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“Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate - Romance (3) - Nairaland

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Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by CocaineLord(m): 12:27pm On May 26
A WHOLE LOT OF SINGLE WOMEN IN THIS GENERATION WILL END UP OLD,SINGLE,DEPRESSED,FULL OF REGRETS AND AGGRESSIVE TO MEN.

THEIR AGGESSIVENESS TO MEN WILL BE BECAUSE THEY'LL THINK MEN ARE THE PROBLEMS OF THEM NOT GETTING MARRIED.

NIGERIA IS A POVERTY CAPITAL WITH A DEMONIC ECONOMY AND A MAD MAN AS THE PRESIDENT YET ALL THE SINGLE WOMEN WANNA MARRY A RICH MAN.

I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THAT BUT I WANNA ASK THEM A QUESTION.

IF ALL THE SINGLE WOMEN IN THIS COUNTRY WANNA MARRY A RICH MAN,WHO WILL NOW MARRY THEIR BROKE,JOBLESS AND UGLY BROTHERS sad

TIME SHALL TELL.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Flo36: 12:31pm On May 26
Very senseless talk... are orphan or a 🚸 of a single mother or don't you know the of family?

Maybe she just want to trend
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Hhh4444: 12:33pm On May 26
CocaineLord:
A WHOLE LOT OF SINGLE WOMEN IN THIS GENERATION WILL END UP OLD,SINGLE,DEPRESSED,FULL OF REGRETS AND AGGRESSIVE TO MEN.

THEIR AGGESSIVENESS TO MEN WILL BE BECAUSE THEY'LL THINK MEN ARE THE PROBLEMS OF THEM NOT GETTING MARRIED.

NIGERIA IS A POVERTY CAPITAL WITH A DEMONIC ECONOMY AND A MAD MAN AS THE PRESIDENT YET ALL THE SINGLE WOMEN WANNA MARRY A RICH MAN.

I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THAT BUT I WANNA ASK THEM A QUESTION.

IF ALL THE SINGLE WOMEN IN THIS COUNTRY WANNA MARRY A RICH MAN,WHO WILL NOW MARRY THEIR BROKE,JOBLESS AND UGLY BROTHERS sad

TIME SHALL TELL.
The women are simply delusional...In a country where most men in their 30s and 40s can barely feed themselves,the women are having high expectations. Na Nigerian men when still dey take them seriously I blame. Even if 1 billion naira lands in my account,I will not take these women seriously. They ain't worth the stress.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by dragunov: 12:35pm On May 26
Dpsychologist:
“Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” : Nigerian Lady Sparks Heated Debate Online
Look at the ugly thing.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by jojothaiv(m): 12:36pm On May 26
Indomie hungry man suppose get Indomie hungry woman pack too, so many hungry bannies just deh roam streets steady sha
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by CocaineLord(m): 12:37pm On May 26
Hhh4444:
The women are simply delusional...In a country where most men in their 30s and 40s can barely feed themselves,the women are having high expectations. Na Nigerian men when still dey take them seriously I blame. Even if 1 billion naira lands in my account,I will not take these women seriously. They ain't worth the stress.
They are been deceived by Social media, Yahoo boys, Sugar daddies and Content creators cheesy

Worst thing is they're not even worth it....Some of them have no value, no degree or skill.

Imagine a brothel hoe that have been fvcked by more than 10,000 men setting standards and wanting to marry a rich man that'll simp for her.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by sterlingD(m): 12:40pm On May 26
Hhh4444:
The day I read "the manipulated man",my eyes opened...I urge every man to read that book and realise he has been manipulated since he was born. I pity man when never read that book.
Ah, that book county man dey read small small drink water

Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Revolva(m): 12:46pm On May 26
Majority of our today Nigerian wvmen are deesgraceful
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Nteogwuija(m): 12:46pm On May 26
I get one wey say if man no fit take care of her more than she dey take care of herself, then she no get the man time. This one na single mother oh. Eh dey find single guy wey go marry am. I just dey look her dey shudder.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Freshtruth(m): 12:47pm On May 26
Very ugly and sdull thing
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by judewrites: 12:53pm On May 26
Men in Nigeria are under a lot of financial pressures sad

A relationship or marriage isn't or shouldn't be financial relieve program for women and their families....but sadly it is.

