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“He blocked me because I forgot to clean his house” – Lady shares painful breakup experience

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing how a man allegedly ended their relationship because she forgot to clean up his apartment after spending the night at his place.

According to a video shared on TikTok by a user identified as @Grow_Withsteph, they had been talking for about two months and only recently started dating before she visited his house for the first time.

She explained that she is naturally forgetful and had even warned him before he left for work that morning.

“I’m the kind of person that is very forgetful. I forget things quickly and easily. He told me, ‘Please help me shut my windows if rain falls,’ and I told him to remind me because I would forget,” she said.

The lady said after the man left for work, she slept off again and later left the house without arranging the bed or throwing away the leftover food he bought for her the previous night.

She revealed that the man later complained that his apartment smelled and looked untidy when he returned home.

Despite apologising repeatedly, he allegedly told her he was no longer interested in the relationship before blocking her everywhere.

“He said it might seem small to me, but it’s big to him. The person that had been telling me ‘I love you’ blocked me everywhere without allowing me respond. This is the first time a man is breaking up with me. I’m always the one doing the breakup,” she added.

The story has generated mixed reactions online, with some people saying cleanliness matters in relationships while others felt the man overreacted.

Social media users continue to debate whether the breakup was justified or if the man acted too harshly over the incident.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7641555232220138773?_r=1&_t=ZS-96ZF2qaqz8E

EmmyMaestro:
The person that had been telling me ‘I love you’ blocked me everywhere

Classic Gaslighting tactics.

So because he said HE LOVES YOU automatically means he should overlook all your dirty red flags and stay forever with a pig?

Will you accept such if he comes to your house, used the toilet and FORGET to flush?

Abeg shift with your FAKE story.

Hehehe.

The native hen didn't see it coming .

You went to a mans house and didn't seem it fit to clean . That says a lot about her home training tho.

She has always been the one initiating the break up with all her Ex's . Simply because they were simping around her and no one had the effrontery to tell her to her face that her character sucks

Well,na one person dey break record cha . Now wey she don jam guyman wey no dey take nonsense from banny,Chebi her kolo don mellow

This one lack the foundation of true wife material!!!!!!!


Any woman that can not clean or cook is for the street forever.

But you were not naturally forgetful when he blocked you, you remembered it and decided to share how shameful you're online.

E be like gaslighting online they give una more fans.

EmmyMaestro:
“He blocked me because I forgot to clean his house” – Lady shares painful breakup experience

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing how a man allegedly ended their relationship because she forgot to clean up his apartment after spending the night at his place.

According to a video shared on TikTok by a user identified as @Grow_Withsteph, they had been talking for about two months and only recently started dating before she visited his house for the first time.

She explained that she is naturally forgetful and had even warned him before he left for work that morning.

“I’m the kind of person that is very forgetful. I forget things quickly and easily. He told me, ‘Please help me shut my windows if rain falls,’ and I told him to remind me because I would forget,” she said.

The lady said after the man left for work, she slept off again and later left the house without arranging the bed or throwing away the leftover food he bought for her the previous night.

She revealed that the man later complained that his apartment smelled and looked untidy when he returned home.

Despite apologising repeatedly, he allegedly told her he was no longer interested in the relationship before blocking her everywhere.

“He said it might seem small to me, but it’s big to him. The person that had been telling me ‘I love you’ blocked me everywhere without allowing me respond. [b]This is the first time a man is breaking up with me. I’m always the one doing the breakup,” she added.[/b]

The story has generated mixed reactions online, with some people saying cleanliness matters in relationships while others felt the man overreacted.

Social media users continue to debate whether the breakup was justified or if the man acted too harshly over the incident.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/S9YPMfpkpP9f-vjODii

At the bolded,time has changed,at this dispensation,men no longer tolerate nonsense from a woman he will spend on

Madam as you sabi forget everything, why you no forget to ask the guy for money?
Nigerian women sef ... Tomorrow you go see dem asking so desperate for a husband by attending churches, prayer houses, miracle challenge, social media crying and begging for a man etc. I keep on saying this and I will say it again, "99% of women had good men who wanted to marry them in their prime. Na either her wrong choice or character na drive the man comot". See as she dey gaslight the man 😁, dem must always get an excuse for everything bad. Nowadays, dem don tag runs as hookup, bad character as mood swing. That's really not my business sha, my business na to advise men wey dey marry this week say DNA test is important than naming ceremony for non-virgin partners. If she had sexual discipline, you would have met the door tightly shut and sealed.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

I can't say I blame the man

I don’t see the problem. One good deed deserves another. A bad one should face the same.

