₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Either way, paternity fraud is terrible.
Away from all the agenda and gender war, no woman should cheat and pass off a child to another man. It is unfair to the child and the man too. A very high level of betrayal that should be shunned. If everyone continues like this, the family unit would breakdown in a few years.

GloriousGbola:
https://punchng.com/yoruba-men-dont-mind-their-women-cheating-funmi-iyanda/

controversial when it came out but the gist of it for me is in a society where polygamy is celebrated this will happen

it is not as if there is a giant pool of women who are not with someone else

the same guys cussing chike would have celebrated him as a playboy in school if he had 10 or more chicks - even if they knew he was stealing or chancing or taking them from other guys. the guy wey dey knack OPP for school, will he stop as he grows older?

most polygamists on some level know some of the kids may not be theirs. its why the late mko ordered dna test for all the kids as a prerequisite to his will if i recall. and even before now, a lot of african cultures imho turn a blind eye and the children are for the man and that is where it ends. no one with a harem of wives who he knows he cannot be available to every time one is feeling Hot will lie to himself in reality that she is content with that

it is only on the internet that a person who has painstakingly raised a child for 3 or more years can casually say i no dey do again

when linda ikeji decided to release a story about how two of femi kutis kids were not his own he called her out - asking why she was sharing information he was fully aware of and that would simply make the children's lives hard

cococandy:
Fine girl. You’re better than me. I think men who are heartless and don’t think twice about hurting women should have some of their kids fathered by other men.
It’s only fair.

See I didn’t earn my man hater title by being nice🤭 🤣😭

Sorry to all the good men. May they not suffer from the evil of their fellow guys.

Fiscus105:
Instead for you to learn from experience and how guard your own relationship/marriage, keep attacking and critical.


If I mention a particular psychologist or certain client.

Stop attacking every comment as if it's Obi vs Tinubu, you will learn from it going forward.

malakaimoscondo:
Serious this i funny...... particular the place the man said he was the one who did all the kids naming ceremony....fear any gender that bleed 🩸 every month and still remain healthy..then fear who no fear woman

pocohantas:
Hahaha. Tbh, it is not even about them, because many of them are not good people. It is for humanity and ones conscience. That is why I don't see anything wrong with a woman leaving a community husband. It is better to go out there and do whatever you want, than desecrate the sanctity of marriage.

cococandy:
Agreed. I’m always a fierce advocate for divorce before misery.

But since some women would rather die than be divorced, they better learn how to make their miserable situations work for them.

Plus I’m a bit evil🤭🤭. I like to see nairaland men wailing about cheating women. When we know that in the next thread, they’ll 100% be in support because a guy was the culprit.

DEROX:
The fact that you married them is your crime why didn't you go to east africa and see good women wasting away there? They told us they can't be like our mothers in other words they prefer ro be slu*s

nlfpmod:
https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/actor-tioruju-mondusi-how-i-discovered-2-of-5-kids-i-raised-werent-mine/

I Raised 5 Children... Then DNA Exposed the Truth

- Veteran Nigerian actor Tioruju breaks silence. pic.twitter.com/fWtFQqjYYK

— FunNation_tv (@FunNation_tv) May 17, 2026

Offpoint1:
How married men don't know their biological child right from the day they were born or after a year baffles me.

Your biological child should carry your features or features from your family.

Even if they carry the mother features, some of your features will be visible. Nature isn't stű}pid

DEROX:
The fact that you married them is your crime why didn't you go to east africa and see good women wasting away there? They told us they can't be like our mothers in other words they prefer ro be slu*s

pocohantas:
Infidelity didn't start today, so I am always surprised when people act like it is a modern problem. Married women are dating other men. Married men especially. Na Chike own cast, but it happening steady in this religious Nigeria. In the past there was no social media and widespread technology to establish evidence. Also it is an ego thing for men, many would take it to their grave than admit it openly.

Either way, paternity fraud is terrible.
Away from all the agenda and gender war, no woman should cheat and pass off a child to another man. It is unfair to the child and the man too. A very high level of betrayal that should be shunned. If everyone continues like this, the family unit would breakdown in a few years.

Onegai:
Almost every hospital in Lagos is now offering DNA test. I went to a Maternity section of a hospital last week and they were offering DNA testing. The thing is serious.

It's very hard to catch Paternitys fraud because African babies don't look like any relative until they grow up. It's not like Oyinbo babies where 2 black haired brown-eyed people can't have a blonde blue-eyed baby without some concern or even a baby with a cleft chin.

pocohantas:
Infidelity didn't start today, so I am always surprised when people act like it is a modern problem. Married women are dating other men. Married men especially. Na Chike own cast, but it happening steady in this religious Nigeria. In the past there was no social media and widespread technology to establish evidence. Also it is an ego thing for men, many would take it to their grave than admit it openly.

Either way, paternity fraud is terrible.
Away from all the agenda and gender war, no woman should cheat and pass off a child to another man. It is unfair to the child and the man too. A very high level of betrayal that should be shunned. If everyone continues like this, the family unit would breakdown in a few years.

nlfpmod:
https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/actor-tioruju-mondusi-how-i-discovered-2-of-5-kids-i-raised-werent-mine/

I Raised 5 Children... Then DNA Exposed the Truth

- Veteran Nigerian actor Tioruju breaks silence. pic.twitter.com/fWtFQqjYYK

— FunNation_tv (@FunNation_tv) May 17, 2026

Focusmind:
It also baffles me

The very day my kids were born, i mediately saw my and family features in them - very easy to see

Check the nose, the baby's yawning style, ear, lips and hair strands, especially the foreheads.

Get your own picture when you were born and compare it with your newly born baby

Men that are not involved in the growth of their kids are the people that likely gets this kind of surprise package from the wife.

When you are involved in the life of your child, it becomes easy for you to notice certain behavioral traits.

I bathed my kids when they were small and I talked to them, carried them, looked them face-to-face and i was involved.

There is no way you will not see your features or that of your family

Once you do not see any, you raise alarm and quietly do the DNA if you want.

pocohantas:
That is nice. I haven't seen it at random hospitals, or maybe I wasn't paying attention. Na only family planning I dey see😂.

How much is it, please?

Miggs:
The majority of Nigerian men haven't accepted the reality of their situation that Nigerian women really don't like them .The reaction of the average Nigerian women towards the average Nigerian men is at best exasperation and at worst outright hostility

Offpoint1:
How married men don't know their biological child right from the day they were born or after a year baffles me.

Your biological child should carry your features or feature from your family.

Even if they carry the mother features, some of your features will be visible. Nature isn't stű}pid