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dominique:
It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.



So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"

chris51:
My dear lady, you are a pig. How can you not trash the leftover food you ate. You didn't make the bed you slept on before you left the house.
If you want to marry, you have to repackage yourself and learn the basic things expected from a girl with good home training

AllBlack:
Classic Gaslighting tactics.

So because he said HE LOVES YOU automatically means he should overlook all your dirty red flags and stay forever with a pig?

Will you accept such if he comes to your house, used the toilet and FORGET to flush?

Abeg shift with your FAKE story.

EmmyMaestro:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7641555232220138773?_r=1&_t=ZS-96ZF2qaqz8E

oluwatodimu1:
Why don't you take out time to work on yourself? Thank goodness you identified your flaws, then own them and improve on you.
Na until you forget your pikin inside motor before you understand what you are saying doesn't make sense!

Thelma001:
Excuse you sir! First and foremost, i don’t need to prove my gender to you if you finding it hard to believe. Secondly, a woman is in the house, sleeping after eating and dinning in your apartment, on a Monday that you were rushing to work, so you were actually gonna sweep, clean and tidy the house while she sleeps. You can only do that if you don’t have a good intentions towards her. If you really see her as a wife material, you’d expect more from her and I guess that was what the guy was expecting and since she didn’t tick the box, he let her go. What’s bad about that?

AllBlack:
Classic Gaslighting tactics.

So because he said HE LOVES YOU automatically means he should overlook all your dirty red flags and stay forever with a pig?

Will you accept such if he comes to your house, used the toilet and FORGET to flush?

Abeg shift with your FAKE story.

Harddiskng:
It is a cumulation of many things

That was just the last straw that break the camel’s back

dominique:
It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.



So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"

dominique:
It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.



So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"

Lalami3232:
Madam as you sabi forget everything, why you no forget to ask the guy for money?
Nigerian women sef ... Tomorrow you go see dem asking so desperate for a husband by attending churches, prayer houses, miracle challenge, social media crying and begging for a man etc. I keep on saying this and I will say it again, "99% of women had good men who wanted to marry them in their prime. Na either her wrong choice or character na drive the man comot". See as she dey gaslight the man 😁, dem must always get an excuse for everything bad. Nowadays, dem don tag runs as hookup, bad character as mood swing. That's really not my business sha, my business na to advise men wey dey marry this week say DNA test is important than naming ceremony for non-virgin partners. If she had sexual discipline, you would have met the door tightly shut and sealed.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

dominique:
It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.



So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"

Allthingswork:
Dominique, i took the time to copy and paste the below comments from other female members of the forum to drive home a point, and the point being that your agenda at whipping up sentiments from females didn't succeed. You want to support what is wrong just to make the man in the story look like the actual " person of particular interest " Nah, it's the lady. She's the one we are all reading about here! Ntorr.

You even went as far as saying that a lady who disagreed with you and spoke against the dirty blocked one -night -stander must be a male using a female moniker, in order to get males on here to slide into her DMs. How low can you go? * singing the song, " how low can you go "(*2). You just can't come to terms with women disagreeing with your one-sided view. It shocked you.
Comments from females below:

winnah(f): Quote Post
How hard is it to process information.
According to the lady, she messed up the place, the house was clean before her arrival. The guy bought her food... She ate the food and leave the entire place untidy.


Did you observe that she didn't clear up the leftover from the food he bought for her the night before? The guy is supposed to do that for her? She couldn't even tidy up the bed she slept on! That's not ladylike at all.

Maybe it's a fake story sha.
winnah(f): Quote Post
How hard is it to process information.
According to the lady, she messed up the place, the house was clean before her arrival. The guy bought her food... She ate the food and leave the entire place untidy.


Thelma001(f): Quote Post
Excuse you sir! First and foremost, i don’t need to prove my gender to you if you finding it hard to believe. Secondly, a woman is in the house, sleeping after eating and dinning in your apartment, on a Monday that you were rushing to work, so you were actually gonna sweep, clean and tidy the house while she sleeps. You can only do that if you don’t have a good intentions towards her. If you really see her as a wife material, you’d expect more from her and I guess that was what the guy was expecting and since she didn’t tick the box, he let her go. What’s bad about that?

ultraviolet27(f): Quote Post
mere looking at her physique you will know she is a lazy, slothful, dirty thing just like my friends cousin in the university Idowu she could sleep till 10am in the morning same thing with my neighbour here that guy could sleep till 10am also and very dirty no wonder he isn't married till now so you can see it's not a gender thing fortunately idowu was very clean though!

I can't just stand any member of the 2 genders that sleeps too much,are dirty and lazy a man still on his bed till 10:30 am and won't even brush till 3pm because he hasn't gone out yet when you speak to him his morning breath will be visible,how is he even going to hustle for his daily bread?(that's my male neighbour)same with a lady a mother to be in the future who has to be reminded every hour to close the windows,trash the dishes,lay the bed,sweep the floors when she isn't amnesiac then how is she going to instill those values into her kids?

I take my personal hygiene highly I can't stand an adult who still has morning breath at 3:30pm because he/she hasn't left her bed

Thelma001:
Don’t mind the monkiy, and to think of it, na moderator she be oooo.