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Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Sirchiboy(op): 7:52pm On Jul 03

Mention the type of family you will never marry from

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by saintopus(m): 7:57pm On Jul 03

Poor family!

Never ever marry from a Poor lady's family.

Am talking from experience

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Fansa25: 8:20pm On Jul 03

Sirchiboy:
Mention the type of family you will never marry from

A girl from a single mother home that constantly have issues with her mother. It's a huge red flag. Run for your life.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by MrSword: 9:37pm On Jul 03

saintopus:
Poor family!

Never ever marry from a Poor lady's family.

Am talking from experience

Tell us more about it....let the unmarried learn something from it

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by marvelos1: 10:24pm On Jul 03

Poor family

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 10:25pm On Jul 03

A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by BigYash: 11:17pm On Jul 03

Any poor family supporting apc. Thats a bandit family

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Freeyourminds(m): 4:26am On Jul 04

Denounce these things and make Jesus your Lord and savior.

Hell is not a joke and there will be no excuses.

Samantha125:
A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Baronthecelebri(m): 6:03am On Jul 04

Baby mama all the way

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Sirhush(m): 7:06am On Jul 04

Family who does not have Jesus as there lord and saviour. cool

Lol

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by obiekunie01: 9:23am On Jul 04

Samantha125:
A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.

This is superb!

Bros are you from Anambra?

We are still many that follow tradition in my hometown. Though some still go to church for to be a part of a society.

Tradition keeps you clean and pure - because it is built on one simple principle: Anything you know tht if somebody do you it will pain you, dont do it to another person. If you follow this simple rule, you will have a clean heart and a clean soul.

Thumps up sir. Don't allow them to bully you into their imported rubbish religions.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by spencekat(m): 9:25am On Jul 04

Evil supporting, quick to anger and greedy type of family.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by J2ff: 11:50am On Jul 04

Samantha125:
A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.

Are you a Christian?

Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 2:00pm On Jul 04

I can't say I am, because according to me, a Christian is someone who's devoted to Christianity and actively involved in the church... But I was once a Christian throughout my late teens and early 20s... And what I like is that my family never had any issues with it because my parents have always given us the freedom to choose our own religious paths.

J2ff:
Are you a Christian?

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 2:18pm On Jul 04

And he just had to call me a "Bros" and "sir"...😭😭😭

No, I'm not from Anambra... Many of those Africans claiming to be Christians are just traditionalists in disguise... They're Christians to the public, but traditionalists in private because they're ashamed of embracing their African spirituality publicity due to the fear of being marginalised from the society and it's quite sad when you think about it.

obiekunie01:
This is superb!

Bros are you from Anambra?

We are still many that follow tradition in my hometown. Though some still go to church for to be a part of a society.

Tradition keeps you clean and pure - because it is built on one simple principle: Anything you know tht if somebody do you it will pain you, dont do it to another person. If you follow this simple rule, you will have a clean heart and a clean soul.

Thumps up sir. Don't allow them to bully you into their imported rubbish religions.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Amovingman: 2:56pm On Jul 04

Are you from zulu

Samantha125:
And he just had to call me a "Bros" and "sir"...😭😭😭

No, I'm not from Anambra... Many of those Africans claiming to be Christians are just traditionalists in disguise... They're Christians to the public, but traditionalists in private because they're ashamed of embracing their African spirituality publicity due to the fear of being marginalised from the society and it's quite sad when you think about it.

Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 3:23pm On Jul 04

No, I'm not.

Amovingman:
Are you from zulu

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 6:06pm On Jul 04

Trying to use fear to impose your colonial belief on me won't work... What you're doing is no different from what those your Boko Haram and Fulani brothers of yours are doing to you guys in Northern Nigeria.

I was once a full blown Christian and the more I got involved in the church, the more I started seeing things for what they really were... I saw hell on earth, if members didn't do enough evangelism throughout the month, they'd get whipped with a belt by our senior pastor, we'd each be allocated the amount of offering that we're expected to give as members depending on our family backgrounds, and almost everyone was fornicating in that church because apparently "the founding pastor didn't mind"... So I did give Christianity a chance, but I unfortunately ended up in deep depression and became suicidal, it took the work of a therapist to get me back into my senses... And this is one of the biggest churches in Africa.

Freeyourminds:
Denounce these things and make Jesus your Lord and savior.

Hell is not a joke and there will be no excuses.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by obiekunie01: 9:16pm On Jul 04

Samantha125:
And he just had to call me a "Bros" and "sir"...😭😭😭

The fact that 98% of those with (f) identification on their moniker are male. Hence why i see us all as male. My apologies.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Freeyourminds(m): 12:04am

I hate church too. But Jesus is real and he is sad and angry. Many are entering hell daily. It doesn't matter if you had a bad experience in church. Jesus said "come to me" not "go to church".

I fully understand your experience because I've had my fair share but then I met Jesus. As I'm talking to you, I'm not a perfect person either but one thing is certain. "if we do not repent and turn to Jesus fully, we will rot in hell"

I wish I was unsure of what I just said. God is in heaven and humans are on earth. The bible is the only true guide we have. Not men. You found yourself in a religious prison but Jesus still cares about you that is why you're the only person in Naira land that I felt led to talk to about Him.

