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OP: Learn to keep your opinions to yourself. Your type come online to mislead the public. Allow people to do what they want. Face your own life.

No need to tell them let them carry on to be stew-pid.

Give me one reason why I should sponsor a lady education just one reason? Even I dey mad nor to that level. If her family can't send her to school then she should remain in her house or go and learn a work or a trade e nor concern me.

If I don't know what to do wth my money I will go and give beggars or go homeless children home and dump it there than using it to sponsor a lady.

Jayhome24:
No need to tell them let them carry on to be stew-pid.

Give me one reason why I should sponsor a lady education just one reason? Even I dey mad nor to that level. If her family can't send her to school then she should remain in her house or go and learn a work or a trade e nor concern me.

If I don't know what to do wth my money I will go and give beggars or go homeless children home and dump it there than using it to sponsor a lady.

Why always men? Dem dey forbid women to sponsor too?

My girlfriend, soon to be upgraded to fiancee status, started her degree programme earlier this year and I am completely responsible.
Even though my highest qualification is a secondary school certificate, she has promised never to leave me.

I am a motor mechanic and make a decent living from the trade.
She has told me several times that the grease on my workshop uniform smells like the best roses ever.
And I know she means every word.

Not all girls are the same.
I know my girlfriend is different.
She's not like other girls.

That's why I am completely responsible for reminding her parents to pay her fees and send her money whenever she needs it, and nothing more.

Did you feel emotional/angry/concerned reading the first three paragraphs?
Give me a like and a quote with a comment.

SAY NO TO WASTEFUL INVESTMENTS.

I know they are guys here who are already in the net of sponsoring their girlfriends in school as we speak with the hope of getting Married to them.

Is not too late, kindly get her to Signed agreement letter stating that she will continue with the marriage as agreed or she refund every Dime you have spent on sponsoring her in School and watch body language.

No matter the amount of money you spent Sponsoring your girlfriend Bills, it will not be deducted from her Bride price List and you must pay in full.

The funds spent on doing girlfriend and boyfriend if put together is enough to marry her.

Guys should act wisely.

Checkwell:
OP: Learn to keep your opinions to yourself. Your type come online to mislead the public. Allow people to do what they want. Face your own life.

oga he said the bitter truth cos i have seen it happen before me.
That women will probably betray you cos of exposure then you the sponsor will look too common for her to settle for you.

emmaodet:
The truth is even wives are very risky.
I know a handful of men who sponsored their wives' higher education and after graduating and getting good jobs, they give more headaches to the men at home.
Some started reducing and rationing the sex while there are rumours of infidelity outside.
Some become less appreciative of the gifts and efforts of the men because their tastes has gone up.
They become more stubborn, hardly take to corrections and hardly say am sorry even when they are at fault.
So many things my brother.
But these things have consequences.
It is not a coincidence that we are experiencing a very very large group of women doing hook-up and prostitutions today compared to our parent's time.
It is because many men are not interested in sponsoring women again because it is a very very risking investment.
People hardly invest anything tangible where their interest is not SECURED

To remain in control in a relationship or marriage,a man must be far ahead of his woman in finance,status, achievement and every wise. If you met her when she was a cleaner,never elevate her to something higher....either you stay with her like that or you leave. It is a crime to elevate women.it weakens a man's position in power dynamics. Men must understand that women don't see things logically the way we see them. For any man elevating his woman,he should pray to always be far better than her,else you are training a tiger that will devour you. If Dangote is training a woman in school today,he has nothing to fear cos he will always be a billion times ahead of her to still maintain power ... Even at his level,I wouldn't advise him to train a woman in school or set up business for her.

Wtf

I don help many girl's way I never meet for real life

I don credit 100k to one married woman before

I have proof and evidence if you want or need it

Amovingman:
I don help many girl's way I never meet for real life

I don credit 100k to one married woman before

I have proof and evidence if you want or need it

why did you do that?

Even your wife is never a guarantee. Delevop yourself then your wife will love you more.

fasho01:
Except it is his wife, a man should not be sponsoring a woman in school for any reason.

Sadly, they will still not hear

emmaodet:
And there is nothing wrong in that.
If am not educated, then my wife should be since she will be the one mostly witht he children and she can't give what she doesn't have.
Coming generation of ladies won't enjoy some luxuries most of their mothers enjoyed and it will only get worse.

Funny enough, it the generation of illiterate mothers that raise most of the literate generation that we have today.
Since we have the generation of literate mothers now, what are they raising now apart from cultists, fraudsters, hook ups ands senseless people

Amovingman:
I don help many girl's way I never meet for real life

I don credit 100k to one married woman before

I have proof and evidence if you want or need it

Have you thought of what these women called you in their minds? Have you imagined what they told their friends about you? You go learn the hard way, continue playing.

I would happily say, I sent my girlfriend to university and catered for her financial needs, all through.......

