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Just like I was advised by my niggas here to let everything rest, that she has moved on and our parts are now different.....


So I told her I've forgiven her from my heart, that I have one last wish .....


If only she can at least grant it for me for the sake of the love we once shared...... I know some might find this story fictitious, but I don't care, it's happening to me just this week....


Back to my wish......


I told her I wanted to have sex with her as a goodbye and we can now part for ever .......



She became mad at me and insisted she'll level up a charge against me....



Guys I'm only seeking an advise please....
Have I committed any punishable crime under the law? It was just a harmless conversation........



I never knew she has changed so much to a wicked and devlish nun....

After all she did to me she's sueing me... The man she kept telling 8 years ago that she loved with all her life.....

This show she never loved me.....


I got it was a joke until I was contacted today by court baliff ....... 😠😠😠
...


You can see how women change?




She even threatened to go to my parents parish to report them to the Reverend father so they'll be bared from holy Communion and worker..... Please is this not wickedness? How does this concern my parents?


I know I messed up! Was eaten up by unforgiveness now see where it's going for me now......


I'm thinking of also threatening her that I'll write and accuse her before mother General of seducing me into asking her for sex.....

I need your candid advise, this is my life line for now......



Legal luminaries in the house help me out......

udofia234:
Back to my wish......


I told her I wanted to have sex with her as a goodbye and we can now part for ever .......

I think you are 9 years old and need to grow up some.

A mature you would understand how much you are messing up already and go get better priorities.

If I be that girl brother I go leave every thing for this life carry your matter for head. You are a wicked man, I am certain you never had good plans for her and now she's chosen another path you won't let her be. Leave the lady alone.

She didn't have sex with you since and now you want her to defile herself and covenant to God to please you?

Them use f^^k swear for some of una?
She should get you arrested and made to sign Restrictions order.

I'm sorry , I messed up!! Your advice please

budaatum:
I think you are 9 years old and need to grow up some.

A mature you would understand how much you are messing up already and go get better priorities.

No problems I'll sign it if she backs down on that case....

poshestmina:
She didn't have sex with you since and now you want her to defile herself and covenant to God to please you?

Them use f^^k swear for some of una?
She should get you arrested and made to sign Restrictions order.

Noted... Thanks

Ivimmanuel:
If I be that girl brother I go leave every thing for this life carry your matter for head. You are a wicked man, I am certain you never had good plans for her and now she's chosen another path you won't let her be. Leave the lady alone.

If you cannot respect her nunship then we will escort you to jail.

udofia234:
Just like I was advised by my niggas here to let everything rest, that she has moved on and our parts are now different.....


So I told her I've forgiven her from my heart, that I have one last wish .....


If only she can at least grant it for me for the sake of the love we once shared...... I know some might find this story fictitious, but I don't care, it's happening to me just this week....


Back to my wish......


I told her I wanted to have sex with her as a goodbye and we can now part for ever .......



She became mad at me and insisted she'll level up a charge against me....



Guys I'm only seeking an advise please....
Have I committed any punishable crime under the law? It was just a harmless conversation........



I never knew she has changed so much to a wicked and devlish nun....

After all she did to me she's sueing me... The man she kept telling 8 years ago that she loved with all her life.....

This show she never loved me.....


I got it was a joke until I was contacted today by court baliff ....... 😠😠😠
...


You can see how women change?




She even threatened to go to my parents parish to report them to the Reverend father so they'll be bared from holy Communion and worker..... Please is this not wickedness? How does this concern my parents?


I know I messed up! Was eaten up by unforgiveness now see where it's going for me now......


I'm thinking of also threatening her that I'll write and accuse her before mother General of seducing me into asking her for sex.....

I need your candid advise, this is my life line for now......



Legal luminaries in the house help me out......

You deserve better beating, walahi

I know how angry and hurt you are right now. But let’s cut straight to the legal reality, because “court bailiff already contacted you” means this is serious and you need to move carefully.

1. Did you commit a punishable offence?
Under Nigerian law, asking for sex is not automatically a crime. But how and in what context you asked it matters:

- If you sent that “goodbye sex” request after she’d told you she moved on, and especially if it was repeated, unwanted, or came with pressure, it can fall under sexual harassment.
- Section 360 of the Criminal Code and Section 208 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, plus the Violence Against Persons Prohibition Act 2015, cover unwanted sexual advances that cause distress, intimidation, or humiliation.
- If she feels threatened or harassed, she can file a complaint. Police or courts can summon you to explain your message. That’s likely why a bailiff contacted you.

So yes, there’s a risk of civil or criminal action if she pursues it. “It was just a joke” isn’t a defense if she felt harassed.

