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Calm down and read what I witnessed same 2 days ago in the market.

A guy was in the store where I was purchasing an item. This guy asked for an iPhone X 64gb which he and the seller started bargaining on. The cost was far above his budget and he was visibly unhappy. Since, I was there I advised the guy to cheer up, maybe in 2 weeks time he can get it after saving a little.

I was shocked when this guy told me he was buying the phone for his girlfriend. Like we were all shocked. I looked at his hands, dude was using iPhone 8. I immediately became angry, I told him to buy the iPhone x for himself instead and sell the iPhone 8 the guy refused and said he loves the iPhone 8 so much and all his files are inside the phone. I told him all that can be moved via iCloud and still he refused.

I then demanded to know what brand his girlfriend was using and he said Tecno. that it got spoilt recently and his girlfriend asked him to get her iPhone x instead of fixing the screen of the Tecno. Upon hearing this, I almost ran mad! The guy has struggled to save 100k with high hopes of getting the iPhone x for his girlfriend. I asked the guy to call his girlfriend to send him the remaining amount of the money to get the iPhone since he has already saved 100k. The guy stared at me like I was insane and shylishly laughed.

While all this was happening, the shop owner just relaxed and was smiling while listening to us. My Question is, are men cowards, too weak or ashamed to say NO to women? women are by far more smarter than men because a woman will never stay where she isn't benefiting anything from.

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And yet they still get played by the same men they claimed they're smarter than.

Funny you op, the boy you have an encounter with is just a plain fol and nothing else.

Most men are folz when it gets to do with women, but that one fol got played, doesn't men that women are smarter than men.

Hmm this is very deep than you can explain it I feel men are program to be like this

By the carnage they have done it is true that women are smarter. These are people who have been watching and testing you since primary 4, you now think you are smarter? Not to talk of our mad want of sex.

It is when you remove sex from the matter is when you would see how women will flee from you.

Sex is womens' power and then men want it, ah! That means that they must win all the time na

marlow1962:
And yet they still get played by the same men they claimed they're smarter than.

Funny you op, the boy you have an encounter with is just a plain fol and nothing else.

Most men are folz when it gets to do with women, but that one fol got played, doesn't men that women are smarter than men.

Men learn late in life. It'll take years before that guy in the story above will learn. Meanwhile the said girl already playing games with him should be a very young girl.

Women will never stay where they're not benefiting anything from. Esp monetary services, gifts or anything whatsoever.

heniford2:
Hmm this is very deep than you can explain it I feel men are program to be like this

Partially true.

But again, women are very very Calculative. A girl doing POS will never date a guy doing POS business as her. Haven't you wondered why a broke girl probably doing POS or nail tech will be on a lookout for a rich man with a car?

Flipe the coin, nothing on earth will make a rich girl look twice in the direction of a guy doing POS or any odd jobs no matter how handsome he is.

Dtruthspeaker:
By the carnage they have done it is true that women are smarter. These are people who have been watching and testing you since primary 4, you now think you are smarter? Not to talk of our mad want of sex.

It is when you remove sex from the matter is when you would see how women will flee from you.

Sex is womens' power and then men want it, ah! That means that they must win all the time na

You have said it all.

Women weaponized sex because men act too desperate for it. That's the smartness we're talking about.

A woman literally becomes powerless if she cannot control a man with sex. This is why a man must have lots of options.

The key word is Calculative. From the first day a woman accepted a man or met a man, she'll already calculating what she can benefit from him.

Dtruthspeaker:
It is love for sex that has made you that way. And that is women must always sell you sex or remind you of sex.

You see it here Nairaland, everything will be going fine and then one bi... will post something that reminds you of sex. Same thing happens in your house/office. That is why men are mu m.. s

Preach bro peach!

The guy on the post was sooo unhappy because he couldn't get the iPhone x for a broke girlfriend somewhere probably with a guy enjoying her self

marlow1962:
And yet they still get played by the same men they claimed they're smarter than.

Funny you op, the boy you have an encounter with is just a plain fol and nothing else.

Most men are folz when it gets to do with women, but that one fol got played, doesn't men that women are smarter than men.

By the wails here we can see men are the ones who have been played. And even look at the man's playing, he just wipes and dumps her, Dat one na playing?

Goo0dHardDick:
Preach bro peach!

The guy on the post was sooo unhappy because he couldn't get the iPhone x for a broke girlfriend somewhere probably with a guy enjoying her self

Money and folz don't stay together

Goo0dHardDick:
You have said it all.

Women weaponized sex because men act too desperate for it. That's the smartness we're talking about.

A woman literally becomes powerless if she cannot control a man with sex. This is why a man must have lots of options.

The key word is Calculative. From the first day a woman accepted a man or met a man, she'll already calculating what she can benefit from him.

That is it

marlow1962:
And yet they still get played by the same men they claimed they're smarter than.

