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Bendeco02:
Believe everything girls/women says at your our own.

The story have high chance of being a lie.

Maybe she had sex with the guy but later regretted it and made up the story.

Be like them never use

Touch and follow for you before

They’re illogical.

Let’s face everything but the problem.

Proserpina:
Let me get this straight, you spend your entire time on this thread telling everyone that Nigeria is not safe for girls, from your posts the reason for your assertion is the vices of men, what men do against women/girls. Basically you don't want girls because you are afraid of what men may do to them.

In all of this you have never condemned men for their wicked acts that made women unsafe. You focus more on the fact that you wouldn't want women to exist in your lineage. Uncle you are not different from men hurting women, I think you are worse self because left to you,women won't exist.
Phew!!! This victim mentality that makes people dance around problem rather than face it won't be the end of us.

How about you preach that men do better instead of praying you don't have a girl child which fortunately and unfortunately you now have.?

GloriousGbola:
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who else but a confirmed girl child abuser will be worried about bringing a girl child into the world?

I saw a news about a man with 4 girls who sent them to islamic school and the islamic school teacher abused all 4 of them. I am sure the brothers of that man or relatives, when they hear of delivery of girl child, will have a similar reaction.

Who will carry the family name if not a male child, eh when ur females marry they should refuse to ans their husbands name or have all your female ls be baby mamas with bastards so the bastards can carry on ur family name its that simple.
Or should we talk about the rise in hook up girls lately, they are all over tiktok masturbating on live, that's someone's daughter whom they did a naming ceremony for and were very happy a child was born.
Yes female children brings luck and sometimes wealth but if it's not a male child.h broda U are good as baren infact worse because if U are an average income earner that wished to have only 3kids and all your 3kids are female then U are f'd for life unless a miracle happens.
On your burial day only your son will be called upon to bury you, the females are seen as outsiders coz they have gone to marry so they are only just supporting burial celebrants, that's for my tradition so yes, it no be male child U don't have a child yet.

Tenses:
I also have that same mindset but a little different. Nigeria is a wrong place to have and raise up a girl child. Nigeria has zero protection over a girl child compared to Europe, USA and other developed countries.

I would want Nigeria legislators to pit forward laws aimed at protecting the girl child. Females are easy targets. Even the well trained ones can be victims of rape and forced substance abuse.

I am a father of 4. My first 3 are boys. I was contented and fulfilled except my wife who keeps nagging that she wants a girl child.

I told her having a girl child will reduce my life span. When ever she step out of my sight I'll be worried.

Is she safe?
Hope one useless boy is not planning one stupid thing like that?
Hope she has not fallen into one chance?
Hope one yahoo boy has not taking her used menstrual pads?

It's endless.

Now I have a girl child who's 4 month. She's the sweetest thing in my life but I can't help to worry over her.

Nowhere is safe for the girl child.

Your business associate sounds like he’s stuck in a 1950s time loop where women are either stepford wives or societal disasters.

First off his hospital complaint is valid, federal hospitals in Nigeria are notorious for extortion but blaming the baby’s gender? That’s like complaining about a car because it’s red instead of blue. The real issue is his outdated worldview.

As for his fear of female autonomy Congrats, he’s discovered feminism! Women can dress how they want, have shmex, and make choices. Shocking, right? But here’s the thing if he’s that worried maybe he should focus on teaching his daughter critical thinking instead of treating her like time bomb.

His problem isn’t the baby it’s his own inability to adapt to the 21st century. Maybe he should find tiger and learn how to deal with change. Or just accept that his daughter might one day wear a crop top and still turn out fine.

Ha!!!! So if you know this, why asking the question when your answer is right here?

Goo0dHardDick:
It so sad.

He said he has been married before but divorced. According to him, the first wife he married didn't have womb. That he didn't know until a day to the marriage when rumours has flown around and someone told him about it. He thought it was a joke, he then told him his family and finally asked the lady about it, at first she denied it but later admitted it was true.

That she did abortion for her ex boyfriend and that her womb was removed while the abortion procedures took place.

This is the main reason why he was so sad after his wife gave birth to a female child.

SmartPolician:
Girls are by far more responsible and homely than boys in all ramifications; I say this all the time. Parents are doing a terrible job raising boys who turn out to be criminals, thugs, yahoo boys, junkies, etc.