2. Threatening her back or falsely accusing her of seduction
Don’t do this. Filing a false accusation with the Mother General, Reverend Father, or police is criminal defamation and giving false information to authorities. Under Section 393 of the Criminal Code, that’s punishable. It will make your situation worse, not better.

3. Her threatening to report your parents to the church
If she actually goes to your parish and makes false claims about your parents to get them barred from Communion, that’s also defamatory. But you can’t counter it by threatening her. Deal with your own case first.

What you should do right now:

- Don’t contact her again. No texts, calls, threats. Anything you send now can be used against you.
- Get a lawyer immediately. If a bailiff contacted you, there’s likely a summons or petition. A lawyer can tell you what you’re being charged with and how to respond. If you can’t afford one, go to Legal Aid Council in your state.
- Keep evidence. Save all messages between you two, including where she ended things. Your lawyer will need context.
- Apologize only through your lawyer if advised. Don’t send another emotional message yourself.

I know it feels like she changed and is being “wicked”. But legally, the issue isn’t whether she still loves you. It’s whether your last request crossed into harassment under the law.

You messed up by letting hurt push you to ask that. Own that with a lawyer, don’t compound it with threats or false counter-accusations.

poshestmina:
She didn't have sex with you since and now you want her to defile herself and covenant to God to please you?

Them use f^^k swear for some of una?
She should get you arrested and made to sign Restrictions order.

I like the fact you didn’t generalize. This guy is messing up a lot but lust Can’t let him see this. Babe prepared for every worse scenario

Even If your story is real.... remember I told you that you will end up in prision,that light has got nothing to do with darkness.


I hope when next you will be typing, it's either from prison or behind the bar or from home when you back. Don't forget to update us.


ETHAN of mission impossible.

No now! Bro!! I did not force her o....

Countersam:
If you cannot respect her nunship then we will escort you to jail.

Beating? How? But I've realized my mistake... I got she truly loved me then but now I know better......

CJStarz:
You deserve better beating, walahi

Thanks brother... I really appreciate your help.....I'll do just that

essentialone:
I know how angry and hurt you are right now. But let’s cut straight to the legal reality, because “court bailiff already contacted you” means this is serious and you need to move carefully.

1. Did you commit a punishable offence?
Under Nigerian law, asking for sex is not automatically a crime. But how and in what context you asked it matters:

- If you sent that “goodbye sex” request after she’d told you she moved on, and especially if it was repeated, unwanted, or came with pressure, it can fall under sexual harassment.
- Section 360 of the Criminal Code and Section 208 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, plus the Violence Against Persons Prohibition Act 2015, cover unwanted sexual advances that cause distress, intimidation, or humiliation.
- If she feels threatened or harassed, she can file a complaint. Police or courts can summon you to explain your message. That’s likely why a bailiff contacted you.

So yes, there’s a risk of civil or criminal action if she pursues it. “It was just a joke” isn’t a defense if she felt harassed.

2. Threatening her back or falsely accusing her of seduction
Don’t do this. Filing a false accusation with the Mother General, Reverend Father, or police is criminal defamation and giving false information to authorities. Under Section 393 of the Criminal Code, that’s punishable. It will make your situation worse, not better.

3. Her threatening to report your parents to the church
If she actually goes to your parish and makes false claims about your parents to get them barred from Communion, that’s also defamatory. But you can’t counter it by threatening her. Deal with your own case first.

What you should do right now:

- Don’t contact her again. No texts, calls, threats. Anything you send now can be used against you.
- Get a lawyer immediately. If a bailiff contacted you, there’s likely a summons or petition. A lawyer can tell you what you’re being charged with and how to respond. If you can’t afford one, go to Legal Aid Council in your state.
- Keep evidence. Save all messages between you two, including where she ended things. Your lawyer will need context.
- Apologize only through your lawyer if advised. Don’t send another emotional message yourself.

I know it feels like she changed and is being “wicked”. But legally, the issue isn’t whether she still loves you. It’s whether your last request crossed into harassment under the law.

You messed up by letting hurt push you to ask that. Own that with a lawyer, don’t compound it with threats or false counter-accusations.

Hmmm. She was indeed prepared.... I've learnt my lesson

FitCorper:
I like the fact you didn’t generalize. This guy is messing up a lot but lust Can’t let him see this. Babe prepared for every worse scenario

No now? Jail? Noo ! God forbid... I've learnt my lesson and now I've realized she never loved me from the on set..... We can now be sworn enemies cos this that she has done will not leave my memories in a jiffy....

keemsleek:
Even If your story is real.... remember I told you that you will end up in prision,that light has got nothing to do with darkness.


I hope when next you will be typing, it's either from prison or behind the bar or from home when you back. Don't forget to update us.


