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Re: My pregnant wife by Gbadugbakun(m): 8:28pm On May 21

Oga find a maid if the chores are too overwhelming for you.

Re: My pregnant wife by chelseamann(m): 8:33pm On May 21

Pregnancy hormones.
Try to Help her in any way u can if possible get a house help.
You see that pregnancy period? It's not easy on them o
They can get angry over irrelevant stuffs o

Re: My pregnant wife by Mathewrichard99: 8:42pm On May 21

That's so heartless of you to say such.

OP, just be patient with her and do your best and let her see that you are doing your best. That stage of pregnancy makes women very erratic..just be gentle and loving. Incase you are buoyant enough, get the clothes to dry cleaners or engage somebody to come wash and clean the house at least twice in a week or so........in all things, show love and understanding to her at this stage. Remember, she's carrying your generation and your future. 😂😂😂

kimjessey2019:
Don't help her at all let her do it. She's not the first woman to get pregnant .

Re: My pregnant wife by Oracleee: 9:00pm On May 21*

Goodman024:
Where in my write-up does it seem like I’m not being empathetic about her condition?
Just shut up if you have nothing meaningful to contribute.

Don't mind kobojunkie. Some comments are meant to be passed and not even read, hers top the list. Anytime I see her post, I just pass without trying to read so as to keep my sanity in check. It's like she is just super bitter over everything.

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Re: My pregnant wife by DONOCSO(m): 9:03pm On May 21

Pregnancy no be sickness

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Re: My pregnant wife by Lamasta(m): 9:03pm On May 21

kimjessey2019:
Don't help her at all let her do it. She's not the first woman to get pregnant .

So you cannot assist your wife at home when she's pregnant huh

Re: My pregnant wife by femi4: 9:06pm On May 21

Goodman024:
Good evening, everyone. Hope y'all had a great day.
I have a question please. I just want to know if am the one not seeing this as I should or something.
So the thing is that my pregnant wife, currently in her 2nd trimester is making it look like I don't assist her enough even though I do help very often, even before she got pregnant. I don't see any big deal in it at all, I cook sometimes, do the whole house cleaning every now and then, and even help her wash her clothes sometimes. But I would say these days I haven't been helping out alot due to work schedule, not that I don't help at all, I still help whenever I can.

But in her own words, it's as if she wants me to do 80% of everything because of her condition. I didn't overreact or anything when she said it, but I was like what sort of talk is that.

I just want to know if she's right and I'm the one not seeing things as I should.

Kindly share your opinion pls.

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You dey follow pregnant woman argue....you never see anything grin

Until she put to bed, just ignore all her shenanigans

Re: My pregnant wife by Heffalump(m): 9:27pm On May 21

Goodman024:
Good evening, everyone. Hope y'all had a great day.
I have a question please. I just want to know if am the one not seeing this as I should or something.
So the thing is that my pregnant wife, currently in her 2nd trimester is making it look like I don't assist her enough even though I do help very often, even before she got pregnant. I don't see any big deal in it at all, I cook sometimes, do the whole house cleaning every now and then, and even help her wash her clothes sometimes. But I would say these days I haven't been helping out alot due to work schedule, not that I don't help at all, I still help whenever I can.

But in her own words, it's as if she wants me to do 80% of everything because of her condition. I didn't overreact or anything when she said it, but I was like what sort of talk is that.
I just want to know if she's right and I'm the one not seeing things as I should.
Kindly share your opinion pls.
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Your first test you failed. Why should you give us google image and expect us to believe your story?

Jokes aside, pregnant women are very emotional and fragile in thought. They're hell loose at the slightest provocation and at this time, the secret a hormone that makes them dislike their partner. It's all natural. They will even forget all you've been doing to support them in their lives prior to the pregnancy condition.

ALL YOU NEED IS PATIENCE!

Re: My pregnant wife by GenFunction: 9:37pm On May 21

Na una first baby be this?
Pls fulfil her fantasy of “when she’s pregnant,you’ll chop your father “
Because sometimes they plan to frustrate whoever their unfortunate husbands when they are heavy .

