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Yes there's always a time frame where the money keeps coming the love keeps shining, but once it stops everything dies with it.

As a man, you are weak if a woman will be the mode of your activation. When you start making that bread and everything becomes good as we prayed for, never you take back that lady that wasn't there for you till you made it.

Taking her back is the beginning of your downfall.

If a woman sees potential in you, she will be keyed into your welfare and progress. Na lady were no get interested in you go leave you because of say u never make am.

And don't be like fat prince that gave himself target to meet up just because he doesn't want his smallie to leave him.

If I come back to this world again, I will never marry a struggling man
Next pls

fattprince:
No I'm not deceiving myself. With the statement you bolded, she will understand that we are getting somewhere, I just believe that maybe because she's still very young. Not yet twenty in fact. So she will know before she's ready to marry I would have progressed even further.

😂🤣😂🤣🤣.... soon , u will add this to ur list of learnings

If you have experienced a proper heartbreak 💔 at the beginning of your relationship where you believe that you gave 100% and she still left you, you won't be bordered by this sort of time line the next time.

You too try to be rich when you come back to this world so that you won't have to depend on the man you married.

You should be an help meet not a chop mate 😜

okomile:
If I come back to this world again, I will never marry a struggling man
Next pls

fattprince:
I know this that's why the last time my smallie came over, we talked extensively on this and I had to instinctively give myself a timeline. I gave 12 months and a 10 million in my account as the target and told her she can leave guilty free if I don't meet this target. But I know she will stay even if I meet 2 million and an apartment of our own.

God Abeg oooo!! Which kind talk be this..
… she should leave if u dont make 10Million?? …
. U be marketer?? Is it a marketing job that u need to meet sales target for her??
Why Una Dey give women too much leverage in relationships ?? … thats why they down play ur sacrifices, the risks your took, your hard work and say its because they are in ur life u made it….

segsman:
You too try to be rich when you come back to this world so that you won't have to depend on the man you married.

You should be an help meet not a chop mate 😜

lol….
Ask a woman to pick btw a truck load of money and a man with a truck load of money……the latter wins 95% of the time

I thought a struggling man was suppose to be focused in coming out from his struggling condition...Is it a must that a man must always be with a woman?

lailo:
This is the mentality the society instill in men. It is the responsibility of the man to make the money, the woman has no role doing so yet the scarce most lucrative jobs and opportunity keep going to the female folks. A female is more likely to get juicy white collar employment after education than an average male. The society placed the financial responsibilities on men and u just also echoed such manipulation.

This is not about mentality of financial burden on men..A guy going into any relationship should be financial okay by himself.

Yes ladies have privileges than men but in exchange for what? Would you prefer your girl to use her body to get opportunity or you as a guy do the responsibility part?

fattprince:
I know this that's why the last time my smallie came over, we talked extensively on this and I had to instinctively give myself a timeline. I gave 12 months and a 10 million in my account as the target and told her she can leave guilty free if I don't meet this target. But I know she will stay even if I meet 2 million and an apartment of our own.

So how do you want to get 10m in 12 months, what kind of business do you want to engage in, yahoo, kidnapping, hired assassin, freelancing, fish farming, abi you have opueh to sell?. You better don't let Smallie pressure you to go and commit, as someone said recently try to avoid jail by all means, if soldiers defending the country are feed so poorly, imagine how badly prisoners will be.

PerfectStranger:
Keep decieving your self buddy!

;DYou are wicked

fattprince:
No I'm not deceiving myself. With the statement you bolded, she will understand that we are getting somewhere, I just believe that maybe because she's still very young. Not yet twenty in fact. So she will know before she's ready to marry I would have progressed even further.

Sweetie woman marry who's ready and date who's available.

tiswell:
Even the ones that married struggling men also has time frame.

In sickness and in health, in riches and riches

This economy is just to difficult for a struggling man to rise..... Reason why ladies are complaining no husband is because the struggling men are still out there working hard to make it but the government keep frustrating all efforts.

Some are in there 40's and still trying to make enough money.

If they keep on waiting to have it all before they get married they won't get married at all and the ladies will remain single for life too.

Why not look for a struggling responsible man and grow together.

Two hands are better than one

Emdi1914:
I thought a struggling man was suppose to be focused in coming out from his struggling condition...Is it a must that a man must always be with a woman?

segsman:
This economy is just to difficult for a struggling man to rise..... Reason why ladies are complaining no husband is because the struggling men are still out there working hard to make it but the government keep frustrating all efforts.

Some are in there 40's and still trying to make enough money.

If they keep on waiting to have it all before they get married they won't get married at all and the ladies will remain single for life too.

Why not look for a struggling responsible man and grow together.

