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My business associate came to my office and we congratulated him on his wife safe delivery and his new baby girl arrival. But we noticed he wasn't happy and asked what was wrong, first he complained about the hospital and its numerous extortions. It's a federal government hospital and he kept saying if he had known he would have gone to a private hospital instead.

His wife has been in the hospital for 2 weeks after she delivered and each day he was asked to pay #10k for the hospital bed, excluding numerous tests and other expenses because his wife delivered through CS.

This is the craziest part, he said his wife gave birth to a female child and although he thank God for the successful delivery but why a female child? That he is afraid of what is going to become of her because female child nowadays can do and undo, he made mention of the way women nowadays dresses, the sex and finally pregnancy that'll follow suit and that no matter how you talk or train the female child, if she wants to go and have sex, she'll still do it regardless without you knowing at all.

The guy went on complaining and rambling with so much pains in his face. I even tried encouraging him to take the baby to his mother (that is, the baby's grandmother) when she comes of age so the old woman will train her but other guys there said that would be worst because the old woman will spoil and pamper her too much.

Why is it that most men don't want female child?

Na better bomb dey inside that your guy head.

Whether a girl or boy child,the one wey go disgrace you go disgrace you irrespective of the gender.

As for the part of being extorted by the hospital,why can't he take his wife home and let her be going to the hospital to be receiving her treatment. That'll at least reduce the cost of the hospital bed he's paying for.

Sonnobax15:

Na better bomb dey inside that your guy head.

It so sad.

He said he has been married before but divorced. According to him, the first wife he married didn't have womb. That he didn't know until a day to the marriage when rumours has flown around and someone told him about it. He thought it was a joke, he then told him his family and finally asked the lady about it, at first she denied it but later admitted it was true.

That she did abortion for her ex boyfriend and that her womb was removed while the abortion procedures took place.

This is the main reason why he was so sad after his wife gave birth to a female child.

Sonnobax15:

Na better bomb dey inside that your guy head.

Whether a girl or boy child,the one wey go disgrace you go disgrace you irrespective of the gender.

As for the part of being extorted by the hospital,why can't he take his wife home and let her be going to the hospital to be receiving her treatment. That'll at least reduce the cost of the hospital bed he's paying for.

According to him, the hospital refused to discharge them until all tests and results along with the necessary medications have been given

Goo0dHardDick:
It so sad.

He said he has been married before but divorced. According to him, the first wife he married didn't have womb. That he didn't know until a day to the marriage when rumours has flown around and someone told him about it. He thought it was a joke, he then told him his family and finally asked the lady about it, at first she denied it but later admitted it was true.

That she did abortion for her ex boyfriend and that her womb was removed while the abortion procedures took place

He should be happy his wife gave birth to their child successfully and another man's child didn't die during the process of childbirth.

People wey God bless no just know wetin God don do for them

Goo0dHardDick:
According to him, the hospital refused to discharge them until all tests and results along with the necessary medications have been given

. All lies. No hospital would do that. Abi na Dem wan help the man pay the money if the money don accumulate?

Sonnobax15:
He should be happy his wife gave birth to their child successfully and another man's child didn't die during the process of childbirth.

People wey God bless no just know wetin God don do for them

Yeah, we told him this too that alot of women died along with their child during child birth but his was successful.

Dude no even send us at all. He said he was eargly expecting a son. I guess he already has a way of celebrating the delivery if it was a boy child.

Sonnobax15:
. All lies. No hospital would do that. Abi na Dem wan help the man pay the money if the money don accumulate?

It is true because another woman there confirmed it.

According to them, it's either the new hospital management implemented that or it's part of government policy. More reason he was regretting that if he had known he would have gone to a private hospital.

Even if is a male, he can become drug addict, so what are you saying? Just do your best in raising her and pray. We have self grown child that survived in a very bad environment but decided not to join them. These children might not have anyone to watch over them and might be poor but yet, they will not compromise.

None of your business associate gave birth to any female child, let alone having this kind of discussion with you. Your obsession with women and whatever vices they indulge in, made you create this fake thread.

I won't start telling you of female kids who went on to be great because you guys see them, but refuse to use those ones as example or templates for your potential girl child.

The reason Nigeria is boiling is not because female kids are having sex. Yet some of you stay obsessed with our vaginas, while people are getting kidnapped and beheaded by your wonderful sons. If you and your most men like, born 1000 boys, but please raise them well. We have enough issues to deal with already .

Thank you

pocohantas:
None of your business associate gave birth to any female child, let alone having this kind of discussion with you. Your obsession with women amd whatever vices they indulge in, made you create this fake thread.

I won't start telling you of female kids who went on to be great because you guys see them, but refuse to use those ones as example.

The reason Nigeria is boiling is not because female kids are having sex. Yet some of you stay obsessed with our vaginas, while people are getting kidnapped and beheaded. If you and your most men like, born 1000 boys, but please raise them well. We have enough issues to deal with already.

