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Bwon:
My wife really wants to start going to the gym, but I feel uncomfortable about it because of some things I’ve heard. She says she’s strong and can handle herself, but I don’t like the idea of her going just to ‘test’ that. I also can’t go with her because my schedule is very busy. I’m not sure how to handle the situation.”

Bwon:
My fellow Romance-landers, In as much as i love to keep my relationship away from people and their advises i haven't found away to conquer my problems. I need your help and advice on this issues.

I am young dude as every guy i have lived a bad life (more so like a play boy) in the past but for years now i have turned a new live. I met this young lady that i love so much she was in a relationship at the time i met her. We got along pretty well then i got to find out that her relationship was crashing i was sad for her because at the moment she was devastated but on the on the contrary i was happy for myself at least an opportunity presented itself. Few months later the relationship crashed two months later i started making my intention know about how i feel about her and all.

She requested that i give her time to heal as she has been dating the guys for 3 years so i said okay that is fine by me. I started acting like a bf to her care buy her stuff literally foot all her bills and take her on dates. But YESTERDAY I reminder about my proposal towards her makes it 4 months now since i asked her out and she is still telling to wait.?

But now am confused How long do i have to wait I have been acting as a bf since breakup and i have waited four good months for her to heal. i have always been at her side every time she was down. but why would she want me to wait for i don't know long again? I have tried to avoid her lately but i can't the heart keeps calling back

Pls guys advise me on what to do because i am confused really and i need your help

Bwon:
My wife really wants to start going to the gym, but I feel uncomfortable about it because of some things I’ve heard. She says she’s strong and can handle herself, but I don’t like the idea of her going just to ‘test’ that. I also can’t go with her because my schedule is very busy. I’m not sure how to handle the situation.”

Bwon:
My wife really wants to start going to the gym, but I feel uncomfortable about it because of some things I’ve heard. She says she’s strong and can handle herself, but I don’t like the idea of her going just to ‘test’ that. I also can’t go with her because my schedule is very busy. I’m not sure how to handle the situation.”

DuttyChuks:
Stop them before they stop you. Hold your wife or let her be going strolling every evening after work. Its terrible in gym house; guys are not smiling and if your wife come get money na you sabi. Or you can get her some gym equipment at home.

NotOfThisWorld:
What is the big deal? When I'm at the gym and get hit on, I ignore. Most men at the gym are respectful. If anything, they just stare and I just ignore and act like they don't exist. There're people at the front desk if one needs help but I find more men are well-behaved, but I can't speak on how gyms are in Nigeria sha. In any case, let her live. Unless you don't trust your wife, you shouldn't be worried about anything.

Samantha125:
Nothing is as unattractive as an insecured man...😒😒😒

Pootle:
just know its over for you no jokes both if you in nigeria or abroad, you see that last part of you busy you cant go with her na there your matter roast

brain54:
You follow her everywhere she goes...?


If she wants or intends to cheat its not gym that would trigger her or not.

Marry good principled and balanced wife some of you married because of big buttocks and boobs.

Now you can't even trust your wife or be secure enough to let her go to the gym!

GOFRONT:
OMG


Another man is about to Lose his wife to the Agility and Stamina of a gym Instructor.....

Op, Take a look at d picture below........Would you love to see your wife spreadout by another man in this manner?

LeeSmart:
Op, you no trust the wife way you marry again? I thought marriage is built on trust?😆😆

GOFRONT:
OMG


Another man is about to Lose his wife to the Agility and Stamina of a gym Instructor.....

Op, Take a look at d picture below........Would you love to see your wife spreadout by another man in this manner?

Samantha125:
Nothing is as unattractive as an insecured man.

Build a personal gym for her and be her gym instructor then...😒😒😒

Bwon:
My wife really wants to start going to the gym, but I feel uncomfortable about it because of some things I’ve heard. She says she’s strong and can handle herself, but I don’t like the idea of her going just to ‘test’ that. I also can’t go with her because my schedule is very busy. I’m not sure how to handle the situation.”

Bwon:
My wife really wants to start going to the gym, but I feel uncomfortable about it because of some things I’ve heard..”