Before you ask, she is now my wife, 26 years and still counting....... 😂🤣

You might say I was lucky, I would not dispute that position.... When you see the one, you know she is the one...... 😂😜

emmaodet:
The truth is even wives are very risky.
I know a handful of men who sponsored their wives' higher education and after graduating and getting good jobs, they give more headaches to the men at home.
Some started reducing and rationing the sex while there are rumours of infidelity outside.
Some become less appreciative of the gifts and efforts of the men because their tastes has gone up.
They become more stubborn, hardly take to corrections and hardly say am sorry even when they are at fault.
So many things my brother.
But these things have consequences.
It is not a coincidence that we are experiencing a very very large group of women doing hook-up and prostitutions today compared to our parent's time.
It is because many men are not interested in sponsoring women again because it is a very very risking investment.
People hardly invest anything tangible where their interest is not SECURED

Sir do women ration sex to their husbands, is it possible as a married man for your wife to be rationing sex to you after paying bride price and assuming responsibilities in the home

Rapmoney:
Sponsoring a woman you are not married to in school has never been an investment. Instead, it is an act of foolishness. It is better you use such money to buy small goats, fowls, rabbits, or cassava stems and start farming.

Below are some of the reasons why you should not sponsor the education of any girl if she is not your wife.

1. Sponsoring a girl is the responsibility of her father and family, and not yours. Ogbeni, stop carrying load wey nor be your own. Your back go break. If men are to sponsor girls that they intend marrying, then what is the essence of bride price?

2. Our higher institutions are filled with so much immorality today. What makes you think that the girl you are spending hundreds of thousands on, buying books, paying tuition fees, and paying hostel fee for is not sleeping with her departmental guys for free? Dey play.

3. There is no guarantee that she will marry when she graduates. She would probably have more options due to exposure. So you think she will marry you as a vulcanizer catering for her education when she has met various guys in school? Even young handsome guys studying Medicine or Law?

4. Education is a legacy. It is better to buy an iPhone for a girl who will leave you than to give education to a girl who will do same. Phones are man-made. They will get spoilt eventually, but you see education, it is for a lifetime. So why give a legacy to someone who will later dispose you like a used tissue?

If you cannot invest your money in a business or trade, use it to educate yourself or learn skills.

Use your brain make you nor go cry nwii for Nnewi.

I remain WarriParrot

They will learn the hard way.

Only give a woman you're dating something you can forego.

If you can't see her not marry you after sending her to school then dont do it.

And most importantly, upgrade yourself while you're investing in upgrading your woman otherwise she'll aim higher (for someone)once level changes and she sees you lower than she used to see you.

Women don't stay because of what you gave them or what you did for them: those belong to yesterday. They stay when you give them hope: when they see you're still promising and with the potentials of offering them more.

In other words. Women want you to remain above of them and to continue inspiring them.
Once that balance tips, and she's now ahead, otilo!!! It's now by his grace

JESHAL007:
Sir do women ration sex to their husbands, is it possible as a married man for your wife to be rationing sex to you after paying bride price and assuming responsibilities in the home

shame no go let married men tell you truth...dem dey deny dem sex back to back.

Rapmoney:
Sponsoring a woman you are not married to in school has never been an investment. Instead, it is an act of foolishness. It is better you use such money to buy small goats, fowls, rabbits, or cassava stems and start farming.

Below are some of the reasons why you should not sponsor the education of any girl if she is not your wife.

1. Sponsoring a girl is the responsibility of her father and family, and not yours. Ogbeni, stop carrying load wey nor be your own. Your back go break. If men are to sponsor girls that they intend marrying, then what is the essence of bride price?

2. Our higher institutions are filled with so much immorality today. What makes you think that the girl you are spending hundreds of thousands on, buying books, paying tuition fees, and paying hostel fee for is not sleeping with her departmental guys for free? Dey play.

3. There is no guarantee that she will marry when she graduates. She would probably have more options due to exposure. So you think she will marry you as a vulcanizer catering for her education when she has met various guys in school? Even young handsome guys studying Medicine or Law?

4. Education is a legacy. It is better to buy an iPhone for a girl who will leave you than to give education to a girl who will do same. Phones are man-made. They will get spoilt eventually, but you see education, it is for a lifetime. So why give a legacy to someone who will later dispose you like a used tissue?

If you cannot invest your money in a business or trade, use it to educate yourself or learn skills.

Use your brain make you nor go cry nwii for Nnewi.

I remain WarriParrot

Bro they should give you an award for this post.

The Award for Best Post in History for Men goes to...............And The Winner is " WarriParrot "

Killallmuslims:
Wtf

If one is against what the guy said then are truly on the wrong path. God has a way of dealing with people who mock knowledge...... He puts them in the exact situation that they mocked. Like all the peep called Jonathan to resign have been proven to be worse and more incompetent

emmaodet:


Why always men? Dem dey forbid women to sponsor too?

Don't mind dem. Dem make life be like say men offended God specially. Na so you see one nonsense thing come online and say if a man nor fit give N20m per month for her upkeep make the man nor come near her, one last week even day if she get marry she won't cook, she won't clean the house, she won't touch anything the man should provide who will do all the cores. I'm sick of these gender nonsense entitlement mentality.

