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Rest my dear, if u guys don't sit up, in 10yrs time no body will value naija gals again

When she dey give you money you no complain ooo...
Now she don give you something huge...u wan come dey complain...
Why now

Diamond098454:
No no no
E no pain me but you guys are letting Nigeria girls down.

I've met cool ladies, I have met greedy ladies but what stands out is their character and the ability to know how to act, respond, talk and have conversations.

Everybody needs to play their part in character development. We shouldn't blame one another.

Diamond098454:
Why are you guys attacking me in the first place? Did i said anything wrong?

I personally am not attacking you. I actually understand the basis of the point you are making about Nigerian men slut shaming Nigerian women.

I just think oyinbo women are not unique in giving Nigerian men gold and silver, Nigerian women do so too, they add myrrh and frankincense (to quote another poster) join sef, so your point is superfluous.

You go know how far

RightToReject:
Greed and low self-esteem will finish this type of guy and his likes.

Low self esteem mainly. His family is not poor. He is just stupid

He accepted to become the wife in the silly marriage

georgeakins:
Fabricated story

U fit go live on tiktok go fabricate story say u get herpes or HIV, knowing fully well the damage it will do to your person and family?

Goo0dHardDick:
Mention 5 things Nigeria women have to offer a man in a relationship

If you know the pain women go through during labor you no go type this rubbish. Why must everything be financial. I would gladly live with a wife who will take care of my home and kids while i provide.

What is the big deal? He should go treat the herpes it can be treated with heavy doses of antI biotics and urge his wife to treat her's too. Simple!


Where did he think she got the herpes from? Him! maybe!

Cry me a river....... 😜

EniHolar:
No mind me... As I no fine, I must try rub something

And na that kind lips i dey like sef

Diamond098454:
They said Nigeria girls have nothing to offer

White woman have given him silver and gold at the same time

Nigerian girls are the worst, infact they are ticking timming bomb.

It is a wah

Desusi:
Tell me,how to tinubu got connected to this issue??

my mind just tolded me to blame him.

Really? And the guys are the most wonderful abi?

slimik:
Nigerian girls are the worst, infact they are ticking timming bomb.

Diamond098454:
They said Nigeria girls have nothing to offer

White woman have given him silver and gold at the same time

Eh better make rich whitey ruin my life than say one broke Nigerian girl dey extort me. Go and work

The guy pain is beyond word, he might have used dick, use tongue. Oh what a world, sorrow!!!

Diamond098454:
Yes
The parents of the girl can offer the guy a very good job

Don't bother. They won't believe it if it doesn't fit their useless narrative.

But all of them want a girl from a wealthy family because such girls do exist.

MemoriesAndMe:
You are correct to an extent, not totally right though.
I can talk from experience because Ive been there and done that.

Im a Nigerian and an American as well. Im in my third marriage now. My first two marriages were with African American women I met while in college here in the US and it was hell dealing with them.

The second one was the only one i have kids with. Shes a church girl and from a good Christian background. Never missed church. But im still dealing with her drama till today.
First, Insecurity appears to be her problem. She likes road trips, we have driven to several states in the US together without issues. Her first attempt traveling out of the US by riad with me was to Toronto, Canada. Thats when her mom and dad came in an started saying they dont trust me cos Im originally African and think I might kidnap their daughter in Toronto. Does that even make any sense?

Regardless, we were in Toronto for 5 days and drove back to Detroit,Michigan. I thought i had built trust with her family, I was wrong. None of them had ever traveled anywhere near Africa and simply assume everyone there are terrorists or kidnappers because thats all they see on TV and read about on social media.

Its easy for them to get influenced by friends, family members and everyone around them. I try to think before I act, they tend to act before they think. It makes us different. Cultural differences are there too to deal with, they dont want to think like you an African and you dont want to think like them either

After our divorce, court ordered me to be paying her $1500 every month, which Ive been doing since she has custody of both kids. Each time I want to bring the kids to Nigeria to see my family, she refuses and says Im about to kidnap them because she reads about all these kidnappings happening in Nigeria. So, basically, my kids can never meet their nieces and nephews until they turn 18 because their mom is shallow-minded and thinks all Nigerians are kidnappers. It hurts because my mom is old now, shes based in Nugeria. She has 17 grandkids and both of my kids are the ones she has never seen, because their mom wont allow them visit Nigeria. Thats one disadvantage of having kids with an African-American lady with phobia for Africa.

My first wife didnt have that phobia foe Africa though, she worked as a cabin crew member for a mjor airline and has traveled to many countries around the world including African countries, so she never had that mindset that she will be kidnapped anywhere, she was exposed to traveling. Our issue was that she gets angry easily - more like someone with untreated bipolar disorder. Its many african american ladies with that mental illness and they all refuse to admit they do nor want to get treatments for it. We had to call it quits.

