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Is It Advisable? by Sonofgod1990(op): 12:27pm On May 29
Good day family..

I have a baby mama but I'm not living together with them. She's still with her family we are not married yet and I'm not planning to marry her either.. so any day she's coming to visit me she will come with the boy. The boy is about 4 years now. My problem is that she do allow me to be sleeping with her in present of the boy. If I tell her let go to d second room she will say no that I should do it on d same bed that my son is lying on. I'm just worried because anytime I'm on her mother the boy will just be starring at me somehow.
Please is it advisable to do it in d present of my 4 years old son? Because my baby mama don't see anything wrong with it
Re: Is It Advisable? by chicfarmer: 2:22pm On May 29
Sonofgod1990:
Good day family..

I have a baby mama but I'm not living together with them. She's still with her family we are not married yet and I'm not planning to marry her either.. so any day she's coming to visit me she will come with the boy. The boy is about 4 years now. My problem is that she do allow me to be sleeping with her in present of the boy. If I tell her let go to d second room she will say no that I should do it on d same bed that my son is lying on. I'm just worried because anytime I'm on her mother the boy will just be starring at me somehow.
Please is it advisable to do it in d present of my 4 years old son? Because my baby mama don't see anything wrong with it
You both need psychiatric evaluation ASAP.
Re: Is It Advisable? by Sonofgod1990(op): 3:24pm On May 29
chicfarmer:
You both need psychiatric evaluation ASAP.
I said it.


Hhhhbbhhhhbbhh
Re: Is It Advisable? by Dtruthspeaker: 6:11pm On May 29
Kai. Women are ivu

But you sef wey dey rub your body on ivu, why you think say you no go be like am?
Re: Is It Advisable? by duduade(m): 6:25pm On May 29
You must be a joker 😤😤😤😤😤😤
Re: Is It Advisable? by LIVINGICONREBOR: 6:30pm On May 29
Another tale from Uganda. Things that never happened. 🥱🥱
Re: Is It Advisable? by Sonofgod1990(op): 7:15pm On May 29
LIVINGICONREBOR:
Another tale from Uganda. Things that never happened. 🥱🥱
To God who made me I'm not telling lies
Re: Is It Advisable? by Sonofgod1990(op): 7:19pm On May 29
duduade:
You must be a joker 😤😤😤😤😤😤
I'm not joking bro
I know is not normal. I will stop that in our next meeting
Re: Is It Advisable? by ATEAMS: 4:35pm On Jun 01
them fit de induce your boy give Godmother
Re: Is It Advisable? by Samantha125(f): 5:52pm On Jun 01
Come to think of it, how do couples who share their bedrooms with their children do the deed when the urge comes?
Re: Is It Advisable? by NotOfThisWorld(f): 6:12pm On Jun 01
Why are you having segz on your son's bed and you want him to be watching you? I hope you're both ok in the head. This is a form of child abuse. Even if she insists, you should tell her no, that you'll go to the other room, not do it there and your 4-year old son is watching you. Sickening.
Re: Is It Advisable? by pansophist(m): 7:55pm On Jun 01
You can always refuse to not have sex with her when the boy is on the same room. Its not like she can force you if you dont want to.

Dont ask this question next time.
Re: Is It Advisable? by ArcToyin(m): 5:48pm On Jun 04
Firstly, if you are not marrying her there is no need to have sex with her, it is a sin before God and you are also destroying her destiny. . secondly, you are already training the child on bad habit. few years from now, he can go berserk and be molesting ladies because of the dart created in him.
Re: Is It Advisable? by Counterigbolies: 8:26pm On Jun 05
Sonofgod1990:
Good day family..

I have a baby mama but I'm not living together with them. She's still with her family we are not married yet and I'm not planning to marry her either.. so any day she's coming to visit me she will come with the boy. The boy is about 4 years now. My problem is that she do allow me to be sleeping with her in present of the boy. If I tell her let go to d second room she will say no that I should do it on d same bed that my son is lying on. I'm just worried because anytime I'm on her mother the boy will just be starring at me somehow.
Please is it advisable to do it in d present of my 4 years old son? Because my baby mama don't see anything wrong with it
Samson

If she's good enough to have a boy for u n u still have sex with her, y is she not good enough for marriage?

After all his family gave u 500k to start business and u mismanaged it even after u planned your own brothers kidnap n still wasted the money.

Samson u ain't getting any younger bro, stop squatting around n stop living fake life, try get at least something doing aside betting and get accomodation, do small thing on her head n move in your family so u can raise your child in the way that please God

U ain't getting any younger bro
Re: Is It Advisable? by Sonofgod1990(op): 8:32pm On Jun 05
Counterigbolies:
Samson

If she's good enough to have a boy for u n u still have sex with her, y is she not good enough for marriage?

