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Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


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Na man him be, I inherite my self before one careless woman send him to his grave.u check well the children no be him own, Nigerian women fear them before I think of the devil 👿

AI generated story. Very good story, by the way!

Me na that fish pepper soup I want to chop

How can AI generate the story...una go dey reason anyhow

TEYA:
AI generated story. Very good story, by the way!

ariesbull:
How can AI generate the story...una go dey reason anyhow

What is the big deal about AI generating a story?

Strategic move.
Applaudable.

If he had died suffering in silence, they wouldn't waste time in selling the house, and fighting over the proceeds.

is that the man on blue or white?

it should be the man on blue because he refuse to drop his phone, e no wan hear say the phone loss them enter him account. he leave the phone for him chest pocket

he also take star ragler so him no go high come lose guard. very sharp man

He escaped being killed.

I support d man wit keg of palmwine and isi ewu. D man is a real motivator to all simps. I fear who no fear daughters of eve

This one is strong...
VERY SMART MAN
That's absolutely the right thing to do, if you feel your life is in danger and the people around you no longer cares, they just want to use you.
YOU CAN ALWAYS START AFRESH...

Freedom from operession is the highest form of freedom.

Kudos to him

One of the worse thing to ever happen to a man is when the children are used as weapons against their father

HIM WIFE AND CHIDRENS REALLY DEY COOL CAUSE DEM SUPPOSED DON INÓ DOWN THE WHOLE HOUSE

I want to buy him a chilled mortuary standard beer for achieving this feat.

Simping are liable to die young

Drforsuiciders:
I support d man wit keg of palmwine and isi ewu. D man is a real motivator to all simps. I fear who no fear daughters of eve

I believe the story, it has happened near my area before, fear bad wives.

Na normal. Women, after the father don spend wealth on kids to make them grow, them go turn them against their father stylishly.now make she and the children go stay the house wey she sweat to build.tiri gbosa for that man. Women go tell kids say na them dey do every, but when the man dies or they divorce, na one room them go pack go. Sapa go finish them. The same kids no go fit complain to their mum oh,while them go dey call am wicked deadbeat dad

Ah!

This one na Chinese film o!

ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Ci22zktGU/

Is what this man did ok, like seriously?

English dey cry

He did right, it’s good for the children their mother should purchase their own house for them

ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Ci22zktGU/

He is a wise man
May God bless him

Next up marry sweet 35 to 40year old start new life no time. Women should respect their husband, we don't need love just respect. Men love your wife. This is what the Bible admonished.

TEYA:
AI generated story. Very good story, by the way!

Sold a house in Abuja for N90m?

Standalone house? In a city where a single flat in a block of flats can go for N140m)?

Okay. Maybe na Kubwa. No wahala.

Where will he get a "smaller" house for N18m, tori olorun? Nwhere in Abuja, sha.....maybe in his village.

The funny thing that money will still finish. 90m nor be money again oh

Even if he burns 500k every months on a lowkey. Within a years 6-8m done walker.

Business na 50/50. Thank God he invested in business before which collapsed.

So the chance for him to go brake in the next 6-10 years is very high.

He should at least buy another one very quickly like 30m for the family while he marry another single mother to manage life together.

Many Nigerian women have used their own hands to destroy their family.
Their Children will hate them for all they did and how they misled them sometimes in the future.
I don't blame the man.
Peace of Mind is priceless.

I support the man’s decision. A father who made countless sacrifices for his family, fought thousands of battles on their behalf, and dedicated his life to making things easier for them should never be neglected simply because retirement has reduced the flow of money.

If I were in his position, I would invest the remaining money in a mutual fund and live a modest lifestyle from the interest and appreciation of the investment.

We should always remain grateful to those who made life easier for us.

I still feel guilty that my own father, who sacrificed so much for me, did not live long enough to enjoy the fruits of his labour, while some ungrateful wives and children toy with the very people who sacrificed everything for them.

I wish one man I and my uncle gave this advice took it. There was a popular man in my estate in Lagos, his house is on two plots of land.

One day he came to borrow 20k from my uncle as he was sick and needed to go to hospital. My uncle gave him the money and told him not to bother returning as they were good friends. My uncle and I also advised him to sale a plot of land from that his property and use it to take good care of himself as he needed serious medical attention. The man refused saying he is leaving it for his wife and children. Some months later the man died.

Just last month, somebody told me that the wife and kids have sold a part of that land the man refused to sale and use to take care of himself

Sunnyvilla anywhere U are just know that they have sold the land you refused to sale for proper treatment against our advise

honour8:
Next up marry sweet 35 to 40year old start new life no time. Women should respect their husband, we don't need love just respect. Men love your wife. This is what the Bible admonished.

That "sweet" woman is the one that will finally finish him, as in, return him to his basic components

Stop them before they stop you.

ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Ci22zktGU/

Good better best I'm pleased with that.

Na men dey suffer pass for marriage.