My son is now 16 years old, so Im waiting for another 2 years to stop paying child support on him and be able to freely make him visit Nigeria without his mom's consent.

Thats what a lot of foreigners living in the US face. We dated for 4 years before deciding to get married. Shes a US citizen, Im a US citizen too. Altogether, we spent 12 years with 2 kids. But TRUST has always been an issue. She keeps saying Ill elope with the kids to Africa and started hiding their passports from me. Would you like you spouse to do that to you? Thats all from the cultural differences.

I had no choice than coming to Nigeria to find a lady that understands my Nigerian culture and brought her to America. That one got here just October last year and Ive started seeing her true color. After this one, Im done with marriage.

Those that stayed married for so many years really tried.

You married a Nigerian lady and took her abroad?...You go cry

APOPTOSIS:
😂😂😂
Honestly & Unfortunately, the bitch na full option.
Since his Parents ain't aware of this, why is such in the Public Space?
Sometimes, I wonder how this generation discusses sensitive matters to the admiration of the public.

Badadvisor:
Lol everybody na white to some mumu naija guys..that woman looks indigenous lol, all those ones na confirm junkie. Even the US and Canada government don tire for them

See this Ogbeni 👆wey never reach airport before. Not to talk of entering plane. Wetin be indigenous? Those are clearly white women!

meobizy:
I fear chlamydia and herpes. The worst part is condoms don’t protect against herpes. Na why I no get issue with soapy until I find someone I truly trust to not pass anything to me. Naija boys no get level. They knack any dirty oyibo. I have standards.

Soapy don peel all this one 👆preek finish

Hezmatosky210:
Bro I can feel your pains. Not that she infected you be your pains. The thing is this, you were over carried away, couple with immaturity, you sold away your babe to naija men wey their eye dey chook
It happened to me before, out of immaturity I sold off my beautiful babe into the hands of friends. Las las, one of them married her and they're both living in US. Anytime I remember the mata eh, I no dey fit forgive myself

u don't have real friends

Wotowotoman:
See this Ogbeni 👆wey never reach airport before. Not to talk of entering plane. Wetin be indigenous? Those are clearly white women!

You're delusional, u no even know Wetn be white

contentEngineer:
You married a Nigerian lady and took her abroad?...You go cry

I really dont think Ill cry. I already cried when my first 2 marriages crashed. I think Im more prepared for this one. We have pre-nup signed and I dont think i have anything to lose if this one crashes too. Im just done if it does. I already have a son, a daughter, a few properties and cars in the US and Nigeria. Not rich, but Im ok with the little I have achieved. What else am I looking for?
She will end up losing if she starts tripping, not me.
It will hurt sha because of the feelings involved now. I overcame it twice before. I cried so many days. Sometimes on flights and I dont even know Im crying till someone sitting next to me asks me why Im crying. Divorce is a very painful thing, whoever hasnt gone through it cant explain it.

I hope not to cry again on this one, but Im seeing signs that I dont like already. I guess Im just kinda confused.

My family in Nigeria linked me with her over 7 years ago when i visited Nigeria and we have been friends for that long till I asked her out and filed for her to come to the US about 3 years ago and she finally came October last year. I couldnt just leave her like that after waiting for 7 years for me

We legally got married here in the US November last year. Afterwards, it appears we are two different people. How can someone that just arrived the US barely 9 months ago be constantly on social media dancing in almost naked clothes and saying shes building her followers?
Its almost like I married a stripper. Thats all she does all day and its annoying. Even the American girls i married before her dont do that stuff, but thats what makes her happy.

Though i know she doesnt sleep around, Im just uncomfortable with a married woman always being on the phone literally all day dancing and shaking her bums for her fans all over the world to watch her.
She says thats the trend now, but im not ok with that. She can do other things with her time.

Another thing is that she sends most of her income to her family in Nigeria, while I spend mine on bills here in the US. Thats not fair at all.

I guess she hid all of that from me because it was a distant relationship we had - I only saw her 3 or 4 times when I visited Nigeria, never lived with her and didnt know this aspect of her character that annoys me.

Diamond098454:
They said Nigeria girls have nothing to offer

White woman have given him silver and gold at the same time

Lwom oooo

MemoriesAndMe:
I really dont think Ill cry. I already cried when my first 2 marriages crashed. I think Im more prepared for this one. We have pre-nup signed and I dont think i have anything to lose if this one crashes too. Im just done if it does. I already have a son, a daughter, a few properties and cars in the US and Nigeria. Not rich, but Im ok with the little I have achieved. What else am I looking for?
She will end up losing if she starts tripping, not me.
It will hurt sha because of the feelings involved now. I overcame it twice before. I cried so many days. Sometimes on flights and I dont even know Im crying till someone sitting next to me asks me why Im crying. Divorce is a very painful thing, whoever hasnt gone through it cant explain it.

I hope not to cry again on this one, but Im seeing signs that I dont like already. I guess Im just kinda confused.

