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After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by Toolegit123(op): 2:26pm On Jun 13
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by Stephen0mozzy: 3:36pm On Jun 13
You want to go into a relationship, abi you just want subsidized phurck?

It's important when the heart has experienced heartbreak to take time to heal. Learn to be happy with the freedom to be alone in the beautiful world... Take yourself out, go to movies and make friends.

Relationships are not spare tires that you swap when one deflates., else you'll find yourself in another hasty love entanglement and the cycle repeats.
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by Samantha125(f): 3:38pm On Jun 13
It should take four years.
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by meobizy(m): 3:39pm On Jun 13
After a break up? You’re already a used good. Na to focus on living a lonely life till death. No difference between you and person wey carry disease.

Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?

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Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by UniQue84: 3:42pm On Jun 13
Samantha125:
It should take four years.
grin Rls is not world cup that you wait for every four years.
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by Samantha125(f): 3:44pm On Jun 13
I'm just speaking based on personal experience... grin grin grin... But wait, the world cup only happens every four years? shocked shocked shocked
UniQue84:
grin Rls is not world cup that you wait for every four years.
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by yarimo(m): 4:31pm On Jun 13
Just the next minutes I will go into another one, if you like wait till 10 years . If he/she will serve you breakfast he/she will definitely serve you
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by njokuuche77(m): 5:15pm On Jun 13
It shouldn’t really be about how long you wait, but how ready you are. A breakup doesn’t come with a fixed recovery timeline. Some people heal in weeks, others take months or even longer.
The real question is: have you dealt with the emotions from the last relationship, Abi you won use new one take cure Kongi.
If na just to escape thoughts of your ex, it almost doesn’t end well for the new relationship. But if you’ve processed it properly and you’re emotionally stable again, then you’re good to go, whether it’s one month or one year.
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by kaywhy09(m): 5:15pm On Jun 13
Next day. Or day after next
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by Efuaye(m): 5:16pm On Jun 13
Until you heal from the emotional wounds of the breakup.
Never go into another relationship just to prove a point to your ex.
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by HacheNoire: 5:17pm On Jun 13
3 hours max!

You just need to be in the right environment to meet that tall 6’1 chick with straight legs that will make you forget you just got heartbroken.
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by bewisemasses: 5:17pm On Jun 13
Depends on how old u r, ur priorities and ur ability to recover from emotional heartbreaks
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by zinaunreal(m): 5:17pm On Jun 13
Focus on making money haba. Na so una dey do? Jump to another relationship. Na swimming pool ?🏊‍♀️
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by DomPerignon: 5:17pm On Jun 13
Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?
Give yourself time to breath.

You rush into relationship , you will rush out.

Get yourself a hobby or something to do that will improve your life.

You know what they say about breakups being just one step closer to who is meant for you
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by muyico(m): 5:18pm On Jun 13
For men only 30miniutes is okay!
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by LordIsaac(m): 5:18pm On Jun 13
5 minutes...with the "right" people. grin
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by dechriz(m): 5:19pm On Jun 13
As soon as you find another one...
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by Sccarrr(m): 5:20pm On Jun 13
The next day...wetin u dey wait for? undecided
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by donself9: 5:20pm On Jun 13
I dont think there is any ideal period or duration, what is ideal is to 1st give yourself time to heal and be sure you are heal before going into another r/ship

you don't want problem buh you must also be able not to give problem to the next person
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by fotadmowmend(m): 5:20pm On Jun 13
Immediately to avoid depression, this country too hard
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by Dialpad: 5:21pm On Jun 13
Lol.. most people already have a backup plan. So it's just a matter of switching.

When a girl have 5 boyfriends or a guy has multiple, just move on to the next available one .
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by socoharley: 5:21pm On Jun 13
Men don't do that rush thing into another relationship my guy undecided chin up and develop yourself first to be better in your next relationship. Na women dey rush into another relationship because of their biological time.
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by dauntless15(m): 5:22pm On Jun 13
10 mins or ten years later it makes no difference, na your wife kpai wey you dey wait to remarry? grin
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by brain54(m): 5:22pm On Jun 13
2 days at most...


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Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by ogolemati: 5:23pm On Jun 13
yarimo:
Just the next minutes I will go into another one, if you like wait till 10 years . If he/she will serve you breakfast he/she will definitely serve you
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Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by ipobarecriminals: 5:23pm On Jun 13
NO TIME TO WASTE TIME. MOVE ON TO NEXT LEVEL.
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by Patented: 5:23pm On Jun 13
Another relationship will not fill the void you may be feeling now.
Best you take your time to get over it.
Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by Olatundex22(m): 5:24pm On Jun 13
Immediately the relationship end you start calling those one you been eyeing asap. To slap you self dey hungry me for this question
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by BigYash: 5:24pm On Jun 13
Two seconds.. You suppose get back up as a guyman. No dull o.

They said men are polygamous in nature

Yes,I don accept..

No go dey tie your soul to one banny o..

Seven bannies to one nigga

E get one area when them say e dey for holy book
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by DrAda(f): 5:25pm On Jun 13
Is there a timeline to these things? Strange
Re: After Break Up, How Long Should It Take Before Going Into Another Relationship? by DeltaBachelor(m): 5:25pm On Jun 13
Six months Kawaai for dating. One year for marriage with no children. 2-3 years for marriage with kids. Just my own opinion o
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