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I've heard so many stories of people being in love and for some reason, it fizzles out. And after some research I discovered that one of the most important reasons for this is Wants and Needs not being met.[/b]

Some men claim that women are "too Emotional" and neglect their women wants and needs. The truth is, women aren't too Emotional, Men has just been socially conditioned into being as emotionless as possible, they call it being a Man.


How can a man, who has been conditioned into not being able to cry, feel or even communicate without being compared to a woman, understand women emotions.


Honestly, as a woman myself, I feel bad for my fellow women. You have to adapt to an emotionless man and mind you, as a woman, you are required to submit to your husband wants and needs.

This creates a disproportionate relationship, and the consequence is that both parties are unsatisfied. Obviously the woman would feel it the most emotionally, while the man would think he's wife is being unreasonable and hard for no reason.


The woman will find herself being angry for little things while the man would stop going home because of he's nagging wife.

The door to infidelity has been opened because now, the man thinks he has every right because of he's unreasonable wife.

So many homes has been broken because of a man who doesn't take care of he's woman wants and needs. Most women wants romance, they love words of affirmation and soft spoken words from their man.

Some women love to be gifted, a jewelry here, a box of chocolates there.

Some women just love spending time with their man, even when he's watching football or doing things she might not necessarily like. She's there for him and him only.

Some women love to be treated like a queen, while some love to be treated like a princess.


Take your time to figure out what exactly is your Woman wants and needs.

Sometimes you just have to ask. And I must say, she might not really tell you cos she expects you to know. But if you truly love your woman, just try.


As for the men, Most of the men feel like they are underappreciated. And in some cases, it might be that way. But in others, it might just be the sense of ego that he has.

Women love feeding men's ego, it is a natural thing. Some women has learnt to turn off that part of her.


If you truly want the Romance to spice up your love life. It might really be the time to have that painful conversation you've been avoiding.


Honestly sometimes I wish I was a man, women are just such God giving humans, they know how to take care and nurture, they know how to act cute, they have lovely shapes and no two women are the same.

It's just so sad to see them clearly having wants and needs like regular humans and being let down by their partners.


There's no one way of being in love, Everyone has things that works for them and things that don't.

You can't bring up going to an eatery when your partner said he/she never eats food outside. So obviously you must avoid that.

That's the thing, you must know your partner well unless not only will they be unsatisfied, you would also be unsatisfied..


Peace

You have said it all; women don't know what they want because even when a man asks a woman , she doesn't know, but weirdly expects the man to know.

If a person craving for something doesn't know what he or she wants, how do you expect others who don't live inside of them to know on their behalf?

Men are not psychic. Once your drama is too much for me, as a man, I simply watch my hands and relegate you to a Bleep buddy. No time to check time on grown up that can't specifically state what she wants. Enough of all these emotional blackmail of men. Enough

Honestly, men are gradually becoming endangered species in today's world. And we need spread the awareness for all men to stop being emotionally attached to any woman because it's a dangerous stake for men.

A venture capitalist will not invest into a company that shows no consistency and measurable commitment towards defined set of goals.

A man should also never commit to any woman unless that woman has gone extra miles to offer consistent commitment over a reasonable period of time.

Most women leverage on zero contribution they offer in a relationship as they have nothing to lose to misbehave and mess innocent hearts of the men.

A lot of men are good people and would do whatever for their women but when this zero contribution gap creeps into a relationship, the end from the beginning is defined.

I have personal story I can share regarding this topic. A woman leaves you on the excuse of you not offering her the love and care she expects.

When she gets into the new relationship you would think her search for care and love would end, 99% of time she will still want a part of the man in the old relationship.

So, the problem here is not lack of care and love, it's greediness and sheer irresponsibility.

a woman who confessed to me she cries like she was wrongly created or born so unlucky whenever she found herself caught up with affectionate scene of a movie or romantic line of a novel, upon the fact that she has never been given attention or treated with deep connection from a partner, eventually told me my care was too beautiful to explain and too much that it was chocking her.. They are generally like that.. naturally created to be unstable like corolla shocks absolver. their desperate needs now is their worse turn-off in the next few minutes and they are never ashamed to admit that they just craved desperately for that thing that now becomes irritating to them just a few moment ago..

StrngT:
You have said it all; women don't know what they want because even when a man asks a woman , she doesn't know, but weirdly expects the man to know.

If a person craving for something doesn't know what he or she wants, how do you expect others who don't live inside of them to know on their behalf?

