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She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 - Romance (2) - Nairaland

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Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by Gbadugbakun(m): 7:29am On May 26
That's because you're broke. Girls of that age date men twice your age and they're totally ok with it. If she called you old it's because she believes you have nothing to offer her.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by NwaliE01: 7:30am On May 26
You started the fire and here you're seeking attention.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by gracias124(op): 7:45am On May 26
BigYash:
Abortion doesn't make girls matured upstairs Oga. Na now I know why the girl dey see you as ancestors..
she can see me as whatever she wants to see me
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by gracias124(op): 7:46am On May 26
NwaliE01:
You started the fire and here you're seeking attention.
bro the thing was funny to me and she was hurt by my words that why she bklocked me cuz i said she is cklocking menop
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by gracias124(op): 8:05am On May 26
Haeg:
You should be ashamed bro
of what?
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by gracias124(op): 8:07am On May 26
Haeg:
You should be ashamed bro
she is just an online gf the real girll I will be married to this coming december is 18years old
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by meobizy(m): 9:39am On May 26
You go explain tire.

tesseract:
Don't say what you don't know. Even 15 years difference is nothing. I know ladies who prefer men who are way older than they are. Its a personal decision.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by meobizy(m): 9:40am On May 26
Dey play.

gracias124:
God forbid. Me chase 29 year old woman?
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by nairalanda1(m): 9:42am On May 26
tesseract:
Don't say what you don't know. Even 15 years difference is nothing. I know ladies who prefer men who are way older than they are. Its a personal decision.
True, but OP's girl is not one of them.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by meobizy(m): 9:42am On May 26
Everybody na P.I.M.P. online.

cr7lomo:
See them...the simps that encourage nonsense
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by garriAndsugar: 9:45am On May 26
From the way you chat and arrange your words, you need to work on your self
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by nairalanda1(m): 9:46am On May 26
Kobojunkie:
Does not seem at all like that to me. By the way, she is right that you are getting older because at your age, your chances of having a child with disability have increased by 2%(recent science has shown it is the man's sperm that begins to degenerate after age 28). 😒

So, if you plan to have kids, you should maybe begin seriously screening serious partners, and not 20-year-olds who are not interested in you. 😒
DEEPENDS.

My maternal grandfather had his first child at the age of 41 or thereabouts. All his six children were 'normal' so to speak

My paternal grandfather was also around the same age when he had child 1. Same thing..normal

Again, deepends. Yes, Down's syndrome, for example, the risk is higher with older parents , but a lot of older parents have normal children. Remember, it is a risk...it does not mean that you will have such kids.

(And even younger copules do have children with disability issues. I have met two women who have non-verbal autisitc children...and they gave birth long before they saw 40 years of age.)
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by tanigororo: 9:58am On May 26
gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo
She mean you are still poor for her liking
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by spice123(m): 10:03am On May 26
@op you're old. 10 years gap in age? Oga move on. I wonder how guys date their younger sisters. Just think about it.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by Hungrychicken(m): 11:30am On May 26
From the way you write and spell, and her monotone responses, you need to arrange your life again at 31. You can tell a lot about a person from the way they write.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by UniQue84: 11:33am On May 26
You don't have sense sincerely ...even though that girl is a woman she is too young to reason logically. You don't convince emotions you manipulate emotions.

Women move with feelings especially in relationship issues reason why the bad guys always win cos they don't try to make them see reasons(logic ) they just manipulate them.

