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Bro to bro:

There is no shortage of beautiful women, there is a shortage of successful men. You are the prize, not her 🏆

That mindset flips the script from desperation to self-respect. When you focus on building discipline, purpose, and competence, you stop chasing validation and start operating as the prize. Beautiful women are everywhere, but men who lead and provide direction are rare.

This one touch me. This is so true.

OlaOfLagos:
Bro to bro:

There is no shortage of beautiful women, there is a shortage of successful men. You are the prize, not her 🏆

That mindset flips the script from desperation to self-respect. When you focus on building discipline, purpose, and competence, you stop chasing validation and start operating as the prize. Beautiful women are everywhere, but men who lead and provide direction are rare.

Premium peace Be Unto You

I was just thinking about Gehgeh as I was reading this because he has said it countless times.

Bro to Bro

Nothing else really matters if you don't know Jesus

What shall it profit a Bro to gain wealth and beautiful women but lose his soul in Hell?

Seriously think about this for a second bro.

It is more difficult to know who loves you when you are already made than when you are struggling.

TheMensch:
It is more difficult to know who loves you when you are already made than when you are struggling.

What does a man need love for?
Being Feared is better than being loved.

OlaOfLagos:
Bro to bro:

There is no shortage of beautiful women, there is a shortage of successful men. You are the prize, not her 🏆

That mindset flips the script from desperation to self-respect. When you focus on building discipline, purpose, and competence, you stop chasing validation and start operating as the prize. Beautiful women are everywhere, but men who lead and provide direction are rare.

Thanks for reminding us again.

God bless geh geh and other God's messenger sent to deliver the universe

TheMensch:
It is more difficult to know who loves you when you are already made than when you are struggling.

A rich man somewhere will think his wife loves him.

My bro Women are incapable of loving a man. A woman only stays with a man temporarily as long as she's benefiting something in that relationship or marriage. Pretend to go broke or stop providing that benefit she's enjoying for just 3 months, you'll get your answers.

Actually bro! Bro to Bro its seek ye first the kingdom of God and everything will be added unto you.

You have to be spiritually spiritually strong first before going after women. That way you will attract good women and not users.

Most Women are manipulative and users but if they discover that you cannot be used and manipulated they will clear road for the better woman.

If she is a good woman she will endure with you regardless of your condition.

Premiumbuy:
Premium peace Be Unto You

I was just thinking about Gehgeh as I was reading this because he has said it countless times.

He preaches the gospel 💯

Goo0dHardDick:
Thanks for reminding us again.

God bless geh geh and other God's messenger sent to deliver the universe

Geh geh and the likes are indeed God sent to deliver the men from those daughters of jezebel

tunnyl:
Actually bro! Bro to Bro its seek ye first the kingdom of God and everything will be added unto you.

You have to be spiritually spiritually strong first before going after women. That way you will attract good women and not users.

Most Women are manipulative and users but if they discover that you cannot be used and manipulated they will clear road for the better woman.

If she is a good woman she will endure with you regardless of your condition.

Your points are valid but I don’t agree being spiritually strong has anything to do with attracting good women. I don’t have issues with spirituality but attaching it to attracting good women, Nahhh that is not acceptable

OlaOfLagos:
Your points are valid but I don’t agree being spiritually strong has anything to do with attracting good women. I don’t have issues with spirituality but attaching it to attracting good women, Nahhh that is not acceptable

Let me explain.

Women use men in all kinds of ways especially spiritually. When they meet u and u look humble and naïve. The first thing they think is “i can use this one for this and that and that”. Especially modern women, they have men they use for different reasons.

It is you who is unusable she will reject. At first if she cant use u financially, she will use you spiritually. These are the women that later dump a man later in life when she sees that her jazz is no longer effective and he is about to rise. And they will never tolerate a man like that to lord over them.

But if you are spiritually strong in the first place users will be intimidated and would not dare to think of manipulating you. If you are strong and poor they will leave you and find a weaker man.

But if you are strong and RICH she will date you and tolerate for the money. Thats why men that knows the woman they are dating usually dont give her a dime no matter how rich he is.

When a modern women looks for a man she looks for one with a bright star to tap from.

tunnyl:
Let me explain.

