chase someone's wife? So keep that advice maybe for yourself or someone else. Secondly, you never mentioned she was your wife, your actions are quite justifiable. Thirdly, I still don't understand you guys, if I can't trust you I can't marry you. I can't be doing detective work join my work mba na,

SuperOnyi:




It's so sad that despite the hardwork redpillers did on Nairaland, a lot of these men are still extremely fóólish. Why would anyone say he would never demand for true loyalty from a woman that you'd spend the rest of your life with?

I always make it clear I'm very masculine and I don't give a hoot about social media feminism. I will check your phone, know your parents, character, and even your lineage before giving you a baby. If you don't qualify, I let you go! It's better I'm hurt for knowing the truth than living with lies.

Every woman that knows me knows I have extreme trust issues. I tell them this so they know they woul never automatically gain my trust. Trust and loyalty is earned, and that's why I have few friends.

The right way to go. I know what timely checking of phone did for me in the past. Seriously, God be praised...

3nity7:
so by monitoring her that will stop her from cheating abi? If you can't trust the person then it's the wrong person. Where you meet the person matter and like you said the streets, so if you met on the streets then they belong in the street.

na small question I ask u….if u nor fit answer just say so….

And btw ….i dont mean street in a bad way, everyone u ddnt meet in your father house i.e not family… you technically met them on the street i.e out there