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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by gigabyte13: 9:32pm On Jun 02

sweetkev:
You better pray not to go broke. Abi no be woman you are talking about ?

Oga na broke be my name
I don broke tire.
I sabi go broke
But you no what..... huh

??
Na you know the agreement and arrangements wey dey between you and werrin you carry put for house.

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by Gigantiorji: 9:32pm On Jun 02

I don talk am before,I go still talk am again,marriage dey favour only the female folks

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by saintkel(m): 9:32pm On Jun 02

I am a man....I want to get married soon....I just want a lady who gives me peace....I mean I cant suffer for Tinubu then suffer again at home

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by gigabyte13: 9:34pm On Jun 02

ojonugba2014:
Keep this screen shot alaye

Enjoy it while it lasts
Nd I pray u don't go broke in the future, because na that time u go understand woman

🤣😂😅😅🤣😂😂
😅😅🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣
Anything wey you take money start, na the money you must take maintain am.
She kukuma know say l sabi broke Sha
Understand the difference between being broke and being poor.
Me and poverty don sign lifetime disagreement contract.

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by Investcom: 9:36pm On Jun 02

Only the husband title . Nothing more

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by judewrites: 9:39pm On Jun 02*

Marriage is fast losing relevance in today's society.

Anything you can get in marriage, you can also get outside it....sex, babies, companionship, etc.

That's why some decide not to marry at all.

However as a man, if you are looking for peace of mind, marry a woman who really loves you.

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by Chris225: 9:52pm On Jun 02

Remove sex wic of course is only enjoyable for few years

Nothing 😏

I sincerely dont see what men really benefit from marriage

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by dreamwords: 9:57pm On Jun 02

Onegai:
Peace, Love, Respect, Wisdom, Shared Values and Stability.

A lot of men don't know what peace looks like so they think a woman who leaves them to do what they feel like is "peace".

A quiet house isn't always peace, sometimes it's "I've made myself a monster so now my wife and kids disappear once I show up and that silence is deafening".

Respect doesn't mean she never challenges you, she'll do so in love.

Wisdom: see, a man, no SEVERAL MEN, have told me that "the day I didn't listen to my wife, what happened na me suffer am". Biblically, your wife is meant to counsel you, good or bad.

Love: someone's marriage packed up and he began missing his kids but didn't want his wife back (he fought for custody). His kids always looked so happy with his wife in her videos she sent him and they seemed happy (in his eyes) when they visited. When he eventually got custody, he realized his wife was the reason they were happy. Even as he hurt his wife, her love surrounded him and the kids and once she was gone, it was gone. Now he's trying to undo what he did.

Stability: knowing your woman can handle things on her own is vital. Knowing there's someone backing you is vital

wisdom is far from you, and it wont come any closer if you continue like this

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by TrippleEEEs: 9:59pm On Jun 02

Tenses:
Family

Without marriage you can't have family

I didn't say children but family

No the difference

Great point!

But please you should know the difference between No and KNOW

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by Amaggedon: 10:07pm On Jun 02

Onegai:
Peace, Love, Respect, Wisdom, Shared Values and Stability.

A lot of men don't know what peace looks like so they think a woman who leaves them to do what they feel like is "peace".

A quiet house isn't always peace, sometimes it's "I've made myself a monster so now my wife and kids disappear once I show up and that silence is deafening".

Respect doesn't mean she never challenges you, she'll do so in love.

Wisdom: see, a man, no SEVERAL MEN, have told me that "the day I didn't listen to my wife, what happened na me suffer am". Biblically, your wife is meant to counsel you, good or bad.

Love: someone's marriage packed up and he began missing his kids but didn't want his wife back (he fought for custody). His kids always looked so happy with his wife in her videos she sent him and they seemed happy (in his eyes) when they visited. When he eventually got custody, he realized his wife was the reason they were happy. Even as he hurt his wife, her love surrounded him and the kids and once she was gone, it was gone. Now he's trying to undo what he did.

Stability: knowing your woman can handle things on her own is vital. Knowing there's someone backing you is vital

When boko haram say they are from the relegion of peace you did be wondering if the peace they talked about has arabic spelling

Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by moramota: 10:21pm On Jun 02*

Dey play... Just dey write script make you dey play. . . Do quick, go marry, make you dey "beck and call" free congo.

Na only truly married men fit tell you say the thing no dey really work like that for marriage. Bro . . Some single men or guys dey mount congo pass some married men. Shey I go lie give you ni..

"Beck and call" 😂😂 You never jam married men wey go tell you say dem wish say dem still dey single, especially because of this congo matter. . .

IronCondemned:
Free Congo at your beck and call.