And the worst is that despite all the financial commitments by men, many relationships and marriages lack genuine love.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by WatchYourSix: 12:54pm On May 26
bentenny:
Equally,before he dates you,he must make sure you can clean and cook for his family!
Sadly logic doesnt apply to them… they think you are automatically owing them because you approached them for a date but they are not owing you anything
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Leepeak(m): 1:01pm On May 26
grin
Be like say na favour my ex you see oo
Men shall
Ona mummy pass tinubu
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by faithfull18(f): 1:03pm On May 26
SmartPolician:
But why would a broke man even think of dating a lady? What happens if you mistakenly get her pregnant in the process?
Since when did dating become sextuationshiphuh
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by ogawisdom(m): 1:06pm On May 26
Dating for family survival chai TINUBU OOOOOOOO grin
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by SmartPolician: 1:07pm On May 26
faithfull18:
Since when did dating become sextuationshiphuh
That's because most guys won't date a lady without tasting her. That's the reality of dating in a contemporary world.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by dauntless15(m): 1:09pm On May 26
Poske95:
...unfortunately fed.ny our simp counterparts who fail.to.rwalise that the world was always theirs and gave it instead to queen na Olosho...imagine boiz
Na we cause am
Omo to read what you wrote can cause brain aneurysm, try learn to spell na oga its not hard.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by 43Ronin: 1:13pm On May 26
How can you as a young man struggle to make bread in life and when you have finally made the bread you go and marry one omo alata huh
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Mrexcell(m): 1:20pm On May 26
Only empty ladies thinks this way what else will she bring into the relationship apart from sex? Dating most nigerian ladies these days is really a huge financial burden that's why some bad guys used them for money rituals if their financial demands becomes excessive and burdensome.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Mrexcell(m): 1:34pm On May 26
SmartPolician:
But why would a broke man even think of dating a lady? What happens if you mistakenly get her pregnant in the process?
So if the man can't extend financial assistance to his woman's family he is automatically a broke man? huh
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Allthingswork: 1:41pm On May 26
Ah... Of course, one of the rage-bait uploads and threads aimed at ridiculing Nigeria women. A free-for-all yabbing session, championed by the males on here. And the floodgates were opened! grin Lol.

You're not likely to see a real female moniker post this type of topic. It's like setting one's self and her fellow females up for dragging. Yikes! On a platform that isn't known for showing mercy. Oti oh!

Yes, I actually understand the point and angle the woman in the X video is coming from. She was trying to tell her fellow ladies not to just go on dates out of being hungry, bored, looking for a benefactor for a short-lived need. She wants them to asses him, ask him (albeit politely) if he is able to cater for a family, in the instance where the date leads to an unforeseen or anticipated romance, and that romance then leads to starting a family, owing to her being preggy for the guy. You want to be sure that the father of the baby can provide for you, himself and the incoming baby. To avoid suffering and stories that touch in the coming season.

I understand her. However, her advice is for ladies or girls who are even considering to settle down with the man they are going on a date with. Majority of them aren't interested in the long-term of it, but just want a quick fix (could be meals, money, handouts or sehx). Will you give " huukop " ladies this advise, when they have a short-term goal with the guy ? Don't forget, they cater to numerous guys every other week. They can't be bothered about if he can provide for a family or not. It's not in their interest and scheme of work. 🤷

Sometimes, ehn, I pity the f-male nairalmaders who have to login and read the many very painful things men type as comments. You can feign not to be pained but you know deep down these things pierce. No wonder they just keep away after reading through than adding their comments. Most of them. It's like we just can't get along. It's like this gender battle that never ends. Omo. We've been conditioned. Hmm.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by PeterObash(m): 1:43pm On May 26
So after demanding for high bride price without rumours or without caring to know how we feed after marrying their daughter angry, she expects me to feed her family.😁 Mentally that lady must be sick.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by jaxxy(m):
So her family is a charity case and cant take care of their greedy selves they are looking for who to leech on? undecided
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by lotkyes200: 2:17pm On May 26
And her father has been struggling to feed just she and her siblings hahahahaha poor girls with wahaha
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by pocohantas(f): 2:59pm On May 26
Anguldi:
My ex told me to put her on monthly allocation if we get married.

My present babe about to be ditched told me I'm her father and brother. She showed me her torn bag, Las las money for handbag fall out 😅🤣😂
Justice for men please 🙏 wink
Yes, some men give their wives allowance in marriage and I see nothing wrong if he can afford it. What I do not endorse is him taking up her birth family's expense. In this case, I want to assume she means the family they would both be building. Else, she her thinking is flawed.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Codes151(m): 3:04pm On May 26
WhiteIverson:
Before you go on a date with a woman, make sure she's self sufficient, mentally stable, a virgin and fertile tongue
if not a virgin, has investment and Graduate 😆
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Timmzycul11: 4:11pm On May 26
Her family are hungry...
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by sukar886: 4:12pm On May 26
So non of your family member the work abi,u no get shame
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Pinnup: 5:06pm On May 26
Is she also supporting her brother to feed his girlfriend's family? Let's judge from that angle.
Re: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by Poske95(m): 5:51pm On May 26
dauntless15:
Omo to read what you wrote can cause brain aneurysm, try learn to spell na oga its not hard.
So easy to identify simps...presnt there
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