My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

E choke o. Abeg call her one on one and tell her pump and plain that you are done. She left, why is she back? Because the grass is greener now? Heck!

Na Ogun go kill ur ex

Take ur girlfriend and move far away from her nah, When u re not dumbed.

I want to hear your wife's side of the story before I comment.

Share this link with her so she can respond

Wahala be like shit way no wan smell

Wahala everyday

alphaNomega:
I want to hear your wife's side of the story before I comment.

Share this link with her so she can respond

He said he no want again..

Na by force?

Go and divorce her legally..

Divorce her properly and marry your gf. These things are simple fa!

Sorry o, which of the brother in-law helped you? Ur ex bro in-law or the new girl?

If you don't want her in your life, kindly divorce her properly. But before you do, speak to your said " In-law "

sisisioge:
Divorce her properly and marry your gf. These things are simple fa!

.....Simple.

Have you divorced her before deciding to marry your new gf? You may find yourself in hot soup o...my 2cents!

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything she took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere I couldn't reached her to speak with my children. I have tried teaching her parents to no avail but now that things are going well for me my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God grace. Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend she is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this not girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she want to play victim and putting the blame on my girl. I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do

Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife?

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours?

Kobojunkie:
Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife?

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours?

.....Did you read where he said she blocked all avenues for reaching them? Why do you like arguing just to be politically correct ?

You said your ex wife's brother helped you with business and you are now back on your feet ? Yet want to dump her?

Y'ALL SHOULD STOP MENTIONING ME, THERE ARE OTHER COMMENTS TO RESPOND TO. What I typed is none of your businesses.

Wawelexy:
Sorry o, which of the brother in-law helped you? Ur ex bro in-law or the new girl?

My elder sister husband

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Did you read where he said she blocked all avenues for reaching them? Why do you like arguing just to be politically correct ?

Try to engage those brain cells of yours every so often...

Again, Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife?

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours?

Wife disappeared
In-law appeared



That's incredible, sure say na the same blood, maybe na ehm dey give her momentum.

Kobojunkie:
Try to engage those brain cells of yours every so often...

Again, Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife?

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours?

.....I pity you young lady. Keep away from drugs.

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JONNYSPUTE:
.....I pity you young lady. Keep away from drugs.

Try to engage those brain cells of yours every so often...

Again, Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife?

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours?

It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

Klass99:




LMAO, both of you made me laugh.

@ LilMissFavvy, the brother in law assisting with a business that enabled him get back on his feet, is not a valid reason to take her back or continue a marriage, she first checked out on nah.

Try and make a proper divorce arrangement, the one that will involve her family members and yours. After that, get police involve not to arrest her o but they should cut her warnings never to come close to you, your wife or any of your family members. If she fails to adhere then she will face the penalty squarely. What a nicompoo of a woman. You want to reap what you didn't saw.

Again, please collect your children from her.

LilMissFavvy:
You said your ex wife's brother helped you with business and you are now back on your feet ? Yet want to dump her?

.... He said brother in-law and not ex wife brother.

Unique357:


My elder sister husband

OK cool, but u need to divorce your wife legally before u have the full right to go into relationship with someone else....

Her side of the story before we conclude

Oga, your ex can't do anything...

If you want to marry your current gf, please go ahead and do the traditional rites.

Ogbeni, you never talk the role when you play for the matter.
Hence, you never ready to get help.

Hmmm

You need an FFK style on that your ex wife

Give her as e de hot