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Ehinjuola:
UPDATE: My Mother-in-Law Finally Called Me

My mother-in-law just called and confirmed that my wife is currently with her.

According to her, when my wife got there, she claimed that I deliberately abandoned her on the road that night. She also said she fell along the way and that she even got home before I did. Honestly, I find that story hard to believe because immediately I noticed she was no longer behind me, I traced my steps back to the exact place where she said she wanted to urinate, but she was nowhere to be found.

From what I was told, she stayed there for several hours before eventually going to her friend’s place to sleep for the night.

My mother-in-law also said my wife told her that if not for her mother and my uncle who accompanied us that day, she wouldn’t have returned home at all.

For those asking why I didn’t try calling her repeatedly that night, her phone was faulty and had already been submitted to a repairer before this incident happened, so reaching her directly was impossible.

To be honest, my instinct has been telling me since the following morning that she was probably already with her mother. That is why her mother kept insisting that I shouldn’t report the issue to her father. Looking back now, it all makes sense.

At this point, I honestly feel like they are both playing with my emotions and mental state.

What pains me most is that throughout all of this, she never seemed concerned about how worried, confused, and emotionally disturbed I would be after realizing my pregnant wife disappeared in the middle of the night without any explanation for four days.

My wife, my wife..
A lady you have not married yet.
I thought only women are this foo.lish to be referring to a man who has not married them as "husband".

This calls for a DNA test

A word is enough for the wise

You should have spoke to the father since the second day. The last is exhibiting the mothers behavioral pattern.

You too should learn how to live with pregnant women. Pregnancies are alot of stress. When you are under stress, it's normal to behave unconcerned out of frustration

If you want your marriage to last, you have to be more tolerant, patient & understanding, learn to sacrifice more, and don't be Mr. Right all the time.. women don't like looking stupid even though most of them are.

Welcome to the sweet hell called marriage.

op, the girl is still a girlfriend and not your wife yet so stop confusing it……..it is better you leave emotion and use your head and think logically like a man. There are questions I think you still want to ask yourself after seeing this signs already and like they say, after signs, you see wonders

Though you didn’t give us so much details as to your location and if you have ever had disagreements before this one. Marriage is not just a decision you make out of emotions or maybe I guess the pregnancy made you to take the decision to marry but I think you should have a rethink about going ahead with your plans.

And to your girlfriend……I’m sure she is safe somewhere probably with her mother or she already knows are whereabout but don’t want to tell you and that to me is also a big red flag of what is coming if you still go ahead with your plans.

Ehinjuola:
Please, I need sincere advice because my mind is not at rest anymore. What started as a normal family visit has suddenly turned into something I never imagined in my life.
My wife and I went to her family house to discuss our forthcoming engagement and other marriage arrangements since she is already pregnant. The discussion took longer than expected, and before we knew it, it was already late in the evening. To make matters worse, rain started falling heavily, and getting transportation back home became very difficult.

I was outside in the rain, moving around and searching for a vehicle that could convey us and my uncle, who accompanied me, back home safely. Throughout that stressful moment, my wife didn’t even seem concerned. She stayed where she was without making any effort to assist or even show worry about the situation. Surprisingly, her mother later came out to meet me at the roadside, praying and hoping we would find a vehicle soon. Even her father’s younger brother joined me in searching for transportation.

After almost one hour, we finally got a cab. While we were inside the vehicle, my wife tried to start a conversation, but I was already upset and disappointed, so I kept quiet. After dropping my uncle close to his destination, we continued our journey home in silence.

At some point on the road, I finally spoke out in anger. I asked her why she behaved so unconcerned despite the fact that we came to her family house for something very important concerning our future together. Instead of calming things down, she became angry too and started saying hurtful words back at me.

As we were walking home, she suddenly said she wanted to ease herself by the roadside. Because I was still angry, I continued walking slowly ahead without paying much attention. After a few minutes, I looked back and realized she was no longer behind me.
I immediately returned to the exact spot where she said she wanted to ease herself, but I couldn’t find her anywhere.
Since that night, my wife has been missing for 4 days.

I have contacted her mother several times, but she told me not to report the matter to her father yet. According to her, she believes her daughter is safe and will eventually return home. But honestly, I’m becoming very suspicious and confused. Part of me feels she may know where my wife is hiding, but I can’t say for sure.

