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OverCalculating:
Mr Loud! I understand you clearly. We know your type. Na better man you be! You are a STRONG MAN in deed, but I didn't expect you to be LOUD about it.

On another note, next time, write: "This psychological projection of yours will not..." instead of what you wrote up there. Why? It is wrong to use a demonstrative pronoun (This/These) beside a possessive pronoun in a sentence.

May God bless Nigeria 🙏

kiddaz:
I smoke loud daily and I know 100% that I'm better and stronger than you, physically, financially, mentally, psychologically, spiritually, in character, charisma and judgement and in every single way walai. And looking at your profile picture shows you are the very weakling yourself. This your psychological projection will not help you. Accept the truth and work on yourself

Mynd44:
I know the drug addicts will be the first ones to complain.

You fill your brain with hallucinogens daily and think you are "better and stronger" mentally and in judgement?

You are one bad trip away from the psych ward and any person who bets his/her future on you is in danger of a lifetime with someone who can develop a drug-induced neuropsychosis problem.

Heck your comment up there is probably due to hallucinations

OverCalculating:
This isn’t about insulting men; it’s about holding up a mirror and self reflection. The traits below describe a pattern of behavior that I have closely observed in Nigerian men, that quietly erodes self-respect, ambition, and control over their lives. The sad thing is that many of them don't even know about it.

As a man, If you see yourself in several of these points, it’s not a verdict. It’s a starting point. All you need to do is just to recognize the habits, then start finding how to break them and rebuild discipline, purpose, and self-respect.

As a lady, if you observe these habits in your fiancee, you don't need to worsen the case for him by feeling it is normal. It is either you choose to help him rebuild himself with discipline and self respect or just walk away if you think you can't tolerate it.

There is a serious problem with your guy if:


1. He has a victim mentality.

2. He complains instead of fixing his own problems.

3. He's easily influenced and always looking for validation from others.

4. He can't control his sexual urges and food cravings.

5. He has weak eye contact, sloppy handshake, and is afraid to stand for what he believes in.

6. He's a nice guy who's always available.

7. He believes his parents are responsible for his miserable life.

8. He smokes weed. He's a weak man.


9. He distracts himself with pleasure and has no purpose in life.

10. He can't control his emotions and gets easily offended.

11. He is desperate and puts women on a pedestal.

12. Likes gossiping about others.

13. He's fat and in terrible shape but doing nothing about it.

14. There is lack of self-discipline to take action.

15. He gives constant excuses and whine about his problems.

Azazyel:
Good one jare. He's even proud to state how he smokes loud daily. Very terrible! People who do drugs have low self esteem. There's nothing anyone can say to successfully counter this statement

OverCalculating:
This isn’t about insulting men; it’s about holding up a mirror and self reflection.

Mynd44:
I know the drug addicts will be the first ones to complain.

You fill your brain with hallucinogens daily and think you are "better and stronger" mentally and in judgement?

You are one bad trip away from the psych ward and any person who bets his/her future on you is in danger of a lifetime with someone who can develop a drug-induced neuropsychosis problem.

Heck your comment up there is probably due to hallucinations

OverCalculating:
This isn’t about insulting men; it’s about holding up a mirror and self reflection. The traits below describe a pattern of behavior that I have closely observed in Nigerian men, that quietly erodes self-respect, ambition, and control over their lives. The sad thing is that many of them don't even know about it.

As a man, If you see yourself in several of these points, it’s not a verdict. It’s a starting point. All you need to do is just to recognize the habits, then start finding how to break them and rebuild discipline, purpose, and self-respect.

As a lady, if you observe these habits in your fiancee, you don't need to worsen the case for him by feeling it is normal. It is either you choose to help him rebuild himself with discipline and self respect or just walk away if you think you can't tolerate it.

There is a serious problem with your guy if:


1. He has a victim mentality.

2. He complains instead of fixing his own problems.

3. He's easily influenced and always looking for validation from others.

4. He can't control his sexual urges and food cravings.

5. He has weak eye contact, sloppy handshake, and is afraid to stand for what he believes in.

6. He's a nice guy who's always available.

7. He believes his parents are responsible for his miserable life.

8. He smokes weed. He's a weak man.


9. He distracts himself with pleasure and has no purpose in life.

10. He can't control his emotions and gets easily offended.

11. He is desperate and puts women on a pedestal.

12. Likes gossiping about others.

13. He's fat and in terrible shape but doing nothing about it.

14. There is lack of self-discipline to take action.

15. He gives constant excuses and whine about his problems.

8by6incherr:
Oh wizkid and Burna are useless because they smoke.

kiddaz:
I smoke loud daily and I know 100% that I'm better and stronger than you, physically, financially, mentally, psychologically, spiritually, in character, charisma and judgement and in every single way walai. And looking at your profile picture shows you are the very weakling yourself. This your psychological projection will not help you. Accept the truth and work on yourself

Afolue:
stop fooling yourself trying to gain validation from audience. You’re too loud about ignorance. You know nothing more than rumors that last for a lifetime which never is the case. The world is a wicked place and you are part of them. It’s obvious. Pay close attention, observe closely, think deeply and you will come to realize that, what you do not indulge in has been passed on genetically from time immemorial even before all scriptures exists. Shockingly and unfortunately, many are your ancestors. Truth! Take it or leave it. So stop throwing stones at those who came before you and made you who you are! Don’t invite a curse. Never follow the clerics, they are simply trying to put food on their table by retaining followers

Mynd44:
O

It isn't about living long, but the quality of the life you live.

Now if you think a drug addict has a better quality of life than someone who isn't, you must be high

Mynd44:
Another drug addict.

