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Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Jozilinn: 8:34pm On Jun 26
oz4real83:
with the level of insecurity around, it is understandable why she brought someone along, it was her first time of visiting.
Ok no problem now I understand
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Wotowotoman: 8:49pm On Jun 26
ravensckar:
I hope your account wasn't hacked? How come you didn't mention your favourite person POCO? wink wink

Corporate ladies in this context are those that work in corporate environment like offices et all.

Those ladies wey you go see, come think sey normal normal their job dey pay them pay well. Whereas, na relationship billing be their main hustle.

#Picks_tooth
So na corporate ladies you dey call cooperate ladies? Na wa o undecided
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Mountbatten: 10:33pm On Jun 26
I've never had the unfortunate experience of dating a broke woman because I can't imagine entertaining the company of a woman who can't afford her basic needs. The average Nigerian woman is below my level, so I struggle to see any potential in them regardless of their looks. They typically date and marry for survival instead of building a genuine and lasting connection.
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Mountbatten: 10:36pm On Jun 26
Toolegit123:
You're so right my brother. The thing jux tire me. But how guyman wan take see wife marry now?
Marriage is off the table for me as it's a futile attempt in such a broken economy. Once I reach a certain age, I'll consider getting a vasectomy after either getting a surrogate or adoption.
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by okerekingsley90: 10:38pm On Jun 26
Traay:
most people dating girls these days are pressing serious funds to sustain that relationship.
those that can’t press funds are going through hell in their relationship, if you think i’m lying ask any of your friend that’s seriously committed.

ever since late buhari spoilt these country, nigerian girls entered survival mode.
the worst are those cooperate ladies. they bill without conscience.
grin
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by okerekingsley90: 10:46pm On Jun 26
ravensckar:
You really be OG for the game.

Cooperate ladies are wolves in sheep clothing. If you lose guard, them go bill you so tey you go sell your property.

Most times when they gather at work and start bragging about how they are billing guys, I can't help but feel sorry for their supposed boyfriends.

Some guys life don scatter for woman hand. How an adult comfortably carries the responsibility of another adult in the name of dating beats my imagination.

#Picks_tooth
Guys wasting money unnecessarily grin
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by okerekingsley90: 10:47pm On Jun 26
Bullman:
Brother let me give you an advice.
Seems you are doing well for yourself
The next work leave you get, go to benin republic Togo or Cameroon(more preferable they speak English).. they have very very cheap hotels decent guest in for about 5000 naira or even less for a day.
Enjoy the ambience of the country. Meet their women , oga if you don't find your missing rib in any of dis African country ? Calculate all you spent with proof and I will refund you your money for wasting your time..
My wife is from Guinea Bissau , she's highly educated, and she worship the ground that I walk on.. I provide for her and she appreciates every single dalasi I give to her.
She doesn't nag.
Shes family oriented.
Her family treat me like a biological son without me trying to impress them.
Nigerian women will stain your white with their entitlement mentality.
There are still some good ones left , but they don't come in the type of body that you want.
I wish you good luck my guy
Omo see update guy I go send you dm grin grin grin
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by okerekingsley90: 10:48pm On Jun 26
Bullman:
Brother let me give you an advice.
Seems you are doing well for yourself
The next work leave you get, go to benin republic Togo or Cameroon(more preferable they speak English).. they have very very cheap hotels decent guest in for about 5000 naira or even less for a day.
Enjoy the ambience of the country. Meet their women , oga if you don't find your missing rib in any of dis African country ? Calculate all you spent with proof and I will refund you your money for wasting your time..
My wife is from Guinea Bissau , she's highly educated, and she worship the ground that I walk on.. I provide for her and she appreciates every single dalasi I give to her.
She doesn't nag.
Shes family oriented.
Her family treat me like a biological son without me trying to impress them.
Nigerian women will stain your white with their entitlement mentality.
There are still some good ones left , but they don't come in the type of body that you want.
I wish you good luck my guy
Bro Gid bless you
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by MrCaesar: 10:53pm On Jun 26
Going to five years without relationship, and I'm good.
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by lebete3000: 12:20am On Jun 27
Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty angry

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?
I'm guessing you're not a tall guy, so she just wasn't feeling you like that.