Start manipulating women and you will have them at your beck and call.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by Jman06(m): 11:44am On May 26
That's how they keep deceiving themselves and missing their opportunities to get a man until it's too late for them, then they'll come and start disturbing God with prayers for not being able to get a husband. This is why I don't pity any lady that's not married at old age!
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by mecuries(m): 2:32pm On May 26
I can't even understand the chat. It's like two toddlers having a conversation
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by Kobojunkie: 2:36pm On May 26
PulaPower:
➜What about Ned Nwoko? Make dem 70year old papa catch you first, you fit born twins self..
According to stories I have read, the fetuses were screened for deformities in the making of his children. His woman literally confessed this herself. Did you know that? When the average man compares himself to the rich, he does so in ignorance and blatant arrogance. FYI! 😒
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by PinkNature(m): 3:09pm On May 26
lol no mind women. my 21 years old girlfriend called me old @25 but few months down the line, i discovered she has had a sugar daddy since she was 17 yrs old
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by ednut1(m): 3:10pm On May 26
You are a cradle robber. Imagine telling a woman they age faster. U be mumu
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by Kobojunkie: 3:11pm On May 26
nairalanda1:
DEEPENDS.
My maternal grandfather had his first child at the age of 41 or thereabouts. All his six children were 'normal' so to speak
My paternal grandfather was also around the same age when he had child 1. Same thing..normal
Again, deepends. Yes, Down's syndrome, for example, the risk is higher with older parents , but a lot of older parents have normal children. Remember, it is a risk...it does not mean that you will have such kids.
(And even younger copules do have children with disability issues. I have met two women who have non-verbal autisitc children...and they gave birth long before they saw 40 years of age.)
WRONG! If you ever studied probability in high school, you would know that when you are told that there is a 2% chance of having children with some form of disability after the age of 30(the probability increases as men get older), what that instead means is that though the chances are 98% that your offspring may come out normal, there is also a 2% chance that the child may instead be disabled. 😒
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by Gerrard59(m): 3:12pm On May 26
You started it. You labelled her old unprovoked. To be fair though, if she's very young, say 22, and she has admirers who are well off than you're, yet below 30 years old, she would consider you old.

But why would you be disturbed that a lass called you old? E be like say you no too hold money. The aspect of marrying a second wife at 45 is baseless if you don't have money.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by jojothaiv(m): 3:14pm On May 26
The man is an idiot, that he's in his prime and quite aware of that shouldn't be an avenue where he go ahead rubbing it on people faces particularly ladies he intend to have something serious with but then we men are wired differently, not even a first timer exposure to redpill will make man toe this path..

He will be fine next time.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by grandstar(m): 3:14pm On May 26
She is quite young at 20, considering you are 31.

Its obvious she is not into Aristos.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by samsononyilo(m): 3:15pm On May 26
I'm telling this 23yrs old girl that I'm too old for her because I'm 31, she's the one reminding me that the age difference isn't much. Bro leave her alone.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by BarrElChapo(m): 3:15pm On May 26
gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo
You didn’t speak maturely in the conversation. Why are you telling her about menopause? Why are you trying to prove yourself to her ?
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by Angelfrost(m): 3:16pm On May 26
Smh... Ageism will be the very end of most of us.

Any and every small thing, AGE!

I really don't get the obsession with age and aging.

Meanwhile, Op just dey fall him hand... Yes, you deserved to be blocked.

You are older yet less mature... Not to mention the crude and curt way you came off.

In the first place, what exactly are you doing dating way outside your age and intelligence bracket?!

As soon as she highlighted the age thing, the mature thing would have been to politely remove yourself from the conversation, not making needless justifications, cos she clearly already rejected your advances.

Guys and even ladies should learn to move far and fast away once disdain or seeds of rejection begin to emerge... Look at a grown man trying to convince a far younger lady that he is young enough for her. Come now, where is your dignity?!


Simply wish her well, and calmly move on like a real MAN! Damn!!!
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by cn401: 3:17pm On May 26
gracias124:
she is just an online gf the real girll I will be married to this coming december is 18years old
And you are very proud to post this online. You thought we'd clap for you and say you have game. Are you sure you are not a grommer? Why are you out-running wisdom
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by Openyamind111(m): 3:17pm On May 26
You’re old because you even have the audacity to ask if you’re old or not! if you know within your mind that you’re young, you’re young.. for your information, how old you are is determined by your frame of mind not your actual age..💨💨
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by osuofia2(m): 3:18pm On May 26
gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo
You deserve imprisonment not blocking, just take a look at your chat, you write so badly, what's all this shortening of words. Take a look at her text, she is very composed and write well.
Go make money and stop sleeping on a bicycle.
Money you no get, English you no sabi.
Re: She Called Me Old Because I Am 31 by cn401: 3:18pm On May 26
Even the way you dey write dey vex me. Can't you complete your words?
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