Thank you

Fact!

Goo0dHardDick:
My business associate came to my office and we congratulated him on his wife safe delivery and his new baby girl arrival. But we noticed he wasn't happy and asked what was wrong, first he complained about the hospital and its numerous extortions. It's a federal government hospital and he kept saying if he had known he would have gone to a private hospital instead.

His wife has been in the hospital for 2 weeks after she delivered and each day he was asked to pay #10k for the hospital bed, excluding numerous tests and other expenses because his wife delivered through CS.

This is the craziest part, he said his wife gave birth to a female child and although he thank God for the successful delivery but why a female child? That he is afraid of what is going to become of her because female child nowadays can do and undo, he made mention of the way women nowadays dresses, the sex and finally pregnancy that'll follow suit and that no matter how you talk or train the female child, if she wants to go and have sex, she'll still do it regardless without you knowing at all.

The guy went on complaining and rambling with so much pains in his face. I even tried encouraging him to take the baby to his mother (that is, the baby's grandmother) when she comes of age so the old woman will train her but other guys there said that would be worst because the old woman will spoil and pamper her too much.

Why is it that most men don't want female child?

Cc Seun mynd44 justwise nlfpmod farano

I'm not sure that business partner of yours is educated. My first child is a girl, though I had wanted a boy. I went on to have two boys one after the other. The girl turned out to be most intelligent amongst the three, now in 400 level in the university at age 19.

pocohantas:
None of your business associate gave birth to any female child, let alone having this kind of discussion with you. Your obsession with women and whatever vices they indulge in, made you create this fake thread.

I won't start telling you of female kids who went on to be great because you guys see them, but refuse to use those ones as example or templates for your potential girl child.

The reason Nigeria is boiling is not because female kids are having sex. Yet some of you stay obsessed with our vaginas, while people are getting kidnapped and beheaded by your wonderful sons. If you and your most men like, born 1000 boys, but please raise them well. We have enough issues to deal with already .

Thank you

End of discussion because you have said it all.

I guess he his worried they will do to his daughter what he does to other people's daughter.The fact he is having such a stereotype belief towards a new born female child shows he himself is a bad guy.

nothing to add.

Nigerians and their misplaced priorities focused on how women use their bodies while their sons are literally massacring the country will never cease to amaze me.

pocohantas:
None of your business associate gave birth to any female child, let alone having this kind of discussion with you. Your obsession with women and whatever vices they indulge in, made you create this fake thread.

I won't start telling you of female kids who went on to be great because you guys see them, but refuse to use those ones as example or templates for your potential girl child.

The reason Nigeria is boiling is not because female kids are having sex. Yet some of you stay obsessed with our vaginas, while people are getting kidnapped and beheaded by your wonderful sons. If you and your most men like, born 1000 boys, but please raise them well. We have enough issues to deal with already .

Thank you

But if he has a son, I bet he won’t be worried the boy is having sex. I bet he’ll probably high five the boy and give him a pat on the back.

Who’s he expecting the boy to sleep with?
You people and your lack of logic

Goo0dHardDick:
That he is afraid of what is going to become of her because female child nowadays can do and undo, he made mention of the way women nowadays dresses, the sex and finally pregnancy that'll follow suit and that no matter how you talk or train the female child, if she wants to go and have sex, she'll still do it regardless without you knowing at all. Why is it that most men don't want female child?

Ignorance is the cause .. it is very bad

there are some specific tribes doing it

Another rage baiting post.

Itis usually a sign of men that had use..less mothers and use..less sisters so the think all women are like that.
I pity them.

Goo0dHardDick:
My business associate came to my office and we congratulated him on his wife safe delivery and his new baby girl arrival. But we noticed he wasn't happy and asked what was wrong, first he complained about the hospital and its numerous extortions. It's a federal government hospital and he kept saying if he had known he would have gone to a private hospital instead.

His wife has been in the hospital for 2 weeks after she delivered and each day he was asked to pay #10k for the hospital bed, excluding numerous tests and other expenses because his wife delivered through CS.

This is the craziest part, he said his wife gave birth to a female child and although he thank God for the successful delivery but why a female child? That he is afraid of what is going to become of her because female child nowadays can do and undo, he made mention of the way women nowadays dresses, the sex and finally pregnancy that'll follow suit and that no matter how you talk or train the female child, if she wants to go and have sex, she'll still do it regardless without you knowing at all.

The guy went on complaining and rambling with so much pains in his face. I even tried encouraging him to take the baby to his mother (that is, the baby's grandmother) when she comes of age so the old woman will train her but other guys there said that would be worst because the old woman will spoil and pamper her too much.

Why is it that most men don't want female child?

Go ask them in the east and the north

Goo0dHardDick:
My business associate came to my office and we congratulated him on his wife safe delivery and his new baby girl arrival. But we noticed he wasn't happy and asked what was wrong, first he complained about the hospital and its numerous extortions. It's a federal government hospital and he kept saying if he had known he would have gone to a private hospital instead.

