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"If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi - Family (3) - Nairaland

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Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by aswani(m):
spiceadole:
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No matter how much sex men have with their wives, they still sleep with other women.
Maybe on this point, you should only speak on behalf of your male relatives. It is a shame that they do this and might be an upbringing issue.

I am proud not to be part of such and know a lot of people that are not. Much more than the one or two that are.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Kwinesther: 9:54am On Jun 27
silibaba:
Sex is not your thing and you already have three kids grin grin (abi you be virgin mary)

The way women deceive themselves these days baffles me.

I hate women that pretends when it comes to sex.except you have infections that makes you not to enjoy sex, then I will reason with you.
Yes it's possible sex isn't her thing even with 6 children. If she had sex just once or twice a year and each copulation led to pregnancy does that make sex her thinghuh How does that make her pretend? Get educated and informed, that done? Be reasonable!
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spiceadole(f): 10:06am On Jun 27
aswani:
Maybe on this point, you should only speak on behalf of your male relatives. It is a shame that they do this and might be an upbringing issues.

I am proud not to be part of such and know a lot of people that are not. Much more than the one or two that are.
Men will be bragging how polygamous in nature they are and how sleeping around is manly.. but when a woman puts it out to them, they begin to explain and start acting as if it's not true.

Swear that you have never been unfaithful to your partner.
All the men in your family including your father have been unfaithful and a lot are still cheating in their wives.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by aswani(m): 10:50am On Jun 27
spiceadole:
Men will be bragging how polygamous in nature they are and how sleeping around is manly.. but when a woman puts it out to them, they begin to explain and start acting as if it's not true.

Swear that you have never been unfaithful to your partner.
All the men in your family including your father have been unfaithful and a lot are still cheating in their wives.
You have chosen the wrong person regarding infidelity, I have never, despite admittedly tempting offers, cheated on my partner(s), and never will. I can also vouch for my male relatives and close circle of friends bar one.

Madam, your generalisation about men, and I don't mean to get personal, might be to do with you and your circle of friends, maybe your female relatives too, throwing yourself at weak willed men who you know are married.

There is a world of upright men out there who don't need such, again to reiterate anti, that your male relatives indulge in such willy nilly cannot and should not be projected onto the rest of us.

No one that I know brags about sleeping around, I am not an SU and enjoy admiring the female form by the way, as in my circle it is shameful.

I guess in the circle of male figures around you, it might be worth bragging about, maybe you should be mindful of who you are hanging around. Maybe they understand your morals align with theirs, from when you and your female relatives and friends were single giving it up to married men maybe, is why they speak to you about it in a braggadocious manner.

The only problematic person around me knows not to present his malaise as anything other than shameful.

Once more, speak of your own and always add the proviso about the men you know being polygamous in nature, no shame in that using your yardstick.

Apologies for any perceived slut shaming, not intentional ma.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Kwinesther: 2:39pm On Jun 27
spiceadole:
Are you minding the e.diot?
That gender? Most of them are not just smart. Dumb species.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by silibaba: 3:30pm On Jun 27
Kwinesther:
Yes it's possible sex isn't her thing even with 6 children. If she had sex just once or twice a year and each copulation led to pregnancy does that make sex her thinghuh How does that make her pretend? Get educated and informed, that done? Be reasonable!
Oga rest!

Bible said I will increase your child labor but you will still desire to have sex. Is an inbuilt thing. Except him man don't know how to make her climax.

There's no female animal in this world that don't like sex. You can only put it in check but that doesnt mean you don't like sex.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Kwinesther: 5:34am On Jun 28
silibaba:
Oga rest!

Bible said I will increase your child labor but you will still desire to have sex. Is an inbuilt thing. Except him man don't know how to make her climax.

There's no female animal in this world that don't like sex. You can only put it in check but that doesnt mean you don't like sex.
Oga pastor, chai this matter pain you wella ooo grin, as she said she doesn't like sex, go and kill her then. Your body go calm down.
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