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Make I shock you small.
We dey always talk say na men want variety. Na men want polygon. Women just want one faithful man forever. That narrative is a big fat lie.
Watch what women actually DO... not what they say.

A woman meets a desirable guy. She goes all in. Loyal, loving, the whole package. Then a more successful, more attractive man enters the picture. She doesn't collect two like the man would... she LEAVES the first one and moves to the new one. Settles again. Then an even better option appears. She leaves again. Moves again.
One man at a time. Technically monogamous. But permanently? Never.

Na wetin dem dey call hypergamy. I just call am selective serial movement. Women are wired for it the same way men are wired for polygamy. The difference is religion and culture flogged it out of them for centuries. Every tradition that gave men four wives gave women ZERO options... and punished them brutally for trying.
So the tendency never died. E just went underground.

Now? 2026. Financial independence. Weak religious grip. Reduced social consequences. And what are we seeing? Marriage rates crashing... and it is not just men refusing. Women are opting out too.
Both sexes are now finally showing their factory settings.

Your early thirties men and women are not marrying. Gen Z own go be worse.

The institution of marriage existed partly to manage both impulses - male polygamy AND female serial movement... through external pressure. Remove the pressure from both sides, you get wetin we currently get.

I pity the woman loving you atm. With this your mentality, dating you will be headache. You really have a long way to go on working on yourself, your perspectives and your mentality. I hope you be better.

Thelma001:
I pity the woman loving you atm. With this your mentality, dating you will be headache....

Nothing I wrote was about me personally. I just made an argument. And you didn't dispute a single point. Not one. You went straight for character attack. That's called ad hominem.

If the argument is wrong, show me where

Babatunjo:
Nothing I wrote was about me personally. I just made an argument. And you didn't dispute a single point. Not one. You went straight for character attack. That's called ad hominem.

If the argument is wrong, show me where

The argument is not wrong and that's why she is pissed off

Babatunjo:
Nothing I wrote was about me personally. I just made an argument. And you didn't dispute a single point. Not one. You went straight for character attack. That's called ad hominem.

If the argument is wrong, show me where

You made an argument based on your perspective, you view, your ideology, your mentality. And I told you to work on that perspective of yours, that mentality of yours that’s making you think and write what you wrote there, because with this mentality you’re having, you won’t take any lady serious.

Just because some women want that lifestyle doesn’t mean all women are designed that way. Men and women are biologically and emotionally different.

Most women are naturally more comfortable with one trusted partner.

Many women carry rape trauma for years, sometimes for life. Meanwhile, if news spreads that women are forcefully sleeping with men somewhere, many men would rush there willingly.

A man can sleep with multiple women casually, but most women would not do the same without emotional attachment or benefit.

Men also produce millions of sperm constantly, and research shows men generally have stronger sexual urges.

Even virginity in women can be seen as part of a design that supports bonding with one man.

So stop using a few promiscuous women as the standard for all women. One woman’s opinion does not define female nature

Emu4u2c2:
The argument is not wrong and that's why she is pissed off

You fine o

Thelma001:
I pity the woman loving you atm. With this your mentality, dating you will be headache. You really have a long way to go on working on yourself, your perspectives and your mentality. I hope you be better.

Thelma001:
You made an argument based on your perspective, you view, your ideology, your mentality. And I told you to work on that perspective of yours, that mentality of yours that’s making you think and write what you wrote there, because with this mentality you’re having, you won’t take any lady serious.

The summary of everything I wrote is simple. Religion and culture were the guardrails. They kept men from acting on polygamy and women from acting on hypergamy. Both are now weak. That is why relationships and marriage are struggling everywhere you look.

That is not my mentality. That is just what is happening in front of all of us.

Thelma001:
I pity the woman loving you atm. With this your mentality, dating you will be headache. You really have a long way to go on working on yourself, your perspectives and your mentality. I hope you be better.

Leave him.
They only make noise and form alpha males online.
Offline, they are mostly weak and seeing shege from women who are not mid

spiceadole:
Leave him.
They only make noise and form alpha males online.
Offline, they are mostly weak and seeing shege from women who are not mid

Honestly, I understand life and I understand women. The busier and more focused a man is, the less shege he sees. Your attention should be scarce. You have a life.

Babatunjo:
Honestly, I understand life and I understand women. The busier and more focused a man is, the less shege he sees. Your attention should be scarce. You have a life.

you are 100% correct in everything you wrote and I salute your bravery and wisdom..kudos!

Thelma001:
I pity the woman loving you atm. With this your mentality, dating you will be headache. You really have a long way to go on working on yourself, your perspectives and your mentality. I hope you be better.

Lmao. Una dey love?

Thelma001:
You made an argument based on your perspective, you view, your ideology, your mentality. And I told you to work on that perspective of yours, that mentality of yours that’s making you think and write what you wrote there, because with this mentality you’re having, you won’t take any lady serious.

why should he? Na person wey he hand never dey burnt by fire go carry himself shook he hand inside fire.

koladata:
Just because some women want that lifestyle doesn’t mean all women are designed that way. Men and women are biologically and emotionally different.

Most women are naturally more comfortable with one trusted partner.

Many women carry rape trauma for years, sometimes for life. Meanwhile, if news spreads that women are forcefully sleeping with men somewhere, many men would rush there willingly.

A man can sleep with multiple women casually, but most women would not do the same without emotional attachment or benefit.

Men also produce millions of sperm constantly, and research shows men generally have stronger sexual urges.

Even virginity in women can be seen as part of a design that supports bonding with one man.

So stop using a few promiscuous women as the standard for all women. One woman’s opinion does not define female nature

read wetin you write and tell me it's not funny. So the attachment and benefit is why women stand out?

spiceadole:
Leave him.
They only make noise and form alpha males online.
Offline, they are mostly weak and seeing shege from women who are not mid

lmao. 😭🤣🤣 I would have called this projecting if it was coming from a man. But nevertheless the comment is funny af.

Babatunjo:
Honestly, I understand life and I understand women. The busier and more focused a man is, the less shege he sees. Your attention should be scarce. You have a life.

Baba na women you dey follow argue so oh. You expected a different response?

Women. You can't live with them. You can't live without them.