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Goldrosewine:
I mean just look at where my hairline starts😊 let's do an hairline challenge sir😋

I still dey on your matter. I just dey wait for something

Goldrosewine:
This does not imply sexual interests, abeg o just bored today on this holiday and I have decided to rant here, since I saw a similar post recently about a guy saying confidence is what a lady cannot resist in a man. I won't appreciate any unsolicited messages🙏

Dentition: Gap teeth (you know what I mean, especially a small one right between the central incisors) or just between the lateral incisor and canine)

Thick wrist (not fats deposit, just wrists with a wide circumference)

Minimal or no bodily hairs. Yeah a lot will hate me for this, just my opinion which may change or not. But those beards, chest or armpit hairs? Taah!

Height. However you must not be too tall. I am 5:9 so anything from 5:6 to 5:11 is perfect.

Modesty and awesomeness (not extreme masculinity) I am not a feminist abeg. I like guys that are gentle, pull the chair for you at the restaurant, hold an umbrella for you, hold the door open for you, just being a gentleman. Absolute modesty and simple too. Not a show off dude haha!

Healthy lifestyle. There is nothing I dislike more than a guy who smokes or drinks or do both. I don't just dislike them, I h-word them. Take your good health seriously guys, go for rehab if you need to.

Small inner circle. Guys with few or no friends. The introvert who enjoys his own company.

Respectful. The guy that still prostrate to greet his dad at 30 years, still run errands for his mom at 35 (not necessarily because he is living with them, but maybe sometimes when he visits or when they give him an emergency call) that level of respect is the norm for every omoluabi.

Not bald. As much as I dislike body hairs, e no reach head abeg🤣

Belly fat. (Not pot belly) I love belly fat in a man, especially the type that gives him the wealthy boy vibe when he's in a native. I don't know but in Benin republic, I once saw this muscular, six pack guy that bullied people and he had an altercation with this gentle guy who looks ordinary, he even had a fatty belly. Against what people thought, it was the muscular guy that needed saving o, see blue black beating. Lol. It kind of left an impression on me.

Speech intelligence. Even if you no know book, just have good oratory skills and be eloquent. I would like to see my man on a podium speaking with great eloquence while I sit in the crowd or assembly just admiring him and looking at how other ladies are admiring him😊🥰🥰🥰 aiish

Phobia. Scared of snakes or rats or spiders or cocroaches lol even my cousin would tell me I will never find this trait in a Nigerian man. But I am not scared of those things. So I would really like a guy that has such fears, that way I would be able to do something for him and it would make me feel good🤦🙈 it's hard to explain honestly.🥲🥲


Ambitious. he dreams big, not jealous of success, just envying it and ambitious to reach the top too.

Laughs a lot. That would be golden!

He cries. Like, weep Take this from me. If you ever express your sadness in tears while in your girl's arm, it does something to her heart... she'd start clutching to you so hard. Don't be manly all the time. Sometimes, just let the feelings flow. Life is already hard for everyone, talkless a man.🥺 I feel u guys.

Straight legs No vex but I dislike wobbly legs... and many guys have come to have a sort of disfigured legs due to bad walking posture, trying to copy one silly trend or so, etc.

Gentle with kids and pets That would be another golden trait!

Extremely decent with words and actions when in public The way he eats, talks, interact, just everything. Especially in Nigeria where people judge you by your countenance and how you 'carry' yourself.

You know the sort of guys that gleefully talk about women's body parts in public? That's so uncouth and all ladies detest such.

Gold🌹🍷


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0-95cqxPow4?si=RfwAJTJ6f6g1w_fg

Rubbish and noise, but in University you see them going after bad boys and vagabonds, na after menopause start ringing they will start thinking of Good boy for marriage retirement

Goldrosewine:
Bald man has spoken🥰 just know there is a woman for everyman. Don't take it to heart

But you are bald too na

Hahahaha

Wetin bi that Kizz Daniel talk again?

