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Tenrack:
make I get your contact ski

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OlaOfLagos:
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thanks Gee. I go buzz you asap.

Church of Satan abi which church, that will condone fornication sexual impurities?

She meant court multiple men and not date multiple men.

To be honest, I prefer the times of our parents where fathers marry for their sons and women have to remain decent until they are married out.

This free will generation are gutter minds

Who still does one man one woman relationship these days?
Is this 1990?

Clout chaser

Saying what they wont do

men are always happy. na baby mama them go end as.

Social media has truly empowered these sets to think they're indispensable lol..

Try it and let your man catch you, especially the one who has marriage tendency with you . Only then you would truly understand that a man and woman are not the same in this regard ..

Aside that, dear men, why are some of you enduring the terrible characters of your so-called women, even when they're consistent with it🤔? Women plenty, but na your cowardice dey tell you otherwise...

It's your HIV positive result that will be discussed by your street corner.

Continue to do nonsense.

Meanwhile 90% of the time, it's always the richest bidder that will be announced in church

Poorer men are overlooked.

This one body count don reach 50+

Winner ke. It is the loser that will be announced in church.

Sometime I kept asking myself so it's one yeye man who will be dating this type of woman and be shouting honey, sweety, sugar, curry, thyme, onion for woman with this type of horrible mentality?

Some men ehn...

It’s the loser that will remain not the winner

OlaOfLagos:
0812 216 0598

is this the real Ola of Lagos?

In other words; Call her and directly ask her "how much?".

Who is she and why does her opinion matters?

...and Na mumu that do not use condoms o.
This one say multiple men... She would say yes to anyone with bread 💵 while forming love for all of them.

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139777642]“Date multiple men, let the winner be announced in church” — Lady says

A lady has triggered widespread reactions on social media after sharing her views on heartbreak, dating patterns, and long-term relationships in a video that has since gone viral.

In the video, she advised women on what she believes is a more effective approach to relationships, contrasting it with the idea of staying committed to one partner for too long without clear outcomes.

Advice on dating patterns
The lady argued that heartbreaks often occur when individuals remain in long-term relationships with a single partner, suggesting that such situations may lead to disappointment later on.

Full statement from the lady

“The reason why your heart is always shattered, always broken is because you dated one boyfriend. Ba my mum dey date one man. You can’t tell me nothing. That is why you dated a man for 10 years, he will still leave you and marry a girl he meets in three months. Date multiple men, let the winner be announced in church.”

Online reactions
Her comments have since sparked mixed reactions online, with some users debating whether modern dating requires multiple options, while others criticised the advice as controversial and unrealistic.

Many social media users also pointed out the differences between traditional relationship values and evolving dating practices among young people.

The video has added to ongoing conversations about commitment, loyalty, and relationship strategies in contemporary dating culture, especially among younger Nigerians navigating long-term partnerships.

The reason why you keep getting heartbreak is because you are dating one guy, date multiple men so your heart won’t be broken” — Lady pic.twitter.com/FOvGnFwoz1

— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) June 19, 2026

just hope that if we flip it the other way round, the ladies won't complain

What if those multiple men somehow know each other and decide to play a fast one on her?
This kind of stale thinking is the reason why one aunty never marry till date.
She dated multiple men and the one whom she thought was the most serious disappointed her.

Any man that date such woman will end up falling into a well in the bedroom 😆 because a well is his reward 🕳

Hmmmm.

OlaOfLagos:
Relationship nowadays is all about competition and the highest bidder. “May the best man win”

As for me, i don wash my hand comot anything relationship…

😆

OlaOfLagos:
Relationship nowadays is all about competition and the highest bidder. “May the best man win”

As for me, i don wash my hand comot anything relationship…

why washing your hands ? I developed thick skin like crocodile to their dramas.my no 1 anthem is if she is not in my bedroom and top of my bed she is not mine.as soon as she walks out of my door she is no longer mine so I enjoy the times we spend together and I honestly don't care what she is doing out of my house

Not even these days wey guys no dey smile again.....most guys just wan chop and clean mouth dey go dey chop dey clean mouth dey go dey chop dey go dey clean mouth dey gogi go go go go.....

galantjoe:
Her comment is certainly a strategic way to avade breakup

Believe or not. Put all eggs in a basket is risky

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139777642]“Date multiple men, let the winner be announced in church” — Lady says

A lady has triggered widespread reactions on social media after sharing her views on heartbreak, dating patterns, and long-term relationships in a video that has since gone viral.

In the video, she advised women on what she believes is a more effective approach to relationships, contrasting it with the idea of staying committed to one partner for too long without clear outcomes.

Advice on dating patterns
The lady argued that heartbreaks often occur when individuals remain in long-term relationships with a single partner, suggesting that such situations may lead to disappointment later on.

Full statement from the lady

“The reason why your heart is always shattered, always broken is because you dated one boyfriend. Ba my mum dey date one man. You can’t tell me nothing. That is why you dated a man for 10 years, he will still leave you and marry a girl he meets in three months. Date multiple men, let the winner be announced in church.”

Online reactions
Her comments have since sparked mixed reactions online, with some users debating whether modern dating requires multiple options, while others criticised the advice as controversial and unrealistic.

Many social media users also pointed out the differences between traditional relationship values and evolving dating practices among young people.

The video has added to ongoing conversations about commitment, loyalty, and relationship strategies in contemporary dating culture, especially among younger Nigerians navigating long-term partnerships.

The reason why you keep getting heartbreak is because you are dating one guy, date multiple men so your heart won’t be broken” — Lady pic.twitter.com/FOvGnFwoz1

— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) June 19, 2026

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She makes sense. But now that you know the game plan, what's the exit strategy? Some men behave as if good relationship is a scarce commodity. Out of desperation, they fall into avoidable traps

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when be Ghana and England play today,
na him dey important