On the other hand, girls are taught from home to behave properly because they are going to be someone's wife in the future. But men don't teach their sons to behave well because they are going to be someone's husband.

What we now have is a situation where girls who were raised well have to share the same space with terribly raised boys. Fathers should do better.

Well I no pray for bad thing but I will rather have my male children be criminals than not have a male child, what sort of curse is that!! No male child just females? I love females as well and I have both but if I was to make a single option I will never think of that. Male child is the pride of any man, well the girls can be pride of their mom that's good infact I like when females are born first so they can take care of the male son and groom him properly especially in school. My tenant had a 3rd female child U need to see the silence in the home no ceremony or anything at all, it was as silent as a grave yard like nothing happened and I know why. U can't give a man 3 females and expect him to be happy. If he get sence he should impregnate someone else to get a male child, that's if he has sence.

Proserpina:
Let me get this straight, you spend your entire time on this thread telling everyone that Nigeria is not safe for girls, from your posts the reason for your assertion is the vices of men, what men do against women/girls. Basically you don't want girls because you are afraid of what men may do to them.

In all of this you have never condemned men for their wicked acts that made women unsafe. You focus more on the fact that you wouldn't want women to exist in your lineage. Uncle you are not different from men hurting women, I think you are worse self because left to you,women won't exist.
Phew!!! This victim mentality that makes people dance around problem rather than face it won't be the end of us.

How about you preach that men do better instead of praying you don't have a girl child which fortunately and unfortunately you now have.?

I sincerely hope that my daughter don't process information like you do.

Proserpina:
Be like them never use

Touch and follow for you before

What is Touch and follow?

Cutezt:
Omo, it's not easy to train up one, especially when they start getting to their teens.

I actually don't pray for one. If God gives me, fine, but my preference will be male; let God just give me 2 boys, and I'm done.

I understood d angle of d husband, just that Nigerians are too emotional to understand certain tings objectively. To train a girl child is very very difficult than a male child. Personally, d husband knows himself more than all these daughters of eve commenting rubbish. I no get strength for girl child abeg

Goo0dHardDick:
They are coming to tell you your write up isn't real but your imagination based on your hatred for women.

I told my Chi not to allow me hv a girl child. Those bringing disgrace dis day are girl child. Gone are d days when having a girl child brings joy but dis day, its always shame upon shame

Educated people with caveman mentality

The people that stole my motorcycle at midnight last year November are boys

A child can bring you disgrace regardless of gender.. Upbringing is everything!

Goo0dHardDick:
You still don't understand that there's a massive difference between a boy and a girl.

99.9% men will hail their sons and even support him to have sex as he wants and nothing will happen. Those involves in sex tapes videos, both the guinea man and that ESUT girl, did you see anyone bothering to know or call out the men they did with? That's because no one cares. Society do not judge men based on that. A woman's value is in her body and this is why women are judged by their past. A man's value is in his success and achievements in life.

Know the difference

Shame wey girls dey bring for family pass for boys

NOGRUDGES:
Well said but rat no dey born dog, The female in this country seemed to have submitted their vaginas to kidnappers, fraudulent persons, terrorist, murderers, drug abusers, corrupt politicians, if not totally, then at least 90% of vaginas have concluded a covenant with these kind of joysticks.
The effect is felt by all in this country right now, while morally upright penis still stand erect, but are relegated to to only 10% of the national vagina count. Shout out to the 10% of Nigerian vaginas that have against all odds been breeding morally upright Nigerians including myself and the the person I have quoted and all upright Nigerians.
Woe onto the joysticks and vaginas that have knowingly brought the situation of this country into this critical state, May they never stand erect and drip wet again.

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OneDollarSalary:
If you pray not to have one and God decide to answer your prayer, and others did also and God answer their prayer and no more female child, who are these male children going to marry in future?
Who are you going to marry to have these male children?

Are the female children kpaing your Jos people, the ki.dnap.ing and all sorts we read, see and hear in your state?

What about d quote "small girl big god"
Who are those dating same kidnappers?
Who are those dating those ritualist?
What abiur yahoo plus boys, na who dey date dem??

