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Poll: If she comes back and tells you her mum asked her to go back where she slept last night.

Open door and start living together. 17% (54 votes)
Go and beg her parents. 51% (157 votes)
Introduce her to your wife as second wife. 3% (11 votes)
Send her away immediately. 27% (84 votes)
This poll has ended

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Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Fiscus105(op):
If a young lady comes back to meet you and tells you, her mom told her, she should go back to where she slept last night.

Open door for her and start cohabitating with her. (Single guys)

Go and meet her parents to apologize.

Take her to your home and introduce her as second wife.(Married men)

Send her away.

Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Ikennaford: 8:42am On Jun 01
My prayer point answered
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Samantha125(f): 8:46am On Jun 01
I'd gladly welcome her as a second wife, but he better make sure that his funeral policy is up-to-date, because one thing about life is that accidents happen all the time.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by kiddaz: 9:01am On Jun 01
why would I be entangled with a girl still dependent on her parents in the first place undecided
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by kelechi50: 12:06pm On Jun 01
First wife is one wahala, second wife double wahala pro Max.

For your mental health and well-being stick to one wife. If not, even after your death the wahala you called enjoyment during your life time lives on.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Gotocourt: 12:08pm On Jun 01
Two rounds don sure for the night grin
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by ManknowThyself(m): 12:34pm On Jun 01
That's a pure format from her mother for you to follow her home, introduce yourself to the family and plead on her behalf she slept at your place.

That na 10% introduction.

When you understand you feel it.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Diamond098454(f): 1:54pm On Jun 01
If you are single, just open the door for her but if you are married introduce her to your wife and be truthful about it

Tell your wife how you normally knack the girl every weekend and even stop her from seeing another guy.

Greedy men
Fiscus105:
If a young lady comes back to meet you and tells you, her mom told her, she should go back to where she slept last night.

pen door for and start cohabitating with her.(Single guys)

Go and meet her parents to apologize.

Take her to your home to introduce her as second wife.(Married men)

Send her away.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Diamond098454(f): 1:55pm On Jun 01
Hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣
Samantha125:
I'd gladly welcome her as a second wife, but he better make sure that his funeral policy is up-to-date, because one thing about life is that accidents happen all the time.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Diamond098454(f): 2:00pm On Jun 01
Take her home and ask your wife to prepare special delicacy that your sidechick have arrived
Men and infidelity

Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Fiscus105(op): 3:22pm On Jun 01
Samantha125:
I'd gladly welcome her as a second wife, but he better make sure that his funeral policy is up-to-date, because one thing about life is that accidents happen all the time.
Anyway, I don't know if you married an Africa man, because in Africa, polygamous is part of our life.

Any wife whose her husband is economical viable should endeavor to allow husband to marry more wives.

Unmarried single ladies just too many on the street and it's desire of every woman to have kids and husband.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Eba50: 3:22pm On Jun 01
if she fine exactly like this i go marry am
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Samantha125(f): 3:31pm On Jun 01
I'm married to a fully proud African man... cheesy cheesy cheesy... There's a difference between practicing polygamy and cheating.

A man who intends to practice polygamy would open up to his woman during the early stages of their relationship before tying the knot so that the woman can make a choice to either prepare herself or leave.

You don't just go around cheating and brining a woman in the house out of nowhere.
Fiscus105:
Anyway, I don't know if you married an Africa man, because in Africa, polygamous is part of our life.

Any wife whose her husband is economical viable should endeavor to allow husband to marry more wives.

Unmarried single ladies just too many on the street and it's desire of every woman to have kids and husband.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Fiscus105(op): 3:39pm On Jun 01
Samantha125:
I'm married to a fully proud African man... cheesy cheesy cheesy... There's a difference between practicing polygamy and cheating.

A man who intends to practice polygamy would open up to his woman during the early stages of their relationship before tying the knot so that the woman can make a choice to either prepare herself or leave.

You don't just go around cheating and brining a woman in the house out of nowhere.
Every polygamous started from cheating, you hardly see a second wife brought home, without "something" going on between them prior to introduction to first wife, even among Muslims which the custom is expressly stated.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Samantha125(f): 5:03pm On Jun 01
It's no longer cheating if the couple have reached an agreement after discussing about it prior their marriage and the husband is transparent about it.