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by sprints1: 10:47pm On Jun 02

Onegai:
Peace, Love, Respect, Wisdom, Shared Values and Stability.

A lot of men don't know what peace looks like so they think a woman who leaves them to do what they feel like is "peace".

A quiet house isn't always peace, sometimes it's "I've made myself a monster so now my wife and kids disappear once I show up and that silence is deafening".

Respect doesn't mean she never challenges you, she'll do so in love.

Wisdom: see, a man, no SEVERAL MEN, have told me that "the day I didn't listen to my wife, what happened na me suffer am". Biblically, your wife is meant to counsel you, good or bad.

Love: someone's marriage packed up and he began missing his kids but didn't want his wife back (he fought for custody). His kids always looked so happy with his wife in her videos she sent him and they seemed happy (in his eyes) when they visited. When he eventually got custody, he realized his wife was the reason they were happy. Even as he hurt his wife, her love surrounded him and the kids and once she was gone, it was gone. Now he's trying to undo what he did.

Stability: knowing your woman can handle things on her own is vital. Knowing there's someone backing you is vital

on a spaceship ogini you say

Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by MyAmericandream(f): 11:07pm On Jun 02

Sirchiboy:
Nothing.
I hatee all women including my own mum.
Womern are menance to the society

Take it easy man.
Next time use the word POSSESSED women.
I wonder what your mom must have done to you.

Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by essentialone(m): 11:15pm On Jun 02

Women often say “I married him because he made me feel happy, safe, seen.” Men aren’t that different, they just tend to name it differently.

What most men actually enjoy in marriage:

1. Feeling respected, not just needed
A lot of men will say they can live without praise, but they can’t live with constant disrespect. When a wife trusts his judgment, backs him in front of others, and treats him like a partner not a project, he relaxes into the marriage.

2. Peace at home
Men rarely say this out loud, but “no drama” is huge. A home where he can walk in and exhale, where small issues don’t turn into wars, where he feels wanted – that’s what keeps him coming home early.

3. Physical affection + playfulness
Not just sex, though that matters. It’s the touch, the jokes, the flirting, feeling desired. When that dies, a lot of men emotionally check out.

4. Being a team
Men enjoy when marriage feels like “we’re building something together” – raising kids, buying a house, grinding toward a goal. He wants to feel like you’re on his side, not auditing him.

5. A wife who has her own life
Ironically, men enjoy marriage more when the woman isn’t making him her entire world. Her friends, her passions, her growth – it makes her more attractive and takes pressure off him to be her everything.

The flip side: men suffer most in marriage when they feel unappreciated, nagged, or like they can’t do anything right. That’s when they start living in the garage or on their phone.

So yeah – women marry for the happiness a man gives. Men stay happy in marriage when they feel respected, peaceful, desired, and like part of a team.

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 11:20pm On Jun 02

mirrael68:
➜God said, it's not good for the man to be alone.
➜ Also for this reason, a man must leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh.
➜ It's a divine order for those who want to take it up.

Are you certain that is what he said, or rather the lie your pastors sold to you, given that approximately half of his own prophets never married? undecided

What is instead found in the Book of Israelites Scriptures is that after forming a man from the dust of the ground...

5 Now no shrub had yet appeared on the earth[a] and no plant had yet sprung up, for the Lord God had not sent rain on the earth and there was no one to work the ground,
6 but streams[b] came up from the earth and watered the whole surface of the ground.
7 Then the Lord God formed a man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being. - Genesis 2 vs 5 - 7

He then said the following, regarding the particular man that He had just created in the previous passage.

15 The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it.
16 And the Lord God commanded the man, “You are free to eat from any tree in the garden;
17 but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die.”
18 The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” - Genesis 2 vs 15 - 18

Clearly, the above was not about every man, but about the particular man who existed at the beginning, the only man who had ever been alone -- like literally no other human existed--- on this planet at the time he was made**. undecided

2. So, in your mind, the many prophets remained celibate until death disregarded this divine order? More like a divine delusion for the vast majority of you who end up made miserable or dead by way of your divine delusions. undecided

** Language comprehension is a vital skill to have when reading through any text.

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 11:25pm On Jun 02

Sonofgod1990:
➜ Sex children and nothing more. I'm even planning to go for a contract marriage. You give me 4 children you go your way, I carry my children. I see women as a burden to mens life

Marriage is already a contract in and of itself. If you mean a temporary marriage rather than a life-long marriage, then what you are doing is putting a time limit on your union. There are many templates for such attempts out there already, and you will also need a divorce at the end of it. undecided

Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by kiddkash(m): 12:00am On Jun 03

Onegai:
Peace, Love, Respect, Wisdom, Shared Values and Stability.

