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Sponsoring a woman you are not married to in school has never been an investment. Instead, it is an act of foolishness. It is better you use such money to buy small goats, fowls, rabbits, or cassava stems and start farming.

Below are some of the reasons why you should not sponsor the education of any girl if she is not your wife.

1. Sponsoring a girl is the responsibility of her father and family, and not yours. Ogbeni, stop carrying load wey nor be your own. Your back go break. If men are to sponsor girls that they intend marrying, then what is the essence of bride price?

2. Our higher institutions are filled with so much immorality today. What makes you think that the girl you are spending hundreds of thousands on, buying books, paying tuition fees, and paying hostel fee for is not sleeping with her departmental guys for free? Dey play.

3. There is no guarantee that she will marry when she graduates. She would probably have more options due to exposure. So you think she will marry you as a vulcanizer catering for her education when she has met various guys in school? Even young handsome guys studying Medicine or Law?

4. Education is a legacy. It is better to buy an iPhone for a girl who will leave you than to give education to a girl who will do same. Phones are man-made. They will get spoilt eventually, but you see education, it is for a lifetime. So why give a legacy to someone who will later dispose you like a used tissue?

If you cannot invest your money in a business or trade, use it to educate yourself or learn skills.

Use your brain make you nor go cry nwii for Nnewi.

I remain WarriParrot

Them nor go hear, one mugu will somewhere tell you that his own girlfriend is different. Walahi, allow them to learn from experience

Wealthyonos:
Them nor go hear, one mugu will somewhere tell you that his own girlfriend is different. Walahi, allow them to learn from experience

Who nor hear word go cry nwii for Nnewi.

Don't advise anyone again, They will learn the hard way.

Sponsoring a female you are married to is a big risk talk less of the one you are not married to. For you to sponsor a girlfriend to school, it better to invest it in goat farming, just buy at least a male goat of female goat and begin goat farming, at the end of 4yrs you go get more dividends in your investment.
As we dey talk reach some male nor go still get sense.

Don't develop that gender, let her do it by herself. Same mistake men sponsor their wives in abroad, most especially UK .

Just know that if your girl gets more exposure than you and you are stagnant then heartbreak is looming around the corner. Abeg leave that work for her parent or guardian, Oga abi dem forbid you to develop yourself also.

Very good analogy. It backfires most of the time

Sponsoring a woman you nova marry or sample wella is like adashi wey you can never pack...e worst pass MMM

Had this my guy that paid for his girl he met naive in Anatomy 100lvl to study Med. and Surg. so that they can be alright financially in the future lol. Paid for her connect to run the admission matter, then normal Birthdays, text books, outings and all. As the girl entered medicine, she started giving attitude, then as she got to 200 lvl, the senior students, consultants and everyone that didn't send her in Anatomy started chyking her and all.

Banny told my guy she's not doing again o, worse was that she sold virginity till marriage to him so he no even gain anything

When I talked to her, she said my guy should stop doing as if he's the lord and savior over her life, I say see this banny wia dy worship my guy when she dy Anatomy

Give what you can afford to lose. Giving more than you can affirm to lose CREATES expectations which then lead to attachments and unnecessary suffering

Rules are meant to be flexible: it's not one size that fits all. Freedom comes with its limitations
Too much rule following= Robotic nature (Slavery)
Too much rule breaking= Chaotic environment
The ability to discern and be flexible is key as humans
Following speed limit is necessary for a healthy road journey. But you don't expect me to follow the normal speed limit when I'm carrying a woman heavily in labor in my vehicle.

Some men have sponsored women education and it has worked for both them and them women. Don't bring a curse upon yourself by misleading people with your false teachings

Rapmoney:
Sponsoring a woman you are not married to in school has never been an investment. Instead, it is an act of foolishness. It is better you use such money to buy small goats, fowls, rabbits, or cassava stems and start farming.

Below are some of the reasons why you should not sponsor the education of any girl if she is not your wife.

1. Sponsoring a girl is the responsibility of her father and family, and not yours. Ogbeni, stop carrying load wey nor be your own. Your back go break. If men are to sponsor girls that they intend marrying, then what is the essence of bride price?

2. Our higher institutions are filled with so much immorality today. What makes you think that the girl you are spending hundreds of thousands on, buying books, paying tuition fees, and paying hostel fee for is not sleeping with her departmental guys for free? Dey play.

3. There is no guarantee that she will marry when she graduates. She would probably have more options due to exposure. So you think she will marry you as a vulcanizer catering for her education when she has met various guys in school? Even young handsome guys studying Medicine or Law?

4. Education is a legacy. It is better to buy an iPhone for a girl who will leave you than to give education to a girl who will do same. Phones are man-made. They will get spoilt eventually, but you see education, it is for a lifetime. So why give a legacy to someone who will later dispose you like a used tissue?

If you cannot invest your money in a business or trade, use it to educate yourself or learn skills.

Use your brain make you nor go cry nwii for Nnewi.

I remain WarriParrot

Mostly guys raised by single moms.

No guy that's very close to his father will fall for such manipulative trap.

Instead of sponsoring girls to tertiary schools, wisemen are advocating for their local government councillors and chairmen as well as their state lawmakers and governors to prioritise the commonwealth to employ enough well paid professional teachers for the free education of all children.

That’s how the girls’ parents will be able to afford to pay for their tertiary education.

Be specific.
We know the group of people who do this thing.
They are usually uneducated but want their women to be educated.

My SIMPly amazing brothers from Anambra...... make una heed this advice oooooo!

Instead of sending your girlfriend to school, we have sporty bet and many other interesting things to put money on.

