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Every man will face a season where he has nothing to show. No money. No status. No progress visible to the outside world. That season is not a curse. It is a filter.

The woman who stays during that season is not staying for what you represent. She is staying for you. That is the rarest thing a man can find.

The woman who appears after the harvest is not loyal. She is opportunistic. She timed her arrival perfectly and she knows it. The problem is most men are so relieved by her presence that they forget she was absent during the drought.

Never reward the harvest woman with what only the drought woman deserves. Your loyalty, your commitment and your ring belong to the woman who saw nothing and stayed anyway.

If she was not there when you had nothing, she has no claim on what you build.

There's always a big difference between "who dy for you and who dy wit you"

Genuine lover a man needs is usually when he has nothing. No money, no cars, no empire etc.

There is no genuine love after you have suffer to build your utopia and a woman comes around claiming she loves you. The genuine love I see is the love between you and what you have achieved with the suffering phase you passed through.

Have you forgotten the phrase? He who has money has lots of friends and lovers, but he who has none is lonely and despised.

How can you be lonely during your struggle days and when light start shining on you, boom you don get true love automatically. To the extend you starts spending that same hard earned achievement you have on someone who just popped out from nowhere claiming love, all because she has breast and nyash.
And what even makes you as a rich dude think she really love you as she pop into your life from nowhere?

Well, everybody with their own understanding of I love you.

Most Men hustle just to be a second option.

marcusverum:
Every man will face a season where he has nothing to show. No money. No status. No progress visible to the outside world. That season is not a curse. It is a filter.

The woman who stays during that season is not staying for what you represent. She is staying for you. That is the rarest thing a man can find.

The woman who appears after the harvest is not loyal. She is opportunistic. She timed her arrival perfectly and she knows it. The problem is most men are so relieved by her presence that they forget she was absent during the drought.

Never reward the harvest woman with what only the drought woman deserves. Your loyalty, your commitment and your ring belong to the woman who saw nothing and stayed anyway.

If she was not there when you had nothing, she has no claim on what you build.

True story bro…. However it must be pointed out that she must activate her free will and chose to not coerced to stay nor manipulated to stay. She must have options and still chose to stay, Thats the woman worth marrying. But Thats no excuse to accept mediocre life as a man, always keep striving to be better than yesterday. Get money because even good girl fit turn bar girl without adequate maintenance.

marlow1962:
There's always a big difference between "who dy for you and who dy wit you"

Genuine lover a man needs is usually when he has nothing. No money, no cars, no empire etc.

There is no genuine love after you have suffer to build your utopia and a woman comes around claiming she loves you. The genuine love I see is the love between you and what you have achieved with the suffering phase you passed through.

Have you forgotten the phrase? He who has money has lots of friends and lovers, but he who has none is lonely and despised.

How can you be lonely during your struggle days and when light start shining on you, boom you don get true love automatically. To the extend you starts spending that same hard earned achievement you have on someone who just popped out from nowhere claiming love, all because she has breast and nyash.
And what even makes you as a rich dude think she really love you as she pop into your life from nowhere?

Well, everybody with their own understanding of I love you.

Most Men hustle just to be a second option.

my brother you just said it all. Only simps will fall for these girls trick. Your darkest moments in life will determine if your family members will be closed to you. When you pass through hard times and no woman was there for you if you bounce back you become a beast unless you're a simp. Never pity any woman who never pay the price with you unless you have something to gain from her. Life is a market place only kids play in the market. There's a price for every enagry

FitCorper:
True story bro…. However it must be pointed out that she must activate her free will and chose to not coerced to stay nor manipulated to stay. She must have options and still chose to stay, Thats the woman worth marrying. But Thats no excuse to accept mediocre life as a man, always keep striving to be better than yesterday. Get money because even good girl fit turn bar girl without adequate maintenance.

lmao this talk set always funny me. Na car she be? Girl wey you Neva marry lol.

Problem with most of you men is that you tend to get insecured and start taking your frustrations out on your women during those dry seasons and be expecting them to take everything you throw at them as if they're not humans and they don't have feelings.

That's why they'd eventually end up leaving.