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OlaOfLagos:
I seconded

This hóes can’t be trusted as they are manipulative in nature, they always want to eat their cake and have it, entitled motherfvckers, pushing blames for their own misfortune. As a man, once you see sign(s) or your instinct tells you your partner is cheating or flirting, don’t ignore the signs else wonder dey wait for front.



But omo your level of transparency in your relationship top notch oooo! I duff my hat

marcusverum:
If you feel the need to spy before the ring, do not put on the ring.

Spying is not due diligence. It is a sign that your gut is already speaking and you are too afraid to listen. A man who trusts his woman does not need her phone. A man who does not trust her should not be marrying her.

The problem is not what is on her phone. The problem is that you already have doubts and you are looking for evidence to either confirm or silence them.

Address the doubt directly. Ask hard questions. Observe her patterns. Watch how she handles pressure, money, loyalty and conflict. These will tell you more than any phone ever will.

Marry with clarity or do not marry at all.

HEED

SamuraiXXX:
E be like say you no get work

Drsnives:
Don't try it oo..
My experience then while dating was a sad and bitter experience.. if I share the gist una too go lament.. Na everyday I dea swear for her.. but Thank God today am happily married but she still dea xxxxxx around

Lete read out one of the text I saw
.. and I quote
# girl am mad for refusing to suck my dick, have a really nice pussy though.

The last sexx I had with her gave me gonorrhoea

Onkoolos:
Is it ok to spy on your wife to be phone to know who she is, before marrying her, or is that insecure.?? Any opinion is welcome here!!

Thundafireseun:
Yes it is very very advisable

If you make it too obvious they will hide a lot of information from you ….

I wish I could say what I found out while spying on my baby mama’s phone

Tenrack:
bros abeg share your story make we learn from am. These girls are demons.

SixSeven:
Mind your business if you want to live long. Don't mind your business if you want to live in trouble and worries.

imismimum:
What if she is wayward and infect u

Stephen0mozzy:
No problem. I'll correct you.

Just as you suspect that I don't have the balls to check her phone, I suspect you don't have the neurological strength to comprehend statements.

"...and if I ask, she nor get excuse" just as well implies that when I have asked, she has not given an excuse otherwise.

I have not checked her phone to spy through her chats and socials. But I've asked for her phone time and time again, to play games, watch movies and view her gallery - she takes beautiful pictures, and she's told me her password time and time again, which I keep forgetting - you know why - I don't need to check it behind her back - I don't need to SEE chats or pictures of cheating to know if my partner is cheating.

I'm what you'll call a very rare gentleman (who's very open to putting trolls in their place), and by such nature, I'm dating a girl who knows her worth as I know mine.

If there's a change in our commitment to each other, it'll definitely show - I'm that observant.

Drsnives:
I go open a thread for that one when I dea less busy..
I go quote you

Onkoolos:
Is it ok to spy on your wife to be phone to know who she is, before marrying her, or is that insecure.?? Any opinion is welcome here!!

Angelfrost:
As my late grandmother would say..."He that keeps looking into holes will eventually find a snake".

Anyone dumb enough to leave evidence in his or her phone should be avoided for being dull... And anyone smart enough to delete evidence from the devices should be feared and avoided at all cost... Above all, the one that deliberately leaves evidence for you to find will likely kill you in your sleep.

Bottom line... If you have trust issues about someone, you are better off not hooking up with them for the long-term if you value your mental health and life.

fyneboi79:
You all have time trying to cajole a womans trust...una never learn that no matter what a woman can never be trusted.

Tenrack:
if only you know how bleeped the dating market is, you'd avoid women completely.

Angelfrost:
We are saying the same thing, Sir.

My point was simple... Checking anyone's phone doesn't guarantee squat.

A smart cheater will cover his or her tracks.

Abi, how else do men wake up to discover they are fathering kids from other men several years into marriages?!!