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Hello, please don't mind the caption but I've had it with my father's erratic behavior. So, my father works in German Embassy and they pay them handsomely. Am talking about from 500k and above but this man Doesn't give us more than 100k that is when he does give. Some months we wouldn't even see the 100k to buy foodstuffs and other things. He has been in this behavior for the past 3 years or so. So, in his working place he applied for an advance on his pension, let's say something like 5 million, I don't really know the exact amount. And he is squandering the money outside on other people. By the way am in the University of Abuja and I have told him that I needed money for my studies. But this man doesn't care about that. Please guys what can I do. Please help me.

When did you leave futminna to uni Abuja? Anyways, this your father's issue seems like a spiritual problem. Pray !

Nowayback10:
When did you leave futminna to uni Abuja? Anyways, this your father's issue seems like a spiritual problem. Pray !

Please, who is this? Can I get your contact so we'll talk?

Oliver14:
Hello, please don't mind the caption but I've had it with my father's erratic behavior. So, my father works in German Embassy and they pay them handsomely. Am talking about from 500k and above but this man Doesn't give us more than 100k that is when he does give. Some months we wouldn't even see the 100k to buy foodstuffs and other things. He has been in this behavior for the past 3 years or so. So, in his working place he applied for an advance on his pension, let's say something like 5 million, I don't really know the exact amount. And he is squandering the money outside on other people. By the way am in the University of Abuja and I have told him that I needed money for my studies. But this man doesn't care about that. Please guys what can I do. Please help me.

What do you expect us to tell you you can do about the situation?

Borrow money from your mother and start a side hustle. That will teach you to depend on yourself and not look anywhere else for sustenance.

Your mother has BPD and your father has abandoned you. Na to borrow cash from friends start business. Since you’re in school, try opening a mishai spot or cook meals which students consume during evenings.

Oliver14:
Hello, please don't mind the caption but I've had it with my father's erratic behavior. So, my father works in German Embassy and they pay them handsomely. Am talking about from 500k and above but this man Doesn't give us more than 100k that is when he does give. Some months we wouldn't even see the 100k to buy foodstuffs and other things. He has been in this behavior for the past 3 years or so. So, in his working place he applied for an advance on his pension, let's say something like 5 million, I don't really know the exact amount. And he is squandering the money outside on other people. By the way am in the University of Abuja and I have told him that I needed money for my studies. But this man doesn't care about that. Please guys what can I do. Please help me.

You do know that you can take him to court for child support as his child, right? You wouldn't even need any legal representation in your case, so you don't have to worry about legal fees.

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