What keeps disturbing me the most is this: Where did my pregnant wife sleep that night? Who is she with? Is she safe? And why would she disappear without contacting anyone for 4 days?

Right now, I’m emotionally exhausted and scared. I truly love my wife despite our misunderstanding, and I never imagined something like this would happen over an argument.

Please, experienced married men and women on this forum, what should I do at this point? Should I involve her father and report this officially, or should I still keep waiting and hope she comes back on her own?

That mother inlaw na devil, you are been manipulated

Going to discuss marriage plans without a car of your own in Nigeria is a crime.

She is upset, her family made it worse...they looked at her like a failure...they may pretend to understand but its all a facade.

They may be up to something...Are you sure the child is yours?

Has the parents of the lady given you their consent or because the lady is pregnant for you that is why you chose to use the word "pregnant wife"?

You are perceiving signs. Is it how you guys nurtured your courtship and friendship? Anger destroy many things. Sometimes, we let go somethings when it happens directly and indirectly.

When the atmosphere is good. You then discuss it. We mankind are full of expectations - when it does workout as we envisaged. We allowed it to take control of us.

From your explanation - somethings happened at the lady's parents place. And you and your relatives fails to read the body language. You got angry with your said wife nonchalant attitude and you didn't reflect back on how you guys are managing eachother.

Whenever she returns make peace with her first due to her conditions and do proper investigation on the decision made for her disappearance. Was it deliberately or accidentally.

I agree with you to a certain extent. The only place I disagree is keeping mute. Her mum knows where she is. The OP better call the father and let him know that she is missing. If anything happens, they will turn it on him.

janvier27:
There must have been a communication breakdown somewhere before or during your search for vehicle. In my opinion, since it was a special one-off event, you could have made advance arrangements for transports. You probably overreacted or expected too much from a stressed pregnant woman. I think you should follow what her mother says. She'll reappear & if she's got no good explanation for her disappearance, you may have to reconsider your plans with her.

She's yet to be your wife since you are still discussing engagement. Why the need to get angry over something very flimsy? Do you expect a pregnant woman to stand in the rain with you struggling to get a cab? Why didn't you go with a car to your supposed in-laws house? They will size you up

Ehinjuola:
Please, I need sincere advice because my mind is not at rest anymore. What started as a normal family visit has suddenly turned into something I never imagined in my life.
My wife and I went to her family house to discuss our forthcoming engagement and other marriage arrangements since she is already pregnant. The discussion took longer than expected, and before we knew it, it was already late in the evening. To make matters worse, rain started falling heavily, and getting transportation back home became very difficult.

I was outside in the rain, moving around and searching for a vehicle that could convey us and my uncle, who accompanied me, back home safely. Throughout that stressful moment, my wife didn’t even seem concerned. She stayed where she was without making any effort to assist or even show worry about the situation. Surprisingly, her mother later came out to meet me at the roadside, praying and hoping we would find a vehicle soon. Even her father’s younger brother joined me in searching for transportation.

After almost one hour, we finally got a cab. While we were inside the vehicle, my wife tried to start a conversation, but I was already upset and disappointed, so I kept quiet. After dropping my uncle close to his destination, we continued our journey home in silence.

At some point on the road, I finally spoke out in anger. I asked her why she behaved so unconcerned despite the fact that we came to her family house for something very important concerning our future together. Instead of calming things down, she became angry too and started saying hurtful words back at me.

As we were walking home, she suddenly said she wanted to ease herself by the roadside. Because I was still angry, I continued walking slowly ahead without paying much attention. After a few minutes, I looked back and realized she was no longer behind me.
I immediately returned to the exact spot where she said she wanted to ease herself, but I couldn’t find her anywhere.
Since that night, my wife has been missing for 4 days.

I have contacted her mother several times, but she told me not to report the matter to her father yet. According to her, she believes her daughter is safe and will eventually return home. But honestly, I’m becoming very suspicious and confused. Part of me feels she may know where my wife is hiding, but I can’t say for sure.

What keeps disturbing me the most is this: Where did my pregnant wife sleep that night? Who is she with? Is she safe? And why would she disappear without contacting anyone for 4 days?

Right now, I’m emotionally exhausted and scared. I truly love my wife despite our misunderstanding, and I never imagined something like this would happen over an argument.