EmmyMaestro:
“He blocked me because I forgot to clean his house” – Lady shares painful breakup experience

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing how a man allegedly ended their relationship because she forgot to clean up his apartment after spending the night at his place.

According to a video shared on TikTok by a user identified as @Grow_Withsteph, they had been talking for about two months and only recently started dating before she visited his house for the first time.

She explained that she is naturally forgetful and had even warned him before he left for work that morning.

“I’m the kind of person that is very forgetful. I forget things quickly and easily. He told me, ‘Please help me shut my windows if rain falls,’ and I told him to remind me because I would forget,” she said.

The lady said after the man left for work, she slept off again and later left the house without arranging the bed or throwing away the leftover food he bought for her the previous night.

She revealed that the man later complained that his apartment smelled and looked untidy when he returned home.

Despite apologising repeatedly, he allegedly told her he was no longer interested in the relationship before blocking her everywhere.

“He said it might seem small to me, but it’s big to him. The person that had been telling me ‘I love you’ blocked me everywhere without allowing me respond. This is the first time a man is breaking up with me. I’m always the one doing the breakup,” she added.

The story has generated mixed reactions online, with some people saying cleanliness matters in relationships while others felt the man overreacted.

Social media users continue to debate whether the breakup was justified or if the man acted too harshly over the incident.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/S9YPMfpkpP9f-vjODii

Don't worry now you remember, come and clean my house .

Those things you claim to forget are basic things a woman do on a daily basis. You ain’t used to doing them was why you forgot. As a lady, you wake up in the morning, wash, clean and do some little tidying if not much. Because you’re dirty and your apartment stinks is why you left the guys apartment to stink. I’m so glad the guy didn’t ignore the red flag. Someone like you would forget a child in school or always call your husband to remind you to pick the kids at 3pm. What nonsense!!!!

He didn't love you in the first place you do.That is just the hard truth.If someone you thought you were so close and loved could go to that extent you are yet to find the true love.

He's a smart man
Kundus to him
You can't turn a man's house to a pigsty and still expect to be taken to the altar

It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.

Thelma001:
Those things you claim to forget are basic things a woman do on a daily basis. You ain’t used to doing them was why you forgot. As a lady, you wake up in the morning, wash, clean and do some little tidying if not much. Because you’re dirty and your apartment stinks is why you left the guys apartment to stink. I’m so glad the guy didn’t ignore the red flag. Someone like you would forget a child in school or always call your husband to remind you to pick the kids at 3pm. What nonsense!!!!

So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"

You did not forget
Na so you be

Thelma001:
Those things you claim to forget are basic things a woman do on a daily basis. You ain’t used to doing them was why you forgot. As a lady, you wake up in the morning, wash, clean and do some little tidying if not much. Because you’re dirty and your apartment stinks is why you left the guys apartment to stink. I’m so glad the guy didn’t ignore the red flag. Someone like you would forget a child in school or always call your husband to remind you to pick the kids at 3pm. What nonsense!!!!

Thos one off me. Lolllllll
That's serious

It is a cumulation of many things

That was just the last straw that break the camel’s back

The things people bring online nowadays is crazy.
To get this information from me, you'd need INTERPOL, CIA, MIB, FBI and 3 priest to work together.

Slavery in 2026, better he blocked you

EmmyMaestro:
“He blocked me because I forgot to clean his house” – Lady shares painful breakup experience

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing how a man allegedly ended their relationship because she forgot to clean up his apartment after spending the night at his place.

According to a video shared on TikTok by a user identified as @Grow_Withsteph, they had been talking for about two months and only recently started dating before she visited his house for the first time.

She explained that she is naturally forgetful and had even warned him before he left for work that morning.