Funny you op, the boy you have an encounter with is just a plain fol and nothing else.

Most men are folz when it gets to do with women, but that one fol got played, doesn't men that women are smarter than men.

The fact a man had sex with a girl and dumped her doesn't mean he played her or smarter than her. She still won him 💯

As long as she didn't spend or invested her money in the man, it's a big win for her.

You'll hardly see women go online to wail like men do. Simply because they invested nothing on that man!

I beg to differ! Some women are smart, no doubt. But generally, women are nowhere close to being smarter than men.

You're confusing being deceptive and cunning to being smart.

When it comes to deception, I give it to women. But when it comes to innate wisdom, intelligence & common sense, that title belongs to men. Unless of course you don't know the difference.

Who dash women sense? Gender wey men dey play like PING PONG. That your guy doesn't have the OT yet, him go learn. Then, him go get sense.

In my hood, there's a saying that; "One drunk man is wiser & smarter than 5 women with Phds".

#Picks_tooth

They are only smarter than men like Samson, Ahab, Herod, Adam, to mention but a few!

Not smart bro cunning. They condition men to value their opinions more through manipulation and temper tantrums.

Its not the fear of her leaving that scares the guy. Its the stress of confronting and nagging.

ravensckar:
I beg to differ! Some women are smart, no doubt. But generally, women are nowhere close to being smarter than men.

You're confusing being deceptive and cunning to being smart.

When it comes to deception, I give it to women. But when it comes to innate wisdom, intelligence & common sense, that title belongs to men. Unless of course you don't know the difference.

Who dash women sense? Gender wey men dey play like PING PONG. That your guy doesn't have the OT yet, him go learn. Then, him go get sense.

In my hood, there's a saying that; "One drunk man is wiser & smarter than 5 women with Phds".

#Picks_tooth

Omo guys for your hood bad o. Statement yen “TIWA SAVAGE JU” but i concur. 😜

Wow....😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

Dtruthspeaker:
By the carnage they have done it is true that women are smarter. These are people who have been watching and testing you since primary 4, you now think you are smarter? Not to talk of our mad want of sex.

It is when you remove sex from the matter is when you would see how women will flee from you.

Sex is womens' power and then men want it, ah! That means that they must win all the time na

Goo0dHardDick:
Men learn late in life. It'll take years before that guy in the story above will learn. Meanwhile the said girl already playing games with him should be a very young girl.

Women will never stay where they're not benefiting anything from. Esp monetary services, gifts or anything whatsoever.

bros this isn't completely true. There are men who love with all their hearts and are termed as foolish, and there are women who love with all their hearts and also termed as foolish. These people will go all out for their partners.

So it's not true that women won't stay where they're not benefitting.. infact some women will stay where they are the providers, where they are the benefactors.
The same for men.

Women are not smart, biology has just conditioned the male organism to be predisposed to foolish behavior so that he may mate.

They only have power over you when you lust after them.

ravensckar:
I beg to differ! Some women are smart, no doubt. But generally, women are nowhere close to being smarter than men.

You're confusing being deceptive and cunning to being smart.

When it comes to deception, I give it to women. But when it comes to innate wisdom, intelligence & common sense, that title belongs to men. Unless of course you don't know the difference.

Who dash women sense? Gender wey men dey play like PING PONG. That your guy doesn't have the OT yet, him go learn. Then, him go get sense.

In my hood, there's a saying that; "One drunk man is wiser & smarter than 5 women with Phds".

#Picks_tooth

Leave a emotions. Tell us what your girlfriend has invested in you before. How much has she invested in you before?

We all know you're still giving your babe money at times. That's what we're saying. She'll benefiting something from you one way or the other. What are you benefiting from her in return?

tunnyl:
Not smart bro cunning. They condition men to value their opinions more through manipulation and temper tantrums.

Its not the fear of her leaving that scares the guy. Its the stress of confronting and nagging.

It means they're even more smarter than men than I thought.

Are men cowards and extremely weak?

thrillionaire:
bros this isn't completely true. There are men who love with all their hearts and are termed as foolish, and there are women who love with all their hearts and also termed as foolish. These people will go all out for their partners.

So it's not true that women won't stay where they're not benefitting.. infact some women will stay where they are the providers, where they are the benefactors.
The same for men.

Women stay where they're benefiting. Most especially modern women!

Your second paragraph is referring to our grandmothers of 1960s and 70s, lol. Modern women of this generation will never stay where they're not benefiting anything from. No modern woman wants to be a provider or anything. People who can't do 50/50 in marriage wants to become providers? Lol.

Point is, women do not stay where they're not benefiting anything from. Even your babe or that girl you're smashing is indirectly benefiting something from you. Could be the money you usually give her whenever she visits you, or the Data, or something you always do for her. There must be something she's benefiting that made her to stay. Women don't Love without reasons! They're very very Calculative

ReacherSaidNoth:
Women are not smart, biology has just conditioned the male organism to be predisposed to foolish behavior so that he may mate.