Please, experienced married men and women on this forum, what should I do at this point? Should I involve her father and report this officially, or should I still keep waiting and hope she comes back on her own?

Double0h7:
Damn, you left your pregnant wife in a bush in the middle of the road at night! She disappeared for 4 days and you didn’t think to call her father or the police. This is so wild that I need a nap before I advice you 🤦‍♀️

i be man but dont mind the nigga.. you get mind leave your pregnant wife alone and walk away while urinating, abeg who was suppose to be by her side while she urinate and scan the environ for her against wannabes moving around... as if that wasnt enough you slept in your house that night without seeing her ( i wont even be able to sleep even the girl is begger im walking with or my slave talk more of my wife...baba u be demon) and went on to stay for 4 days without over panicking...mr man you are a real devil and it will be wise for the lady to run from you...woman have mood swing during pregnacne, even the coolest among them still do and even if she didnt and just normal girlie behaviour, as a leader you are supposed to manage it maturely and better.. there is nothing bad in fighting or having argument, the maturity is to understand that even in argument and fighting you are still one with eachother priority to be selflesshness with you as a man leading it

The best suggestion from me is to report to the father, else.......

I don't trust her mum. Why will she tell you not to inform the father? You shouldn't have listened to her. Security in Nigeria doesn't allow for such carelessness.

To all husbands-to-be, settle scores immediately and make safety a priority!!!

I pray you see her soon and safely

The lady's family don bill the op wetin no good for bride price/marriage list, bro transfer the anger on his innocent pregnant babe with excuse of not coming out in the rain to help look for cab. Op you are not ready or mature enough to be a husband, and if you go ahead and marry this lady I pray it doesn't end in disaster. Go work on your anger issue bro...

shortgun:
Case of a missing person is a very serious one. You shouldn't have allowed the two women toss and play you around like ping pong. As a man you should always take charge in situations like these.

What I am trying to say is that you shouldn't have obeyed the mum like a 5 year old kid when she instructed you not to tell her dad. The two women just deliberately made you to suffer because they know you can be easily manipulated. It was your punishment for questioning her actions.

The guy is lying and a demon. How can have the presence of mind to sleep in your house that night without seeing someone you were walking with ooo.. Imagine sleeping soundly without seeing you were you were walking with on the road side all because of small fight.. What will someone like this guy do if they fought and the wife was on a journey by herself.. That Lady is in serious Bleep if he marries someone like this guy..

Ehinjuola:
Please, I need sincere advice because my mind is not at rest anymore. What started as a normal family visit has suddenly turned into something I never imagined in my life.
My wife and I went to her family house to discuss our forthcoming engagement and other marriage arrangements since she is already pregnant. The discussion took longer than expected, and before we knew it, it was already late in the evening. To make matters worse, rain started falling heavily, and getting transportation back home became very difficult.

I was outside in the rain, moving around and searching for a vehicle that could convey us and my uncle, who accompanied me, back home safely. Throughout that stressful moment, my wife didn’t even seem concerned. She stayed where she was without making any effort to assist or even show worry about the situation. Surprisingly, her mother later came out to meet me at the roadside, praying and hoping we would find a vehicle soon. Even her father’s younger brother joined me in searching for transportation.

After almost one hour, we finally got a cab. While we were inside the vehicle, my wife tried to start a conversation, but I was already upset and disappointed, so I kept quiet. After dropping my uncle close to his destination, we continued our journey home in silence.

At some point on the road, I finally spoke out in anger. I asked her why she behaved so unconcerned despite the fact that we came to her family house for something very important concerning our future together. Instead of calming things down, she became angry too and started saying hurtful words back at me.

As we were walking home, she suddenly said she wanted to ease herself by the roadside. Because I was still angry, I continued walking slowly ahead without paying much attention. After a few minutes, I looked back and realized she was no longer behind me.
I immediately returned to the exact spot where she said she wanted to ease herself, but I couldn’t find her anywhere.
Since that night, my wife has been missing for 4 days.

I have contacted her mother several times, but she told me not to report the matter to her father yet. According to her, she believes her daughter is safe and will eventually return home. But honestly, I’m becoming very suspicious and confused. Part of me feels she may know where my wife is hiding, but I can’t say for sure.

What keeps disturbing me the most is this: Where did my pregnant wife sleep that night? Who is she with? Is she safe? And why would she disappear without contacting anyone for 4 days?