Two hands are better than one

this life no just balance.
Our female feminist say they want equal rights,pay and opportunities.... but when it comes to responsibilities,they don't want it to be equal.
Well I only pity my fellow comrades that see marriage as a do or die.
If every comrade were like me, women would be the ones begging for marriage with their own purse

fattprince:
I know this that's why the last time my smallie came over, we talked extensively on this and I had to instinctively give myself a timeline. I gave 12 months and a 10 million in my account as the target and told her she can leave guilty free if I don't meet this target. But I know she will stay even if I meet 2 million and an apartment of our own.

You seem to be under pressure to impress your smallie. Bro evolve in your mind, you don't need the validation of that your smallie or any woman fur that matter to feel accomplished.

That's the mentality for most women in this generation,even if they marry a financially stable man and things later go south they automatically set a time line. This was not the issue during the era of our parents and grand parents. Women then were women of substance who will stay with you come rain or sunshine. I know of a particular woman who would sneak money into her husband's pocket and she will ask the kids to get their daily stipends from their dad just to save his face from the children and also build his self confidence .
But some women these days immediately you can no longer meet up financially as a man you'll be thrown under the tractor asap even right there in the presence of the kids

Ladies have a very short prime age. I see no reason for them spending time waiting on a future that's not promising.
They are humans too and no human would stick too long to a venture that's not progressive.

Sometimes, we expect others to stay with us even when we cannot if we're in the same situation.

There's nothing wrong if relationships ends before of no progress.
It's wisdom to actually know when to jump off a sinking ship.

Nigeria has more broke people than rich.
As in, way more broke people than rich. To the point threads are created every other day to ask why these broke people reproduce.

But somehow another set of Nigerians who are not even rich, keep trying to convince themselves that ladies don't marry broke men. Including those with gfs they have been dating since 2020. Una go dey alright.

okomile:
If I come back to this world again, I will never marry a struggling man
Next pls

so U are saying your husband is struggling and deep down you regretted marrying him..

chai

men dey suffer

lailo:
This is the mentality the society instill in men. It is the responsibility of the man to make the money, the woman has no role doing so yet the scarce most lucrative jobs and opportunity keep going to the female folks. A female is more likely to get juicy white collar employment after education than an average male. The society placed the financial responsibilities on men and u just also echoed such manipulation.

Don't mind the society my friend.

It's never the responsibility of the man to make the money
It's the responsibility of the woman to make the money, and submit everything to you the man...
Clown

segsman:
You too try to be rich when you come back to this world so that you won't have to depend on the man you married.

You should be an help meet not a chop mate 😜

Smile
I am rich and supported
I was raised with four boys and we were all raised together. I think and do things like a man but submissive
Tory plenty for mouth
Don't judge

advanceDNA:
lol….
Ask a woman to pick btw a truck load of money and a man with a truck load of money……the latter wins 95% of the time

hmmm but why would they do that??

MrNice04:
hmmm but why would they do that??

I think it’s a bigger psychological flex for them when a man is paying all their bills and buying all they want than them doing it all by themselves……

I confirmed this when I see women literally lie to their fellow women that boyfriend or husband bought things they purchased with their own money…

helinues:
This is not about mentality of financial burden on men..A guy going into any relationship should be financial okay by himself.

Yes ladies have privileges than men but in exchange for what? Would you prefer your girl to use her body to get opportunity or you as a guy do the responsibility part?

Everybody should be financially ok for and by themselves, male or female. No one has an exclusive responsibility to be housing, feeding and paying bills on full blown adult with functional brain and complete hands and legs. Women are generally laid back and lazy. They expect men to work and serve them. That's the mentality that they all have. You have also been conditioned to think it is your duty to provide for them. Only kids need provision bcs they dont have the capacity.

UnknownQueen:
Don't mind the society my friend.

It's never the responsibility of the man to make the money
It's the responsibility of the woman to make the money, and submit everything to you the man...
Clown

Make your money and keep it to yourself. No man is asking any woman to make money and submit it to them. Women should make their own money and shoulder their own responsibilities and stop living off men.
Majority of them claiming independent woman still subtly rely on men to meet up with responsibilities. Ask them to be independent and they will suddenly become online beggars begging relatives, male friends, online groups, and others to be able to meet up with livings.

lailo:
Make your money and keep it to yourself. No man is asking any woman to make money and submit it to them. Women should make their own money and shoulder their own responsibilities and stop living off men.
Majority of them claiming independent woman still subtly rely on men to meet up with responsibilities. Ask them to be independent and they will suddenly become online beggars begging relatives, male friends, online groups, and others to be able to meet up with livings.

Everyday pain resides in your abode like a Virus
Lailo everyone can't live their life according to your terms and conditions, If you like struggle by your self and don't ask for help, that's your very own cup of tea, drink it with your drugs to help suppress the pain Virus residing inside you

You should be named AMBASSADOR OF PAIN