ETHAN of mission impossible.

udofia234:
Just like I was advised by my niggas here to let everything rest, that she has moved on and our parts are now different.....


So I told her I've forgiven her from my heart, that I have one last wish .....


If only she can at least grant it for me for the sake of the love we once shared...... I know some might find this story fictitious, but I don't care, it's happening to me just this week....


Back to my wish......


I told her I wanted to have sex with her as a goodbye and we can now part for ever .......



She became mad at me and insisted she'll level up a charge against me....



Guys I'm only seeking an advise please....
Have I committed any punishable crime under the law? It was just a harmless conversation........



I never knew she has changed so much to a wicked and devlish nun....

After all she did to me she's sueing me... The man she kept telling 8 years ago that she loved with all her life.....

This show she never loved me.....


I got it was a joke until I was contacted today by court baliff ....... 😠😠😠
...


You can see how women change?




She even threatened to go to my parents parish to report them to the Reverend father so they'll be bared from holy Communion and worker..... Please is this not wickedness? How does this concern my parents?


I know I messed up! Was eaten up by unforgiveness now see where it's going for me now......


I'm thinking of also threatening her that I'll write and accuse her before mother General of seducing me into asking her for sex.....

I need your candid advise, this is my life line for now......



Legal luminaries in the house help me out......

You wanted to have sex with a nun just because she was your girlfriend many years ago. What a foolish idea . You seem very shallow man

udofia234:
Just like I was advised by my niggas here to let everything rest, that she has moved on and our parts are now different.....


So I told her I've forgiven her from my heart, that I have one last wish .....


If only she can at least grant it for me for the sake of the love we once shared...... I know some might find this story fictitious, but I don't care, it's happening to me just this week....


Back to my wish......


I told her I wanted to have sex with her as a goodbye and we can now part for ever .......



She became mad at me and insisted she'll level up a charge against me....



Guys I'm only seeking an advise please....
Have I committed any punishable crime under the law? It was just a harmless conversation........



I never knew she has changed so much to a wicked and devlish nun....

After all she did to me she's sueing me... The man she kept telling 8 years ago that she loved with all her life.....

This show she never loved me.....


I got it was a joke until I was contacted today by court baliff ....... 😠😠😠
...


You can see how women change?




She even threatened to go to my parents parish to report them to the Reverend father so they'll be bared from holy Communion and worker..... Please is this not wickedness? How does this concern my parents?


I know I messed up! Was eaten up by unforgiveness now see where it's going for me now......


I'm thinking of also threatening her that I'll write and accuse her before mother General of seducing me into asking her for sex.....

I need your candid advise, this is my life line for now......



Legal luminaries in the house help me out......

If this narration is true, you need to be arrested. People like you are the type that uses ladies' nvde pictures to blackmail them.

Absolutely! It's a lovely little snippet of delightful, utterly charming, and utterly predictable romance. Nothing to disagree with at all.

Your chances of becoming a r@pist and killerr like the guy who beheaded that nursing student for refusing his advances is high, it's not good for a man to lack self control, you are still very young from your tone of writing, when a woman tells you she has moved on also learn to quickly move on

budaatum:
I think you are 9 years old and need to grow up some.

A mature you would understand how much you are messing up already and go get better priorities.

No.

I think he is mad.

But you seem to be tempting her knowing fully well that she has answered her call

udofia234:
No now! Bro!! I did not force her o....

I'm out already

Countersam:
But you seem to be tempting her knowing fully well that she has answered her call

Thanks, but you fail to understand how I feel

decatalyst:
No.

I think he is mad.

Noted...that's not what I represent....

Guyman02:
Your chances of becoming a r@pist and killerr like the guy who beheaded that nursing student for refusing his advances is high, it's not good for a man to lack self control, you are still very young from your tone of writing, when a woman tells you she has moved on also learn to quickly move on

Hmmmm

AcadaWriter0:
Absolutely! It's a lovely little snippet of delightful, utterly charming, and utterly predictable romance. Nothing to disagree with at all.

Are u alright? Has it gotten to this level... I'm not like that bro....

edogu:
If this narration is true, you need to be arrested. People like you are the type that uses ladies' nvde pictures to blackmail them.

Not shallow brother .... Have u ever loved?

Nicoddemus:
You wanted to have sex with a nun just because she was your girlfriend many years ago. What a foolish idea . You seem very shallow man

udofia234:
Thanks, but you fail to understand how I feel

You seem to be failing to understand that most of us don't care how you feel!

poshestmina:
She didn't have sex with you since and now you want her to defile herself and covenant to God to please you?

Them use f^^k swear for some of una?
She should get you arrested and made to sign Restrictions order.

Yes na.

Una know say f^^k dey too sweet so una don cus men with am.