Right now, I’m emotionally exhausted and scared. I truly love my wife despite our misunderstanding, and I never imagined something like this would happen over an argument.

Please, experienced married men and women on this forum, what should I do at this point? Should I involve her father and report this officially, or should I still keep waiting and hope she comes back on her own?

She's emotionally blackmailing you bro, and this is just the beginning. Besides, you sound like an emotionally weak man. And l also know too well that you're missing the mind-blowing sex she offers you every night. An emotionally weak man that can't control his sexual desires just for a few days, that's a perfect recipe for disaster bro! So l really pity you for that marriage abi na relationship sef. By the time she's done with you eh, you will go and start reading "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar.

Ehinjuola:
Please, I need sincere advice because my mind is not at rest anymore. What started as a normal family visit has suddenly turned into something I never imagined in my life.
My wife and I went to her family house to discuss our forthcoming engagement and other marriage arrangements since she is already pregnant. The discussion took longer than expected, and before we knew it, it was already late in the evening. To make matters worse, rain started falling heavily, and getting transportation back home became very difficult.

I was outside in the rain, moving around and searching for a vehicle that could convey us and my uncle, who accompanied me, back home safely. Throughout that stressful moment, my wife didn’t even seem concerned. She stayed where she was without making any effort to assist or even show worry about the situation. Surprisingly, her mother later came out to meet me at the roadside, praying and hoping we would find a vehicle soon. Even her father’s younger brother joined me in searching for transportation.

After almost one hour, we finally got a cab. While we were inside the vehicle, my wife tried to start a conversation, but I was already upset and disappointed, so I kept quiet. After dropping my uncle close to his destination, we continued our journey home in silence.

At some point on the road, I finally spoke out in anger. I asked her why she behaved so unconcerned despite the fact that we came to her family house for something very important concerning our future together. Instead of calming things down, she became angry too and started saying hurtful words back at me.

As we were walking home, she suddenly said she wanted to ease herself by the roadside. Because I was still angry, I continued walking slowly ahead without paying much attention. After a few minutes, I looked back and realized she was no longer behind me.
I immediately returned to the exact spot where she said she wanted to ease herself, but I couldn’t find her anywhere.
Since that night, my wife has been missing for 4 days.

I have contacted her mother several times, but she told me not to report the matter to her father yet. According to her, she believes her daughter is safe and will eventually return home. But honestly, I’m becoming very suspicious and confused. Part of me feels she may know where my wife is hiding, but I can’t say for sure.

What keeps disturbing me the most is this: Where did my pregnant wife sleep that night? Who is she with? Is she safe? And why would she disappear without contacting anyone for 4 days?

Right now, I’m emotionally exhausted and scared. I truly love my wife despite our misunderstanding, and I never imagined something like this would happen over an argument.

Please, experienced married men and women on this forum, what should I do at this point? Should I involve her father and report this officially, or should I still keep waiting and hope she comes back on her own?

All you immature boys trying to have a wife would not stop amazing us....a pregnant woman should join you to "look" for cab beside the road despite her mom was with you and your uncle looking for cab, what was her presence beside the road got to do with finding a cab?

You are not truly ready for marriage and my guess is that is the first time you ever met her people but you have got her pregnant already.

If you leave her because of this then you have done her a favour because marrying an immature man is like living with a nagging wife. So carry your anger and entitlement issues to another woman.

Bad mother in- law and this is just the beginning of what you re about to see. my advice is be very close to your father inlaw. only him can tell you tge real character of his wife.

psalmsjob:
All you immature boys trying to have a wife would not stop amazing us....a pregnant woman should join you to "look" for cab beside the road despite her mom was with you and your uncle looking for cab, what was her presence beside the road got to do with finding a cab?

You are not truly ready for marriage and my guess is that is the first time you ever met her people but you have got her pregnant already.

If you leave her because of this then you have done her a favour because marrying an immature man is like living with a nagging wife. So carry your anger and entitlement issues to another woman.

Fact... I dey really feel shame for the guy

No Uber for una area?

Ehinjuola:
Please, I need sincere advice because my mind is not at rest anymore. What started as a normal family visit has suddenly turned into something I never imagined in my life.
My wife and I went to her family house to discuss our forthcoming engagement and other marriage arrangements since she is already pregnant. The discussion took longer than expected, and before we knew it, it was already late in the evening. To make matters worse, rain started falling heavily, and getting transportation back home became very difficult.