“I’m the kind of person that is very forgetful. I forget things quickly and easily. He told me, ‘Please help me shut my windows if rain falls,’ and I told him to remind me because I would forget,” she said.

The lady said after the man left for work, she slept off again and later left the house without arranging the bed or throwing away the leftover food he bought for her the previous night.

She revealed that the man later complained that his apartment smelled and looked untidy when he returned home.

Despite apologising repeatedly, he allegedly told her he was no longer interested in the relationship before blocking her everywhere.

“He said it might seem small to me, but it’s big to him. The person that had been telling me ‘I love you’ blocked me everywhere without allowing me respond. This is the first time a man is breaking up with me. I’m always the one doing the breakup,” she added.

The story has generated mixed reactions online, with some people saying cleanliness matters in relationships while others felt the man overreacted.

Social media users continue to debate whether the breakup was justified or if the man acted too harshly over the incident.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/S9YPMfpkpP9f-vjODii

Does she normally forgets things like going to work ? Her phone at home , her salary, she didn’t forget when they met and started dating .

She only forgets cleaning the house . Nice one .

He did well.

You didn't forget to ask for your tfare money

I did something similar, the lady allowed me to do all the cooking while pressing her phone watching reels all through. After I served her food, a decent portion of the rice fell behind the furniture, she took a quick glance at me to ensure I didn't see it and she just let it slide.

That was the end of the relationship.

She said she has been the one doing the breakups. Now, na man do the breakup. She is really stupid. She has been dishing out what she cannot take. Her type will always shout "Accept me as I am." Men should accept your poor home training and poor behavior? And you are not willing to change? No one one earth is "Naturally forgetful." Let's not normalize nonsense.

Is it that you forgot or that you did not want to do it?

Na wa o
Drama generation
You're forgetful, lazy and untidy...
You're the one always doing the breakup very funny.
Your red flags are so shiny red

israelmao:
He didn't love you in the first place you do.That is just the hard truth.If someone you thought you were so close and loved could go to that extent you are yet to find the true love.

She didn't love him either because she's used to men simping for her.

Keeping a guy waiting for 2 months is a sign she never wanted him in the first place. Meanwhile those 2 months she was entertaining other guys and visiting them, until they dumped her, she then suddenly remembered this one.

U forget to bless his house while busy o. TIKTOK, WHATSAPP ETC

I've been looking for Kobojunkie to comment on this topic and tell us that the man is stupid and crazy. 😁😁

God bless that Man. Nah so u for light him Gas and forget

You dont forget to ask him for money...

you don't forget your account details..

You dont forget to remind him that he has not sent the money for the hair and new phone.

You dont forget to eat when he bought you food..

You dont forget to sleep.....

EmmyMaestro:
“He blocked me because I forgot to clean his house” – Lady shares painful breakup experience

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing how a man allegedly ended their relationship because she forgot to clean up his apartment after spending the night at his place.

According to a video shared on TikTok by a user identified as @Grow_Withsteph, they had been talking for about two months and only recently started dating before she visited his house for the first time.

She explained that she is naturally forgetful and had even warned him before he left for work that morning.

“I’m the kind of person that is very forgetful. I forget things quickly and easily. He told me, ‘Please help me shut my windows if rain falls,’ and I told him to remind me because I would forget,” she said.

The lady said after the man left for work, she slept off again and later left the house without arranging the bed or throwing away the leftover food he bought for her the previous night.

She revealed that the man later complained that his apartment smelled and looked untidy when he returned home.

Despite apologising repeatedly, he allegedly told her he was no longer interested in the relationship before blocking her everywhere.

“He said it might seem small to me, but it’s big to him. The person that had been telling me ‘I love you’ blocked me everywhere without allowing me respond. This is the first time a man is breaking up with me. I’m always the one doing the breakup,” she added.

The story has generated mixed reactions online, with some people saying cleanliness matters in relationships while others felt the man overreacted.

Social media users continue to debate whether the breakup was justified or if the man acted too harshly over the incident.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/S9YPMfpkpP9f-vjODii

Sister forgetful you must have forgotten to clean you yansh after popo too obviously. Abeg carry your forgetful dirtiness and laziness go. I like men like this....this part of what separate men from boys.

This is classic crimson-red flagss no price ham