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It is only in church you will see retired Olosho with 12 years experience give her life to Christ.

Then you try to toast her
She tells you NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

After years of reckless knacking with different sizes of gbolas all over the country

My junior brother is a phoolish child.
I warned him severally about a girl he meet in church
When the girl found out I know her past secrets
She made my jnr bro turn against me.
It hurt me so badly, so I ignored them

Now I am friends with one babe in the church. And it seems the babe is also close friends with that girl
As I was jejely scrolling through WhatsApp stories. I saw that my friend post a picture of that yeye girl with a man in traditional attire

Gbam.. I knew my jnr bro was finished

After so much thought,I decide to confront my mumu bro. Showed him the picture

He was so heartbroken. Calling different numbers on his phone.
Then he made one statement
" This girl sent me messages last night and we chatted normally"

I am the happiest big bro as at now
The mumu boy is now traumatized

ChizzyBuna:
It is only in church you will see retired Olosho with 12 years experience give her life to Christ.

Then you try to toast her
She tells you NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

After years of reckless knacking with different sizes of gbolas all over the country

My junior brother is a phoolish child.
I warned him severally about a girl he meet in church
When the girl found out I know her past secrets
She made my jnr bro turn against me.
It hurt me so badly, so I ignored them

That's their retirement plan

You are frustrated but also naive.You are not wrong about the hypocrisy but you are wrong about how you handled it.You do not walk into a church, expose someone's past, and expect a thank you. You will be the villain.Every time

A woman can genuinely change. A former prostitute can become born again. But her past does not vanish from the memory of those who knew her.If you date a woman from church, do not assume she is a virgin. Do not assume she has no past. Many people run to God after the world has finished with them. That does not make them bad. But it does not make them innocent either
A woman's past is not your brother's business unless she chooses to share it. What matters is who she is now. But he is not wrong to walk away if he cannot accept it.

You are bitter. You are not wrong about the hypocrisy. But you handled it like a child. Exposing someone's past to destroy their relationship is not justice. It is revenge.If you want to warn your brother, do it once. Privately. With evidence. If he does not listen, let him learn his own lesson. Do not become the villain in his story

There are GOOD people everywhere and there are BAD people everywhere too

Solofresh2:
You are frustrated but also naive.You are not wrong about the hypocrisy but you are wrong about how you handled it.You do not walk into a church, expose someone's past, and expect a thank you. You will be the villain.Every time

A woman can genuinely change. A former prostitute can become born again. But her past does not vanish from the memory of those who knew her.If you date a woman from church, do not assume she is a virgin. Do not assume she has no past. Many people run to God after the world has finished with them. That does not make them bad. But it does not make them innocent either
A woman's past is not your brother's business unless she chooses to share it. What matters is who she is now. But he is not wrong to walk away if he cannot accept it.

You are bitter. You are not wrong about the hypocrisy. But you handled it like a child. Exposing someone's past to destroy their relationship is not justice. It is revenge.If you want to warn your brother, do it once. Privately. With evidence. If he does not listen, let him learn his own lesson. Do not become the villain in his story

1. Yes, one can truly change after living a terrible lifestyle.

2. Hiding such a terrible history especially from someone you want to marry is a big red flag. To the extent you're turning two brothers against each other? I doubt This lady has really surrendered fully to Christ because why the secrecy? If Christ has really changed you then your past should be your testimony, how God saved you from it and not desperately hiding it even from people that should know..

Gullah:
1. Yes, one can truly change after living a terrible lifestyle.

2. Hiding such a terrible history especially from someone you want to marry is a big red flag. To the extent you're turning two brothers against each other? I doubt This lady has really surrendered fully to Christ because why the secrecy? If Christ has really changed you then your past should be your testimony, how God saved you from it and not desperately hiding it even from people that should know..

The painful part is trying to save your own brother but the mumu believed an Olosho more than me.
I almost shed tears the night he brought up the matter infront of family that I want to destroy his only joy.

The girl lied to him that I wanted to knack her and she refused so that's why I'm spreading false rumor about her. I wan craze that night. But deep in my mind I just know say that boy MUST SUFFER.
That is why I am so happy that I have been vindicated.

Girl wey follow my bro chat like normal the night before her traditional wedding and the boy had no single clue the kind joy I get now fit high 3 elephants. My bro come dey lock himself for room he no wan chop I'm just so happy the mumu is learning the hard way.

The people that you meet in church are the same people that you meet in school, at work, in the market and even in the lounge. When we come to church, we just put on a different attire to look holy

EmmyMaestro:
The people that you meet in church are the same people that you meet in school, at work, in the market and even in the lounge. When we come to church, we just put on a different attire to look holy

the way I see it
Church is like rehab for broken people
Where they come to make peace with God for all the nasty things they have done

The same way, Hospital is for sick people.
Church is for broken people.
Imagine going to hospital to look for woman to marry. You go marry one wey get cancer or wan wicked infection.
Same way if you marry from church you marry one broken condem babe wey don do 9 abortions then decide to give her life to christ

Only agree with "no sex before marriage" if she's a virgin, anything aside that is a loss for the man

Some life lessons are meant to be experienced 1st hand.

I'm a big bro and understand that joy that comes with neglecting an experienced brotherly advice.

But don't dwell on the gloating, He's still blood.

ChizzyBuna:
the way I see it
Church is like rehab for broken people
Where they come to make peace with God for all the nasty things they have done

The same way, Hospital is for sick people.
Church is for broken people.
Imagine going to hospital to look for woman to marry. You go marry one wey get cancer or wan wicked infection.
Same way if you marry from church you marry one broken condem babe wey don do 9 abortions then decide to give her life to christ

Somebody said he will carry the girl outside the church because that is what he will see the real her because according to him church de hide many things

ChizzyBuna:
The painful part is trying to save your own brother but the mumu believed an Olosho more than me.
I almost shed tears the night he brought up the matter infront of family that I want to destroy his only joy.

The girl lied to him that I wanted to knack her and she refused so that's why I'm spreading false rumor about her. I wan craze that night. But deep in my mind I just know say that boy MUST SUFFER.
That is why I am so happy that I have been vindicated.

Girl wey follow my bro chat like normal the night before her traditional wedding and the boy had no single clue the kind joy I get now fit high 3 elephants. My bro come dey lock himself for room he no wan chop I'm just so happy the mumu is learning the hard way.

If u truly get joy run me 5gb mtn

ChizzyBuna:
It is only in church you will see retired Olosho with 12 years experience give her life to Christ.

Then you try to toast her
She tells you NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

After years of reckless knacking with different sizes of gbolas all over the country

My junior brother is a phoolish child.
I warned him severally about a girl he meet in church
When the girl found out I know her past secrets
She made my jnr bro turn against me.
It hurt me so badly, so I ignored them

Mine is even worse
I hate when i call someome my blood
But you fit deny me something i would easily give you cos of shema.
Nothing fit make us blood o

EmmyMaestro:
The people that you meet in church are the same people that you meet in school, at work, in the market and even in the lounge. When we come to church, we just put on a different attire to look holy

This is the same opinion I hold.