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folake4u:
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I was looking for this thread!

I just want to wish you all a merry Christmas 🎄

Double0h7:
I was looking for this thread!

I just want to wish you all a merry Christmas 🎄

Thank you for the wishes.

Merry Christmas to you darling girl. 💜

Happy new year everyone 🥰🥰🥰

babythug:
Happy new year everyone 🥰🥰🥰

Happy New Year Mama. 🤗😍😘

folake4u:
I welcome all the Nairaland ladies to this Roundtable Discussion.

This thread is for chitchats, everything feminine, friendships, money-making opportunities(if any), useful information, and general discussions.

Shall we, Ladies?

Cc: Magnoliaa
Persephone1
Pocohantas
Cococandy
ahnie
Geminita
Alexaonfleek
mysticgal
Klass99
Farfalla
AmazonTopaz
geekybabe
Ishilove
PrimadonnaO
Please tag other females. Thank you.

RULE 1: No lady should mention a male on the thread and if a male comments, he should be ignored.

How’s everyone doing? 😘🥂.

Any gist/update? Have a good weekend all 🤗

My husband and his niceness towards USERS...how do I make him understand that he's enabling them and it's not gonna end well when their entitlement mentality creeps in?



I really need answers




Thanks

babythug:
How’s everyone doing? 😘🥂.

Any gist/update? Have a good weekend all 🤗

Hello Mama babythug.

Happy New Month to you and yours.🎉🌸

This thread has really been quiet for a while, let's try to revive it when we can.

What do you miss about your single/youthful years? And what can the Gen Zs and Gen As learn from your experience.

Caaz:
My husband and his niceness towards USERS...how do I make him understand that he's enabling them and it's not gonna end well when their entitlement mentality creeps in?

I really need answers

Thanks

Happy New Month Mama Caaz.

Generally speaking, I think men do not hear word until their hands get burned, and then cry foul.😂😂

Caaz:
My husband and his niceness towards USERS...how do I make him understand that he's enabling them and it's not gonna end well when their entitlement mentality creeps in?
I really need answers
Thanks

There is nothing you can do, because like Folake rightly said, men only learn by consequences.

Your husband, like many others, cares a lot about public perception. Especially that of a fellow man. You are not the only (married) woman who has been through this phase, even my mother that is a grandmother went through it. If you keep trying to make him listen, you will become the bad person. They will say the man is good, na that im wife be the problem. So while it is hard, you have to allow him learn on his own.

babythug:
How’s everyone doing? 😘🥂.

Any gist/update? Have a good weekend all 🤗

Good morning Babythug,

The situation in Nigeria makes one feel guilty for doing anything pleasurable. It is sad it got this bad.

folake4u:
Hello Mama babythug.

Happy New Month to you and yours.🎉🌸

This thread has really been quiet for a while, let's try to revive it when we can.

What do you miss about your single/youthful years? And what can the Gen Zs and Gen As learn from your experience.

Hello mama 😘. I think what I miss is being toasted by different guys and socialising without a care in the world

pocohantas:
There is nothing you can do, because like Folake rightly said, men only learn by consequences.

Your husband, like many others, cares a lot about public perception. Especially that of a fellow man. You are not the only (married) woman who has been through this phase, even my mother that is a grandmother went through it. If you keep trying to make him listen, you will become the bad person. They will say the man is good, na that im wife be the problem. So while it is hard, you have to allow him learn on his own.

THISSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!

I saw it first hand even from my father and brother. They don't ever listen.

babythug:
Hello mama 😘. I think what I miss is being toasted by different guys and socialising without a care in the world

I hope your day is going well.😘

Lol I can imagine. Socializing is very important, it is my forte.

folake4u:
THISSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!

I saw it first hand even from my father and brother. They don't ever listen.

My father, brother, Mine...same same. 😃

pocohantas:
Good morning Babythug,

The situation in Nigeria makes one feel guilty for doing anything pleasurable. It is sad it got this bad.

Honestly you’re right 🥲

But despite all the sadness in the environment we must somehow find happiness/pleasure in little things

pocohantas:
My father, brother, Mine...same same. 😃

Omoo x 1million.

The enemies I ve accruded because of him is something else...and he sees nada wrong with it.yet when his eyes cleared.he'd run back to me and says he should be listened to me.

Give him few weeks again.hes at it...omo it's TIRING.


THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT MAAM.

pocohantas:
There is nothing you can do, because like Folake rightly said, men only learn by consequences.

Your husband, like many others, cares a lot about public perception. Especially that of a fellow man. You are not the only (married) woman who has been through this phase, even my mother that is a grandmother went through it. If you keep trying to make him listen, you will become the bad person. They will say the man is good, na that im wife be the problem. So while it is hard, you have to allow him learn on his own.