His wife has been in the hospital for 2 weeks after she delivered and each day he was asked to pay #10k for the hospital bed, excluding numerous tests and other expenses because his wife delivered through CS.

This is the craziest part, he said his wife gave birth to a female child and although he thank God for the successful delivery but why a female child? That he is afraid of what is going to become of her because female child nowadays can do and undo, he made mention of the way women nowadays dresses, the sex and finally pregnancy that'll follow suit and that no matter how you talk or train the female child, if she wants to go and have sex, she'll still do it regardless without you knowing at all.

The guy went on complaining and rambling with so much pains in his face. I even tried encouraging him to take the baby to his mother (that is, the baby's grandmother) when she comes of age so the old woman will train her but other guys there said that would be worst because the old woman will spoil and pamper her too much.

Why is it that most men don't want female child?

The first line of problems are the fathers
Who cannot train their children,not even mother's


Then I realised it's even better to have a female child first in the family to cool down the head of coming males to give some balances,just my thoughts


The next thing is the guy himself is not a man,the problem isn't a female problem
The actual problem is a male problem,
They are as the head of each home the major factors affecting the society either good or bad


The female man , naturally wish to be trained by a man,
The male man naturally wants to be normadic, wondering to anywhere he could find
It's takes God to train a male man

E be like say Una no get work for that una office...

Lol, it's female not femal. Unserious people, if you train your child well, with the fear of God and you also lead by example, they will turn out well.

Goo0dHardDick:
My business associate came to my office and we congratulated him on his wife safe delivery and his new baby girl arrival. But we noticed he wasn't happy and asked what was wrong, first he complained about the hospital and its numerous extortions. It's a federal government hospital and he kept saying if he had known he would have gone to a private hospital instead.

His wife has been in the hospital for 2 weeks after she delivered and each day he was asked to pay #10k for the hospital bed, excluding numerous tests and other expenses because his wife delivered through CS.

This is the craziest part, he said his wife gave birth to a female child and although he thank God for the successful delivery but why a female child? That he is afraid of what is going to become of her because female child nowadays can do and undo, he made mention of the way women nowadays dresses, the sex and finally pregnancy that'll follow suit and that no matter how you talk or train the female child, if she wants to go and have sex, she'll still do it regardless without you knowing at all.

The guy went on complaining and rambling with so much pains in his face. I even tried encouraging him to take the baby to his mother (that is, the baby's grandmother) when she comes of age so the old woman will train her but other guys there said that would be worst because the old woman will spoil and pamper her too much.

Why is it that most men don't want female child?

Your friend didn't worry about how teenage boy engaged in Yahoo and drug, her concerned his girls having sex.

If your friends know that woman take care of parents at old age than man, he would have thank God.

Infact, it's better to have female first as first born.

Omo, it's not easy to train up one, especially when they start getting to their teens.

I actually don't pray for one. If God gives me, fine, but my preference will be male; let God just give me 2 boys, and I'm done.

Sonnobax15:
. All lies. No hospital would do that. Abi na Dem wan help the man pay the money if the money don accumulate?

Which kian talk be that. Federal hospitals will not agree to it. Private ones might, I am not sure though.

Forgot it, female kids are the best to a man, they tend to love their popsy more.

A use less child will be a use less child regardless of the gender

Ganjafama:
I'm not sure that business partner of yours is educated. My first child is a girl, though I had wanted a boy. I went on to have two boys one after the other. The girl turned out to be most intelligent amongst the three, now in 400 level in the university at age 19.

Sadly, he said he wanted male children only

pocohantas:
None of your business associate gave birth to any female child, let alone having this kind of discussion with you. Your obsession with women and whatever vices they indulge in, made you create this fake thread.

I won't start telling you of female kids who went on to be great because you guys see them, but refuse to use those ones as example or templates for your potential girl child.

The reason Nigeria is boiling is not because female kids are having sex. Yet some of you stay obsessed with our vaginas, while people are getting kidnapped and beheaded by your wonderful sons. If you and your most men like, born 1000 boys, but please raise them well. We have enough issues to deal with already .

Thank you

Well said but rat no dey born dog, The female in this country seemed to have submitted their vaginas to kidnappers, fraudulent persons, terrorist, murderers, drug abusers, corrupt politicians, if not totally, then at least 90% of vaginas have concluded a covenant with these kind of joysticks.
The effect is felt by all in this country right now, while morally upright penis still stand erect, but are relegated to to only 10% of the national vagina count. Shout out to the 10% of Nigerian vaginas that have against all odds been breeding morally upright Nigerians including myself and the the person I have quoted and all upright Nigerians.
Woe onto the joysticks and vaginas that have knowingly brought the situation of this country into this critical state, May they never stand erect and drip wet again.

Goo0dHardDick:
Why is it that most men don't want female child?

1. Traditional beliefs
2. Ignorance