My family in Nigeria linked me with her over 7 years ago when i visited Nigeria and we have been friends for that long till I asked her out and filed for her to come to the US about 3 years ago and she finally came October last year. I couldnt just leave her like that after waiting for 7 years for me

We legally got married here in the US November last year. Afterwards, it appears we are two different people. How can someone that just arrived the US barely 9 months ago be constantly on social media dancing in almost naked clothes and saying shes building her followers?
Its almost like I married a stripper. Thats all she does all day and its annoying. Even the American girls i married before her dont do that stuff, but thats what makes her happy.

Though i know she doesnt sleep around, Im just uncomfortable with a married woman always being on the phone literally all day dancing and shaking her bums for her fans all over the world to watch her.
She says thats the trend now, but im not ok with that. She can do other things with her time.

Another thing is that she sends most of her income to her family in Nigeria, while I spend mine on bills here in the US. Thats not fair at all.

I guess she hid all of that from me because it was a distant relationship we had - I only saw her 3 or 4 times when I visited Nigeria, never lived with her and didnt know this aspect of her character that annoys me.

Oga that woman doesn't love nor respect you ...But thank God for prenup sha , but u go still cry again . Your biased mind just choose to ignore these obvious red flags

contentEngineer:
Oga that woman doesn't love nor respect you ...But thank God for prenup sha , but u go still cry again . Your biased mind just choose to ignore these obvious red flags

I understand bro. No one can tell who will stay with whom forever. I think everything is all about fate. If this fails, Im done.

MemoriesAndMe:
You are correct to an extent, not totally right though.
I can talk from experience because Ive been there and done that.

Im a Nigerian and an American as well. Im in my third marriage now. My first two marriages were with African American women I met while in college here in the US and it was hell dealing with them.

The second one was the only one i have kids with. Shes a church girl and from a good Christian background. Never missed church. But im still dealing with her drama till today.
First, Insecurity appears to be her problem. She likes road trips, we have driven to several states in the US together without issues. Her first attempt traveling out of the US by riad with me was to Toronto, Canada. Thats when her mom and dad came in an started saying they dont trust me cos Im originally African and think I might kidnap their daughter in Toronto. Does that even make any sense?

Regardless, we were in Toronto for 5 days and drove back to Detroit,Michigan. I thought i had built trust with her family, I was wrong. None of them had ever traveled anywhere near Africa and simply assume everyone there are terrorists or kidnappers because thats all they see on TV and read about on social media.

Its easy for them to get influenced by friends, family members and everyone around them. I try to think before I act, they tend to act before they think. It makes us different. Cultural differences are there too to deal with, they dont want to think like you an African and you dont want to think like them either

After our divorce, court ordered me to be paying her $1500 every month, which Ive been doing since she has custody of both kids. Each time I want to bring the kids to Nigeria to see my family, she refuses and says Im about to kidnap them because she reads about all these kidnappings happening in Nigeria. So, basically, my kids can never meet their nieces and nephews until they turn 18 because their mom is shallow-minded and thinks all Nigerians are kidnappers. It hurts because my mom is old now, shes based in Nugeria. She has 17 grandkids and both of my kids are the ones she has never seen, because their mom wont allow them visit Nigeria. Thats one disadvantage of having kids with an African-American lady with phobia for Africa.

My first wife didnt have that phobia foe Africa though, she worked as a cabin crew member for a mjor airline and has traveled to many countries around the world including African countries, so she never had that mindset that she will be kidnapped anywhere, she was exposed to traveling. Our issue was that she gets angry easily - more like someone with untreated bipolar disorder. Its many african american ladies with that mental illness and they all refuse to admit they do nor want to get treatments for it. We had to call it quits.

My son is now 16 years old, so Im waiting for another 2 years to stop paying child support on him and be able to freely make him visit Nigeria without his mom's consent.

Thats what a lot of foreigners living in the US face. We dated for 4 years before deciding to get married. Shes a US citizen, Im a US citizen too. Altogether, we spent 12 years with 2 kids. But TRUST has always been an issue. She keeps saying Ill elope with the kids to Africa and started hiding their passports from me. Would you like you spouse to do that to you? Thats all from the cultural differences.

I had no choice than coming to Nigeria to find a lady that understands my Nigerian culture and brought her to America. That one got here just October last year and Ive started seeing her true color. After this one, Im done with marriage.

Those that stayed married for so many years really tried.

Boss abeg show me way, assist your boy 🙏🏾

Diamond098454:
Really? And the guys are the most wonderful abi?

Yes, well I don't blame you girls there is hunger in land that's why they open thier legs anyhow !!!

I don't blame you guys too
There's hunger that's why you guys are killing your mothers and sisters for Yahoo Yahoo

slimik:
Yes, well I don't blame you girls there is hunger in land that's why they open thier legs anyhow !!!