The wife can even help him in choosing another wife.
Fiscus105:
Every polygamous started from cheating, you hardly see a second wife brought home, without "something" going on between them prior to introduction to first wife, even among Muslims which the custom is expressly stated.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Diamond098454(f):
So, you won't date a girl that's still under her parents?
kiddaz:
why would I be entangled with a girl still dependent on her parents in the first place undecided
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Vergovert: 6:46pm On Jun 01
The parents that told her to go back to where she slept last night were only trying to correct the lady.

They were expecting the lady to sober up and apologize especially when she didn't take permission to spend the night elsewhere.

So going back to the guy's place is a red flag already.


She would leave your place to another man's house anytime there's a little quarrel.

If she cannot show humility and respect for her parents, same treatment is surely coming to you very soon.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by kiddaz: 7:07pm On Jun 01
Diamond098454:
So, you won't date a girl that's still understand her parents?
Understand her parents how? If her mom can tell her to go back to where she's coming from only means she's disciplining her child which is good and it also means the girl is still a child and is not fully ready. Na small pikin dey play hide and seek. I don't cut corners. I come correct and straight through the door
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Diamond098454(f): 7:10pm On Jun 01
Sorry under her parents
kiddaz:
Understand her parents how? If her mom can tell her to go back to where she's coming from only means she's disciplining her child which is good and it also means the girl is still a child and is not fully ready. Na small pikin dey play hide and seek. I don't cut corners. I come correct and straight through the door
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Diamond098454(f): 7:11pm On Jun 01
Okay
I understand you now

kiddaz:
Understand her parents how? If her mom can tell her to go back to where she's coming from only means she's disciplining her child which is good and it also means the girl is still a child and is not fully ready. Na small pikin dey play hide and seek. I don't cut corners. I come correct and straight through the door
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by kiddaz: 7:16pm On Jun 01
Diamond098454:
Sorry under her parents
That's not an issue at all.. I meant psychologically and emotionally dependent
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Diamond098454(f): 7:23pm On Jun 01
Some of us only have that little freedom in school .hence , you travel to spend sometimes with your parents hmmm you won't even pick calls anyhow
kiddaz:
That's not an issue at all.. I meant psychologically and emotionally dependent
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by kiddaz: 7:37pm On Jun 01
Diamond098454:
Some of us only have that little freedom in school .hence , you travel to spend sometimes with your parents hmmm you won't even pick calls anyhow
That' good and I'm not against that. Parents must do their jobs
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Fiscus105(op): 7:43pm On Jun 01
Vergovert:
The parents that told her to go back to where she slept last night were only trying to correct the lady.

They were expecting the lady to sober up and apologize especially when she didn't take permission to spend the night elsewhere.

So going back to the guy's place is a red flag already.


She would leave your place to another man's house anytime there's a little quarrel.

If she cannot show humility and respect for her parents, same treatment is surely coming to you very soon.
Will you go and beg her parents? It's one of options, or you sent her away?
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by socoharley: 8:31pm On Jun 01
Samantha125:
I'd gladly welcome her as a second wife, but he better make sure that his funeral policy is up-to-date, because one thing about life is that accidents happen all the time.
South Africans are all killers in disguise grin
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by gutss(m): 9:59pm On Jun 01
She’s Single And Still Looking For An “Intentional Man” – Here’s Why Men Keep Walking Away

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Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Vergovert: 12:09am On Jun 02
Fiscus105:
Will you go and beg her parents? It's one of options, or you sent her away?
I will send her away at once!
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by kpankpangolo: 9:06pm On Jun 02
Close this thread and find an educative one.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by geoworldedu: 9:07pm On Jun 02
I will send her back asap. She must have missed road because I don't carry girls.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by ijayebonyi(f): 9:07pm On Jun 02
That’s what you guys will like
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Negroid001(m): 9:08pm On Jun 02
Na me you wan set trap for
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by PulaPower: 9:08pm On Jun 02
kiddaz:
why would I be entangled with a girl still dependent on her parents in the first place undecided
If nah girl with rich parent nko?
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