BangaRice:
I saw a news about a man with 4 girls who sent them to islamic school and the islamic school teacher abused all 4 of them. I am sure the brothers of that man or relatives, when they hear of delivery of girl child, will have a similar reaction.

so you are saying that a man outsourced parenting of his children to an alfa

he sent his four girls to live with an unknown alfa rather than raise the in his house

this is the kind of foolish story of an incompetent parent you are using as an excuse

hopefully your parents also sent you to live wth an alfa

or maybe you think that as a muslim i will be an incompetent adult who rather than raise my children will send then to live with a bearded stranger?

is this incoherent nonsense what you think is an argument?

maybe you should ask who raised the animal in your story that shamelessly molested 4 girls without any consequence

Bendeco02:
Believe everything girls/women says at your our own.

The story have high chance of being a lie.

Maybe she had sex with the guy but later regretted it and made up the story.

No mind dem, believe whatever daughter of eve tells u at ur own risk

Proserpina:
Be like them never use

Touch and follow for you before

Oga mak una leave that torch and follow story abeg. Girls no go ever tell d truth

cococandy:
They’re illogical.

Let’s face everything but the problem.

I just tire

folake4u:
What is Touch and follow?

It's a hypnotizing charm that captures victim's mind and make them do whatever it's user want. It comes in various forms sha but must touch and go are done on rings or palm incision. It used to be very common back in the days .

Drforsuiciders:
Oga mak una leave that torch and follow story abeg. Girls no go ever tell d truth

It's still doesn't rule out the fact that she might be saying the truth.

Proserpina:
Let me get this straight, you spend your entire time on this thread telling everyone that Nigeria is not safe for girls, from your posts the reason for your assertion is the vices of men, what men do against women/girls. Basically you don't want girls because you are afraid of what men may do to them.

In all of this you have never condemned men for their wicked acts that made women unsafe. You focus more on the fact that you wouldn't want women to exist in your lineage. Uncle you are not different from men hurting women, I think you are worse self because left to you,women won't exist.
Phew!!! This victim mentality that makes people dance around problem rather than face it won't be the end of us.

How about you preach that men do better instead of praying you don't have a girl child which fortunately and unfortunately you now have.?

Lol! I didn't bother to read his post to the end despite his attempt to mask it as concern for women. Suddenly they know Nigeria is unsafe for women. The same thing we have been saying that earned us the bitter feminist tag.

Since Nigeria is unsafe for women due to activities of men. Why not implore yourselves to be better or reduce the birth rate of men?

He must think I am 5yo to quote me with such silly mansplaining.

Tenses:
I sincerely hope that my daughter don't process information like you do.

Yeaaaaa deflective tactic. I wasn't expecting much from the mind that brought "I don't want a daughter because men like me will harm her"

Proserpina:
It's a hypnotizing charm that captures victim's mind and make them do whatever it's user want. It comes in various forms sha but must touch and go are done on rings or palm incision. It used to be very common back in the days .

Ohhhh I've heard about this stuff before. Didn't know its name.

Thank you.

Proserpina:
Yeaaaaa deflective tactic. I wasn't expecting much from the mind that brought "I don't want a daughter because men like me will harm her"

Was it men like me that traffick women like you oversea for prostitution or was it men like me that cause women like you to be born in a baby factory?

pocohantas:
Lol! I didn't bother to read his post to the end despite his attempt to mask it as concern for women. Suddenly they know Nigeria is unsafe for women. The same thing we have been saying that earned us the bitter feminist tag.

Since Nigeria is unsafe for women due to activities of men. Why not implore yourselves to be better or reduce the birth rate of men?

He must think I am 5yo to quote me with such silly mansplaining.

They are always not concerned until it happens to them or their relatives.

See him ranting like the men he is scared of are aliens.

Tenses:
Was it men like me that traffick women like you oversea for prostitution or was it men like me that cause women like you to be born in a baby factory?

Prostitution and baby factory lol is that all?
This is why you sounded pitiful all along. You know the truth but admitting plainly will mean you are against your brothers .

Talk to your brothers to act right and stop wishing you don't have a female child. Very simple 👌

Proserpina:
It's still doesn't rule out the fact that she might be saying the truth.

Dey their mak pant dey wear u, u believe what those daughters of eve tell