I was outside in the rain, moving around and searching for a vehicle that could convey us and my uncle, who accompanied me, back home safely. Throughout that stressful moment, my wife didn’t even seem concerned. She stayed where she was without making any effort to assist or even show worry about the situation. Surprisingly, her mother later came out to meet me at the roadside, praying and hoping we would find a vehicle soon. Even her father’s younger brother joined me in searching for transportation.

After almost one hour, we finally got a cab. While we were inside the vehicle, my wife tried to start a conversation, but I was already upset and disappointed, so I kept quiet. After dropping my uncle close to his destination, we continued our journey home in silence.

At some point on the road, I finally spoke out in anger. I asked her why she behaved so unconcerned despite the fact that we came to her family house for something very important concerning our future together. Instead of calming things down, she became angry too and started saying hurtful words back at me.

As we were walking home, she suddenly said she wanted to ease herself by the roadside. Because I was still angry, I continued walking slowly ahead without paying much attention. After a few minutes, I looked back and realized she was no longer behind me.
I immediately returned to the exact spot where she said she wanted to ease herself, but I couldn’t find her anywhere.
Since that night, my wife has been missing for 4 days.

I have contacted her mother several times, but she told me not to report the matter to her father yet. According to her, she believes her daughter is safe and will eventually return home. But honestly, I’m becoming very suspicious and confused. Part of me feels she may know where my wife is hiding, but I can’t say for sure.

What keeps disturbing me the most is this: Where did my pregnant wife sleep that night? Who is she with? Is she safe? And why would she disappear without contacting anyone for 4 days?

Right now, I’m emotionally exhausted and scared. I truly love my wife despite our misunderstanding, and I never imagined something like this would happen over an argument.

Please, experienced married men and women on this forum, what should I do at this point? Should I involve her father and report this officially, or should I still keep waiting and hope she comes back on her own?

The earlier you reported this to the police, the better for you!!!
Remember, you are the last to see her..pls, go and report the matter

Ehinjuola:
Please, I need sincere advice because my mind is not at rest anymore. What started as a normal family visit has suddenly turned into something I never imagined in my life.
My wife and I went to her family house to discuss our forthcoming engagement and other marriage arrangements since she is already pregnant. The discussion took longer than expected, and before we knew it, it was already late in the evening. To make matters worse, rain started falling heavily, and getting transportation back home became very difficult.

I was outside in the rain, moving around and searching for a vehicle that could convey us and my uncle, who accompanied me, back home safely. Throughout that stressful moment, my wife didn’t even seem concerned. She stayed where she was without making any effort to assist or even show worry about the situation. Surprisingly, her mother later came out to meet me at the roadside, praying and hoping we would find a vehicle soon. Even her father’s younger brother joined me in searching for transportation.

After almost one hour, we finally got a cab. While we were inside the vehicle, my wife tried to start a conversation, but I was already upset and disappointed, so I kept quiet. After dropping my uncle close to his destination, we continued our journey home in silence.

At some point on the road, I finally spoke out in anger. I asked her why she behaved so unconcerned despite the fact that we came to her family house for something very important concerning our future together. Instead of calming things down, she became angry too and started saying hurtful words back at me.

As we were walking home, she suddenly said she wanted to ease herself by the roadside. Because I was still angry, I continued walking slowly ahead without paying much attention. After a few minutes, I looked back and realized she was no longer behind me.
I immediately returned to the exact spot where she said she wanted to ease herself, but I couldn’t find her anywhere.
Since that night, my wife has been missing for 4 days.

I have contacted her mother several times, but she told me not to report the matter to her father yet. According to her, she believes her daughter is safe and will eventually return home. But honestly, I’m becoming very suspicious and confused. Part of me feels she may know where my wife is hiding, but I can’t say for sure.

What keeps disturbing me the most is this: Where did my pregnant wife sleep that night? Who is she with? Is she safe? And why would she disappear without contacting anyone for 4 days?

Right now, I’m emotionally exhausted and scared. I truly love my wife despite our misunderstanding, and I never imagined something like this would happen over an argument.

Please, experienced married men and women on this forum, what should I do at this point? Should I involve her father and report this officially, or should I still keep waiting and hope she comes back on her own?

