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DeltaBachelor:
lol. Very rubbish mindset. Na your body go suffer am na

OlaOfLagos:
Relationship nowadays is all about competition and the highest bidder. “May the best man win”

As for me, i don wash my hand comot anything relationship…

socoharley:
Abi let the fool be announced in church.

Uchesis:
Where is that my friend Lalami?

Let him come and tell us the good news

SixSeven:
Women don't have capacity for multiple heartbreaks or letting go of 9 other men especially if the 1 she chooses does not do well like the others.

Men do not perform well in a group interview setting. When a man realizes a woman is actively dating other men, his instinct is rarely to fight harder. Instead, he will protect his ego and steps back. He assumes the woman is not serious about him, so he stops investing emotionally.

This then creates a cycle where the woman thinks he does not care, but in reality, he is just matching her lack of exclusivity. This is why you see men wanting to know if there is someone else for you before you start dating. If he's not interested in knowing them, then he just wants to use you. Men know what they want but when they tell women, the options confuse them, that's why they keep choosing short term gains for long term grains.

Women are generally wired for emotional connection not multiple dating because it forces a woman to suppress her natural empathy and act like a manager. She has to constantly compare, analyze, and keep her guard up. This is why we also say it is difficult for women to cheat like men. It's not about competition. The nurturing nature of a woman is to care for her own. Even with children, give a woman 4 children, 1 for her , 1 from her sister and 2 from her in laws. You will see how she will treat them compared to her own child.


Treating dating like a game where the "winner is announced in church" will eventually backfires. You cannot build a deep foundation of trust while keeping nine other guys on reserve. The honest men who want a real connection will leave the game early because they dislike the drama. The only men who stay to "compete" are the players who enjoy the chase, meaning the woman usually ends up picking the most charismatic liar of the bunch. You got played sista!


Ps: this is another reason for having the marriage institution. To help the woman vet who is good for her in the long run, not for her to be playing cards like casino game

OlaOfLagos:
(PAYG) Pay As You Go

Money for hand, back for ground 😎

You gerrittt??

Marc3500:
so you dey carry OS

SixSeven:
Women don't have capacity for multiple heartbreaks or letting go of 9 other men especially if the 1 she chooses does not do well like the others.

Men do not perform well in a group interview setting. When a man realizes a woman is actively dating other men, his instinct is rarely to fight harder. Instead, he will protect his ego and steps back. He assumes the woman is not serious about him, so he stops investing emotionally.

This then creates a cycle where the woman thinks he does not care, but in reality, he is just matching her lack of exclusivity. This is why you see men wanting to know if there is someone else for you before you start dating. If he's not interested in knowing them, then he just wants to use you. Men know what they want but when they tell women, the options confuse them, that's why they keep choosing short term gains for long term grains.

Women are generally wired for emotional connection not multiple dating because it forces a woman to suppress her natural empathy and act like a manager. She has to constantly compare, analyze, and keep her guard up. This is why we also say it is difficult for women to cheat like men. It's not about competition. The nurturing nature of a woman is to care for her own. Even with children, give a woman 4 children, 1 for her , 1 from her sister and 2 from her in laws. You will see how she will treat them compared to her own child.


Treating dating like a game where the "winner is announced in church" will eventually backfires. You cannot build a deep foundation of trust while keeping nine other guys on reserve. The honest men who want a real connection will leave the game early because they dislike the drama. The only men who stay to "compete" are the players who enjoy the chase, meaning the woman usually ends up picking the most charismatic liar of the bunch. You got played sista!


Ps: this is another reason for having the marriage institution. To help the woman vet who is good for her in the long run, not for her to be playing cards like casino game

CaptainJune:
Before you come for her head, understand that women, while not enjoying the aging advantage of men, are expected to gamble away their time sticking to a relationship that may never yield any fruit. It is unfair to them. In the end, after being through failed relationships and going into their 30s the same men label them 'evening newspaper'. A man could still be sexually active in his 60s and 70s, but not so for women.

OlaOfLagos:
YES i dey carry OS
Na only OS dem dey use money fvck? What happens to FWB?

kenchop:
It's your HIV positive result that will be discussed by your street corner.

Continue to do nonsense.

zinaunreal:
Any man that date such woman will end up falling into a well in the bedroom 😆 because a well is his reward 🕳

wallrichy:
Not even these days wey guys no dey smile again.....most guys just wan chop and clean mouth dey go dey chop dey clean mouth dey go dey chop dey go dey clean mouth dey gogi go go go go.....

Jayhome24:
Sometime I kept asking myself so it's one yeye man who will be dating this type of woman and be shouting honey, sweety, sugar, curry, thyme, onion for woman with this type of horrible mentality?

Some men ehn...

Okoroemekah:
why washing your hands ? I developed thick skin like crocodile to their dramas.my no 1 anthem is if she is not in my bedroom and top of my bed she is not mine.as soon as she walks out of my door she is no longer mine so I enjoy the times we spend together and I honestly don't care what she is doing out of my house

michigang:
how you dey straf?

callmetade:
Who still dey date? ,..

Relationship na old format nahh.

We don't do that anymore.

Mobisson:
As you are dating multiple men, the men should also be dating multiple women, the best lady will be announced in the church. Some weekends, four or five different ladies can spend the weekend at my place, all of the ladies that I am dating will know each other and also know that the winner will be announced in church.

Hhh4444:
is this the real Ola of Lagos?