Men are not psychic. Once your drama is too much for me, as a man, I simply watch my hands and relegate you to a Bleep buddy. No time to check time on grown up that can't specifically state what she wants. Enough of all these emotional blackmail of men. Enough

Honestly, men are gradually becoming endangered species in today's world. And we need spread the awareness for all men to stop being emotionally attached to any woman because it's a dangerous stake for men.

A venture capitalist will not invest into a company that shows no consistency and measurable commitment towards defined set of goals.

A man should also never commit to any woman unless that woman has gone extra miles to offer consistent commitment over a reasonable period of time.

Most women leverage on zero contribution they offer in a relationship as they have nothing to lose to misbehave and mess innocent hearts of the men.

A lot of men are good people and would do whatever for their women but when this zero contribution gap creeps into a relationship, the end from the beginning is defined.

I have personal story I can share regarding this topic. A woman leaves you on the excuse of you not offering her the love and care she expects.

When she gets into the new relationship you would think her search for care and love would end, 99% of time she will still want a part of the man in the old relationship.

So, the problem here is not lack of care and love, it's greediness and sheer irresponsibility.

What concerns me knowing my partner well!

I can only dig for what she feels cool with or not generally. But for wants or romance, she should take care of herself in that aspect.

My primary role is to provide and govern with wisdom.

Long story
Women don't love they pretend
Men found this out
Women now complain men are being strict no romance

TherapeuticJeny:
I've heard so many stories of people being in love and for some reason, it fizzles out. And after some research I discovered that one of the most important reasons for this is Wants and Needs not being met.[/b]

Some men claim that women are "too Emotional" and neglect their women wants and needs. The truth is, women aren't too Emotional, Men has just been socially conditioned into being as emotionless as possible, they call it being a Man.


How can a man, who has been conditioned into not being able to cry, feel or even communicate without being compared to a woman, understand women emotions.


Honestly, as a woman myself, I feel bad for my fellow women. You have to adapt to an emotionless man and mind you, as a woman, you are required to submit to your husband wants and needs.

This creates a disproportionate relationship, and the consequence is that both parties are unsatisfied. Obviously the woman would feel it the most emotionally, while the man would think he's wife is being unreasonable and hard for no reason.


The woman will find herself being angry for little things while the man would stop going home because of he's nagging wife.

The door to infidelity has been opened because now, the man thinks he has every right because of he's unreasonable wife.

So many homes has been broken because of a man who doesn't take care of he's woman wants and needs. Most women wants romance, they love words of affirmation and soft spoken words from their man.

Some women love to be gifted, a jewelry here, a box of chocolates there.

Some women just love spending time with their man, even when he's watching football or doing things she might not necessarily like. She's there for him and him only.

Some women love to be treated like a queen, while some love to be treated like a princess.


Take your time to figure out what exactly is your Woman wants and needs.

Sometimes you just have to ask. And I must say, she might not really tell you cos she expects you to know. But if you truly love your woman, just try.


As for the men, Most of the men feel like they are underappreciated. And in some cases, it might be that way. But in others, it might just be the sense of ego that he has.

Women love feeding men's ego, it is a natural thing. Some women has learnt to turn off that part of her.


If you truly want the Romance to spice up your love life. It might really be the time to have that painful conversation you've been avoiding.


Honestly sometimes I wish I was a man, women are just such God giving humans, they know how to take care and nurture, they know how to act cute, they have lovely shapes and no two women are the same.

It's just so sad to see them clearly having wants and needs like regular humans and being let down by their partners.


There's no one way of being in love, Everyone has things that works for them and things that don't.

You can't bring up going to an eatery when your partner said he/she never eats food outside. So obviously you must avoid that.

That's the thing, you must know your partner well unless not only will they be unsatisfied, you would also be unsatisfied..


Peace

Yeah I feel for you half of humanity, but the bad among you caused all this to you and you never put any effort to stop it, the truth is that women hardly love a man truly, they just simply want his money and pretend to love him, men found out this and then reduced women to the position of objects they put money to purchase and used for their pleasure with no affection to, because why have an affection for a woman that will never be with you if you are not rich? Why love a woman that will one day leave you if you lose your job? Most relationships now adays are just trade by barter you want my money and I want your body for sex there is no affection and true love all thanks to the greedy among women who caused this stereotypes and other women failed to prove it wrong or even act on it and rather cemented it, it is your fault and you are the ones that will suffer a lot on this because we men are not emotional beings like you we can still live without romantic life we have so many hobbies to keep us happy and substitute romance for us unlike you, but all these problems is caused by you.