"Don't worry about me, worry about your hairline"

WhiteIverson:
You want all this but you're a solid 3/10

I mean look at where your hairline starts

What’s really going on here?

Make I no talk wetin dey my mind.

You are visibly beautiful in my own way. But I can't satisfy all these demands.

MisterKennedy:
I know you said no guy should send you any unsolicited messages, but I honestly love your honesty. You really took out time to explain all the features you want and admire in a man... That's cool... My curiosity drove me to check out your profile and I can tell that, not only are you a very beautiful woman, you are also a very intelligent woman. And I see it in the way you chat too. Your flow of chat and sentence structure and grammar is so on point and off the charts. If wishes were horses right now, I'd love to ask you for your number so that we could be communicating off Nairaland. You are the kind of lady I honestly want to make my friend. Would you please give me your number? Or can I give you mine instead please?

You checked her profile and didn't see her number there?

martinskelly:
What works for you OP might not generally work for another person, the fact that you listed what you want in man is a clear indication that some women don't actually know what they really want.

All I can see in your post is "I need a handsome tall rich black guy with six packs" hence the modification of your list.

I can bet you, let's say a young Obasanjo or Oshiomhole comes to you, you will still retract your list and fold it under your pillow.
There somethings women can't resist before love, it's money and fame.

Look at this general assertions;
1. Most beautiful women if not all uses beauty as a yardstick to enumerate what type of man they would want to spend their entire life with (the case is not always like that).

2. Why is it that when ladies are beautiful they always want to put a price tag on it compare to men.

3. Being beautiful is priceless because actually nobody really is ugly depending on what you term UGLY.

4. most men actually look beyond beauty in a woman though beauty with brain is a plus but not always the case with men.

5. Being confident and rich is what the general public termed for men as handsomeness, well this could be debated but not in this generation.

6. Most men if not all, already knows what they want in a woman in their head

7. Most women if not all, already have a paper list of the type of men they want and if nature could give them time to create a man for themselves then the materials for creation will not even be enough for them to create even the HEAD not to talk of the entire body

There's something about this beauty entitlement and it's a bitter truth. The privilege of beauty and assuming that it will cover for other deficiencies. The beautyful ones are not yet born indeed...

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Look at this small child. See the list wey she write down.


meobizy, come and check whether you allign with am.🥱🥱

As she grows the lists would begin to reduce unless she can create one with AI

I see no stains or ish in her imaginative heart desires , zodiac or dream man

It just ball differently on every earthling.
The frequency, vibration and energies .

But understand, no finger prints look alike, it's called uniqueness.
Since it's Freya day( Friday) and one step at a time.

Like sinners eyes stay fixed to the sky, my eyes only stay glued to girls whose breast sags in a Bra, Ass moved with swag,, definition of stars.

A smart girl is all I need
One,who will roll my weed
When my hands are weak.
And you gotta respect That.

I have not bothered to respond to the OP because the first comment on AI was so hilarious but this part where she wrote

Minimal or no bodily hairs. Yeah a lot will hate me for this, just my opinion which may change or not. But those beards, chest or armpit hairs? Taah!

You want a clean shaved man with all these qualities and no beards or hairs (which is natural)? You will most likely get a retired Monk.

SixSeven:
There's something about this beauty entitlement and it's a bitter truth. The privilege of beauty and assuming that it will cover for other deficiencies. The beautyful ones are not yet born indeed...

It's really an agonizingly and embarrassing entitled mental disorder.

They feel that every other defects in them will not be noticeable if they are beautiful but men are changing the narratives now.

WhiteIverson:
You want all this but you're a solid 3/10

I mean look at where your hairline starts

I disagree...she's damn fine.

U r actually looking for a simp. Abeg post ur picture, I m sure na hiss we go hiss

All this, but the guy is supposed to accept you as you are abi 🤔🤔🤔

Goldrosewine:
Ah! With the way Nigeria is now sir, people still dey share location?