Women use men in all kinds of ways especially spiritually. When they meet u and u look humble and naïve. The first thing they think is “i can use this one for this and that and that”. Especially modern women, they have men they use for different reasons.

It is you who is unusable she will reject. At first if she cant use u financially, she will use you spiritually. These are the women that later dump a man later in life when she sees that her jazz is no longer effective and he is about to rise. And they will never tolerate a man like that to lord over them.

But if you are spiritually strong in the first place users will be intimidated and would not dare to think of manipulating you. If you strong and poor they will leave you and find a weaker man.

But if you are strong and RICH she will date you and tolerate for the money. Thats why men that knows the woman they are dating usually dont give her a dime no matter how rich he is.

When a modern women looks for a man she looks for one with a bright star to tap from.

My brother, it is only you that understood what you wrote here. Have a blessed Sunday

TheMensch:
It is more difficult to know who loves you when you are already made than when you are struggling.

Women will manipulate you to think that they love you
The shocker is ,no woman will love you, except your mother,who will also love you because you are her son o.

A woman will only be loyal and respectful, depending on the things you can provide or give her. When those things are no longer coming,then you kiss your respect and loyalty good bye as a man..

OlaOfLagos:
My brother, it is only you that understood what you wrote here. Have a blessed Sunday

I meant women date men for spiritual reasons and not financial reasons.

Thats why a woman can sleep with a popular musician or actor for free.

If she eventually marry those popular people she will be stealing his destiny and leave him empty till he is no longer popular then She will leave him.

But if that popular star (musician or actor) is spiritually strong she will not near him and if she does near him she will not be able to steal his destiny.

Women dont date men for money. Women dont meed your money. The moment she begins to complain about money it means she is unable to use your destiny and wants financial compensation as a reason to stay or an excuse to escape from the relationship.


Thats why a good woman who has no intention of stealing a man’s destiny will stay with a poor man till she dies.

Freeyourminds:
Bro to Bro

Nothing else really matters if you don't know Jesus

What shall it profit a Bro to gain wealth and beautiful women but lose his soul in Hell?

Seriously think about this for a second bro.

Ironic that your moniker is Freeyourminds while you parrot a tool of mental slavery, brought to you by those who conquered your weak ancestors.

What concerns black men from West Africa with imported Israeli delusions?

ReacherSaidNoth:
Ironic that your moniker is Freeyourminds while you parrot a tool of mental slavery, brought to you by those who conquered your weak ancestors.

What concerns black men from West Africa with imported Israeli delusions?

Your narrow mind can't phathom that you are only African and not Israeli simply because you were born here.

I once was like you but I witnessed things that beat my imagination. Things that you wouldn't believe unless you witness them yourself.

All the greatest scientists who dared to dig deep into truth have accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord.

O man, you're shortsighted. You are only conscious on earth from your birth to your death. But there are they that see before you were born and will have power over you even after death.

You're logical, so everything has to be fair and correct and right in your eyes. However you are merely guessing your way through life within the window of your knowledge.

You must first accept that perhaps you are wrong and I am wrong too. Then seek out what is the Truth based on verifiable evidence, not just fairness and moral soundness. Only then will you be able to with clarity find your way.

Freeyourminds:
Your narrow mind can't phathom that you are only African and not Israeli simply because you were born here.

I once was like you but I witnessed things that beat my imagination. Things that you wouldn't believe unless you witness them yourself.

All the greatest scientists who dared to dig deep into truth have accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord.

O man, you're shortsighted. You are only conscious on earth from your birth to your death. But there are they that see before you were born and will have power over you even after death.

You're logical, so everything has to be fair and correct and right in your eyes. However you are merely guessing your way through life within the window of your knowledge.

You must first accept that perhaps you are wrong and I am wrong too. Then seek out what is the Truth based on verifiable evidence, not just fairness and moral soundness. Only then will you be able to with clarity find your way.

I didn't know Nairaland was a waste disposal site, you're stinking up the place

Be warned. You will regret rejecting Jesus and calling the gospel trash.

ReacherSaidNoth:
I didn't know Nairaland was a waste disposal site, you're stinking up the place

Freeyourminds:
Be warned. You will regret rejecting Jesus and calling the gospel trash.

Be warned, you will raise innocent children with this brain. Don't dull their senses with nonsense.