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Adesina18111:
My marriage would have been a victim of these reasons but thank God my wife always come to my rescue... She has always been the one calling me to order... Thank God I did not marry a liability... A responsible married man living below 200$ with kids during this Tinubu era must have a wife earning at least 150$ a month to balance life...
Please don't marry out of pressure oo... If at all u have to marry then marry a partner who works... Don't marry LIABILITIES

youngsahito:
Physical intimacy is one of the things that keeps a relationship feeling close. But for many couples, it slowly fades, and it can be confusing or even frustrating. There are some common reasons why this happens.

1. Stress and Busy Lives

Life gets hectic. Work deadlines, school, kids, or family responsibilities can leave both partners drained. When you’re tired or stressed all the time, it’s hard to feel like being close or intimate...

2. Lack of Communication

If you don’t talk about your feelings or what you want, misunderstandings build up. Sometimes one partner feels rejected or unnoticed, and neither says anything. Over time, this can make being physically close feel uncomfortable.

3. Emotional Distance

Being intimate isn’t just about touch—it’s about feeling connected. If you’ve been drifting apart emotionally, cuddling or kissing can start to feel forced or empty. Feeling emotionally close often brings back physical closeness too.

4. Health and Energy

Illness, hormonal changes, or even some medications can lower desire. Things like depression, diabetes, or high blood pressure can make it harder to feel in the mood, even if love is still there.

5. Routine and Boredom

Doing the same things over and over, both in life and in the bedroom, can make intimacy feel boring. When things feel predictable, the excitement that fuels closeness can fade.

6. Lingering Conflicts

Old fights, resentment, or hurt feelings don’t just stay in your head—they affect the bedroom too. If you feel hurt or ignored, being physically close can feel unsafe or unwelcome.

The good news is, intimacy can come back. It starts with small steps: talking openly, showing affection, and spending time together. Simple things like holding hands, hugging, or sharing a compliment can slowly rebuild that closeness.

Remember, it’s normal for intimacy to dip sometimes. What matters is noticing it and caring enough to try again

youngsahito:
Physical intimacy is one of the things that keeps a relationship feeling close. But for many couples, it slowly fades, and it can be confusing or even frustrating. There are some common reasons why this happens.

1. Stress and Busy Lives

Life gets hectic. Work deadlines, school, kids, or family responsibilities can leave both partners drained. When you’re tired or stressed all the time, it’s hard to feel like being close or intimate...

2. Lack of Communication

If you don’t talk about your feelings or what you want, misunderstandings build up. Sometimes one partner feels rejected or unnoticed, and neither says anything. Over time, this can make being physically close feel uncomfortable.

3. Emotional Distance

Being intimate isn’t just about touch—it’s about feeling connected. If you’ve been drifting apart emotionally, cuddling or kissing can start to feel forced or empty. Feeling emotionally close often brings back physical closeness too.

4. Health and Energy

Illness, hormonal changes, or even some medications can lower desire. Things like depression, diabetes, or high blood pressure can make it harder to feel in the mood, even if love is still there.

5. Routine and Boredom

Doing the same things over and over, both in life and in the bedroom, can make intimacy feel boring. When things feel predictable, the excitement that fuels closeness can fade.

6. Lingering Conflicts

Old fights, resentment, or hurt feelings don’t just stay in your head—they affect the bedroom too. If you feel hurt or ignored, being physically close can feel unsafe or unwelcome.

The good news is, intimacy can come back. It starts with small steps: talking openly, showing affection, and spending time together. Simple things like holding hands, hugging, or sharing a compliment can slowly rebuild that closeness.

Remember, it’s normal for intimacy to dip sometimes. What matters is noticing it and caring enough to try again

missionmex:
Also no light to on AC. The heat is too much.

Adesina18111:
My marriage would have been a victim of these reasons but thank God my wife always come to my rescue... She has always been the one calling me to order... Thank God I did not marry a liability... A responsible married man living below 200$ with kids during this Tinubu era must have a wife earning at least 150$ a month to balance life...
Please don't marry out of pressure oo... If at all u have to marry then marry a partner who works... Don't marry LIABILITIES

ceejay80s:
some works but to Stingy to assist their husbands ,
remembered what my $tupid father in-law told me when I complained her daughter doesn't assist me financially at home,
I wasn't broke, only took a loan from my work place which I must pay back,
my father open mouth dey tell me say na my duty to provide not hers,
I replied him immediately, if I die, I will see if my dead body will provide, oga Ur daughter is to stingy

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

saintopus:
Lack of money is the problem of Lack of intimacy in marriage. Ti's the 7th reason

ceejay80s:
some work but too Stingy to assist their husbands ,
remembered what my $tupid father in-law told me when I complained her daughter doesn't assist me financially at home,
I wasn't broke, only took a loan from my work place which I must pay back,
my father in-law open mouth dey tell me say na my duty to provide not hers,
I replied him immediately, if I die, I will see if my dead body will provide, oga Ur daughter is to stingy

free2ryhme:
what type of relationship are you talking about here?


if it is boyfriend and girlfriend or hook up or same sex or fwb relationship

just forget it

it is fornication, short and simple