You are beautiful sha! But you get good character?
My location is PH

Werey










Werey

Hassanmaye:
Rubbish and noise, but in University you see them going after bad boys and vagabonds, na after menopause start ringing they will start thinking of Good boy for marriage retirement

I guess you are describing what your mom did sha

KingMack:
I think me and you will make an amazing couple of weeks click 😉

Alright sir

lailo:
Nurse Adekunle

Yes sir?

jiggar:
I must say, your write-up is extensive but it's what you want, and there's no crime in having preferences (You no kill person na).

Ironically, all your stated requirements qualifies as being me, but only two will, well... takes me out of the equation, which are (1) and (3).

So, I do hope, your wishes come to pass sooner than later.

No wishes, just catching cruise here. Everyone is beautiful and unique in their own ways

lamentor78:
Goldrosewine......A beg shake dat tin baba God has bless you with.... don't mind haters....

You are rose ❤️🌹🌹 enjoy life to fullest..jooor..!!!

God bless you sir

Caseless:
He's just trying to pull your legs. You're good-looking and deserves the kind of man you desire.

Pot belly and phobia... 😂 weird.

I run from snake.

ahaa... can we be friends?

Goldrosewine:
I guess you are describing what your mom did sha

I'm just telling you how women psychology is

Chienex24:
What is your profession? A nurse or doctor?

A nurse in her finals sir. (student)

socoharley:
As for me SocoHarley, if you are not a virgin under 25 then fogerrit I can't be wasting my money and time on damaged infrastructure

21 still with her pride and dignity. And you sire, respectfully are way below my standards.

Munzy14:
Sounding like the Popular roz from year to year..😂😂😂
Funny lady.

Lol there are sure a lot of good guys here who knows how to keep the convo going. Too bad I have exams, would love to keep up with the mentions. Enjoy your day sir

RealityKings1:
Why why why why
Oh why😢
my love for her is an endless light
Traveling through my retina
And giving my heart electrical signals
My heart drums gbim gbim gbim
anytime I see goldrosewine
She's Gold
She's Rose
She's wine and I would love her to be mine

jubrilELsudan:
E DEY VERY OBVIOUS SEY YOU STILL BE VIRGIN

I am 21, still with my pride and dignity too. What's so wrong in anyone expressing their feelings respectfully. Thanks to you I got his message
@RealityKings1 I have exams but will keep up with the chat in the future

IbrahimSola:
Ah, girl you're describing me. But sorry, you came late, I'm already taken, and I'm booming babies for the lucky Akwa Ibom beau that sighted me long before you got your priorities right about men. I pray you find my little copy somewhere. To marry, not just to freak.

Lol amen sir but this is not me searching, just cruise. Thanks for the prayer, I wish you a long happy, blissful married life filled with all the fun the world can offer.

Goldrosewine:
Lol there are sure a lot of good guys here who knows how to keep the convo going. Too bad I have exams, would love to keep up with the mentions. Enjoy your day sir

Of course, wisdom demands we seperate corn from chaff as always.

Good luck with your exams and have a nice day!

RealityKings1:
Why why why why
Oh why😢
my love for her is an endless light
Traveling through my retina
And giving my heart electrical signals
My heart drums gbim gbim gbim
anytime I see Goldrosewine
She's Gold
She's Rose
She's wine and I would love her to be mine

He puts me in this condition
That makes me look to the horizon
His affection and attention, eternal impaction.

I dream of roses in meadows
cats with purrs and meows
a little breeze upon my skirt
swarming bees upon a scout
One scream I went running to him
oh! it was his scheme to caress my limbs

My heart sways even in May
It rained that way on this day
I remember the hays in the rakes
entangled hearts that slay.

It is how I imagine him,
It is how I know him.
It is how he shall die
for that was how he lived.
there he stood, without motion
no inclination no notion
how was I to know his intentions?



I appreciate the poem. Thanks for reaching out