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At 30+ that place na gbim and the only thing they really want is someone to give them children, nothing else. They will use you if you believe it's for any other thing

insidelife22:
I will marry her if she can pay me. 890 billion naira.
Am skyz a very rugged human being coming all the way from abagana.

You don carry tiktok enter NL

This is stereotyping and it's really unfortunate.
You young people these days just talk anyhow without thinks.
What makes you think she has lived the life you have described?
You had a camera watching her youthful life?
This is an irresponsible opinion from you to describe someone you don't know personally. Very irresponsible

Sonnobax15:

Awnnn. Just take a look at how this brought tears to my eyes

After successfully wasting away her youthful years, while forming maradona, dribbling men and chopping their money as if she'd be like Ronaldo forever,now na she just realize say true true there's something that's called meno-stop which is one thing that's capable of humbling women allover the world

I come dey pity for her, honestly. May God send her one mugu who'll come to her rescue,but certainly not me or any of my brothers

Staged content. Fake.
How can it just go from consolation of pain to advice to the youth.
You loose serious followers when you lack authenticity. Go to Facebook and meet your audience.

SixSeven:
If you look closely, it may not be about the man but more about what the man can give her. The child. He is a means to an end.

We all need each other by the way. Men get lonely, women may not be as lonely as men. Men cannot do without that thing down there, women can decide to go celibate anytime. It's left for men to know how to live and enjoy this life. I see why those men kept on marrying wives at different stages of their lives. The truth is as you age, you become a different person and wetin de shack you for your 20s no go shack you for 40s and so on. Men will then be dumped by these women. Today, people are saying that men should treat their children well so that when they are old, they too will be traveling upandan to visit their grand grandchildren. I call that nonsense. Why? Some men may have been bad as fathers but I don't like that over simplistic argument. Men are not wired to go live with someone else, even their own sons. Men have territories. Women are selfish in nature, they don't know when to stop and let the bird fly. They want to monitor the child till the child is old enough to say mama, please let me breathe. The grandchildren are also just an excuse. It's good to have family but I'm telling you how life is. Everyone is selfish. Men, plan well and marry more in your 60s to 70s, don't let them use and dump you. Men have to keep fending for themselves, the world only sees you as providers. The earlier you know this, the faster you learn how to provide for yourself while sacrificing for family.

You’ve made some salient points here. However, with regards to men not being able to control their sexual urges, that’s not entirely true. There are still disciplined men out there. But for the most parts of your write up, you’ve made lots of of sense.

Sonnobax15:
keep nurturing this mentality you hear . Na when you don ready to settle down as a woman,na then you go realize say na Scorpion kings.and iron monkeys full streets

She's right, men full everywhere.
Know this and know peace, there are more women than men due mainly to the kind of selfless life men live that cut many mens life short.
The greatest deception is that One man one wife nonsense
Ladies stop limiting yourselves with one man one wife mentality, many men out there want multiple women, na Una no dey gree, if the lady in the story agree to be second or third wife before this year ends she will get married.

Make she go to city of jesus international ministry (cojim)situated @ emene Enugu State. where one of late T. B Joshua disciples is doing great wonders and signs, this thing is just a small little thing for him under the leadership of the Holy Spirit, I believe spiritual husband or contrary spirits,at times her face might be covered which metaphysically or esoterically leading all men not to ever found her attractive,is quite responsible for this, make she book prayer line , and mountain deliverance all her case will be settled there once and for all. The man of God known as and called WISEMAN CHRISTOPHER ORJI doesn't collect one penny, how I wish I can reach unto her swiftly nas possible,only what she needs is when you are delivered share ur testimony. She will later thank me. Now i rest my case. !!!

Hmmm.... this is very real and pitiable, honestly. I can only pray that God grants her heart desires.

Unfortunately, our ladies would not learn. And our parents too need to do more by educating their girl-children early.

We're no more in 1920. This is 2026. Let your girl child know the ratio of eligible spinsters to eligible reliable and responsible bachelors.

If it is a girl that is educated, the moment she turns 23, whether she has graduated or not, and meets a man who shows interest in marrying her, please encourage how to go ahead.