A lot of men don't know what peace looks like so they think a woman who leaves them to do what they feel like is "peace".

A quiet house isn't always peace, sometimes it's "I've made myself a monster so now my wife and kids disappear once I show up and that silence is deafening".

Respect doesn't mean she never challenges you, she'll do so in love.

Wisdom: see, a man, no SEVERAL MEN, have told me that "the day I didn't listen to my wife, what happened na me suffer am". Biblically, your wife is meant to counsel you, good or bad.

Love: someone's marriage packed up and he began missing his kids but didn't want his wife back (he fought for custody). His kids always looked so happy with his wife in her videos she sent him and they seemed happy (in his eyes) when they visited. When he eventually got custody, he realized his wife was the reason they were happy. Even as he hurt his wife, her love surrounded him and the kids and once she was gone, it was gone. Now he's trying to undo what he did.

Stability: knowing your woman can handle things on her own is vital. Knowing there's someone backing you is vital

The way you stated this, women in 20's and 30's even early 40's don't have this kind of mentality. It is a shame the way this institution which has been a pillar of communities is being desecrated

Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by isio1: 12:11am On Jun 03

Men, barely enjoy anything in marriage. It is bill, bill and bill. By bill, I mean running the home, school fees, rent, upkeep, i.e generally fend for the family. Don't get me wrong, we should understand that there's a big difference between enjoy and benefits in marriage. Or do you want to classify any assistance from your spouse as enjoyment? NO. In summary, men only get benefits in marriage buh not enjoy in marriage.

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by PARADIZEPRIEST: 12:34am On Jun 03

WE ALL ENJOY SANITY AND SANCTITY OF HUMAN LIFE IN MARRIAGE AS ORDAINED BY GODALMIGHTY MAKER OF HEAVEN AND EARTH angry

. If you are lost on this infinity truth then seek God to rescue you today undecided

Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by PARADIZEPRIEST: 12:35am On Jun 03

PARADIZEPRIEST:
WE ALL ENJOY SANITY AND SANCTITY OF HUMAN LIFE IN MARRIAGE AS ORDAINED BY GODALMIGHTY MAKER OF HEAVEN AND EARTH . If you are lost on this infinity truth then seek God to rescue you today

logic is vanity without God,anybody rationalizing marriage is lost in vanity.QED

Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by QuinQ: 2:38am On Jun 03

AntiChristian:
Most women get married when they see something that makes them happy in a man!

What do men enjoy in marriage?

Number 1: People no longer asking when you'll get married, or pressuring you. Now you can live your life in peace.
Same 4 women

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by livebullet(m): 3:04am On Jun 03

Onegai:
Peace, Love, Respect, Wisdom, Shared Values and Stability.

A lot of men don't know what peace looks like so they think a woman who leaves them to do what they feel like is "peace".

A quiet house isn't always peace, sometimes it's "I've made myself a monster so now my wife and kids disappear once I show up and that silence is deafening".

Respect doesn't mean she never challenges you, she'll do so in love.

Wisdom: see, a man, no SEVERAL MEN, have told me that "the day I didn't listen to my wife, what happened na me suffer am". Biblically, your wife is meant to counsel you, good or bad.

Love: someone's marriage packed up and he began missing his kids but didn't want his wife back (he fought for custody). His kids always looked so happy with his wife in her videos she sent him and they seemed happy (in his eyes) when they visited. When he eventually got custody, he realized his wife was the reason they were happy. Even as he hurt his wife, her love surrounded him and the kids and once she was gone, it was gone. Now he's trying to undo what he did.

Stability: knowing your woman can handle things on her own is vital. Knowing there's someone backing you is vital

After reading, I realized it was written by their fellow woman. What would you expect huh

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by tanigororo: 5:11am On Jun 03

Kobojunkie:
Most men are not forced into marriage or relationships, for that matter. The vast majority of men out there choose for themselves whether or not to enter into marriage, whereas the same cannot be said for women who, to this day, in many parts of the world, are literally forced or sold into marriage. Marriage, for men, has never been compulsory, making it of no need to ask this useless question time and time again.

Can you please explain how your response answer the question.

Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by Plight21(f): 6:12am On Jun 03

What a question!!

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Re: What Do Men Enjoy In Marriage? by NaijaCover(m): 6:34am On Jun 03

Nothing To Gain In MARRIAGE, as a MAN.

Minus Having Children, that will take good care of you when you are in your old Age.

To Me, As MR BLOGGER, nothing marriage Dey give out to MEN for inside Nigeria.

Rather, In Marriage, MEN spend like HORSE then women will continue enjoy the MONEY.

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