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Only if she knows what majority is going through... madam, carry your cross oo

This is why it is extremely important for both partners to have their own money/source of income before/during marriage.

The idea of relying on the man 100% will never make sense to me, because nobody knows tomorrow. What if the man's income dries up, he dies, or fall seriously ill and therefore can't meet up?

If the woman has a source of income she won't feel it too much, but in the situation where she has no source of income and the man dies or his source of income dries up, the family will suffer shege.

Mattswaggz:
"We fetch water from the well. .

The widow further disclosed that her children were at risk of dropping out of school because of unpaid fees.

Madam Go and HUSTLE

shebi if na man dey complain all this thing na the same thing you go talk

Mattswaggz:
The widow of late Nollywood actor, John Okafor, popularly known as Mr Ibu, has appealed to Nigerians for assistance, saying she and her children are struggling to pay rent, school fees and other basic needs.

The appeal was made in a video interview with a content creator, King Mitchy, on Wednesday, in which the actor’s wife and children spoke about the family’s living conditions following his death.

Speaking emotionally, the widow said the family had been without electricity for about two months after their power supply was disconnected over unpaid bills.

She also revealed that they rely on water from a well because of their financial situation.

"We fetch water from the well. Because I have not paid the house rent. And they have even cut my lights for two months now. No lights since. We have been like that. Every night we go to look for a place to charge our phones. And… It’s not easy,” she said.

One of the actor’s daughters praised her mother for keeping the family together despite the hardship.

"I want to thank God for my mom. She tries everything she can to feed us, to pay our school fees, to make us happy,” she said.

The widow further disclosed that her children were at risk of dropping out of school because of unpaid fees.

“Right now, they can’t go to school again. I can even show you the message the school sent me today,” she said.

The content creator who conducted the interview said support was being sought to help the family pay school fees, settle rent and restore electricity to their home.

Mr Ibu, one of Nigeria’s most popular comic actors, died on March 2, 2024, at the age of 62.

https://punchng.com/mr-ibus-widow-children-seek-support-over-rent-school-fees/

Didn't they say Nollywood actors are billionaires?

Saturnalia:
Habaaaa! All the Billionaires in Anambra and Enugu should contribute 1 Million Naira each to this Widow naa.

Abi their charity no longer begins in their homes?

Don't be jealous. Igbos achieved it. Hustle too, you have hands and legs.

This woman want to play to the gallery .
It has come to the point, she now fetch water from a well.

Leave all this gimmicks .
Even the poorest of the poor in the city could look for something to do to earn a living, let her do likewise

Manna does not fall from heaven.

A woman is asking for help following the demise of her husband and instead of showing empathy, some children of cain are here, opening their mouths and displaying the contents of their very evil hearts. If you have nothing useful to say, why don't you just close your mouths instead of saying she is entitled. I pray you lots never find yourselves in a situation where you too would have to "come down from your high horse" as some of you have counseled. May God have mercy on your deeply wicked souls.

AllBlack:
Madam Go and HUSTLE

shebi if na man dey complain all this thing na the same thing you go talk



So what is the fate of that FAT BOY in the picture I am seeing?

He ghast face reality come down from him high horse ooo...it would seem that there will be no more soft life.....some things are not fair in life but life done happen.

Was that big house on rent? Very surprising. She gats find work o. I thought she had a business she was into. Nigeria is hard and people are overwhelmed with their own problems. Nobody has extra to give you. Except Otedola and Dangote.

I wish her the best.

Madam, it is time to downgrade. This is your new reality. If your children used to go to 500k a term school, downgrade to 50k a term, or public school. No one can come and be doing what your husband used to do.

Biodun1929:
Madam, it is time to downgrade. This is your new reality. If your children used to go to 500k a term school, downgrade to 50k a term, or public school. No one can come and be doing what your husband used to do.

Pride and unrealistic competition go allow am adjust to current realities?

WHAT did she EXPECT LIFE after THE BREAD WINNER? they, u all WISHED D£@TH on HIM>>>>
could have WORKED ONE ACCORD but u wanted WIG and TURKEY EXPENSES from DONATED FUNDS

AllBlack:
So if i decide to part with my money in the name of helping her and all she has to give me is her overused VJ wey that FAT BOY come out from...

Does that still make me Randy or she should be thanking me for even sticking my rod in that express way with all the flabby body and stretch marks like a zebra

The ultimate is to “release “ make stress leave your body

[quote author=Mattswaggz post=139826928]The widow of late Nollywood actor, John Okafor, popularly known as Mr Ibu, has appealed to Nigerians for assistance, saying she and her children are struggling to pay rent, school fees and other basic needs.

The appeal was made in a video interview with a content creator, King Mitchy, on Wednesday, in which the actor’s wife and children spoke about the family’s living conditions following his death.

Speaking emotionally, the widow said the family had been without electricity for about two months after their power supply was disconnected over unpaid bills.

She also revealed that they rely on water from a well because of their financial situation.

"We fetch water from the well. Because I have not paid the house rent. And they have even cut my lights for two months now. No lights since. We have been like that. Every night we go to look for a place to charge our phones. And… It’s not easy,” she said.

One of the actor’s daughters praised her mother for keeping the family together despite the hardship.

"I want to thank God for my mom. She tries everything she can to feed us, to pay our school fees, to make us happy,” she said.

The widow further disclosed that her children were at risk of dropping out of school because of unpaid fees.

“Right now, they can’t go to school again. I can even show you the message the school sent me today,” she said.

The content creator who conducted the interview said support was being sought to help the family pay school fees, settle rent and restore electricity to their home.