Everything you see in the bible is 100% real. Do not let your experiences make you question them. I once became an atheist because of my similar experience with you.

Samantha125:
Trying to use fear to impose your colonial belief on me won't work... What you're doing is no different from what those your Boko Haram and Fulani brothers of yours are doing to you guys in Northern Nigeria.

I was once a full blown Christian and the more I got involved in the church, the more I started seeing things for what they really were... I saw hell on earth, if members didn't do enough evangelism throughout the month, they'd get whipped with a belt by our senior pastor, we'd each be allocated the amount of offering that we're expected to give as members depending on our family backgrounds, and almost everyone was fornicating in that church because apparently "the founding pastor didn't mind"... So I did give Christianity a chance, but I unfortunately ended up in deep depression and became suicidal, it took the work of a therapist to get me back into my senses... And this is one of the biggest churches in Africa.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 6:49am

African spirituality is real as well and I'm happy and at peace with it, so let's respect each other's beliefs and stop derailing someone's thread.

Freeyourminds:
I hate church too. But Jesus is real and he is sad and angry. Many are entering hell daily. It doesn't matter if you had a bad experience in church. Jesus said "come to me" not "go to church".

I fully understand your experience because I've had my fair share but then I met Jesus. As I'm talking to you, I'm not a perfect person either but one thing is certain. "if we do not repent and turn to Jesus fully, we will rot in hell"

I wish I was unsure of what I just said. God is in heaven and humans are on earth. The bible is the only true guide we have. Not men. You found yourself in a religious prison but Jesus still cares about you that is why you're the only person in Naira land that I felt led to talk to about Him.

Everything you see in the bible is 100% real. Do not let your experiences make you question them. I once became an atheist because of my similar experience with you.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Freeyourminds(m): 7:01am

You're 100% right. These things are real. Infact they have the power to grant you your wishes on earth. The danger is at death. When you die it will be you versus Jesus.

If you don't have Him you'll never get another chance. It will be eternally too late and I don't think I'll deny that I'm trying to scare you. You should be genuinely scared. This is not a joke. You know the Bible already.

Samantha125:
African spirituality is real as well and I'm happy and at peace with it, so let's respect each other's beliefs and stop derailing someone's thread.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 7:13am

Whatever...🤣🤣🤣

Freeyourminds:
You're 100% right. These things are real. Infact they have the power to grant you your wishes on earth. The danger is at death. When you die it will be you versus Jesus.

If you don't have Him you'll never get another chance. It will be eternally too late and I don't think I'll deny that I'm trying to scare you. You should be genuinely scared. This is not a joke. You know the Bible already.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by EmmyMaestro(m): 10:48am

Samantha125:
And he just had to call me a "Bros" and "sir"...😭😭😭

No, I'm not from Anambra... Many of those Africans claiming to be Christians are just traditionalists in disguise... They're Christians to the public, but traditionalists in private because they're ashamed of embracing their African spirituality publicity due to the fear of being marginalised from the society and it's quite sad when you think about it.

You are right. Alot of people in Africa come to church, jump and sing in the loudest voices and roll on the floor but they have gone to their traditional shrines and marks on their bodies and have objects that are intended for spritual fortifications

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by VinnyBaba: 1:04pm

A Family where the first three Children of the Father are Girls
And Aggressive ones for that Matter. sad

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Sirseedorf(m): 3:29pm

Single mother raised family
Mother abusing father family
Mother selling ogogoro family

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Ifexibe(m): 3:30pm

Old me would have said: from a poor religious polygamous family.

But honestly I can marry from anywhere, just give me peace of mind, good head and doggy. grin

Besides, most of these people we refer to as "rich" have enormous crazy egos.

It's the simple things in life that matter.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Sirseedorf(m): 3:30pm*

Some people are here talking about not marrying poor lady's, and i ask them have you guys been talking to rich men daughters, the ego that comes with wooing or dating a rich lady when you yourself are not in standard level with them is crazy, just be with your level, we all ain't gonna be rich or date a rich gal.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by BarrElChapo(m): 3:30pm

Traditionalists. My last girlfriend said her mother was a traditional herbalist (yes it raised some eyebrows for me) but when I found out that she used to do charms for yahoo boys for them to pick. I knew that I would never end up with the lady in question.

So any family that’s big on traditional practices especially if the claim to be Christians as in the case of my ex is a no no no.

Any family also that’s big on ministry this, prophet that, soothe sayer this. Once the girl starts telling me that I know that I can never have anything to do with you.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by AirBere: 3:30pm

obiekunie01:
The fact that 98% of those with (f) identification on their moniker are male. Hence why i see us all as male. My apologies.

98%?

More like 99.99999999%

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Emeka71(m): 3:31pm

saintopus:
Poor family!

Never ever marry from a Poor lady's family.

Am talking from experience

Is not the babe's family that matters but the babe herself.

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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Sirseedorf(m): 3:32pm

Single mother raised family,
Mother abusing father family,
Mother selling ogogoro family,
Or family sleeping inside church,
Lazy father and mother family.

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