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This truth is so dark most men will never accept it.

A woman can give you sex while feeling almost nothing real for you. She can ride you, moan your name, cum, and still wake up emotionally detached, ready to ghost or treat you like an option.

Plenty of women are married to men they don’t genuinely like. They still give him sex… but to her, it’s nothing.

For many women, sex is just a physical release or a handy transaction. It costs her almost nothing in ego, identity, or long-term risk. She can sleep with a man she barely likes, one she’s using, or one she’s about to discard, and still walk away with her self-image perfectly intact.

But when a woman spends her own money on you: real cash, her hard-earned naira, her time turning it into a gift, a meal, transport, or bailing you out… something much deeper shifts.

She has now invested her resources in you.

The more she spends, the more she convinces herself you’re worth it. The more attached and emotionally locked in she becomes.

This is dark psychology 101.

For women… sex can be given casually.
Money cannot.

You hear women say, “My money is my money, his money is our money.”


Most men never truly get what that means.

A woman can give you her body, but it’s genuinely hard for her to give you her money. That’s why her spending on you — even occasionally — is the only real proof she actually likes you.

Women dump or divorce men they’ve slept with, even when the sex is great.

But a woman can’t easily wake up and dump the man she’s been spending money on. That’s logically and emotionally impossible.

Women who spend on a man often turn strangely loyal… even if he’s average or toxic. Their money is on the line. Their identity is now tied to the story “he’s worth it.”

Compare that to sex.

A woman can Bleep you and still feel zero love towards you. She can give you her body while keeping her heart, loyalty, and resources completely separate.

Sex is temporary. Money is cumulative.

Every naira she spends on you adds another brick to the emotional wall she builds around you.

Most men reject this truth because it shatters their provider fantasy. They want to believe being the financial rock is enough. It isn’t… not if she isn’t investing back.

The woman who spends on you is showing you something far more valuable than sex.

She’s showing you that she’s decided you’re worth her resources.

And that decision is what creates real emotional attachment.

Sex can be faked or given casually.

Money cannot.

Nice read. You are spot on. Women who spend on you will surely end up with you and they are most likely the woman meant for you.

True talk. A woman who truly loves you will spend her money and invest on you.

Sex can be transactional devoid of emotions as long as the man is willing to pay the lady. it only takes emotions and love for a lady to spend her money on a man.

angelboy01:
Nice read. You are spot on. Women who spend on you will surely end up with you and they are most likely the woman meant for you.

Real talk.

The women who willingly spend on you are usually the ones who will stick with come rain come shine.

Women who gives you sex but rarely spend money on you are just enjoying the ride until someone better (or richer) shows up.

Simple as that.

dangermouse:
True talk. A woman who truly loves you will spend her money and invest on you.

Sex can be transactional devoid of emotions as long as the man is willing to pay the lady. it only takes emotions and love for a lady to spend her money on a man.

Big facts... no debate.

The more she spends, the deeper she gets hooked, because now her resources and identity are tied to you.

I have told them but they cannot accept the pain of Truth especially those wey don already put hope say she love them.

https://www.nairaland.com/8427188/see-why-sometimes-women-give#135393099

Pukkalolo:
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But when a woman spends her own money on you: real cash, her hard-earned naira, her time turning it into a gift, a meal, transport, or bailing you out… something much deeper shifts.

She has now invested her resources in you.

The more she spends, the more she convinces herself you’re worth it. The more attached and emotionally locked in she becomes.

This is dark psychology 101.

For women… sex can be given casually.
Money cannot.
to sex.


Sex is temporary. Money is cumulative.

Every naira she spends on you adds another brick to the emotional wall she builds around you.

Most men reject this truth because it shatters their provider fantasy. They want to believe being the financial rock is enough. It isn’t… not if she isn’t investing back.

The woman who spends on you is showing you something far more valuable than sex.

She’s showing you that she’s decided you’re worth her resources.

And that decision is what creates real emotional attachment.

Sex can be faked or given casually.

Money cannot.

