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Stephen0mozzy:
We have a saying in my place.

Eghe nomwan ya yore, ore owie.
(Na the time wey person wake up naim be morning).

There's no template. Just make sure you're building, learning or growing towards something, and you'll see and meet opportunities to stand oj your feet.

emmaodet:
I totally agree with you bro.

The kind run and hustle wey i hustle for this life heyyyyyyy yet na zero upon zeros and at a point, i thought their was a curse following me.
Guess what? what am even doing now at a very relaxed mode without any running around and i am far far far better than where i was 10 years ago.

iHart:
When you start walking, you have found your feet.

Stephen0mozzy:
We have a saying in my place.

Eghe nomwan ya yore, ore owie.
(Na the time wey person wake up naim be morning).

There's no template. Just make sure you're building, learning or growing towards something, and you'll see and meet opportunities to stand on your feet.

Olachase:
Anytime way I see Eba chop I day always thank God

LordIsaac:
At the age he meets Jesus...the earlier, the better, actually!

Ibadanfarmroad:
bro please you people should normalize giving your kids native names, the matter Dey shame me, anywhere go you in Benin is English names, if you enter any estate in Benin and about Jaden almost ten kids will answer you at once.

judewrites:
The founder of the worldwide Kentucky fried chicken eatery found his feet at over 60 after several failures and rejections!

This life is a marathon not a sprint, stop comparing yourself to others!

Stephen0mozzy:
Lol... I understand Chief. We actually give our children native names, the English/Christian name is just more popular.

For me, my native name is like a Private thing 😁, only my Family knows and can call me by the name.

We have a lot of Osa.... And Omo... as names.

BTW, nice that you made out the Tribe from the language I typed 🙂

RealityKings1:
Yes but the problem is that it's nearly impossible

Pinnup:
Thank you for this. It's encouraging. Right now people are looking down on me because of my condition but they don't know I'm cooking something. I have learnt several online skills and all to earn in dollars. By the time results start showing, they'll be surprised and look up to me.

Sirchiboy:
At what age should a man be able to find his feet in life

Host78:
Recently a friend just graduated and he saved money from school to marry his wife.

I'm thinking of doing the same thing. He's a medical student who have spent 7-8 years in school.

He could wait another 7-10 years to become a consultant where he'll be making bigger sum to marry.

But time will be going then.

This is dependent on the standards you want your future family to live in.

Most men can start a family once they get their first job and learn to live within their means.

There are many Okada men out there living paycheck to paycheck with their families.

Same as many civil servants and farmers. This makes up the bulk of the population not the shining lekki apartment you see on TV.

But many young men today wants the luxury lifestyle they see on TV.

They want kids going to private school, kids that they "drive" to their schools, they can take vacation in Dubai once in a while or eat in luxury restaurants.

To achieve this, you'll want a little while and may not achieve it in this life.

My advice: if you're doing something now and you can afford to cater to a woman, one that can accept you now and live within your budget/ willing to work.

Save up and go start your family.

Don't wait for the glamour lifestyle shown on TV. Those things don't make up a happy family.

franchasofficia:
When God and his destiny decides.


The race of life is not for the swift or for the wise or for the strongest or for the most hardworking or the smartest or the most intelligent or for the most beautiful/handsome, but of God that showeth mercy to whom He had decided to show mercy.


Look around you, there are very smart and intelligent people that are still struggling with life. There are strong people that are struggling to survive. There are hardworking men that are very broke and poor. There are very beautiful ladies that are struggling to find a partner while some are married and regretting or struggling to feed in that marriage. There are some handsome guys that are struggling to find just one woman to be with them. On the contrary, there are very dull people that are excelling in life beyond imagination. There are lazy people that are rich and famous. There are ugly women married to very rich and influential men. There are rich ugly women. There are ugly guys married to the hottest women you can only imagine, and etc.


So as a man you can decide that you will stand on your feet before you turn 30yrs or 35yrs and God will say He will bless you abundantly beyond your imagination before you even reach 30yrs.


God can decide to make it 50yrs, if thats your destined time, no matter how smart or hard you work, you will keep struggling and failing until you hit 50yrs and you will just realize that everything you lay your hands on will start working, even the things you once failed trying to do in the past, the stars will start aligning in your favor once you reach your God destined time.


Some people will say its all lies but they are saying it because they are destined to say it right now.


No human can run beyond his or destiny in life. Life is spiritual, we are only a physical manifestation of our spiritual being.

Wealthyonos:
The right age a man should be able to find his feet in life is the age at which he finds his feet in life. We don't have the same timing in life.