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He might be sterile/azoospermia

Dshocker:
What about if the fault is from you?

Modified...he said the wife has chronic PCOS.

What if the issue is with you?

Hmmmn. Before you divorce her, have you done all the necessary test to be sure problem is not from you or her? BTW, is two years not too early to come to the conclusion of ending the marriage?

Privateworld:
I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.

I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa .

Its disrespectful that you gave up just after two yrs.
We ve seen couples welcoming their first child after 5yrs. Have you guys gone for medical check
Why not marry 2nd wife instead

Can chronic PCOS be treated successfully?and how long does the treatment entails?

Onegai:
Omo mehnnnn, no love left in the world

"Her womb isn't working, 2 years don knack oya make i return item back to the shop and get a refund".

Then God will hear her cries, bless her and your next wife will be perfectly fine but nothing will happen for 6 years

Abeg make i understand ur matter well, na u wan return bride price or na the girl family wan return bride price for u to collect? Cox i am not understandung again

Privateworld:
We have don everything doable and she seem to be issue. She has pcos and its a chronic one according to the doctor

you don't love that woman. Cut her loose. I and my wife waited for almost 2 years to welcome our first child and we had to wait for another 3 years to welcome our second child. In our case I had remedial infertility but through medical prescription and prayer my fertility was restored and my wife stood by me.

There are other medical means using cutting edge assisted conception that would work for you and your wife to make babies. You seem not to have interest in the marriage again though

The problem could be from you or her or from both of you.
Do anyhow you like.

Op, na you collect bride price wey you want return? I don't get it. 🤔

Privateworld:
I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.

I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa .

make u no ever for ur life do church marriage because u go take oath
for better for worse
Barren or no barren
infertile or no infertility
for richer for poorer
in sickness and in health
till death do u part

Love conquers all. My man, if you truly loves her, you will go any length with her. Afterall must you born?

Privateworld:
I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.

I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa .

a difficult one I must say.Sorry about that sir. Try enter a specialist hospital like a teaching hospital or Federal medical center in the state u reside.u will need a lot of patience through the process of waiting for your turn to see the specialist.dont just go to any hospital.specific cases are meant for specific specialty/specialist.
Issue of a woman unable to get pregnant is 50/50%. 50% can be from a male factor and another 50% female factor so ensure u both do a proper evaluation to know the cause.As I have advised, ensure it's a gynaecologist in a teaching hospital or Federal medical center seeing you.weldon sir

Tales by sunlight.

U wan return bride price.

So na dem pay u bride price?

Privateworld:
We have don everything doable and she seem to be issue. She has pcos and its a chronic one according to the doctor

2 years and you saying that you've run a series of tests sounds like you've being putting that poor woman under pressure.

For anyone in this situation:

Stress also reduces fertility for both men and women

Read this
https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/polycystic-ovary-syndrome-pcos

Look up more on PCOS:
https://www.acog.org/womens-health/experts-and-stories/the-latest/getting-pregnant-despite-pcos

See success stories:
https://www.reddit.com/r/pregnant/comments/1c9mhoz/any_success_stories_of_pregnancy_with_pcos/

Go to Health section and join the TTC thread (trying to conceive). Plenty Nigerian information there.

Cover your wife with prayers, na your prayer and hard work dey open womb.

This is the time for you to show you're the Head of the House, the Leader of your family, not the time to start running when the going gets tough.

I literally met a woman who married a widower, raised his 2 sons to adulthood and decided to try for a baby...at 50.

Her boy is 5 years old.

Nothing God no fit do, oya man up🙂. You got this 👊

Privateworld:
I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.

I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa .

Wait and take marriage
You're leaving already?

Let God forgive your impatience and lovelessness

daphuck is pcos

You no love that woman.

Caaz:
Can chronic PCOS be treated successfully?and how long does the treatment entails?

It can be managed very successfully, check my last reply the Reddit thread, those ones were posting their success stories with babies.

And I know that a lot of people are getting misdiagnosed with PCOS nowadays, because of social media. Consultants in Nigeria (unfortunately most are male) are always rolling their eyes inwardly when they are rold by patients "I have PCOS".

Privateworld:
I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.

I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa .

I no even understand, u want to return her pride price?. Na she pay you the price wey u wan return or am I missing something here.

Smell like made up story.... Next.

MAYBE PERSON DON SHIFT HER WOMB BEFORE YOU MARRY HER

Have you done semen analysis?

Privateworld:
I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.

I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa .

Have you both been medically certified yet, to know where the problem is coming from

Privateworld:
We have don everything doable and she seem to be issue. She has pcos and its a chronic one according to the doctor

PCOS is not a difficult condition to treat. ordinary metformin can manage the condition adequately coupled with ovulatory stimulant like clomiphene or letrozole.
Go see gynaecologist, they can help u guys out. sometimes they offer this injection called GnRH hormone that also induce ovulation.

if above doesn't work, there's IVF but I understand your financial capacity may be a limitation. all the same, talk to experienced gynaecologist. B4 I left Nigeria some gynae doctors in hinterland states like osun, benue offers 800k for a cycle- though I admit the baseline for IVF treatment would have gone up in this Tinubu era.

But the first step is to see an experienced gynaecologist who can help both of u out.

besides, except u get married very late or your wife is in her mid or late 30s, I dont really see why u should be impatient within just 2 years. newly married couples do postpone having kids for 4-5 yrs despite both being fertile.

pls seek expert opinion on this matter, rather than looking for a convenient way out. PCOS is not that hard like u painting it here. lots of women do have it and they have multiple kids.

Try have a little more patience

Marriage is overrated
Love is overrated
The closest thing to love is that which your parents and children(in some cases) have for you
See this one now, the woman no conceive after 2 years e wan check out.
E no even reason say im fit get accident dey incapacitated and would have to depend on the woman

Hmmn, it's well oo, marriage these days. Is it no longer for better, for worse.

Privateworld:
Honestlyi don't have that patience again. I'm already tired. I don't want to wait and regret later

why don't you adopt a child, what if you are the one having issues, have you gone for a test

How much did you receive for husband price? I guess you should return it....and the wife. You're not ready for marriage...not mature enough ... marriage calls for a whole lot of patience and ability to solve problems. One doctor said she has PCOS ...did you try getting a second opinion? ... did she show any of the symptoms? ...Did you consider having her treated? ...did you find out her chances of bearing a child? You not ready....your next choice may likely bare you a child ... that's not yours.

Privateworld:
I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.

I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa .

What kind of person are you? Just two years and you are already thinking of a divorce because your wife hasn't gotten pregnant. I'd suggest you go for fertility tests -both you and your wife. If you happen to be the infertile one ( which I pray for ) I just hope you'd go ahead with the divorce.

SafariHunter:
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What is this dear Nairaland?

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