Of course you might say oh I need this specification, I need that specification, but it is your job as the parent to educate her because she's not going to have that opportunity forever. Let her know that after she must have gotten married, it is just natural she would later meet someone better than the guy she has married, someone she would like better than him, so with better focus, richer and better ambition but believe me it is the best as you could do for herself at that time she got married to the first guy probably.

Even if she marries late, after that same marriage she would still meet other men who are more handsome and have the qualities she wants in a man but that one she has married his her own. it is just nature and Providence.

The moment this one comes you miss it because he's not rich, the other one comes he is too short, the next one is too tall. My dear, you're not going to get 100% no matter how you try. Some would even say "I have a Master's degree, I must marry someone who has a PhD", stop deceiving yourself! if God says you will marry a School Cert holder so be it. A stitch in time, saves more than nine!

A word, they say, is enough............

CerebrumOptimus:
To be very frank with you, what does a man wants to do with a lady that her menstruation is already fluctuating?

Secondly, the experience I had with looking after my son from 14 months old till now that he is going to 7 years old makes me realize that taking care of a baby for a lady going to 40 years is not going to be easy for her. Compared with a lady in her 25 that still has strength.

Thirdly, most of these ladies have different kind of experiences from different men that makes them to develop a manipulative attitude.

To me, the video is a skit or so-called content creation. I am never taking anyone, regardless of gender, who cries in front of a camera as a serious person.

As for women in her age rank who are genuine about their need for male partners, the problem is that they are fixated on marrying single aka never married men. There are a thousand and one divorcees, widowers and polygamists who would gladly marry such women. These women still believe they are young girls, hence, they have the privilege of choosing whoever they like.

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lilvicky68:
Instead of shedding tears, why not give someone's son a chance and stop thinking of fairy tales rich, tall and handsome man.

People with that kind of mentality will frustrate any man dey marry now...

Cos dem no meet target

Lovelink1991:
Woman is nothing without a man.
A lady shared tears on her birthday photoshoot realizing that she is 39yrs old without a man in her life.

Watch her explain her pains in the studio


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k59gTJ_VI8I

Women are the cause of this wahala o, everyone of them want to marry a rich man, while they're just 5% in the population

eepeepook:
Is she trying to say no one toasted her from age 18 to 39? Mscheew, attention seeking.

Dramatic

SixSeven:
If you look closely, it may not be about the man but more about what the man can give her. The child. He is a means to an end.

We all need each other by the way. Men get lonely, women may not be as lonely as men. Men cannot do without that thing down there, women can decide to go celibate anytime. It's left for men to know how to live and enjoy this life. I see why those men kept on marrying wives at different stages of their lives. The truth is as you age, you become a different person and wetin de shack you for your 20s no go shack you for 40s and so on. Men will then be dumped by these women. Today, people are saying that men should treat their children well so that when they are old, they too will be traveling upandan to visit their grand grandchildren. I call that nonsense. Why? Some men may have been bad as fathers but I don't like that over simplistic argument. Men are not wired to go live with someone else, even their own sons. Men have territories. Women are selfish in nature, they don't know when to stop and let the bird fly. They want to monitor the child till the child is old enough to say mama, please let me breathe. The grandchildren are also just an excuse. It's good to have family but I'm telling you how life is. Everyone is selfish. Men, plan well and marry more in your 60s to 70s, don't let them use and dump you. Men have to keep fending for themselves, the world only sees you as providers. The earlier you know this, the faster you learn how to provide for yourself while sacrificing for family.

Ai don't think you are well. You went off point. What a trash write up

Lovelink1991:
Woman is nothing without a man.
A lady shared tears on her birthday photoshoot realizing that she is 39yrs old without a man in her life.

Watch her explain her pains in the studio


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k59gTJ_VI8I

Only God knows how many guys this one don chop their money clean mouth wayray

Just have your kids. It's not a must to have men around. Some are weaklings too

Sonnobax15:

Awnnn. Just take a look at how this brought tears to my eyes

After successfully wasting away her youthful years, while forming maradona, dribbling men and chopping their money as if she'd be like Ronaldo forever,now na she just realize say true true there's something that's called meno-stop which is one thing that's capable of humbling women allover the world

I come dey pity for her, honestly. May God send her one mugu who'll come to her rescue,but certainly not me or any of my brothers

Imagine an old boy like me crying and lamenting there's no woman in my life... 🤷

That's an impossibility😁

Me wey go escape myself? Abegi

Most of them will claim to be the table, when they're totally really nahtin.