The best thing to do now given that her mother says you should relax and not tell her father is to.

Call the mother (record this call) tell her it's been 5 days since you guys came for the event at their house take time to mention dates and how you left the premises and the time you left. Then ask why is she still saying you should wait after this long period of time.

Recording the above is evidence that her mother is aware of it all and she's the reason you've kept quiet ( this is for backup in case the mum later says she knows nothing about it).

The tell the mum you will call the father to explain everything. Her reaction will tell you what next... Then proceed from there. You need that recording first else, you fit go jail for murder ooo. While the assumed victim is somewhere enjoying herself with the main father of the child.

Ehinjuola:
UPDATE: My Mother-in-Law Finally Called Me

My mother-in-law just called and confirmed that my wife is currently with her.

According to her, when my wife got there, she claimed that I deliberately abandoned her on the road that night. She also said she fell along the way and that she even got home before I did. Honestly, I find that story hard to believe because immediately I noticed she was no longer behind me, I traced my steps back to the exact place where she said she wanted to urinate, but she was nowhere to be found.

From what I was told, she stayed there for several hours before eventually going to her friend’s place to sleep for the night.

My mother-in-law also said my wife told her that if not for her mother and my uncle who accompanied us that day, she wouldn’t have returned home at all.

For those asking why I didn’t try calling her repeatedly that night, her phone was faulty and had already been submitted to a repairer before this incident happened, so reaching her directly was impossible.

To be honest, my instinct has been telling me since the following morning that she was probably already with her mother. That is why her mother kept insisting that I shouldn’t report the issue to her father. Looking back now, it all makes sense.

At this point, I honestly feel like they are both playing with my emotions and mental state.

What pains me most is that throughout all of this, she never seemed concerned about how worried, confused, and emotionally disturbed I would be after realizing my pregnant wife disappeared in the middle of the night without any explanation for four days.

Bro, be very careful in future!

Ehinjuola:
Please, I need sincere advice because my mind is not at rest anymore. What started as a normal family visit has suddenly turned into something I never imagined in my life.
My wife and I went to her family house to discuss our forthcoming engagement and other marriage arrangements since she is already pregnant. The discussion took longer than expected, and before we knew it, it was already late in the evening. To make matters worse, rain started falling heavily, and getting transportation back home became very difficult.

I was outside in the rain, moving around and searching for a vehicle that could convey us and my uncle, who accompanied me, back home safely. Throughout that stressful moment, my wife didn’t even seem concerned. She stayed where she was without making any effort to assist or even show worry about the situation. Surprisingly, her mother later came out to meet me at the roadside, praying and hoping we would find a vehicle soon. Even her father’s younger brother joined me in searching for transportation.

After almost one hour, we finally got a cab. While we were inside the vehicle, my wife tried to start a conversation, but I was already upset and disappointed, so I kept quiet. After dropping my uncle close to his destination, we continued our journey home in silence.

At some point on the road, I finally spoke out in anger. I asked her why she behaved so unconcerned despite the fact that we came to her family house for something very important concerning our future together. Instead of calming things down, she became angry too and started saying hurtful words back at me.

As we were walking home, she suddenly said she wanted to ease herself by the roadside. Because I was still angry, I continued walking slowly ahead without paying much attention. After a few minutes, I looked back and realized she was no longer behind me.
I immediately returned to the exact spot where she said she wanted to ease herself, but I couldn’t find her anywhere.
Since that night, my wife has been missing for 4 days.

I have contacted her mother several times, but she told me not to report the matter to her father yet. According to her, she believes her daughter is safe and will eventually return home. But honestly, I’m becoming very suspicious and confused. Part of me feels she may know where my wife is hiding, but I can’t say for sure.

What keeps disturbing me the most is this: Where did my pregnant wife sleep that night? Who is she with? Is she safe? And why would she disappear without contacting anyone for 4 days?

Right now, I’m emotionally exhausted and scared. I truly love my wife despite our misunderstanding, and I never imagined something like this would happen over an argument.

Please, experienced married men and women on this forum, what should I do at this point? Should I involve her father and report this officially, or should I still keep waiting and hope she comes back on her own?

she went to meet the true father who gave her the pregnancy

Do DNA test for that child after birth.