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Re: My pregnant wife by AMI3(m): 9:44pm On May 21

Goodman024:
Good evening, everyone. Hope y'all had a great day.
I have a question please. I just want to know if am the one not seeing this as I should or something.
So the thing is that my pregnant wife, currently in her 2nd trimester is making it look like I don't assist her enough even though I do help very often, even before she got pregnant. I don't see any big deal in it at all, I cook sometimes, do the whole house cleaning every now and then, and even help her wash her clothes sometimes. But I would say these days I haven't been helping out alot due to work schedule, not that I don't help at all, I still help whenever I can.

But in her own words, it's as if she wants me to do 80% of everything because of her condition. I didn't overreact or anything when she said it, but I was like what sort of talk is that.

I just want to know if she's right and I'm the one not seeing things as I should.

Kindly share your opinion pls.

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Pregnancy the make women angry so over look it.
Don't feel bad .
This moment is not always easy for them

Re: My pregnant wife by westside365: 9:52pm On May 21

What is all these? Haaaa. No more privacy. What is this generation turning into?

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Re: My pregnant wife by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 9:55pm On May 21

Goodman024:
Good evening, everyone. Hope y'all had a great day.
I have a question please. I just want to know if am the one not seeing this as I should or something.
So the thing is that my pregnant wife, currently in her 2nd trimester is making it look like I don't assist her enough even though I do help very often, even before she got pregnant. I don't see any big deal in it at all, I cook sometimes, do the whole house cleaning every now and then, and even help her wash her clothes sometimes. But I would say these days I haven't been helping out alot due to work schedule, not that I don't help at all, I still help whenever I can.

But in her own words, it's as if she wants me to do 80% of everything because of her condition. I didn't overreact or anything when she said it, but I was like what sort of talk is that.

I just want to know if she's right and I'm the one not seeing things as I should.

Kindly share your opinion pls.

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employ house help for now

Re: My pregnant wife by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 9:56pm On May 21

westside365:
What is all these? Haaaa. No more privacy. What is this generation turning into?

what's your problem exactly ?

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Re: My pregnant wife by gigabyte13: 10:01pm On May 21

Baba leave her ooooooo
Nine months go soon finish
Just do your best and let the rest rest.
Pregnant women are certified witch
Nothing dem no fit do or talk
They are very very fearless
Na only child labour dey fear them
Everything na nine months, e go soon end
Sorry eeeeehn
Manage, e no easy to be called DADDY

Re: My pregnant wife by obynokoko: 10:11pm On May 21

Goodman024:
Good evening, everyone. Hope y'all had a great day.
I have a question please. I just want to know if am the one not seeing this as I should or something.
So the thing is that my pregnant wife, currently in her 2nd trimester is making it look like I don't assist her enough even though I do help very often, even before she got pregnant. I don't see any big deal in it at all, I cook sometimes, do the whole house cleaning every now and then, and even help her wash her clothes sometimes. But I would say these days I haven't been helping out alot due to work schedule, not that I don't help at all, I still help whenever I can.

But in her own words, it's as if she wants me to do 80% of everything because of her condition. I didn't overreact or anything when she said it, but I was like what sort of talk is that.

I just want to know if she's right and I'm the one not seeing things as I should.

Kindly share your opinion pls.

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She is a lazy and manipulative woman so better watch however always help when necessary

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Re: My pregnant wife by westside365: 10:53pm On May 21

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
what's your problem exactly ?

My problem is that you children of nowadays dont have privacy neither moral. Social media has become your adviser no more brain. I sorry for you gan. The stupid things displayed on net were things men in 80s or 90s dont do, but little children of nowadays are just funny, no more decency or privacy neither maturity.

Re: My pregnant wife by Beey(f): 11:01pm On May 21

Goodman024:
Good evening, everyone. Hope y'all had a great day.
I have a question please. I just want to know if am the one not seeing this as I should or something.
So the thing is that my pregnant wife, currently in her 2nd trimester is making it look like I don't assist her enough even though I do help very often, even before she got pregnant. I don't see any big deal in it at all, I cook sometimes, do the whole house cleaning every now and then, and even help her wash her clothes sometimes. But I would say these days I haven't been helping out alot due to work schedule, not that I don't help at all, I still help whenever I can.

But in her own words, it's as if she wants me to do 80% of everything because of her condition. I didn't overreact or anything when she said it, but I was like what sort of talk is that.

I just want to know if she's right and I'm the one not seeing things as I should.

Kindly share your opinion pls.