They only have power over you when you lust after them.

Still saying the same thing. The fact foolish men keeps acting foolishly has made women even more smarter than men.

How much money have you eaten from a girl before or how much has a girl invested in you before?

Men's desperation for sex is the reason why they act foolish towards women.

If that guy's mother ask for 20k, he will swear he doesn't have it but for a girlfriend, he wouldn't mind emptying his account to impress her because he wants to sleep with her or is already doing that and intends to maintain her.

It is what it is.

Goo0dHardDick:
It means they're even more smarter than men than I thought.

Are men cowards and extremely weak?

They are not smarter. That being cunning. The more you do it the better you are at it. It has nothing to do with intelligence. Its a destructive, selfish, crude survival tactics that brushes morality off.

Men are not weak. Men just pity cunning women because they are destructive to themselves. And some men don’t like stress.

Have you seen a clumsy cunning woman?. She is cute. Devilishly cute. She tries to lie but lies like an idiot but her mistakes are funny so men just pity her.

tunnyl:
They are not smarter. That being cunning. The more you do it the better you are at it. It has nothing to do with intelligence. Its a destructive, selfish, crude survival tactics that brushes morality off.

Men are not weak. Men just pity cunning women because they are destructive to themselves. And some men don’t like stress.

Have you seen a clumsy cunning woman?. She is cute. Devilishly cute. She tries to lie but lies like an idiot but her mistakes are funny so men just pity her.

The conclusion of your reply is that she outsmarted the man and still got what she wanted. The act of the pity by the man means he is weak. A masculine man care less and is unmovable towards a woman's so called lies. This is what makes a woman fears and respect him. That's exactly why Women are obsessed with non challant guys.

However, women are Smarter than men as long as relationship is concerned. No woman stays where she isn't benefiting anything from

spiceadole:
Men's desperation for sex is the reason why they act foolish towards women.

If that guy's mother ask for 20k, he will swear he doesn't have it but for a girlfriend, he wouldn't mind emptying his account to impress her because he wants to sleep with her or is already doing that and intends to maintain her.

It is what it is.

Sadly the same girl the Simp of a man is trying to impress and maintain is likely being smashed by another guy

Goo0dHardDick:
The conclusion of your reply is that she outsmarted the man and still got what she wanted. The act of the pity by the man means he is weak. A masculine man care less and is unmovable towards a woman's so called lies. This is what makes a woman fears and respect him. That's exactly why Women are obsessed with non challant guys.

However, women are Smarter than men as long relationship is concerned. No woman stays where she isn't benefiting anything from

You still don’t get the point. Like you said women go for non challant guys. Yes he doesn’t care. Yes he knows she is stupid. Yes he can let her go if he wanted to but he just likes having her around because she is cute.

She thinks she is smarter and manipulating him but wait till she overstep her bounds then she is off.

MaYbe you are talking about the so called Alpha male that carry shoulder pretending they are strong men when they are just narcissist. All matured stoic men love cute girls and they treat them cute and corrects her stupidity. They allow her to be stupid as long as she doesn’t step out of line.

And your last line. It doesn’t mean she is smart it means she is dubious and selfish. See ehn if you tell her woman she is being smart or trying to outsmart you or use any word like intelligent for them whether negative o or positive., she starts to think she is smarter than you.

So we dont use those words for women!. The thing she thinks she is benefiting is a fraction of what she could benefit if she used her senses.

Goo0dHardDick:
Sadly the same girl the Simp of a man is trying to impress and maintain is likely being smashed by another guy

Of course.. there are levels to the "game" .
Preferences matter.

tunnyl:
You still don’t get the point. Like you said women go for non challant guys. Yes he doesn’t care. Yes he knows she is stupid. Yes he can let her go if he wanted to but he just likes having her around because she is cute.

She thinks she is smarter and manipulating him but wait till she overstep her bounds then she is off.

MaYbe you are talking about the so called Alpha male that carry shoulder pretending they are strong men when they are just narcissist. All matured stoic men love cute girls and they treat them cute and corrects her stupidity. They allow her to be stupid as long as she doesn’t step out of line.

And your last line. It doesn’t mean she is smart it means she is dubious and selfish. See ehn if you tell her woman she is being smart or trying to outsmart you or use any word like intelligent for them whether negative o or positive., she starts to think she is smarter than you.

So we dont use those words for women!. The thing she thinks she is benefiting is a fraction of what she could benefit if she used her senses.

As long you're parting your money whenever she's with you is indirectly benefiting to her.

It is when she invested or spent her money on you or on the man, then your comments begins to make sense!

As long as the man is still spending his money on her or giving her money, wether it is fraction of it or not, that's benefit to her. If e for sure for the man, let the woman spend her money on him let's see.

Point is, however you intend to twist it and cry, women can never stay where they're not benefiting anything from.