₦airaland Forum

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

Has the lack of money become worse in the last 11 years of A-looter Poverty Conmen, APC?

11 years of extreme poverty shege instead of positive change promised when they asked to replace PDP widespread prosperity and cheap petrol with less debt burden and insecurity in 2015!

Erectal dysfunction,low testosterone or low libido in men.Nigerian men generally eat alot of carbs,they drink too much alcohol and surgary drinks aswell.All these comes with a cascade of health challenges.Most Nigerian men have visceral fat, women too.Visceral fat causes inflammation and early death.Lack of physical exercise is also a huge problem.Most Nigerian adults don't walk properly nor can run for about 5km without losing their breath.It's a big health crises for Nigerians,both the ones here or those living abroad are in a similar predicament.

Nothing than money

The list is incompressible since PHONE is not included.

Romana said it all in that track “Honey na Money “

To God be the glory. None affects us.

Emeskhalifa:
Fact

Experiencing it currently. After a hectic, chaotic day and preparing to go face the next day, where person wan see time and feelings for za oza room?

Someone who is not up to you, even in the area of financial capacity you are complaining of, will be helping your inadequacy in Oza room, my opinion is bitter but it's a fact!

Financial constraints can hinder sexual pleasure in marriage....but lack of emotional connection to me is the major culprit.

mukthar2000:
Nothing than money

The money that Wen it finally comes, the wife that has been with you through out the time of adversity will become like flirty rag?

Man must bring excuse to escape blames, it started from time of Adam and Eve.

Fiscus105:
The money that Wen it finally comes, the wife that has been with you at time of adversity will become like flirty rag?

Man must bring excuse to escape blames, it started from time of Adam and Eve.

Quit always sounding and acting patronizing to women. In reality, you don't value, love and respect women than all the men you have always liked to pick on unnecessarily.

Money 💰 na Oxygen 🫶,if you no get no plan to Born pikin

Make sure you have bath constantly with your partner, it's very important especially before bedtime

As much as marriage is to be enjoyed, it requires hard work, patience and commitment.

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

in colour people society🥱

boxypane:
To God be the glory. None affects us.

on social media🥱

SammySammy1011:
Wen women concentrate on dia phones, they don't have time for anybody, including doing house chores, even taking care of their children, they press phone till 3am and wake up 10am, the father will be the one to prepare the kids for school.

That father is a fool

No Money.

Honey can't flow 😭😭😭

Some because of the terrible smell of the woman’s private part

I've said it here that one day, people will pin their inability to have an erection on Tinubu.
Ladies and Gentlemen, here we have it!

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

Number 1

Juliette5803:
Finance is the number one reason.... when a man struggles to provide for his family add to a nagging wife, his libido is non existent

I seconded

youngsahito:
Physical intimacy is one of the things that keeps a relationship feeling close. But for many couples, it slowly fades, and it can be confusing or even frustrating. There are some common reasons why this happens.

1. Stress and Busy Lives

Life gets hectic. Work deadlines, school, kids, or family responsibilities can leave both partners drained. When you’re tired or stressed all the time, it’s hard to feel like being close or intimate...

2. Lack of Communication

If you don’t talk about your feelings or what you want, misunderstandings build up. Sometimes one partner feels rejected or unnoticed, and neither says anything. Over time, this can make being physically close feel uncomfortable.

3. Emotional Distance

Being intimate isn’t just about touch—it’s about feeling connected. If you’ve been drifting apart emotionally, cuddling or kissing can start to feel forced or empty. Feeling emotionally close often brings back physical closeness too.

4. Health and Energy

Illness, hormonal changes, or even some medications can lower desire. Things like depression, diabetes, or high blood pressure can make it harder to feel in the mood, even if love is still there.

5. Routine and Boredom

Doing the same things over and over, both in life and in the bedroom, can make intimacy feel boring. When things feel predictable, the excitement that fuels closeness can fade.

6. Lingering Conflicts

Old fights, resentment, or hurt feelings don’t just stay in your head—they affect the bedroom too. If you feel hurt or ignored, being physically close can feel unsafe or unwelcome.

The good news is, intimacy can come back. It starts with small steps: talking openly, showing affection, and spending time together. Simple things like holding hands, hugging, or sharing a compliment can slowly rebuild that closeness.

Remember, it’s normal for intimacy to dip sometimes. What matters is noticing it and caring enough to try again

The major cause is money, my personal opinion.

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

Nigeria people with no money are still having sex and breeding children all about. Not sure about the money part.

Fiscus105:
Someone who is not up to you, even in the area of financial capacity you are complaining of, will be helping your inadequacy in Oza room, my opinion is bitter but it's a fact!

Na una sha dey over carry woman matter for head like say na load o

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It is always single people that compile this list.

Married people are two busy with children, work, bills, in-laws, life challenges to even worry about intimacy. When it happens, it happens

It is the same for guys who think that marriage means frequent sex anywhere and any time. They jump in and jump out when reality hits them. Ever wonder why the rate of divorce is very high these days? There you have it. Unrealistic expectations!

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Most able-bodied Nigerian men no longer have election like they use to have before the governments of Buhari and Tinubu. Pricks no longer rice up like before .

The good news is, intimacy can come back. It starts with small steps: talking openly, showing affection, and spending time together. Simple things like holding hands, hugging, or sharing a compliment can slowly rebuild that closeness.

Mmm

SammySammy1011:
Wen women concentrate on dia phones, they don't have time for anybody, including doing house chores, even taking care of their children, they press phone till 3am and wake up 10am, the father will be the one to prepare the kids for school.

Where Una dey meet these kind?

Those should be obvious during courtship!

The main reason which is "Money" is not listed.

Also add to the list:
1 phone addiction
2 disrespect
3. See finish 🥺🥺🥺

Hmm. No be small thing for this great tinubulation.🥱🥱