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If you both can afford to hire a domestic manager to help with cooking, laundry & cleaning, that would ease the tension. You both come home tired. Pregnant people are usually tired and want may need extra sleep. Instead of coming to start cooking & cleaning, you can have someone do it. They can either leave with you or be coming everyday or few days a week.

Re: My pregnant wife by Adexvivacity(m): 11:01pm On May 21

Oracleee:
Don't mind kobojunkie. So comments are meant to be passed and not even read, hers too the list. Anytime I see her post, I just pass without trying to read so as to keep my sanity in check. It's like she is just super bitter over everything.

I wonder why people still reply that dude

Re: My pregnant wife by Beey(f): 11:06pm On May 21*

westside365:
My problem is that you children of nowadays dont have privacy neither moral. Social media has become your adviser no more brain. I sorry for you gan. The stupid things displayed on net were things men in 80s or 90s dont do, but little children of nowadays are just funny, no more decency or privacy neither maturity.

There are people who always see the glass as half empty and not half full. They are always negative. What’s wrong with using the Internet to ask for advice? There are people who have gone through pregnancy and can give advice. Did he say his name or do you know him or what do you mean by lack of privacy? If you know it all, good for you. The world is dynamic, and our lifestyles differ from how our grandparents lived. Eg we have microwave, GPS ,Digital camera etc. There are tools out there to teach people. One can learn so much from the internet. It’s not in your place to criticize how others choose to do things. Do you & let others live their way.

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Re: My pregnant wife by westside365: 11:13pm On May 21

Beey:
There are people who always see the glass as half empty and not half full. They are always negative. What’s wrong with using the Internet to ask for advice? There are people who have gone through pregnancy and can give advice. Did he say his name or do you know him? If you know it all, good for you. The world is dynamic, what our grandparents lived, we may live differently now. Eg microwave, GPS ,Digital camera etc. These tools are there to teach people. One can learn so much from the internet. It’s not in your place to criticize how others choose to do things. Do you & let others live their way.

Ah ok Madam.

Re: My pregnant wife by franvincoop: 12:04am On May 22

Na so.
So kobojunkie is now the problem abi?
As a man, u wey never ever menstruate before know more than her abi?
Just because she does not support your sick dark twisted fantasies, she is now super bitter over everything according to you, who has never met her in real life?
Just block kobojunkie permanently so you don't even see her posts.
You are suffering from serious intellectual intolerance and you resemble someone that is trying to use an axe to kill mosquitoes.

Oracleee:
Don't mind kobojunkie. So comments are meant to be passed and not even read, hers too the list. Anytime I see her post, I just pass without trying to read so as to keep my sanity in check. It's like she is just super bitter over everything.

Re: My pregnant wife by TEYA: 4:09am On May 22

Goodman024:
You get my point, I guess I shouldn't have said it that way sha

There is nothing wrong with how you said it! Was it different before she took in or did she start making that demand after pregnancy?

Re: My pregnant wife by Desusi: 4:11am On May 22

chelseamann:
Pregnancy hormones.
Try to Help her in any way u can if possible get a house help.
You see that pregnancy period? It's not easy on them o
They can get angry over irrelevant stuffs o

Thanks for your advice,most people that condemned op for assisting his wife at this crucial time are not married yet.my opinion.Those who say he should look for house help are going extra miles.From my experience,the moment your wife is pregnant,be rest assured,the two of you are carrying the pregnancy.In view of this,her comfort at this time is your comfort where true love exists.Years ago, while in abroad with my wife in pregnancy.The moment my wife is pregnant,l will be assisting her in doing the house shores, interestingly while working l will be having some feverish symptoms like cathar, headache,cold etc but my wife will be strong like a man.Sometimes,my wife will asked, but, sebi na me get pregnant what's your own?Alas until my wife delivered before l have my absolute relief of those symptoms. Such is life my brother! Your wife is only carrying the baby,but you're the one that is pregnant until she delivers,may God strengthen you to do more and may He bless the day of her delivery in Jesus name.Amen.Ire oo.

Re: My pregnant wife by Allahismylord: 4:42am On May 22

Goodman024:
Good evening, everyone. Hope y'all had a great day.
I have a question please. I just want to know if am the one not seeing this as I should or something.
So the thing is that my pregnant wife, currently in her 2nd trimester is making it look like I don't assist her enough even though I do help very often, even before she got pregnant. I don't see any big deal in it at all, I cook sometimes, do the whole house cleaning every now and then, and even help her wash her clothes sometimes. But I would say these days I haven't been helping out alot due to work schedule, not that I don't help at all, I still help whenever I can.

