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So after Some serious convincing, this babe decided to come over. After my hard work of getting her to bed, we start Dey cuddle Omo as things one escalate na so I hear person open door omooo na my mama enter o, as if that was not enough she call me for her front tell me me make I go grind pepper for her. na so the babe carry her bag vex comot one time.

All my steeze reduce one time.

Now Looking at prices of rents these days, we see 1m, 1.2m, 1.5m for self con, mini flat etc.

Now judging by the amount an average person make in Nigeria and also huge cost of living how do they manage to afford this?

Is it yahoo ni or sporty or newsspend,com?


Cos me I don tire o and I no carry o na to Dey sleep for car ajeh!

You dey post car with your dry face wen you no get Ur own apartment. You never ready. As a man the day you deside to enjoy woman try dey stay alone not under your friends or family house unless inside that family house you have your own full private flat. Or else the disgrace wen you go see Ur mouth no go fit explain am

You don't have your own apartment and you were complaining why is it difficult for you to knack girls?

Calm down.

No use because of banny wey you wan straff pack from your mama house.

A word is enough for an ex rapper.

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I understand the situation of the country right now. So really and honestly no pressure.


But the truth is at 31 you suppose don dey plan ahead and begin dey think of being a man of your own.

Also for the sake of your privacy if you value that. So your move is a step in the right direction. Sometimes you need to man up o. I can't imagine at 31 my parents coming to bother me when I wanna get down.


I moved from my parents house at 18 years when I got admission... but like I said Sha no pressure.


By the way this your banny wey her blouse stain/pick cotton like this e be like say you really rough handle her for that your bed small Sha. Na just the do you no see do.

Your mom na spoiler o... if na some moms dey go free you sef!

I left my parents' house at 20.

Goo0dHardDick:
You don't have your own apartment and you were complaining why is it difficult for you to knack girls?

Na you sabi who no fit get accommodation problem?

Sonnobax15:

Calm down.

No use because of banny wey you wan straff pack from your mama house.

A word is enough for an ex rapper.

is he supposed to be in his parent’s house at 31?

I rented my own apartment at 21, 6 months after NYSC.

Even if it is Sango Ota he can afford, let him pack there. The man is driving while living with his mother, misplaced priorities if you ask me.

Harddiskng:
is he supposed to be in his parent’s house at 31?

I rented my own apartment at 21, 6 months after NYSC.

Even if it is Sango Ota he can afford, let him pack there. The man is driving while living with his mother, misplaced priorities if you ask me.

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Most likely his mom's car though not his!

Don't leave, better stay with them and eat till you can find your footing. Outside hard o

How far now,how is our rapping career?.

Sonnobax15:

Calm down.

No use because of banny wey you wan straff pack from your mama house.

A word is enough for an ex rapper.

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1Alex:
I left my parents' house at 20.

Things have changed. Although this OP no too serious like that, it's now a trend where children are no longer leaving their parent's house like before. Economy has changed.

The song gods are clearly not happy with you.

Harddiskng:
is he supposed to be in his parent’s house at 31?
I rented my own apartment at 21, 6 months after NYSC.

Even if it is Sango Ota he can afford, let him pack there. The man is driving while living with his mother, misplaced priorities if you ask me.

I don't think that fighting spirit exists anymore or it has reduced. Parents today are more gentle and more likely to indulge their children than your parent's generation where parents then were more interested in getting their children started in life and they kept mentoring them till they got married or had a job and they could then relax to say they know what they are doing.


My brother, you're 31 years old. You're driving up and down, but every evening you're parking that car in your mother's compound. Help me understand the plan. If all you can afford today is one room or a small apartment in Sango Ota, then move there and start your life. A man is supposed to build from his level, not wait until he can afford Lekki before leaving his mother's house. Independence is part of becoming a man and you don't skip that stage because you're comfortable.

Now, if you're at home because you're saving to buy land, building a house, taking care of your widowed mother, or settling debt, that's a different conversation. But if there's no timeline and no real purpose, then you're confusing comfort with progress. And mothers, God bless them, can sometimes love their sons so much that they make it too easy for them to stay boys. A father is more likely to say, "Oga, it's time to go and face life." At the end of the day, women don't just look at the car you drive, they look at whether you're standing on your own feet. That's what grown men do. It's learning responsibility and not being too comfortable.

So what do you want us to do with this info?

Airforce one a well known failed musician got a girl pregnant at this your age shouldn't you be thinking towards that direction?

Sigh... And, this crap made front page.

Lol...you even get car to dey sleep in.

Dey use am do Uber nah.

31. Small boys really full Nairaland.

You had better go to Ajegunle where can find affordable rent in case you are in Lagos.You are still tied to your mother's apron string at 31?

Omo it has not been easy, especially with the rents.

I sat down one day and asked myself "how can I be suffer making money, just to cuff out a million and just to give to my fellow man"

Omo na once I recontinue my house project.

Na akara and kuli kuli I wn take dy pay 1m+ house rent abi wertin.

Just mistakingly clicked and listened on your audiomack song "say what" ... U now have 12 likes bro

meobizy:
31. Small boys really full Nairaland.

31 is a small boy?!! Really?!!

I have seen 40 year olds that are already grandfathers abroad.

A 31 year old has no business under his parents' roof, except he pays the bills.

I left home at the age of 20 for the university and never looked back since. Put up with Unless here and there in-between thou.

At 31, I married my university school mate and 9 years down the line, we are happy and blessed with 2 big boys.

Take a decision bro and stand by it. Although there are always consequences for these decisions, good or bad. But, you man it up.

You wan learn the hard way

This your babe na akara or kuli kuli business she dey do?

Iamdbull:
Na you sabi who no fit get accommodation problem?

Why is that babe resemble my baby wey dey do her NYSC for Ekiti?

How can a 31 years old man be living with his parents?

Na you get mouth, if you want to use am chop shit na you sabi

See the kind of thread making frontpage on nairaland

Some of us left at 16. We didn't make no noise about it.