Mr Ibu, one of Nigeria’s most popular comic actors, died on March 2, 2024, at the age of 62.

https://punchng.com/mr-ibus-widow-children-seek-support-over-rent-school-fees/



[ thousands of Nigerians are living without electricity, do we even have stable electricity in Nigeria?. When Fetching of water from well became an hardship? Well water may be purer and better than pure water. I only pray to God to send you an helper who will take care of your children school fees.]

Men if you can please make sure you empower your wife in case life happens

Meteng:
The ultimate is to “release “ make stress leave your body

I have more than 5 elegant babes that can do that for me without plenty stress.

This one go use billing kill person and will never ever satisfy me. next thing she will say WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME THAT ANOTHER MAN HAS NOT DONE? 😁

chaerman:
See life 😔 this is why I always tell youngsters there's actually no money whatsoever in the whole entertainment industries!! What they have is just mere just, don't ever rely on entertainment funds its a scam!! If not how can big stars be asking for help or begging to pay debts!! I woke up when I read news back then that a whole Michael Jackson died with so much debt the family can't even pay back, so goes for another huge rap artist Tupac!!! Just few weeks ago we say Floyd ordered by court to pay almost 20 million for tax evasion which strangely enough he didn't have!! How comes??! He literally call himself Floyd money always flexing bundles of dollars, exotic cars and jets, ashe the fool no kuku get anything!! Hustle hard don't fall for all those celebs or yahoo boys shit

On Michael Jackson, yes he died in debt...he had $500 million debt on his head at the time of his death, but it was paid off within a year after his death...cos his estate made a lot of money after his death.

The problem with Michael wasn't that he wasn't making money, he was just spending moe than he was making. So when he died, the spending stopped, and money started pouring in nonstop. He is still making money now in his death more than 90% of artists that are alive.

Mattswaggz:
I know that coming down from a high horse isn't easy for many but two advice for Mrs Ibu :-

1)Cut your coat according to your size.

2)No one owes you anything so don't bank on people's help nor feel entitled to it....all the best.

don't mind her

Wasn't she working on her own before the man died?

So what about other widows with children whose husband aren't celebrity

Nigeria problem is more to this







GREEDY fellow.

Mattswaggz:
The widow of late Nollywood actor, John Okafor, popularly known as Mr Ibu, has appealed to Nigerians for assistance, saying she and her children are struggling to pay rent, school fees and other basic needs.

The appeal was made in a video interview with a content creator, King Mitchy, on Wednesday, in which the actor’s wife and children spoke about the family’s living conditions following his death.

Speaking emotionally, the widow said the family had been without electricity for about two months after their power supply was disconnected over unpaid bills.

She also revealed that they rely on water from a well because of their financial situation.

"We fetch water from the well. Because I have not paid the house rent. And they have even cut my lights for two months now. No lights since. We have been like that. Every night we go to look for a place to charge our phones. And… It’s not easy,” she said.

One of the actor’s daughters praised her mother for keeping the family together despite the hardship.

"I want to thank God for my mom. She tries everything she can to feed us, to pay our school fees, to make us happy,” she said.

The widow further disclosed that her children were at risk of dropping out of school because of unpaid fees.

“Right now, they can’t go to school again. I can even show you the message the school sent me today,” she said.

The content creator who conducted the interview said support was being sought to help the family pay school fees, settle rent and restore electricity to their home.

Mr Ibu, one of Nigeria’s most popular comic actors, died on March 2, 2024, at the age of 62.

https://punchng.com/mr-ibus-widow-children-seek-support-over-rent-school-fees/

Abeg go n work

Madam, noone is obligated to assist you in anything

Openyamind111:
I hope Mr Ibu’s colleagues will help this poor woman.. who never die no fit know wetin go kill am

So you think his colleagues don't have their own problems?

AllBlack:
Pride and unrealistic competition go allow am adjust to current realities?

When hunger really hit, she will adjust by force.

I think these so-called "celebrities" need awareness on why they need Life Insurance Policies, Health Insurance Policies, Legal Insurance Policies and others in their prime days just to avoid stories like this.

Meteng:
In the guise of help, I hope randy men will not use this as an opportunity to knack her wetin no good

Omo….you get mouth

chaerman:
See life 😔 this is why I always tell youngsters there's actually no money whatsoever in the whole entertainment industries!! What they have is just mere just, don't ever rely on entertainment funds its a scam!! If not how can big stars be asking for help or begging to pay debts!! I woke up when I read news back then that a whole Michael Jackson died with so much debt the family can't even pay back, so goes for another huge rap artist Tupac!!! Just few weeks ago we say Floyd ordered by court to pay almost 20 million for tax evasion which strangely enough he didn't have!! How comes??! He literally call himself Floyd money always flexing bundles of dollars, exotic cars and jets, ashe the fool no kuku get anything!! Hustle hard don't fall for all those celebs or yahoo boys shit

My brother your comment is very funny but truth is money dey entertainment industry na their lifestyle wey cost. E no easy to maintain

Remember the saying big man big problem

Most of these celebrities and their relatives like taking advantage of general public to solve their personal issues.

Does she not have a job or business? Does appealing to Nigerians for contribution end the hardship if you dont have anything doing?

This actors are really going through a lot. I see them as big boys . It surprises me that they don’t have a house of there own.

Gagare1:
Sorry, but nobody owes you anything.

Get down from that high horse and readjust to reality.

Simple.

She never said that anybody owes her anything! She's just seeking for help from those who have the heart of giving to come to their aid. There's nothing wrong in asking for help. In fact, it's better to ask for help than to resort to doing dishonourable things to survive!