But in her own words, it's as if she wants me to do 80% of everything because of her condition. I didn't overreact or anything when she said it, but I was like what sort of talk is that.

I just want to know if she's right and I'm the one not seeing things as I should.

Kindly share your opinion pls.

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You intentional men will learn the hard lessons you failed to understand from the experience of other men.

The bolded is where you finished yourself as a man.

Haven't you heard before that women are only loyal to their sacrifice. If you do almost everything for her before her current situation, why shouldn't she demand for your head even with your own current busy schedule.

I hope you come out this.

I have a friend who was very assisting for his wife and his wife was still love chatting with her ex. The wife complains too whenever my friend tires out of house chores due to tight work schedule.

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Re: My pregnant wife by Greenfusion: 5:05am On May 22

I think most women like the fantasy of manipulating and controlling their men during pregnancy.

Although, to be factual, its not easy for them, just be patient with them, do the best you can and don't kill yourself, the phase would pass.
Don't let anyone make you feel bad or emotionally blackmail u, ignore them and do your own thing comfortably.

In my own time, i nor gree o, i was blunt at some point, i didn't take every rubbish ( i know say i wicked small, but it had to be done that way), if not, na only me for dey do everything, i for knock down.

In conclusion, try and support her wisely, she needs it.

Re: My pregnant wife by BalogunIdowu(m): 6:42am On May 22

Goodman024:
Yes, we both work. Her work doesn't involve any stress though. It's a local government job, they basically sit in the office from morning till evening.
And of course, I work. I work from 9am to 5pm, Monday to Friday.

They way you rated this her work eh, I believe you rate her beyond that.

Enjoy your marriage
No other thing from you until, date of naming

Re: My pregnant wife by kaywhy09(m): 6:49am On May 22

Even if you do the whole chores, woman will talk. Do what you can. Tell her to do what she can. Leave the rest for much free days.

Above all, DONT LET HER WORDS GET TO YOU!

Re: My pregnant wife by MeaslesMumpsRub: 6:54am On May 22

Oju4190:
What do u mean dat her job is a local Govet job. Dat DEY are sitting all day doing nothing?

Local givernment workers sit down all day doing nothing productive and get paid by month end

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Re: My pregnant wife by descartes400: 7:46am On May 22

dawnomike:
All I can say is that; try to be a patient with her as possible. This phase will pass!!!

Thank your star she has not started telling you to buy her Amala by 3am

No pregnant woman, be she a wife or not will have the audacity to request the likes of such from me in unholy hours, non angry

Re: My pregnant wife by Goo0dHardDick: 7:51am On May 22

Oju4190:
What do u mean dat her job is a local Govet job. Dat DEY are sitting all day doing nothing?

You and know exactly what the OP is saying, so why the pretence?

Re: My pregnant wife by Oracleee: 7:53am On May 22

franvincoop:
Na so.
So kobojunkie is now the problem abi?
As a man, u wey never ever menstruate before know more than her abi?
Just because she does not support your sick dark twisted fantasies, she is now super bitter over everything according to you, who has never met her in real life?
Just block kobojunkie permanently so you don't even see her posts.
You are suffering from serious intellectual intolerance and you resemble someone that is trying to use an axe to kill mosquitoes.

Is everything well at home?

Re: My pregnant wife by Goo0dHardDick: 7:59am On May 22

Goodman024:
Yes, we both work. Her work doesn't involve any stress though. It's a local government job, they basically sit in the office from morning till evening.
And of course, I work. I work from 9am to 5pm, Monday to Friday.

Washing her clothes is an insult to the brotherhood. Oga is she the first woman to get pregnant? Our mothers were pregnant of us, still went to farm, markets, served our fathers food, wash etc. all these Gen z girls are being spoilt and pampered too much. Social media is spoiling things.

Why wash her clothes? What kind of insult is this? She's just manipulating you because she's pregnant. After delivery she'll continue manipulating you to continue washing her clothes and cleaning the house for her. This is a taboo. Is your mother still alive?

Dude, seek advice from her asap. No mother will watch her son washing his wife clothes. She'll tell you you're under spell or JuJu that she herself was pregnant of you and still played her role towards your father.

What you normalized in your relationship is what will always continue. The choice is yours!

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