Now that you have said it, you have spoilt it as o s will now be doing it so that they can marry.

Spot on👌🏽

angelboy01:
Nice read. You are spot on. Women who spend on you are most likely the woman meant for you.

A woman spending on a man doesn't guarantee the woman is meant for the man. Women also use money to hook men when they are desperate for marriage. Once in the marriage, they withdraw that financial support or start disparaging the men.

voortrekker966:
A woman spending on a man doesn't guarantee the woman is meant for the man. Women also use money to hook men when they are desperate for marriage. Once in the marriage, they withdraw that financial support or start disparaging the men.

Yep

Buying a husband tings

voortrekker966:
A woman spending on a man doesn't guarantee the woman is meant for the man. Women also use money to hook men when they are desperate for marriage. Once in the marriage, they withdraw that financial support or start disparaging the men.

Atleast it's still better than the ones who won't spend at all.

True !
A woman can spend on a man.
If the woman have the cash , why not ?
However ,spending of money on someone should not be a guage to know true love .
Maybe the woman just love the sex and wants to keep the man hooked down with money .
Lust they call it .
Another thing is that the man should not be relaxed when a woman is spending on her .
Oga , step and go find hustle out some income source .

Have you ever heard a rich successful man complain about women?


Poor wretched people would even take money from women.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

When it comes to having sex without emotions, men are the kings.
Infact your theory works for men more than women. Just that men can have sex with a woman, even give her money and still feel nothing afterwards. But for our wives, our number one girlfriends or concubines, we spend more on them to keep them happy.

The poster is 100% correct. Most women are far more likely to give you sex long term than to give you money. The more a woman invests in you, whether it is emotionally or monetarily, the more she becomes attached to you and the greater her estimation of you. But this doesn't mean your relationship with her is likely to work out smoothly. That is a whole other kettle of fish. She might love you, grow attached to you, invest in you and still make your life fairly miserable.

Sexx is overrated… I don’t really see how people talk about it as if it’s a project…. Normally In every scenario, a vessel isn’t more important than the content… women are vessels, while men are the content…. Without the content, the vessel is useless and just empty, even in the absence of a vessel to accommodate the content, the content is still very valuable and useful…

It’s reverse psychology that made the first man that paid a woman for sex… did that…. Assuming the male organ has the powerful sensation the female clito has … that means men will be slaves to women then

goran3310:
Have you ever heard a rich successful man complain about women?


Poor wretched people would even take money from women.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

that's y women talk shit on them lik Annie and others how she fed tuface wen he no get nothing as if tuface was a nonentity and was not making money from little show he do go bck then, this is the result, women spending on one brings alot of insults not only to you but people around such

goran3310:
Have you ever heard a rich successful man complain about women?


Poor wretched people would even take money from women.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Dtruthspeaker:
I have told them but they cannot accept the pain of Truth especially those wey don already put hope say she love them.

https://www.nairaland.com/8427188/see-why-sometimes-women-give#135393099

True.

The ones who accept the truth early are the ones who eventually heal and level up.

voortrekker966:
A woman spending on a man doesn't guarantee the woman is meant for the man. Women also use money to hook men when they are desperate for marriage. Once in the marriage, they withdraw that financial support or start disparaging the men.

Wrong.

When a woman spends her own money on a man, she is the one getting hooked... not the other way around.

Pukkalolo:
True.

The ones who accept the truth early are the ones who eventually heal and level up.

Exactly

carlo90:
True !
A woman can spend on a man.
If the woman have the cash , why not ?
However ,spending of money on someone should not be a guage to know true love .
Maybe the woman just love the sex and wants to keep the man hooked down with money .
Lust they call it .
Another thing is that the man should not be relaxed when a woman is spending on her .
Oga , step and go find hustle out some income source .

Spending isn't the only proof of love... but it's one of the strongest and rarest.

Because when she opens her wallet... her hard-earned money, her resources... that's when her psychology forces her to justify it: 'He must be worth it."

goran3310:
Have you ever heard a rich successful man complain about women?