Seek help please

Mynd44:
Another drug addict.

Seek help please

Mynd44:
I know the drug addicts will be the first ones to complain.

You fill your brain with hallucinogens daily and think you are "better and stronger" mentally and in judgement?

You are one bad trip away from the psych ward and any person who bets his/her future on you is in danger of a lifetime with someone who can develop a drug-induced neuropsychosis problem.

Heck your comment up there is probably due to hallucinations

OverCalculating:
Mr Loud! I understand you clearly. We know your type. Na better man you be! You are a STRONG MAN in deed, but I didn't expect you to be LOUD about it.

On another note, next time, write: "This psychological projection of yours will not..." instead of what you wrote up there. Why? It is wrong to use a demonstrative pronoun (This/These) beside a possessive pronoun in a sentence.

May God bless Nigeria 🙏

OverCalculating:
This isn’t about insulting men; it’s about holding up a mirror and self reflection. The traits below describe a pattern of behavior that I have closely observed in Nigerian men, that quietly erodes self-respect, ambition, and control over their lives. The sad thing is that many of them don't even know about it.

As a man, If you see yourself in several of these points, it’s not a verdict. It’s a starting point. All you need to do is just to recognize the habits, then start finding how to break them and rebuild discipline, purpose, and self-respect.

As a lady, if you observe these habits in your fiancee, you don't need to worsen the case for him by feeling it is normal. It is either you choose to help him rebuild himself with discipline and self respect or just walk away if you think you can't tolerate it.

There is a serious problem with your guy if:


1. He has a victim mentality.

2. He complains instead of fixing his own problems.

3. He's easily influenced and always looking for validation from others.

4. He can't control his sexual urges and food cravings.

5. He has weak eye contact, sloppy handshake, and is afraid to stand for what he believes in.

6. He's a nice guy who's always available.

7. He believes his parents are responsible for his miserable life.

8. He smokes weed. He's a weak man.


9. He distracts himself with pleasure and has no purpose in life.

10. He can't control his emotions and gets easily offended.

11. He is desperate and puts women on a pedestal.

12. Likes gossiping about others.

13. He's fat and in terrible shape but doing nothing about it.

14. There is lack of self-discipline to take action.

15. He gives constant excuses and whine about his problems.

Flexyup:
You know read walai for the write up? What else are you looking for again ehn

OverCalculating:
Mr Loud! I understand you clearly. We know your type. Na better man you be! You are a STRONG MAN in deed, but I didn't expect you to be LOUD about it.

On another note, next time, write: "This psychological projection of yours will not..." instead of what you wrote up there. Why? It is wrong to use a demonstrative pronoun

(This/These) beside a possessive pronoun in
a sentence.
There are about 65% of Nigerians who smoke... Are you saying that all these guys are weaklings?

May God bless Nigeria 🙏

JuanDeDios:
Well, "ladies" can flock around a man - doesn't mean any of them loves him.

OverCalculating:
What exactly did you intend to write? I can't comprehend your message. Please, next time, try to write in English Language.

IBB007:
Lol.,.that means all men are weak with this your analysis.,.cos all men have at least four out of your so called weaknesses

Mynd44:
O

It isn't about living long, but the quality of the life you live.

Now if you think a drug addict has a better quality of life than someone who isn't, you must be high

OverCalculating:
This isn’t about insulting men; it’s about holding up a mirror and self reflection. The traits below describe a pattern of behavior that I have closely observed in Nigerian men, that quietly erodes self-respect, ambition, and control over their lives. The sad thing is that many of them don't even know about it.

As a man, If you see yourself in several of these points, it’s not a verdict. It’s a starting point. All you need to do is just to recognize the habits, then start finding how to break them and rebuild discipline, purpose, and self-respect.

As a lady, if you observe these habits in your fiancee, you don't need to worsen the case for him by feeling it is normal. It is either you choose to help him rebuild himself with discipline and self respect or just walk away if you think you can't tolerate it.

There is a serious problem with your guy if:


1. He has a victim mentality.

2. He complains instead of fixing his own problems.

3. He's easily influenced and always looking for validation from others.

4. He can't control his sexual urges and food cravings.

5. He has weak eye contact, sloppy handshake, and is afraid to stand for what he believes in.

6. He's a nice guy who's always available.

7. He believes his parents are responsible for his miserable life.

8. He smokes weed. He's a weak man.


9. He distracts himself with pleasure and has no purpose in life.

10. He can't control his emotions and gets easily offended.

11. He is desperate and puts women on a pedestal.

12. Likes gossiping about others.

13. He's fat and in terrible shape but doing nothing about it.

14. There is lack of self-discipline to take action.

15. He gives constant excuses and whine about his problems.

kiddaz:
I smoke loud daily and I know 100% that I'm better and stronger than you, physically, financially, mentally, psychologically, spiritually, in character, charisma and judgement and in every single way walai. And looking at your profile picture shows you are the very weakling yourself. This your psychological projection will not help you. Accept the truth and work on yourself

OverCalculating:
Mr Loud! I understand you clearly. We know your type. Na better man you be! You are a STRONG MAN in deed, but I didn't expect you to be LOUD about it.

On another note, next time, write: "This psychological projection of yours will not..." instead of what you wrote up there. Why? It is wrong to use a demonstrative pronoun (This/These) beside a possessive pronoun in a sentence.

May God bless Nigeria 🙏

TonyBankz:
Oga go and sit down...whats your contribution and impact to your society and your country Nigeria.
Mr perfect man...remove the log of wood in your eyes before you remove the stick in another person's eye