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I've seen a lot of discussion on this topic and even recently, it was on the front page.

I'm here to tell you that you cannot separate love from sex.

There are different types of love. The one you have for your friend, families and also the one you have for objects like cars or even the one you have for your God/Allah.

But when it comes to the love you have for your partner, it's purely a "lustful" kind of love.

There's nothing "pure" in that kind of love as most people often imagine. In fact, the love between a man and a woman was never meant to be "pure".

It is one that is and should be fueled by lust. Yes, the worst kind of lust you can think of should fuel such love.

When as a man you approach a total stranger to toast her, you're not doing so because you think she's a wonderful person.

Or because you felt that out of the whole women in the world, she possesses something unique.

No. You approach her because she creates a tug on your boxer. Or better still, she appeals to you in a way that you know/think that if you sleep with her, you'll be happy.

Love starts with lust. Lust is the very beginning of love.

This is why relationships are strongest when they start. Because lust is high and on overdrive.

It's later on you get the lust under and start making conscious efforts to tolerate the person.

I'm saying this especially to guys that easily get deceived. You meet a lady and she's telling you to love her without touching her.

She never try to get sexual with you. She never tries to kiss you, romance you or do anything with you.

Yet, you're planning marriage with her believing she wants to be pure, my guy, you go see shege o.

I'm not saying you must get sex from the lady. Yes some ladies want to be celibate till marriage.

But there should be palpable sexual tension between you guys. One that makes her run away from you and you're aware that she's running because she can no longer resist you.

Not the one you're wondering whether she likes you or not. Or feeling like she's so strong she can resist you.

Everytime you are the one initiating physical contacts. You're the one trying to kiss her or hold her hands.

She never picks a part of your body and admires it or try to touch your body to caress it.

Yet, you dey můmů dey think say she loves you or she's religious or innocent

My brother she no love you like that o.

Be warned.

The is a message for the carnally minded.

This was revealed to you by Cana

HeatSeeker:
The is a message for the carnally minded.

Host78:
This was revealed to you by Cana

As revealed by you. I wonder what inspired this writeup sef? 🤔

Omo, dem been wan use me do brother in the lord o

HeatSeeker:
As revealed by you. I wonder what inspired this writeup sef? 🤔

Host78:
Omo, dem been wan use me do brother in the lord o

😂 😂😂😂😂😂 Lol!

Host78:
I'm here to tell you that you cannot separate love from sex.
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and who are you that we should listen to whatever opinions you have?

if you like make you no separate your own.

Maybe if I said I'm sent by God you'll listen?

AllBlack:
and who are you that we should listen to whatever opinions you have?

if you like make you no separate your own.

Host78:
Maybe if I said I'm sent by God you'll listen?

Which of the God? If I tear you and your God better slap

U no too wise o

AllBlack:
Which of the God? If I tear you and your God better slap

Host78:
U no too wise o

And who dey check am? You?
Because I no send you and your God?

Funny