Wealthyonos:
Them nor go hear, one mugu will somewhere tell you that his own girlfriend is different. Walahi, allow them to learn from experience

I swear many born mumu still dey here to disagree with you

You said the truth
But love blinds
Genuine love blinds foolishly

Honestly, unless you're a charity organisation or the girl is too good to no faults or you're a father figure in the society.
Please, don't venture into such transactions with any expectations because it always ends in disappointment and disaster.

Rapmoney:
Sponsoring a woman you are not married to in school has never been an investment. Instead, it is an act of foolishness. It is better you use such money to buy small goats, fowls, rabbits, or cassava stems and start farming.

Below are some of the reasons why you should not sponsor the education of any girl if she is not your wife.

1. Sponsoring a girl is the responsibility of her father and family, and not yours. Ogbeni, stop carrying load wey nor be your own. Your back go break. If men are to sponsor girls that they intend marrying, then what is the essence of bride price?

2. Our higher institutions are filled with so much immorality today. What makes you think that the girl you are spending hundreds of thousands on, buying books, paying tuition fees, and paying hostel fee for is not sleeping with her departmental guys for free? Dey play.

3. There is no guarantee that she will marry when she graduates. She would probably have more options due to exposure. So you think she will marry you as a vulcanizer catering for her education when she has met various guys in school? Even young handsome guys studying Medicine or Law?

4. Education is a legacy. It is better to buy an iPhone for a girl who will leave you than to give education to a girl who will do same. Phones are man-made. They will get spoilt eventually, but you see education, it is for a lifetime. So why give a legacy to someone who will later dispose you like a used tissue?

If you cannot invest your money in a business or trade, use it to educate yourself or learn skills.

Use your brain make you nor go cry nwii for Nnewi.

I remain WarriParrot

Fully Agree with your opinion

Except it is his wife, a man should not be sponsoring a woman in school for any reason.

Sadly, they will still not hear

To quote one black American rapper "You'd find me in hell first before you catch me buying a b*tch a Birkin"

In whatever you do in this life make sure you are 5 steps above women before you make any move on her and make sure you give her what you will never regret in this life, it's for your own peace.

You never understand female nature...if you understand those people,you no go even give dem water drink. Women see every act of kindness as fuulishness. Na that kind gender you want dey give

Reverseng:
Give what you can afford to lose. Giving more than you can affirm to lose CREATES expectations which then lead to attachments and unnecessary suffering

Rules are meant to be flexible: it's not one size that fits all. Freedom comes with its limitations
Too much rule following= Robotic nature (Slavery)
Too much rule breaking= Chaotic environment
The ability to discern and be flexible is key as humans

Some men have sponsored women education and it has worked for both them and them women. Don't bring a curse upon yourself by misleading people with your false teachings

spiceadole:
Be specific.
We know the group of people who do this thing.
They are usually uneducated but want their women to be educated.

And there is nothing wrong in that.
If am not educated, then my wife should be since she will be the one mostly witht he children and she can't give what she doesn't have.
Coming generation of ladies won't enjoy some luxuries most of their mothers enjoyed and it will only get worse.

fasho01:
Except it is his wife, a man should not be sponsoring a woman in school for any reason.

Sadly, they will still not hear

no even try am with your wife. Some go think say their wife special or dey different.

Rapmoney:
Sponsoring a woman you are not married to in school has never been an investment. Instead, it is an act of foolishness. It is better you use such money to buy small goats, fowls, rabbits, or cassava stems and start farming.

Below are some of the reasons why you should not sponsor the education of any girl if she is not your wife.

1. Sponsoring a girl is the responsibility of her father and family, and not yours. Ogbeni, stop carrying load wey nor be your own. Your back go break. If men are to sponsor girls that they intend marrying, then what is the essence of bride price?

2. Our higher institutions are filled with so much immorality today. What makes you think that the girl you are spending hundreds of thousands on, buying books, paying tuition fees, and paying hostel fee for is not sleeping with her departmental guys for free? Dey play.

3. There is no guarantee that she will marry when she graduates. She would probably have more options due to exposure. So you think she will marry you as a vulcanizer catering for her education when she has met various guys in school? Even young handsome guys studying Medicine or Law?

4. Education is a legacy. It is better to buy an iPhone for a girl who will leave you than to give education to a girl who will do same. Phones are man-made. They will get spoilt eventually, but you see education, it is for a lifetime. So why give a legacy to someone who will later dispose you like a used tissue?

If you cannot invest your money in a business or trade, use it to educate yourself or learn skills.

Use your brain make you nor go cry nwii for Nnewi.

I remain WarriParrot

Very correct. Fully agreed

spiceadole:
Be specific.
We know the group of people who do this thing.
They are usually uneducated but want their women to be educated.

help him and b more specific. Tribal bigot

They will not hear. Sponsoring a girl that is not your wife to school is not love but an act of sacrifice to her.
As long both of you are not married if she says she is no longer interested in you she is not in the wrong and it's not her fault. It is then expected that you as a man to count your losses and move on. Trying not to move on makes you a fool

fasho01:
Except it is his wife, a man should not be sponsoring a woman in school for any reason.

Sadly, they will still not hear

The truth is even wives are very risky.
I know a handful of men who sponsored their wives' higher education and after graduating and getting good jobs, they give more headaches to the men at home.
Some started reducing and rationing the sex while there are rumours of infidelity outside.
Some become less appreciative of the gifts and efforts of the men because their tastes has gone up.
They become more stubborn, hardly take to corrections and hardly say am sorry even when they are at fault.
So many things my brother.
But these things have consequences.
It is not a coincidence that we are experiencing a very very large group of women doing hook-up and prostitutions today compared to our parent's time.
It is because many men are not interested in sponsoring women again because it is a very very risking investment.
People hardly invest anything tangible where their interest is not SECURED

I almost fell in this trap

Na f0000ls dey do that .... invest in yourself