Ladies detest short guys, they just pretend they don't and put up with it, till all he'll lets loose when you retort them the way you did cheesy
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Ekaka14: 12:32am On Jun 27
Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty angry

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?
The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep
In Asari dokubo's voice: "Run o!!" ..."wristwatch & cup of tea" grin grin
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Caleycash(m): 4:29am On Jun 27
Daptboy:
You can obviously see the reason she's still single...

I also broke up with my girl.... We dated for almost 2yrs...i dint date for a few months so I decided to date again...

I met a lady about 40+... I wanted to try older ladies cos I wanted maturity... This one was worse than the last.... This was when I noticed "conditional love"

Everytime there was a wedding to attend and she was always a part of the bridal shower... Every month I got a billing of 20 30k for materials and all...

And if you no give her that money she go squeeze face for you like a week or two.. That's not all..

She's always hungry, never has data or transport, always has one family issue, always sick.... To top it all, she's working oo

I'm already done with her in my mind.... No difference with the smalla them... Imagine a 40+ man that hasn't gotten his stuff together...

This relationship matter taya me abeg...
The younger the better!, all those na mature babes know what they want are all lies... all of them are after your money!
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Caleycash(m): 4:30am On Jun 27
ravensckar:
You really be OG for the game.

Cooperate ladies are wolves in sheep clothing. If you lose guard, them go bill you so tey you go sell your property.

Most times when they gather at work and start bragging about how they are billing guys, I can't help but feel sorry for their supposed boyfriends.

Some guys life don scatter for woman hand. How an adult comfortably carries the responsibility of another adult in the name of dating beats my imagination.

#Picks_tooth
Same gender are easy to call men Narcissists 😆 🤣
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Stephen0mozzy: 5:03am On Jun 27
damoobaba:
Na bomb you dodge, no be bullet.

This I how I got my woman from Facebook. We met,on Facebook and now we have are married and I dont regret it.

I would chat up ladies daily on Facebook 10-20 daily, some would reply and I will kick off a conversation from there. As a Yoruba guy, my target were ladies living in states with disciplined ladies. I met ladies from Deeper life, CAC etc background. My goal is I want to get married to a lady that has never been touched before. I got serious with two and eventually ended up with my wife. Na my wife first spend on me as I dey so. And when you see my wife, youll wonder why she agreed to marry, EXTRA BEAUTIFUL DEY WORRY HER.

Just set your goals on the type of woman you want to marry and stay far from all these entitled/overused Lagos, Benin, Port Harcourt, Abuja girls. PEACE ✌️
Why you con throw stray bullet give our Benin girls na 😂. Terrible and good girls dey everywhere Sir.

Blessings to your home 😇
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Hassanmaye(m): 6:00am On Jun 27
Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty angry

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?
These girls are not smiling, they are looking for simps to reap but Men have wise up
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Juliearth(f): 7:34am On Jun 27
Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty angry

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?
As a rule of thumb, always date people within your radar of thinking. It's obvious you're expectations were cut short because she couldn't meet up with you intellectually. Your choice of location for the date may have contributed.


Don't be in a rush to settle. Overspeeding kills and I don't mean this literally (fit it into context). I'm curious though. Why did your fiancee end things with you?
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Juliearth(f): 7:37am On Jun 27
Traay:
most people dating girls these days are pressing serious funds to sustain that relationship.
those that can’t press funds are going through hell in their relationship, if you think i’m lying ask any of your friend that’s seriously committed.

ever since late buhari spoilt these country, nigerian girls entered survival mode.
the worst are those cooperate ladies. they bill without conscience.
...And do you think that is healthy? This is why you lots end up in toxic marriages and divorce. Keep money aside and find that woman who would stick with you regardless. You can then shower her with money as much and as far as you can because you are sure she won't budge when it is no longer available.
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by socoharley: 8:07am On Jun 27
Juliearth:
...And do you think that is healthy? This is why you lots end up in toxic marriages and divorce. Keep money aside and find that woman who would stick with you regardless. You can then shower her with money as much and as far as you can because you are sure she won't budge when it is no longer available.
Hi lady, Still residing in the power state?
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Oceanjagaban: 8:44pm On Jun 27
na you see olosho finish say you wan date her.....instead of you to price her. u no know say she vex for that love pattern wey you carry follow her?
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Memberclub(m): 9:47pm On Jun 27
contentEngineer:
Lol grin...You don't know women have a WhatsApp group , where they update each other on new billing techniques . ...Ona go crryyy cool
most guys don’t know this lol. some of their gf dey fvck married men with preek. as long as he pays bills whenever she ask
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Chygozdegreat: 12:58pm On Jun 28
Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty angry