Poor wretched people would even take money from women.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Rich successful men complain about women all the time... especially in divorce court.


They quietly watch their ex-wives walk away with half (or more) of everything they've built: houses, investments, businesses, even future earnings through alimony.

Many rich men call it the biggest financial mistake of their lives.

The problem is... Those men usually didn't have her spending meaningfully on them during the relationship.

Her spending on you isn't about "taking from women."

It's the only real proof she genuinely likes you.

kingthreat:
When it comes to having sex without emotions, men are the kings.
Infact your theory works for men more than women. Just that men can have sex with a woman, even give her money and still feel nothing afterwards. But for our wives, our number one girlfriends or concubines, we spend more on them to keep them happy.

You're completely wrong... and it shows you don't understand women's true sexual nature at all.

Women want to Bleep just as much as men do. Often more. They just do it smarter and way more low-key.

A woman can ride a random guy, then go home to her husband/boyfriend and act like nothing happened... zero emotional fallout.

Your "men are kings of emotionless sex" line is crap. Women have been having emotionless sex behind closed doors forever with their side guy while collecting money and gifts from their main man.

She gives her body casually. She guards her money fiercely.

emperor4love:
that's y women talk shit on them lik Annie and others how she fed tuface wen he no get nothing as if tuface was a nonentity and was not making money from little show he do go bck then, this is the result, women spending on one brings alot of insults not only to you but people around such

Bro... The bolded is false.

A woman spending her own money on you doesn’t bring insults. It paradoxically brings respect... from her, from outsiders who notice, and even from other men who see she’s locked in.

The only people insulting it are broke, insecure guys who’ve never experienced it.

Real ones watch a woman drop cash on her man and think: “Damn, she’s really into him.”

Look, Guy... Her money on you is quiet power. Men who call it insulting are just advertising they’ve never had real female investment.

floss:
Sexx is overrated… I don’t really see how people talk about it as if it’s a project…. Normally In every scenario, a vessel isn’t more important than the content… women are vessels, while men are the content…. Without the content, the vessel is useless and just empty, even in the absence of a vessel to accommodate the content, the content is still very valuable and useful…

It’s reverse psychology that made the first man that paid a woman for sex… did that…. Assuming the male organ has the powerful sensation the female clito has … that means men will be slaves to women then

Truth bomb! 💣

Pukkalolo:
You're completely wrong... and it shows you don't understand women's true sexual nature at all.

Women want to Bleep just as much as men do. Often more. They just do it smarter and way more low-key.

A woman can ride a random guy, then go home to her husband/boyfriend and act like nothing happened... zero emotional fallout.

Your "men are kings of emotionless sex" line is crap. Women have been having emotionless sex behind closed doors forever with their side guy while collecting money and gifts from their main man.

She gives her body casually. She guards her money fiercely.

Your opinion is sprung from pure misogyny. Your generalization does not account for 50% of women. If it did, allen bus stop will be overchoked at night. Seems you have only met hoes as women. Hopefully, you'll meet non-hoes to correct your ignorance on that matter.

Yes I restate, men are kings of emotionless sex. The only women that can outmatch men on these are hoes and men are their customers. If every woman is a hoe to you, you implicate the one that birthed you too.

Finally ghe-gheh has been vindicated, a woman who invested hugely on her man won't dump him easily. It's a true fact

I no need woman to love me. As long as she makes me cum with a nice scream, I’m good

Pukkalolo:
Rich successful men complain about women all the time... especially in divorce court.


They quietly watch their ex-wives walk away with half (or more) of everything they've built: houses, investments, businesses, even future earnings through alimony.

Many rich men call it the biggest financial mistake of their lives.

The problem is... Those men usually didn't have her spending meaningfully on them during the relationship.

Her spending on you isn't about "taking from women."

It's the only real proof she genuinely likes you.

Genuinely like me?
I don’t know. I’ve already got my hands full as it is.k

angelboy01:
Nice read. You are spot on. Women who spend on you will surely end up with you and they are most likely the woman meant for you.

Or the woman to possess you. Then you are indeed the price of the prize