After all his family gave u 500k to start business and u mismanaged it even after u planned your own brothers kidnap n still wasted the money.

Samson u ain't getting any younger bro, stop squatting around n stop living fake life, try get at least something doing aside betting and get accomodation, do small thing on her head n move in your family so u can raise your child in the way that please God

U ain't getting any younger bro
Aswear bro. I go try venture into yahoo make I know if I can raise some money take marry her. You are correct
Re: Is It Advisable? by Counterigbolies: 8:39pm On Jun 05
Sonofgod1990:
Aswear bro. I go try venture into yahoo make I know if I can raise some money take marry her. You are correct
bro

U can't raise your family with yahoo, like seriously I wish u can just b here with me so I can explain many things to u better like seriously.

U were born in 1990, u are a year older than I am but I don't think d way u think at all.

I have been hustling legit since 2014 that I finished university n I have a family n business now despite coming from an average family.

Think of what u can do to give u daily money which can sustain a family, I am into logistics n I am fine.

U can get a small car for Uber or get some bike for logistics ( I use cars though), just keep doing something reasonable...when people see u are a responsible man they will trust u more n link u up to bigger deals.

U are too big to start thinking of fraud now, go clean n go hard

Don't forget u have a family to build n parents to make proud

My brotherly advise to u
Re: Is It Advisable? by Sonofgod1990(op): 8:42pm On Jun 05
Counterigbolies:
bro

U can't raise your family with yahoo, like seriously I wish u can just b here with me so I can explain many things to u better like seriously.

U were born in 1990, u are a year older than I am but I don't think d way u think at all.

I have been hustling legit since 2014 that I finished university n I have a family n business now despite coming from an average family.

Think of what u can do to give u daily money which can sustain a family, I am into logistics n I am fine.

U can get a small car for Uber or get some bike for logistics ( I use cars though), just keep doing something reasonable...when people see u are a responsible man they will trust u more n link u up to bigger deals.

U are too big to start thinking of fraud now, go clean n go hard

Don't forget u have a family to build n parents to make proud

My brotherly advise to u
To be frank with you chief. I'm not currently in Nigeria
Re: Is It Advisable? by Tharmon: 10:36pm On Jun 05
Sonofgod1990:
To be frank with you chief. I'm not currently in Nigeria
So you stay in the UK? Is your baby mama a white lady? Cus I won't be surprised with your write-up of she is
Re: Is It Advisable? by Sonofgod1990(op): 12:29am On Jun 06
Tharmon:
So you stay in the UK? Is your baby mama a white lady? Cus I won't be surprised with your write-up of she is
She's a U.S citizen
Re: Is It Advisable? by meobizy(m): 2:21pm On Jun 09
A new day, a new tale. “Find work” no be insult.
Re: Is It Advisable? by Cum4me(m): 11:46am On Jun 11
Counterigbolies:
bro

U can't raise your family with yahoo, like seriously I wish u can just b here with me so I can explain many things to u better like seriously.

U were born in 1990, u are a year older than I am but I don't think d way u think at all.

I have been hustling legit since 2014 that I finished university n I have a family n business now despite coming from an average family.

Think of what u can do to give u daily money which can sustain a family, I am into logistics n I am fine.

U can get a small car for Uber or get some bike for logistics ( I use cars though), just keep doing something reasonable...when people see u are a responsible man they will trust u more n link u up to bigger deals.

U are too big to start thinking of fraud now, go clean n go hard

Don't forget u have a family to build n parents to make proud

My brotherly advise to u
every man with his destiny. Raising capital to start a business has a lot of dirty secrets. Look most Nigerians top business men most of them raise capital from dirty secrets. Some parents loot nation resources that pave way for there generation. You can't always see things at your level of insights.
Re: Is It Advisable? by Johnfaithsexy(f): 8:47pm On Jun 11
Very wrong bro,she nor get sense,Abi nor be you she born the pikin for?abeg o
Re: Is It Advisable? by spafu(m): 9:41am On Jun 12
Sonofgod1990:
To God who made me I'm not telling lies
Please, no matter the urge, don't give in to her again. It is the life of the young boy you both are destroying. I hope she is not doing same with other men.
Re: Is It Advisable? by Sonofgod1990(op): 9:53am On Jun 12
spafu:
Please, no matter the urge, don't give in to her again. It is the life of the young boy you both are destroying. I hope she is not doing same with other men.
Na only she get
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