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?
person wey u suppose suppose invite your house bang the he'll out of her u come de form oyibo de carry her go date
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Nnamdipapa(m): 1:28pm On Jun 28
We keep talking about these ladies without talking about how these people were raised. The parents who raised these types of ladies have failed miserably. As a father who has an 18-year-old daughter, I always tell her nobody owes her anything in the world and to always work hard to provide for herself.
If she ever needs anything in this world, I will be there for her, as that is my rightful job, not any man out there. I taught my daughter to prioritise career and independence over relationships, marriage, or religion. Taught her that the only guarantee she has in life is what she can achieve by herself, and as we speak, I have her on my company's payroll with a salary. love, affections, or emotions can change anytime and the benefits attached to them withdrawn, but what you achieve for yourself can never be taken away.
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by contentEngineer: 10:25am On Jun 30
Memberclub:
most guys don’t know this lol. some of their gf dey fvck married men with preek. as long as he pays bills whenever she ask
That gender are not meant to be loved , commit emotionally at your own risk. Just focus on what's important in relation to them (I.e having babies )
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Makavelli001: 3:27pm On Jul 06
Bullman:
Brother let me give you an advice.
Seems you are doing well for yourself
The next work leave you get, go to benin republic Togo or Cameroon(more preferable they speak English).. they have very very cheap hotels decent guest in for about 5000 naira or even less for a day.
Enjoy the ambience of the country. Meet their women , oga if you don't find your missing rib in any of dis African country ? Calculate all you spent with proof and I will refund you your money for wasting your time..
My wife is from Guinea Bissau , she's highly educated, and she worship the ground that I walk on.. I provide for her and she appreciates every single dalasi I give to her.
She doesn't nag.
Shes family oriented.
Her family treat me like a biological son without me trying to impress them.
Nigerian women will stain your white with their entitlement mentality.
There are still some good ones left , but they don't come in the type of body that you want.
I wish you good luck my guy
What u say is true....
I once dated a girl from uganda, she was so sweet... money issue was secondary.
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Dshocker(m): 3:40pm On Jul 06
Toolegit123:
Good evening everyone.

Lately, so I decided it was high time I tried my luck with other ladies since my fiancee broke up with me. I must really confess, it has been hectic after meeting a couple of single ladies.

The first lady, a lady of 27 years was the first one I encountered and she was introduced to me by my cousin. M After texting and chatting on Whatsapp for a week, we decided to finally meet. We booked a date and I paid for her transport. On the day of our date, I noticed she wasn't paying attention to everything I was saying and that really killed the vibes I was expecting from our first date. Funny and awkward thing was that she didn't even spend more than 20 minutes on the date and I was the only one asking all the questions. After she left, I only called her to make sure she got home safely and afterward, I didn't bother to call or text her because that wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted.

Then, what actually buried the whole thing was that, even after everything, I was trying to build up a relationship with her even though I wasn't really feeling the vibes. The question that dug the final grave was--"Since the day I left your place, you haven't sent me any money for food and upkeep".

At first, I kept quiet for a while and then replied her--"haven't you been eating before we met?". That was when hell was let lose. The insults I received on that day from her were so much and annoying that the only way I thought I could pay her back was to block her ASAP.

This lady was someone who had her own hairdressing saloon business and I thought I could build something meaningful with her. But to my greatest surprise, she wasn't different from the hungry, younger ladies out there.

I don't think I will commence on my mission on the dating pool from now on because it seems most of these ladies nowadays are hungry and only looking for men who will bail them out of their poverty angry

So single guys in the house, has anyone of you had a similar experience with single ladies?
Trust me, dating a salon owner is a no no for me, because they are one of the worst of the worst to date.
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Dshocker(m): 4:50pm On Jul 06
Chygozdegreat:
person wey u suppose suppose invite your house bang the he'll out of her u come de form oyibo de carry her go date
Guy rest, you are still an adolescent.
Re: How My Date With A 27 Years Old Lady Turned Chaotic. by Dshocker(m): 4:24pm On Jul 07
Chygozdegreat:
mugu
Baby talk
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