Why can't ladies too sponsor men, why? It's so annoying. Mothers day na man go still suffers it and pay the bills, n children day na man go still suffer and pay the bills, on father's day na man go still suffer and pay the bills yet dey still want men sponsoring their babes or gilfriends to school, say who die na?

If ya papa and mama nor fir send you go school then stay at home or go learn woek e nor concern me.

The truth is you are spot on Op.
But there's a way you will be rich and you won't mind doing such for a female. But in this instance, don't attach too much emotion and love. Do it bcus the money dey jaburata, and make sure you dey shine her congo as at when due.
If after school she decide say na you go be her long time man, glorrryy congratulations to you.
.
If she decides to move on, no wahala. At least you no invest your emotion into it so e no go pain you provided you don chop her coochies wella. Na my small token opinion be this on the matter

Same for men who sponsor their wives abroad, you will cry!

even if say na she sponsor you come abroad, you will still cry!

Jayhome24:
No need to tell them let them carry on to be stew-pid.

Give me one reason why I should sponsor a lady education just one reason? Even I dey mad nor to that level. If her family can't send her to school then she should remain in her house or go and learn a work or a trade e nor concern me.

If I don't know what to do wth my money I will go and give beggars or go homeless children home and dump it there than using it to sponsor a lady.

God Bless You Bros. Omo you are on point. I met this girl on TikTok the way the babe was talking she was talking like me in my private moments she just dey yab and abuse churches and pastors saying that they where thieves. me that is not following anyone on TikTok began following her. You know how we are in Nigeria if you abuse pastor people will not comment to your video so I decided to comment like 10 times to encourage her to support her, Then babe will delete like 8 of my well thought out supportive comments and keep only two. Or delete the video outright. That one na red flag for me o . I then helped her out by deleting some of my comments and finally blocked her. I was not even toasting her I was simply surporting her.
I just blocked the babe so that she can never like anything I posted to her video and for it to be a notification to me.

galantjoe:
You said the truth
But love blinds
Genuine love blinds foolishly

I don't think that equates to love. Love amounts to sacrifice irrespective of who is involve. In this case, it is for personal interest with marriage in mind.

Kalulu44:
The truth is you are spot on Op.
But there's a way you will be rich and you won't mind doing such for a female. But in this instance, don't attach too much emotion and love. Do it bcus the money dey jaburata, and make sure you dey shine her congo as at when due.
If after school she decide say na you go be her long time man, glorrryy congratulations to you.
.
If she decides to move on, no wahala. At least you no invest your emotion into it so e no go pain you provided you don chop her coochies wella. Na my small token opinion be this on the matter

Men who hammer should take care of their immediate family members, despite me being in my late thirties my younger sister of 37 years can ask me for money and I can give her because I remember all the advice she has given me. Me my family comes first before any woman.

Rapmoney:
Sponsoring a woman you are not married to in school has never been an investment. Instead, it is an act of foolishness. It is better you use such money to buy small goats, fowls, rabbits, or cassava stems and start farming.

Below are some of the reasons why you should not sponsor the education of any girl if she is not your wife.

1. Sponsoring a girl is the responsibility of her father and family, and not yours. Ogbeni, stop carrying load wey nor be your own. Your back go break. If men are to sponsor girls that they intend marrying, then what is the essence of bride price?

2. Our higher institutions are filled with so much immorality today. What makes you think that the girl you are spending hundreds of thousands on, buying books, paying tuition fees, and paying hostel fee for is not sleeping with her departmental guys for free? Dey play.

3. There is no guarantee that she will marry when she graduates. She would probably have more options due to exposure. So you think she will marry you as a vulcanizer catering for her education when she has met various guys in school? Even young handsome guys studying Medicine or Law?

4. Education is a legacy. It is better to buy an iPhone for a girl who will leave you than to give education to a girl who will do same. Phones are man-made. They will get spoilt eventually, but you see education, it is for a lifetime. So why give a legacy to someone who will later dispose you like a used tissue?

If you cannot invest your money in a business or trade, use it to educate yourself or learn skills.

Use your brain make you nor go cry nwii for Nnewi.

I remain WarriParrot

I don't see anything in sponsoring a girl through school if I have the means and not slave to send her. And I won't attach any strings to it.

Timsco90:
I swear many born mumu still dey here to disagree with you

Guy but what if the pvzzy is very sweet?

Checkwell:
OP: Learn to keep your opinions to yourself. Your type come online to mislead the public. Allow people to do what they want. Face your own life.

The Truth Pains this One ...One of them ........

Op is not Forcing anyone to Die of Heart Attack after Regretting to Sponsoring a Lady ...Death and Sorrow is Free for any Man intending to do such ..

Baddest0007:
Bro they should give you an award for this post.

The Award for Best Post in History for Men goes to...............And The Winner is " WarriParrot "

But what if the puzzy is very sweet? There's some that deserve that school fees.

tollyboy5:
Instead of sending your girlfriend to school, we have sporty bet and many other interesting things to put money on.

Sporty bet no be good investment ooo.