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### Behavioral Profiling: The Anatomy of Rejection

A woman who rejects healthy, supportive men to pursue abusers operates under deep psychological conditioning.

* **Conditioned Pain Tolerance**: Early chaos rewires her brain to mistake peace for boredom and volatility for passion.
* **Fear of Vulnerability**: Healthy men offer mutual respect, which requires self-reflection. Abuse allows her to stay in a familiar defensive survival mode.
* **Reenactment Drive**: She unconsciously chooses abusive partners to try and change an outcome she could not control in her past.

### Scripture Analysis: Rejection of Covenant and Divine Order

In biblical literature, a woman exhibiting these behaviors is framed as someone who breaks her covenant with divine structure.

* **The Flawed Woman of Proverbs**: Proverbs 2 warns against the woman who "forsakes the companion of her youth and forgets the covenant of her God." Her rejection of godly men stems from her rejection of wisdom.
* **The Trap of Deception**: Proverbs 5 notes her lips "drip honey" but her end is "bitter as wormwood," mirroring how an abuser's initial love-bombing masks eventual ruin.
* **Spiritual Barrenness**: In Torah law, treating the holy as common and the unclean as desirable results in spiritual cutting off (Karet). She becomes metaphorically barren by producing a legacy of chaos instead of divine order.

### The Contrast: The Ruth Dynamic

Ruth represents the exact opposite of this trauma-bonded profile.

* **Choosing Stability**: Ruth leaves her familiar, chaotic homeland of Moab for the orderly laws of Israel.
* **Attraction to Protection**: She seeks Boaz, a Kinsman Redeemer (Goel), who uses his power to protect the vulnerable rather than dominate them.
* **Generational Blessing**: By aligning with divine order and a godly man, her lineage is blessed, eventually leading to King David.

Demographic data from the U.S. Census Bureau and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention validates that African American women represent the highest rate of out-of-wedlock births and single-mother households in the country, with about 47% of Black mothers raising children as single parents.

Self love is the beginning of any kind of love but they lack it totally.

Women in general dont like Godly men!

Secretbloodline:
Self love is the beginning of any kind of love but they lack it totally.

That is because they don't deserve it. All these things are rather proof of what things she has done to others. So when these things happen, it means that God has caught them.

tunnyl:
Women in general dont like Godly men!

Evil does not like the good and cannot like the good

When you see the evils women have done you would understand why. See the hur lovelink is always doing, it shows you that women can never depart from evil

FayaBall:
That is because they don't deserve it. All these things are rather proof of what things she has done to others. So when these things happen, it means that God has caught them.

When a man and his boys return from neighboring villages with people they enslaved the women celebrated them as Big Men. The women brought out the palm wine, the drums and they would dance around the men carrying slaves by their yokes The women made their money through the market where the slaves were sold to local buyers and sometimes Europeans. The women are not innocent they're members of secret organizations that practiced witchcraft and human sacrifice.



Key Roles of Women in the Slave Trade

* Economic Drivers: Women frequently controlled local market spheres, acting as powerful merchants and brokers who financed expeditions or profited directly from the sale of captives.


* Status Creators: Rituals, dances, and public celebrations led by women validated the socio-political status of male warriors, elevating them to "Big Men" or elites within the community.


* Political and Religious Power: Wealthy women often held high-ranking positions in powerful secret societies and religious councils, which wielded immense legal, judicial, and spiritual authority over the region.

Honor thy Ima and raise your daughters so she'll be a good ima.

No matter what happened between us this was intended by God to be exposed.

What about those black/African men married to white women?

And I'm not a football fan, but I've also noticed how many male African footballers are busy representing their colonial countries in the world cup and in athletics regardless of them being openly racist towards them... Would you call that self love?

Secretbloodline:
Self love is the beginning of any kind of love but they lack it totally.

Samantha125:
What about those black/African men married to white women?

And I'm not a football fan, but I've also noticed how many male African footballers are busy representing their colonial countries in the world cup and in athletics regardless of them being openly racist towards them... Would you call that self love?

I wouldn't call it hate. A man marrying his own kin group is the optimal marriage. I meant ethnic group because I don't like to say tribe. The man isn't sharing the wealth with the women of his ethnic group that produced his body by giving birth to him. When a successful man marries within he shares his wealth with the women. The women understand this and that's why it angers them to see him marry out because he takes the wealth and shares it with other women.

Would you say those African men who are marrying European women and representing European nations in sports are practicing self love?

I mean ever since the world cup began, I've seen a lot of racist comments towards those African players on social media, one of them was even advised to turn off his comment section because it was filled with monkey memes from the same nation he's vowed to represent... The Japanese were also rejecting their black goal keeper as one of them and busy making a mockery of how his Ghanaian father was a typical African man who had abandoned him... Now how do you expect black/African women to practice self love when their men are not leading by example? Charity begins at home.