Sonnobax15:
keep nurturing this mentality you hear . Na when you don ready to settle down as a woman,na then you go realize say na Scorpion kings.and iron monkeys full streets

Which is scorpion kings and iron monkeys again.... Lwkmd 🤣🤣🤣

And to you, you just assume and concluded she wasted her youthful age abi? And for your mind you re the price? Pathetic mentality

Sonnobax15:

Awnnn. Just take a look at how this brought tears to my eyes

After successfully wasting away her youthful years, while forming maradona, dribbling men and chopping their money as if she'd be like Ronaldo forever,now na she just realize say true true there's something that's called meno-stop which is one thing that's capable of humbling women allover the world

I come dey pity for her, honestly. May God send her one mugu who'll come to her rescue,but certainly not me or any of my brothers

Kenobsky:
As a man,if you are out there begging a woman to love you.
May God punish you.

Chai...Oga abeg cool down small🤣🤣🤣🤣

insidelife22:
I will marry her if she can pay me. 890 billion naira.
Am skyz a very rugged human being coming all the way from abagana.

All the videos I have watched relating to not having husband and getting old are made by women from the south east,I begin to think that it just for content creation.

GOD NO GIVE HER WHEN SHE WAS IN HER TWENTIES, NA WHEN MENOPAUSE IS KNOCKING AROUND, WERE HER EXPIRING DATE DON REACH.

Sirhush:
Well what can I say, than God go give you your own man

There is definitely a background story to this

Yes it's possible she was very picky and missed her man

Or she may have been in a long relationship and the man dumped her

Or she may have married and her husband died

Or She may be divorced

Many many possibilities

I pray she finds a man for her self because it's not easy being lonely

In these dangerous last days, if I am a lady especially based in Nigeria, these are the strategies I will follow:

Firstly, I must have a good source of income via job or businesses btw age 20 - 28

Secondly, look for a lovely and caring man, btw age 20 - 32

Third, look for a man (dont care if he is lovely or caring) if Second phase didn't work out age 33 - 37

Fourth, look for a man (single but i will prefer married) atleast ready to give me belle only (lol), age > 37.
In all these I must be financially independent. Because it will give me more leverages when dealing with any of the above outcomes.

Lovelink1991:
Woman is nothing without a man.
A lady shared tears on her birthday photoshoot realizing that she is 39yrs old without a man in her life.

Watch her explain her pains in the studio


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k59gTJ_VI8I

The best advice is for her to Go to any mosque tell the iman you need a serious man that will take you as 2nd wife

eepeepook:
Is she trying to say no one toasted her from age 18 to 39? Mscheew, attention seeking.

Very possible but even they did, they might have not been the type she wanted. You can't expect a well brought up girl to marry and agbero

Sonnobax15:
keep nurturing this mentality you hear . Na when you don ready to settle down as a woman,na then you go realize say na Scorpion kings.and iron monkeys full streets

LOL... Scorpion king and iron monkeys

insidelife22:
I will marry her if she can pay me. 890 billion naira.
Am skyz a very rugged human being coming all the way from abagana.

I am Skyz, a vely lugged human being all the way from Abagana!!!!

The bible has stated it in Isiah 4:1, and also Quran stated it that, men who are financially capable, in their right sense of mind, still strong and healthy, should marry more than one wife.
So, she should look for any man of such to marry.

Lovelink1991:
Woman is nothing without a man.
A lady shared tears on her birthday photoshoot realizing that she is 39yrs old without a man in her life.

Watch her explain her pains in the studio


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k59gTJ_VI8I

Forget husband, go n collect free sperm n inject your egg if you never enter menopause

Lovelink1991:
You didn't pity her, all you did was mock her. If you really pity her you will not exclude yourself and your brothers from rescuing her

Fine girl like that, what was she doing? And I heard video...so they be be frolicking and doing video..now she wants a simp to marry her

Imstutionalize Second Wife Marriage