I wonder why people don’t see these kind of red flags (a partner you can’t talk to) before marriage.

God help us

Ehinjuola:
UPDATE: My Mother-in-Law Finally Called Me

My mother-in-law just called and confirmed that my wife is currently with her.

According to her, when my wife got there, she claimed that I deliberately abandoned her on the road that night. She also said she fell along the way and that she even got home before I did. Honestly, I find that story hard to believe because immediately I noticed she was no longer behind me, I traced my steps back to the exact place where she said she wanted to urinate, but she was nowhere to be found.

…..

Is your mother-in-law happily married, living with her husband or a divorcee? Omo God will help you oo

I don’t know how you people do it. You go see problems, then put your two legs inside

4 days Guy you funny sha and you say you love her. For the mother to say she will come back means she must have been doing such things before now but omo If na me that same day every where go scatter!

All these ones no concern me again abeg. Anyhow anybody like to dey, make dem dey. Prego on the run with BBC

angelboy01:
Bros let's be realistic here, you let your woman and your unborn child down, you seem to have anger issues and that's where the problem lies. Work on your anger.

Yes op has a fault but the MIL is worse, she hid her daughter instead of being a mediator she was an instigator.
She will cause more problems for them

Ehinjuola:
UPDATE: My Mother-in-Law Finally Called Me

My mother-in-law just called and confirmed that my wife is currently with her.

According to her, when my wife got there, she claimed that I deliberately abandoned her on the road that night. She also said she fell along the way and that she even got home before I did. Honestly, I find that story hard to believe because immediately I noticed she was no longer behind me, I traced my steps back to the exact place where she said she wanted to urinate, but she was nowhere to be found.

From what I was told, she stayed there for several hours before eventually going to her friend’s place to sleep for the night.

My mother-in-law also said my wife told her that if not for her mother and my uncle who accompanied us that day, she wouldn’t have returned home at all.

For those asking why I didn’t try calling her repeatedly that night, her phone was faulty and had already been submitted to a repairer before this incident happened, so reaching her directly was impossible.

To be honest, my instinct has been telling me since the following morning that she was probably already with her mother. That is why her mother kept insisting that I shouldn’t report the issue to her father. Looking back now, it all makes sense.

At this point, I honestly feel like they are both playing with my emotions and mental state.

What pains me most is that throughout all of this, she never seemed concerned about how worried, confused, and emotionally disturbed I would be after realizing my pregnant wife disappeared in the middle of the night without any explanation for four days.

my honest advice for you is to call off the wedding. Take care of your child. Make you no go die before your time. You're now seeing the signs. No wait make you start to see the wonders. Don't say you weren't warned.

These are signs to let u know that more things are yet to come. wise up man.

Ehinjuola:
UPDATE: My Mother-in-Law Finally Called Me

My mother-in-law just called and confirmed that my wife is currently with her.

According to her, when my wife got there, she claimed that I deliberately abandoned her on the road that night. She also said she fell along the way and that she even got home before I did. Honestly, I find that story hard to believe because immediately I noticed she was no longer behind me, I traced my steps back to the exact place where she said she wanted to urinate, but she was nowhere to be found.

From what I was told, she stayed there for several hours before eventually going to her friend’s place to sleep for the night.

My mother-in-law also said my wife told her that if not for her mother and my uncle who accompanied us that day, she wouldn’t have returned home at all.

For those asking why I didn’t try calling her repeatedly that night, her phone was faulty and had already been submitted to a repairer before this incident happened, so reaching her directly was impossible.

To be honest, my instinct has been telling me since the following morning that she was probably already with her mother. That is why her mother kept insisting that I shouldn’t report the issue to her father. Looking back now, it all makes sense.

At this point, I honestly feel like they are both playing with my emotions and mental state.

What pains me most is that throughout all of this, she never seemed concerned about how worried, confused, and emotionally disturbed I would be after realizing my pregnant wife disappeared in the middle of the night without any explanation for four days.

Bizmind95:
She's emotionally blackmailing you bro, and this is just the beginning. Besides, you sound like an emotionally weak man. And l also know too well that you're missing the mind-blowing sex she offers you every night. An emotionally weak man that can't control his sexual desires for a few days, that's a perfect recipe for disaster bro. So l really pity you for that marriage. By the time she's done with you eh, you will go and start reading "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar.

e go think say na play. 😁😁