Secretbloodline:
I wouldn't call it hate. A man marrying his own kin group is the optimal marriage. I meant ethnic group because I don't like to say tribe. The man isn't sharing the wealth with the women of his ethnic group that produced his body by giving birth to him. When a successful man marries within he shares his wealth with the women. The women understand this and that's why it angers them to see him marry out because he takes the wealth and shares it with other women.

Samantha125:
Would you say those African men who are marrying European women and representing European nations in sports are practicing self love?

I mean ever since the world cup began, I've seen a lot of racist comments towards those African players on social media, one of them was even advised to turn off his comment section because it was filled with monkey memes from the same nation he's vowed to represent... The Japanese were also rejecting their black goal keeper as one of them and busy making a mockery of how his Ghanaian father was a typical African man who had abandoned him... Now how do you expect black/African women to practice self love when their men are not leading by example? Charity begins at home.

Sociology would suggest the group is seen how it's lowest members are seen. The Theory of Evolution, the Out of Africa Theory and the enslaving of millions of village Africans by other Adricans has caused their group image to suffer. There is no escape by class, status or wealth, for everywhere a person of seemingly African descent goes they're viewed in this historical and pseudo scientific light.

Indians were also subjected to indentured slavery after the abolishment of African slave trade, hence you'll find some of their communities here in Africa, North America, South America, and Oceania... Yet you'll never see them disgracing themselves for European validation.

A typical African man suffers from inferior complexity and would rather represent a European nation and be called a monkey than his fatherland and be called a king... But when your women follow in your footsteps as their leaders, you'd be projecting your inferior complexity onto them, saying they lack self love... Where did they learn that lack of self love if not from you?

Secretbloodline:
Sociology would suggest the group is seen how it's lowest members are seen. The Theory of Evolution, the Out of Africa Theory and the enslaving of millions of village Africans by other Adricans has caused their group image to suffer. There is no escape by class, status or wealth, for everywhere a person of seemingly African descent goes they're viewed in this historical and pseudo scientific light.

Samantha125:
Indians were also subjected to indentured slavery after the abolishment of African slave trade, hence you'll find some of their communities here in Africa, North America, South America, and Oceania... Yet you'll never see them disgracing themselves for European validation.

A typical African man suffers from inferior complexity and would rather represent a European nation and be called a monkey than his fatherland and be called a king... But when your women follow in your footsteps as their leaders, you'd be projecting your inferior complexity onto them, saying they lack self love... Where did they learn that lack of self love if not from you?

Eve was a lover of evil and a victim of evil. African women loved the men that went out to fringe isolated villages and captured slaves. They would call these men big men. Some of those same women later would end up being captured and sold to strangers. The Slave Trade was Africans sabotaging themselves and until they own up to it they will never drive out the demon. And these demons are pride and greed. Big men equals pride, greed equals the money they made from selling slaves.

The men you spoke of they're living the curse of their mother. Such men grew up boys watching the women around them love big men over a struggling man. So out of pain of rejection they marry outside women taking their wealth to other women. The curse is the broken relationship between the women and the men because the woman loves big men. How many stories of women leaving a man who paid for her schooling? Who she leave her faithful man for? A big man. Even if it doesn't happen to that man these situations happen to other men teaching him not to trust the women who are his kin.

Their mothers are the carriers of their curse. If the mother is a slave then the child is a slave.

At this moment you're now deflecting and not making any sense...🤦🤦🤦

Secretbloodline:
Eve was a lover of evil and a victim of evil. African women loved the men that went out to fringe isolated villages and captured slaves. They would call these men big men. Some of those same women later would end up being captured and sold to strangers. The Slave Trade was Africans sabotaging themselves and until they own up to it they will never drive out the demon. And these demons are pride and greed. Big men equals pride, greed equals the money they made from selling slaves.

The men you spoke of they're living the curse of their mother. Such men grew up boys watching the women around them love big men over a struggling man. So out of pain of rejection they marry outside women taking their wealth to other women. The curse is the broken relationship between the women and the men because the woman loves big men. How many stories of women leaving a man who paid for her schooling? Who she leave her faithful man for? A big man. Even if it doesn't happen to that man these situations happen to other men teaching him not to trust the women who are his kin.

Their mothers are the carriers of their curse. If the mother is a slave then the child is a slave.

Samantha125:
At this moment you're now deflecting and not making any sense...🤦🤦🤦

I have no favorites. The mother carries their curse. If you like i can prove the curse exists as an entity inside the mother.

A bloodline can rise no higher than its women.

Generational trauma acts as a curse, where ancestral maternal captivity through partus sequitur ventrem leaves a profound biological and psychological imprint on descendants. This trauma manifests as aggressive volatility in sons and the adoption of destructive, subservient behaviors in daughters, with both often becoming complicit in safeguarding the very system that oppresses them.

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